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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have noticed recently "single fem" profiles have a hubby who looks at profile. is involved in choosing guys and in play.

is'nt that supposed to be a cpl profile?

one status read "hubby looking for suitable guys"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Report them. "

Admin will decide if it's within site rules.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I don't see why it's an issue - if she is meeting alone.

It's pretty common that hubby gets a say even if he's not present.

D

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

We are a couple but I play as a single female, chose a couples profile as we both go to the club together but he doesn't swing st all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a couple but I play as a single female, chose a couples profile as we both go to the club together but he doesn't swing st all "

We are the same. Hubby said for me to make a single profile but I did not want to. We are a couple and even though I play alone he always has a say, if he did not like the man or felt I would not be safe it would not happen.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"We are a couple but I play as a single female, chose a couples profile as we both go to the club together but he doesn't swing st all

We are the same. Hubby said for me to make a single profile but I did not want to. We are a couple and even though I play alone he always has a say, if he did not like the man or felt I would not be safe it would not happen. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How does everyone feel about the opposite scenario. Husband free to play but wife has a say and running a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way it's a COUPLES profile.

I know some couples have their own individual profiles on here too but all the ones I seen and chatted too are open about it.

Personally if it's a singles profile of EITHER sex and it has hubby/wife has xyz then it isn't and should get the same treatment as a guys posing as a couple or a fem posing as a guy.

But strangely enough for some reason they don't......

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"How does everyone feel about the opposite scenario. Husband free to play but wife has a say and running a couples profile. "

Doesn't it depend more on who's actually 'meeting'?

I also think most people would view it differently if a woman were to ask if it was okay for a man to accompany her initially on a social, so that she felt safe, rather than if a man asked the same thing.

Mr ddc

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How does everyone feel about the opposite scenario. Husband free to play but wife has a say and running a couples profile.

Doesn't it depend more on who's actually 'meeting'?

I also think most people would view it differently if a woman were to ask if it was okay for a man to accompany her initially on a social, so that she felt safe, rather than if a man asked the same thing.

Mr ddc"

I just wonder why it's acceptable for a woman to say she will meet alone with her husband's backing but a man saying the same thing is treated with suspicion (by some people).

A man could be as much at risk as a woman in some scenarios.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Mr ddc

I just wonder why it's acceptable for a woman to say she will meet alone with her husband's backing but a man saying the same thing is treated with suspicion (by some people).

A man could be as much at risk as a woman in some scenarios."

He could be at risk, but society's norms make us assume he can take care of himself.

As for suspicion, I see what you mean, but we just tend to take people at face value, so it wouldn't really bother us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Mr ddc

I just wonder why it's acceptable for a woman to say she will meet alone with her husband's backing but a man saying the same thing is treated with suspicion (by some people).

A man could be as much at risk as a woman in some scenarios.

He could be at risk, but society's norms make us assume he can take care of himself.

As for suspicion, I see what you mean, but we just tend to take people at face value, so it wouldn't really bother us."

well as I've said before I'm a cynical old bag

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

well as I've said before I'm a cynical old bag "

I suspect it's more likely that we're just incredibly naïve!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"i have noticed recently "single fem" profiles have a hubby who looks at profile. is involved in choosing guys and in play.

is'nt that supposed to be a cpl profile?

one status read "hubby looking for suitable guys""

Were you not suitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see lots of single women's profile that openly state they are looking for a woman to join her and hubby for play!

Which should certainly be a couple profile but hey Ho. Matters not to me.

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