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Were you bi before you joined fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't bi before joining fab and I'm still not bi lol .

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

No, but meeting couples sparked my interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i was and i'm bi and proud of it

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn't bi before joining fab and I'm still not bi lol . "

Yeah yeah won't be long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy "

Are u serious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a bi bloke thread or bi fem thread? I was BI before fabs, but fab let me act it out! But I think theres more bi fems swingers then bi blokes.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy

Are u serious? "

Yeah

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was straight. Became bi by accident, really. Joined fab. Love it!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Nope, but have been curious the last few years. Never thought anything would happen but how wrong was I

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope and nope!

Though maybe the guys are making me think I may be better off if I were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy

Are u serious?

Yeah"

Move to Devon babe! We're not hard work down here!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes - I've been out since college/around 17

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I definitely feel like the minority on here in being straight. It's made me look at women I see around me wondering if they are bisexual,is this site representative of women in general?! Why such a high percentage on here?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I wasn't before and I'm not now although many have tried to persuade me otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes...

I have 'been bi' for as long as I can remember'...it wasn't a lifestyle choice it is just how I am....

so I don't really get it when women on here say they are bi curious because as I see it you either are, or you aren't bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and still not know lol

But she has turned a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, my sexual orientation hasn't changed since joining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. And still not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thinking back, yes, being able to admit it or experiment with it, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, had my first bi experience 16 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. And still not."

this. If I WAS bi I think I'd be laughing though, unless of course the guys that want to suck my cock are the time wasters we keep hearing of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious for a few years, acted upon since early this year, dont know why it took me so long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

When I joined fab I had already tried it and decided it wasn't for me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Nope. And still not.

this. If I WAS bi I think I'd be laughing though, unless of course the guys that want to suck my cock are the time wasters we keep hearing of! "

Hello, Dan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy

Are u serious?

Yeah

Move to Devon babe! We're not hard work down here! "

On my way

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Red has always been bi

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Nope and still not bi and yes men have tried to convince me to play with a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. And still not.

this. If I WAS bi I think I'd be laughing though, unless of course the guys that want to suck my cock are the time wasters we keep hearing of!

Hello, Dan "

If I was bi, then you'd definitely be top of my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy

Are u serious?

Yeah

Move to Devon babe! We're not hard work down here!

On my way "

Dudley's closer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy

Are u serious?

Yeah

Move to Devon babe! We're not hard work down here!

On my way

Dudley's closer "

I can stop on the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but not had much experience yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many men are afraid to say they are bi, there's no problem with men and women enjoying sex.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Nope. And still not.

this. If I WAS bi I think I'd be laughing though, unless of course the guys that want to suck my cock are the time wasters we keep hearing of!

Hello, Dan

If I was bi, then you'd definitely be top

of my list "

*embarressed*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. And still not.

this. If I WAS bi I think I'd be laughing though, unless of course the guys that want to suck my cock are the time wasters we keep hearing of!

Hello, Dan

If I was bi, then you'd definitely be top

of my list

*embarressed*

"

Man crush. Well, you and Shag (of course!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bi guys I find watching two guys together really sexy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So many men are afraid to say they are bi, there's no problem with men and women enjoying sex. "

Sometimes I find straight men in threads ignore me but chat to the ladies and I sometimes think it's because they don't want to be seen by the rest of fab of associating with a bi guy. The confident ones do though. Maybe it's bisexual paranoia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many men are afraid to say they are bi, there's no problem with men and women enjoying sex.

Sometimes I find straight men in threads ignore me but chat to the ladies and I sometimes think it's because they don't want to be seen by the rest of fab of associating with a bi guy. The confident ones do though. Maybe it's bisexual paranoia. "

Don't want to be catching any viruses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the same away from the forums, I have yet to meet a bi male in a club, o think it's a stigma that people chose to avoid in case they catch the ghey thing

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I (her) have been bi since my early 20's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no,, I blame fab for turning me,,

seriously, yes..I was bi before joining,, it's not like you suddenly join a group and think,, hey I think I,ll become bisexual,,you've gotta have those feelings in the first place,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love bi guys I find watching two guys together really sexy "

Love to have fun with another guy (or two)and have you watching

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"no,, I blame fab for turning me,,

seriously, yes..I was bi before joining,, it's not like you suddenly join a group and think,, hey I think I,ll become bisexual,,you've gotta have those feelings in the first place,, "

But I didn't. I was straight. No sexual feelings towards men at all. I'm a damn sight more confident now than I was though. All pluses, this site has been for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P was that's why we joined fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no,, I blame fab for turning me,,

seriously, yes..I was bi before joining,, it's not like you suddenly join a group and think,, hey I think I,ll become bisexual,,you've gotta have those feelings in the first place,, "

this. totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many men are afraid to say they are bi, there's no problem with men and women enjoying sex.

Sometimes I find straight men in threads ignore me but chat to the ladies and I sometimes think it's because they don't want to be seen by the rest of fab of associating with a bi guy. The confident ones do though. Maybe it's bisexual paranoia. "

either that or they're just so caught up in trying to get booty that they can't see posts from anyone other than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy "

I was bi before fab and I will be after but boy do I feel sorry for those tv's and bi guys messaged by 'straight' guys if that is the attitude prevalent across fab

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"So many men are afraid to say they are bi, there's no problem with men and women enjoying sex.

Sometimes I find straight men in threads ignore me but chat to the ladies and I sometimes think it's because they don't want to be seen by the rest of fab of associating with a bi guy. The confident ones do though. Maybe it's bisexual paranoia.

either that or they're just so caught up in trying to get booty that they can't see posts from anyone other than women"

I'd agree with that and only the women they fancy too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not bi, but im really curious about experimenting with a women...

Havent got experience some of the things I wanting to yet

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By *tormyFruitCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I wasn't sexual in any way before joining Fab.

And now ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not bi, but im really curious about experimenting with a women...

Havent got experience some of the things I wanting to yet "

I'd agree with this. I don't fancy women but when an opportunity for an mff came up at a club I took it & enjoyed it. Was all very tame but was a good starting point.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I can't decide if it wasn't something turning on or off in my brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything,Fab has turned me off women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question for the bi blokes...

Are you only bi in a meet with female joining in, or do you also play with men alone?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Neither of us were bi before joining fab and nothing has changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add, with me it has to be with others present, bi playful in a MMF but not meeting men alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep mrs liked girls before boys. Mr isn't sure he's a bit curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was always curious and occasionally attracted to and turned on by certain women, but only since joining fab ever came to the realization i was all along...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born Bi.....!!!

But most guys on here are such hard work that I wish I was pure lesbian sometimes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the bi blokes...

Are you only bi in a meet with female joining in, or do you also play with men alone? "

I don't meet alone but before meeting Ginger yes I had.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A question for the bi blokes...

Are you only bi in a meet with female joining in, or do you also play with men alone? "

Almost invariably with a lady involved. Very rare for me to meet a guy on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's got to be a couple, I love to look at the female whilst im sucking her hubbys cock, also love watching both sucking mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, reason I came in here was to get the Bi girls - easier than approaching some hot bird in a bar & asking if she's Bi ...so much easier in club - many more Bi girls

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy

Probably the sadest and most riduculous thing I ever heard of, each to their own and all that but, so desparate for sex turns to men because it's easier than finding a woman #gosmacked"

Oh wow ...agree

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy "

Probably the sadest thing I ever heard of, each to their own and all that but, so desparate for sex turns to men because it's easier than finding a woman #gobsmacked

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I wasn't bi before joining fab and I'm still not bi lol .

Yeah yeah won't be long "

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By *keg funCouple
over a year ago

SKEGNESS

dont see it as bi or not its just a body m or f giving and receiving pleasure if we all were to relax i think we all could be bi ?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Was always curious and occasionally attracted to and turned on by certain women, but only since joining fab ever came to the realization i was all along... "

In retrospect I think this very similar to me.

We started getting into swinging initially to give me the opportunity to explore my sexuality.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Yes, reason I came in here was to get the Bi girls - easier than approaching some hot bird in a bar & asking if she's Bi ...so much easier in club - many more Bi girls "

I often realise too late in the 'real' world that I was being chatted up by a woman. So many missed opportunities

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Oh yes, a very long time before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a number of women encounters over the years but I wouldn't say I was bisexual... it just happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no,, I blame fab for turning me,,

seriously, yes..I was bi before joining,, it's not like you suddenly join a group and think,, hey I think I,ll become bisexual,,you've gotta have those feelings in the first place,,

this. totally"

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was and he was too

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are what you are. Fab is just a means to explore your sexuality. It could be any number of websites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Fab helped me to accept it and adjust my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no,, I blame fab for turning me,,

seriously, yes..I was bi before joining,, it's not like you suddenly join a group and think,, hey I think I,ll become bisexual,,you've gotta have those feelings in the first place,, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anything,Fab has turned me off women. "

I find the fantasy is always better than the reality x

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Can not believe how many straight guys suck Pauls cock in a 3some with me

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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes, have know I liked guys as well as girls since I was 15/16

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy "

So you've changed in just 6 weeks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im curious but that aint working, neither did the straight until recently if im honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been bi but haven't had the opportunity to experience being with women since I was a teenager. Fab has provided a safe place to explore my sexuality, which just wouldn't be possible in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has helped me get a lot more cock and pussy and through fab i have made some great friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many men are afraid to say they are bi, there's no problem with men and women enjoying sex.

Sometimes I find straight men in threads ignore me but chat to the ladies and I sometimes think it's because they don't want to be seen by the rest of fab of associating with a bi guy. The confident ones do though. Maybe it's bisexual paranoia.

either that or they're just so caught up in trying to get booty that they can't see posts from anyone other than women

I'd agree with that and only the women they fancy too."

Don't feel bad Steve they ignore me too. Get some tit pics on your profile and you'll be drowning in man compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy "

Bi MMF...

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Coming at it from the Gay side...

I had had MFMs periodically before Fab but the rate increased exponentially after Fab. Some of these have developed into Bi MFMs & my fascination for girls who can squirt started here with Fab after my first MFM (which started off Str8 but graduated to an exploratory Bi MFM with the Str8 lad, which certainly excited the gal we were with). Most of the gals I've had fun with seem to have preferred when us guys have some fun with each other & seems to really heighten their state of arousal when the lads play together too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi but really prefer men and rarely play with ladies

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Yes, long before I joined here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't

But some of the women are that much hard work it's easier to just get off with a guy "

Priceless

What a refreshing attitude

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Yers, found out I was Bi at school

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I was bi before I joined Fab.I have always said that I find it much easier to get a guy than a woman.That doesn't just apply to Fab.I also find it easier to meet couples than single women.I'm not having a pop at single women but this has been my experience..

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