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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi heres a question fo you when chatting to couples in a club what i the best way of bringing up the subject of playtime.

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?


"Hi heres a question fo you when chatting to couples in a club what i the best way of bringing up the subject of playtime. "

we have never been chatted up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know what I mean you juSt get chatting in general and there is a click a flirt but how do you move the conversation on.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I just say something along the lines of ' shall we go and have some fun?' you kinda know when you're all comfortable and ready for some sexiness! Z

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

yeh dead serious , we have arranged all our meets at the club beforehand,maybe im wrong but a lot of the couples look as if they have done so too,we socialise but have never progressed onto the next stage,would be interesting to hear how other peeps manage too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its easy to pull the guys but am looking for more girly action.

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?


"Its easy to pull the guys but am looking for more girly action."

*ahem cough cough*

sorry got summat caught in the back of the throat,not 'really' trying to get your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhhh can i watch please girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no "

Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no

Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event "

humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?


"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no

Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event

humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol"

surely thats the time to coin a phrase 'catch the bull by the horn' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no

Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event

humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol

surely thats the time to coin a phrase 'catch the bull by the horn' ? "

i cant i just dont have the confidance to ask anyone, even when its totally obvious to everyone else someone likes me, its just that small thing that sys he could say no that stops me, it drives my friends nuts lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no "

That applies to me too (except the last two words, obviously).

I have no idea how to make these transitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

That applies to me too (except the last two words, obviously).

I have no idea how to make these transitions."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi heres a question fo you when chatting to couples in a club what i the best way of bringing up the subject of playtime.

we have never been chatted up "

Us neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have never made the first move on anyone i always wait for people to ask me then i say yes or no

Good job everyone doesn't do the same, otherwise it'd be a pretty boring event

humm yeah must admit it does get pretty frustrating when you find someone you like whos is obviously as nervous as you and you juist keep walking by each other all night smiling lol"

We've been in that situation a number of times - so whats the answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shaz alison said just ask her next time we see you in the club she wnat say no lol

to be honest we just ask once we have spoken with the couple , alison can talk the hind leg of a donkey so i think sometimes the couple sayd lets have sum fun just to stop her from talking all the time lol xx

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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Hardest question in the world. So much phaffing around. Can often end up with both parties wanting to but at the same time both parties thinking the other one doesn't.

No one likes rejection so it ends up with no one asking. Love to hear a good solution to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find its happened on 1-to-1 meets too, you both know why you're there...someones just gotta make the first move!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

say are we playing tonight , lol if so get your bum up there in the play rooms, jo xx

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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago

Reading

We hate when a couple talks to you for hours and then when you bring up the question (before you fall asleep) they say they don't play on a first meet or something equally daft.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

We just ask,after all they are in a swinging club,presumably they won'y be offended.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty shy on first meets, but Kate is the opposite, she's a proper tart.

If she's up for it and gets the signal from the guy, she's like a Jack Russell with a rat.

Then I just follow along meekly

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I might have to brave it and go to The Attic soon...but it is a bit daunting as a single guy!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I tend to do it in.a.silly mannor and.say during chat that i feel the need for some perving do you fancy joining us for a perv? or just generally address.it in a slightly fun way so it isnt a direct question to ask if they want to join you in a room. If they follow you to have a.perving then the chances are.good wjen near a.room mentikn it looks a good plave for fun and do they fancy some naughty fun. If they decide not to perv with you then tbeir chances of wanting to play with you are.zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought all you ladies would have the phrase "Fancy a shag" imprinted on your brain by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we tend to chat in the jacussi at chams and if hands wander u know they want to play if they sit at the other end when chatting they dont want to

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

More often than not if we click with a couple we just go off upstairs together, think we can all tell by the unspoken things like body language and looks that everyone is happy. If things need moving on we usually say "would you like to play?" which gives them the chance to say "not at the moment thanks, we're resting" or "yes".

G had success with saying "would you like a man?" to a woman in a corridor watching the fun through a playroom window. She said "yes!" and led him in. Neither of us are normally that direct!

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