FabSwingers.com forum: Escorts at swing parties?

By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago

Islington

What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why shouldn't prostitutes also enjoy recreational sex?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

nothing wrong with it whatsoever..

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?"
all escorts arnt prostitutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, but would she shag for free in the club tho, or take monies under the bed?.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Thanks for explaining what an escort is.

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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago

Islington

"Thanks for explaining what an escort is.

I was just making it plain that the woman in question takes money for sex, not just companionship...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?"

what is your opinion?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time

You've really got to work on that outrage View. You're letting the side down.

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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago

Islington

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?"

I don't think it is a good idea; some other swingers at the event may be unhappy with a professional being there, for cultural and even sexual health reasons. Female swingers may not want their partners to play with a working girl?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?

would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?

cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?

and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time

This

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

So prostitutes aren't allowed to have sex unless they are being paid for it?

The suggestion a prostitute is more likely to be diseased is a bit off too.

It's nobody else's business who anyone else meets or what they do for a living.

How about banning any men who've had sex with a prostitute too? By your logic, aren't they also more likely to have STIs?

The level of prejudice on a site for people supposed to be open-minded about sex is astounding sometimes.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

So prostitutes aren't allowed to have sex unless they are being paid for it?

The suggestion a prostitute is more likely to be diseased is a bit off too.

It's nobody else's business who anyone else meets or what they do for a living.

How about banning any men who've had sex with a prostitute too? By your logic, aren't they also more likely to have STIs?

The level of prejudice on a site for people supposed to be open-minded about sex is astounding sometimes."

and in some far away place only women can be escorts..

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

As A 'working girl' her business relies on her keeping her sexual health good.

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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago

Islington

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?

would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?

cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?

and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event .."

Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.

The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews.

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By *nDeexXxCouple
over a year ago

Rossendale

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?

would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?

cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?

and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event .."

Well said

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

So prostitutes aren't allowed to have sex unless they are being paid for it?

The suggestion a prostitute is more likely to be diseased is a bit off too.

It's nobody else's business who anyone else meets or what they do for a living.

How about banning any men who've had sex with a prostitute too? By your logic, aren't they also more likely to have STIs?

The level of prejudice on a site for people supposed to be open-minded about sex is astounding sometimes.

and in some far away place only women can be escorts.."

Quite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time

You've really got to work on that outrage View. You're letting the side down.

Oh, I agreed with him. Ahem.

Hear ye, hear ye, all women should be tied down to one man, whilst said one man can freely be a "stud".

Sexual exploration by women prohibited yada yada boring drivel that should be ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now we all like sex either way being paid or for fun why should sex workers be segregated just because of their chosen career.

I drive for a living does not mean I don't enjoy driving my car on my days off so what's the difference nothing

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

Some days I actually despair!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time

You've really got to work on that outrage View. You're letting the side down.

I am lovely and chilled in my own little world

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

OP form a sentence out of these words:

Nothing to hiding a on am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nothing wrong with it whatsoever.."

this

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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago

Islington

Good, thanks for your replies. Good to get a cross-section of opinion.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?

would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?

cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?

and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event ..

Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.

The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews."

It would seem that you certainly are not open minded about it.

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Bloody hell, Escorts!!!

Don't let the Cortina's find out, they will want invites too

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By *limtiger OP Couple
over a year ago

Islington

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?

would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?

cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?

and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event ..

Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.

The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews.

It would seem that you certainly are not open minded about it.

Absolutely, I had an opinion, that may have been modified by this discussion. That's what forum discussions are all about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .

What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?

It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?

So in pursuit of the social side you spend all night with a working girl , who has no intention of taking things any further . Are you not going to be a bit pissed off that you didn't know she was only there to have fun and no more than that ?

Personally I think it's fine to have working girls at clubs and events . We are only on here for sex so it's a bonus really .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

does everyone attending wear a badge stating their 'profession' ?

would also think most workers in that field are spot on with their sexual health and in any case if 'you' look after 'your' own sexual health then where's the issue?

cultural, you have lost me with that sorry?

and anyone who is insecure about whom their partner plays with may be better off not going to any event ..

Ok, yes I would hope you are right on the health aspect, point taken.

The cultural one is that not everyone is open-minded about prostitution, it still has a stigma in some people's minds. Good to have your _iews."

There is also a stigma about Swingers. They fuck allsorts of other swingers.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

What someone does for a living makes no odds to me.

I'm more interested in whether they're a decent person.

Do you ask what people do for a living before you fuck in a club and then decide whether you're going to have sex based on the answer?

Why would you discriminate in such a way? Either they are attractive to you or they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .

What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?

It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?

Personally I think it's fine to have working girls at clubs and events . We are only on here for sex so it's a bonus really .

Excellent point.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I know a few 'working ladies' have met them in clubs and am friends with a couple, I have absolutely no problem with how they earn their living. And neither does my husband who has played with one of these ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the difference between swingers and escorts anyway? Money obviously, but what else????

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"What is the difference between swingers and escorts anyway? Money obviously, but what else????"

choice..?

think there is a difference between what people choose to do for pleasure and those who mostly but not all have taken the route of doing sex work for pay as that suits them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .

What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?

It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?

Personally I think it's fine to have working girls at clubs and events . We are only on here for sex so it's a bonus really .

Well bugger me! Something we Actually agree on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not judging anyone but there's a surprising amount of escorts on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone has to pull the punters in. It won't be the likes of me; fat and old and make men work for my bucket fanny

It wouldn't bother me if they were at a party unless they were laying on a bed with a conveyer belt of men waiting in line to fuck them. Not my thing. Any escort at a party as a guest the same as me I. wouldn't think any different of. I treat everyone the same. Even bisexual men.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

No problem with an escort having fun as it is none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the difference between swingers and escorts anyway? Money obviously, but what else????

choice..?

think there is a difference between what people choose to do for pleasure and those who mostly but not all have taken the route of doing sex work for pay as that suits them..

They are both fucking people. Emotional aspects are irrelevant really in this case. The inference that one is better than the other just doesn't make sense to me.

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By *otuseatersCouple
over a year ago

Preston/Southport

It's not really that surprising.

Swingers and sex workers both have an uncommonly open minded attitude to sex, so I suspect that there is a far greater cross over than you might imagine.

It isn't always possible to label individuals as one thing or the other.

Indeed, why would you want to?

The boundaries are pretty blurred, particularly in an environment where we are busy exploring our sexual desires in so many different directions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's off duty no problem.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We would far rather meet a socialising escort or even a prostitute at a party than a man who hides his profile on a swingers site.

At least they do not have anything to hide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would far rather meet a socialising escort or even a prostitute at a party than a man who hides his profile on a swingers site.

At least they do not have anything to hide!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

Fuck me who ordered a victorian ?

Mate she is a woman the same as the rest of us on here.

It's probably her down time. So she is having some fun...It's allowed!!

And ps you may find she gets checked by the gum clinic far more regularly than most people.

And pps how would people know if they were shagging a professional or non professional??

Ffs!

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

It doesn't matter who they are.

Nun, Escort, Airline Pilot, Accountant, Pope, Prime Minister, Fire breather etc.

What people do for a living is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time

As long as the lady is there out of choice and not through force and everyone is safe and looking after each other then I don't see what the issue is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

why is an escort a higher sexual health risk than any other women there?

are you assuming all escorts fuck 20 guys bareback a week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?

what is your opinion?

Fuck me who ordered a victorian ?

Mate she is a woman the same as the rest of us on here.

It's probably her down time. So she is having some fun...It's allowed!!

And ps you may find she gets checked by the gum clinic far more regularly than most people.

And pps how would people know if they were shagging a professional or non professional??

Ffs!

Maybe they wear a badge and carry a card?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What is the general opinion on a woman who works as a paid escort (prostitute not to beat around the bush) coming to a swing party for fun only, not being paid by a man to attend etc.?"

if they are coming for fun only and not being paid.... then what is the difference between an escort and a doctor... or a teacher... or a policeperson... or a banker... ect ect ect....

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Is there a difference between escorts and the hostesses who get paid at clubs ?

Just asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I _iew is like that

being an escort is a job, when you knock off your simply a woman

if you go to a party what difference does it make what anybody job is?

escorts have a social life too, fucking a guy for money is not the same as being with a guy who likes you and wants to be with you, why shouldn't a escort have sex for pleasure too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok let's spin this on its head a moment .

What if you went to such an event to get to know fellow swingers , to form a friendship or even a relationship ?

It's you lot that hark on about how there is more to swinging than sex isn't it ?

Only the same as playing with me at a club. That ain't going any further either!

Oh wait! According to the poster that means I'm going to piss off anyone I play with!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a difference between escorts and the hostesses who get paid at clubs ?

Just asking

in my opinion no, but I see no difference in people who work in porn either, if you have sex and walk away financially better off your a prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as not being paid by any one there they are entitled to have sexual pleasure for fun ,which we are sure is different to working life day to day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I _iew is like that

being an escort is a job, when you knock off your simply a woman

if you go to a party what difference does it make what anybody job is?

escorts have a social life too, fucking a guy for money is not the same as being with a guy who likes you and wants to be with you, why shouldn't a escort have sex for pleasure too"

very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More important things to worry about, hope she and everyone has a good time

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

No problem at all until they ask you for money on the QT from behind the night off for recreational cover story

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

As long as they are not working or doing anything relating to their business then how would we even know?

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