FabSwingers.com forum: Who do you target?

By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

When it comes to trying to connect with people on here and hopefully arrange meets, do you aim for the hottest, most attractive individuals you come across or do you aim lower, perhaps at people you feel you might have a better chance with?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one.

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one."

...personally I generally need both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is subjective. So we go for the ones we are subjectively attracted to

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Attraction is subjective. So we go for the ones we are subjectively attracted to

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You pair crack me up....

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

The ones that make me laugh, seem intelligent and interesting and have good communication skills.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

Hotness is a major factor.

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

Hotness is a major factor.

I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

Hotness is a major factor.

That's why we keep ending up with a gas fire that tell a jokes

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Start with visual attraction then take it from there. No personality or arrogance and I'm immediately switched off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, attraction comes first and foremost. If I like the look of thier profile pictures then I read thier profile. If thier profile is what I'm looking for then I send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was always looks first, then personality was the decider. Nice and attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The weak and the injured...easy prey.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The weak and the injured...easy prey."

Good idea.....more grateful too

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I scored a HAWT dancer in March.

As I said on our first meeting: "You are *almost* out of my league."

Who knows what is possible until you attempt the imposable and succeed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll look at pics and profile description and if either spark interest I'll message. Obviously if I match what they are looking for. It is very rare I'll message nowadays having said that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks always come first for me

Sorry just being honest

If I look at pics and I'm not attracted I see no point in talking

Personality is just as important though

As they say looks get my attention, personality keeps it

My idea of good looking isnt what most people would find good looking though, they only have to be good looking to me not to the majority

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I target the hotties......then they usually go UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that I feel a connection with via messaging- which only works if it happens on a social meet too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

Hotness is a major factor.

I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge

Aim high we like it.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one."

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The weak and the injured...easy prey.

Good idea.....more grateful too

There's that too...do anything to please

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

Hotness is a major factor.

I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge

Aim high we like it. "

sadly, not quite all targets are unobtainable....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I go the occasional socials and tend to meet people there that I think I like then arrange further meets. So it's a looks/personality combo for me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it comes to trying to connect with people on here and hopefully arrange meets, do you aim for the hottest, most attractive individuals you come across or do you aim lower, perhaps at people you feel you might have a better chance with?"
I personally have everyone on an equal footing and message women couples who have a profile I think matches mine but hey theirs no accounting for taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

Hotness is a major factor.

I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge

Aim high we like it.

sadly, not quite all targets are unobtainable....

You need to work on your aim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I scored a HAWT dancer in March.

As I said on our first meeting: "You are *almost* out of my league."

Who knows what is possible until you attempt the imposable and succeed? "

I've got hot men coming out of my ears. I'm on here to find the freaks and wayward types.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Anyone local

Patience lovely.

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

I don't tend to take much notice of pics. I've been caught out too many times before. Whether they look better or nothing like their pics at all, I've not always been pleasently surprised. I've learnt to appreciate the banta that I have before I meet; that's much more of a turn on for me then their mug shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone local

Patience lovely.

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lol that's right

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"the most attractive....to me. That usually means having a sense of humour matching ours as well as being scorching hot......to me

Hotness is a major factor.

I like to target the hard to get...more of a challenge

Aim high we like it.

sadly, not quite all targets are unobtainable....

You need to work on your aim. "

Hmm...higher...lower...left a bit...fire!! Could at least be friends on here...can even friend request you guys...Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I target those who have profiles and pics I like the look of....and those that travel

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't, I prefer to be targetted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always aim high,

Well that's what my basketball coach always told me to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I target those who have profiles and pics I like the look of....and those that travel

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I travel what about profile and pics ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't, I prefer to be targetted

With u on this i never send a msg first always wait. Maybe fear of rejection or just laziness im not 100% sure

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I don't, I prefer to be targetted

Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go the occasional socials and tend to meet people there that I think I like then arrange further meets. So it's a looks/personality combo for me too x"

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Why the aim lower bit, looks aren't everything. There is much more to a person than looks, sometimes the person's personality is more beautiful than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one."

That's handy there's plenty of mental people on fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are important but I don't think my idea of hot is the same as a lot of other people's idea of hot. So I go for a hitlist of hand selected folk who I'm attracted to.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"When it comes to trying to connect with people on here do you aim for the hottest, most attractive individuals or do you aim lower, perhaps at people you feel you might have a better chance with?"

Somewhere in the middle..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the time I don't use the site for meets. It has to be someone I really like to meet them off here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I'm at home I see who's messaged me, and pick the one who take's my fancy. If I'm travelling I go and look, and hope to god the one who take's my fancy fancies me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mostly personality that attracts me, the man doesnt need to look like a model but at the same time I have to find some thing attractive about the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"99% of the time I don't use the site for meets. It has to be someone I really like to meet them off here. "

Me too!

I use sites like this to meet people I wouldn't usually meet in my daily life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to message men as I know the guys I go for are way out of my league!! i have a soft spot for young bad boys with tattoos, so anyone else messages me then they have to be a certain kind of person to keep me interested.

Think I've messaged about three men in total since I've been here, I plucked the courage up and it wasn't too bad but yeah they were really hot guys, I did meet one the other day so I didn't do to bad.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't, I prefer to be targetted

Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman...

I really hate searching! ! Also we ladies are so spoiled on here, there's so many gorgeous men doing all the work lol!

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

The ones that make me laugh, have an obvious sense of humour and interesting profiles

Couples with good verifications appeal to me. I only approach couples or females looking for group fun as I am not looking for a relationship.

Like profiles that offer something different who can help me experiment and explore and women who can play with my mind more so than my body. Love wanting something I cannot have, of have to earn rewards and favours and accept the fact that they might not be forthcoming.

Always look for secure couples, Couples that are happy in their relationship and who’s partners will be the alpha male. Having said that instructing Cuck couples appeals to me.

I’m also attracted to couples who show understanding, maybe in their profile text or in the forums. Avoid those who shout using capitals, have prejudices or judge others (especially in the forums)

My biggest soft spot is for Indian couples, couples that intrigue me who I’d like to be friendly with, without sexual play. Admire confident people, people who know what they want and who are open with their desires and are secure in their own relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us looks certainly help but ultimately it comes down to personality. Sexiness is so much more than just looking good. Our 17 year old selves would probably disagree but without the person to match it gets boring.

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

anyone

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I don't, I prefer to be targetted

Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman...

I really hate searching! ! Also we ladies are so spoiled on here, there's so many gorgeous men doing all the work lol!

Its an unfair world on fab....dog eat dog too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. I chat to people I like chatting to and sometimes I like them enough to want to meet and tell them so. Attraction is a mental thing for me, not a visual one."
I kind of agree have been chatting to a woman for nine months never seen a pic of her but already know I like her

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't, I prefer to be targetted

Ahh...a risky strategy...but sometimes it does pay off....My best meets have generally been with those who hooked me...not that I'm too hard a catch for an attractive fisherwoman...

I really hate searching! ! Also we ladies are so spoiled on here, there's so many gorgeous men doing all the work lol!

Its an unfair world on fab....dog eat dog too

It's karma for the hard time women get on dating sites haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, attraction comes first and foremost. If I like the look of thier profile pictures then I read thier profile. If thier profile is what I'm looking for then I send a message

Couldn't have said it better myself , although I'm finding they aren't the nicest people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, attraction comes first and foremost. If I like the look of thier profile pictures then I read thier profile. If thier profile is what I'm looking for then I send a message

Couldn't have said it better myself , although I'm finding they aren't the nicest people"
hey if you want nice that's me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't, I prefer to be targetted

With u on this i never send a msg first always wait. Maybe fear of rejection or just laziness im not 100% sure

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snap but very much the fear of rejection here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't, I prefer to be targetted

With u on this i never send a msg first always wait. Maybe fear of rejection or just laziness im not 100% sure

snap but very much the fear of rejection here

I would never reject you Kelly

for me,I just try to be polite and friendly and see what may or may not transpire...

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

"The weak and the injured...easy prey."

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Looks obviously play an initial part then their profile and if it hits the right tones for us we'll then get into a conversation to see if there's any common ground. We tend to like what we consider, grounded, realistic, nice to be around kind of people, veris sometimes we find can be a good indicator of this. We're pretty quite, reserved and quick witted types and not shy at all, lol, and ultimately here for play and good play at that, when we feel we have a connection and they're wanting to meet us on a mutual basis then it's all go for us, just need to arrange a convenient time to meet.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I look for desperate men and women with no self-worth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god some men aim lower otherwise I'd never meet anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are looking for the same kinds of experiences as we are...

Looks do play a part but only in so much as there are some absolute no go areas for us...bad teeth, dirty fingernails, poor hygiene in general... shaven heads are a massive turn off for Janey but not to the extent that it would be a deal breaker if we got on well with people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like variety, got to be easy going and good communication skills and rasy on the eyes to me

sexy minds beats looks though.

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Looks obviously play an initial part then their profile and if it hits the right tones for us we'll then get into a conversation to see if there's any common ground. We tend to like what we consider, grounded, realistic, nice to be around kind of people, veris sometimes we find can be a good indicator of this. We're pretty quite, reserved and quick witted types and not shy at all, lol, and ultimately here for play and good play at that, when we feel we have a connection and they're wanting to meet us on a mutual basis then it's all go for us, just need to arrange a convenient time to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who normally accommodate, but otherwise most willing to meet from the stance of their profile details and overall conversation.

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By *rish_And_BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool and Ireland

My target is locked currently. Nearly secured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The weak and the injured...easy prey."

Puny guy with broken leg here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The weak and the injured...easy prey.

Puny guy with broken leg here...."

Limps in behind this guy; in a full body cast.

Sence of humor is the most important thing . If your going to allow yourself to get chatted up by a leprechaun . Your probably very polite too ...

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