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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Isn't that what tinder and pof are for also

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

I havent seen this....yet!

Hmmm

Mrs _d40

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

It's a sex site for us, agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are here just to fuck, some are here to find friends with benefits and some are here to looking for equally open minded folk that might be looking for something more long term.

Horses for courses and all that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

Fab is what you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you enjoy this lifestyle, which to many is more than just fucking, then why not find a likeminded partner to do it with, best place to find them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?"

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you enjoy this lifestyle, which to many is more than just fucking, then why not find a likeminded partner to do it with, best place to find them!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? "
true but not the best place to find a life partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner"

Where is the best place then? If you're lucky enough to find a life partner, it can be anywhere you meet people in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope its a sex and no baggage site for us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner"

I think that if you want swinging to be part of your life long term it's probably as good a place as any because the people you're meeting are of the same mind.

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby


"nope its a sex and no baggage site for us "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are here just to fuck, some are here to find friends with benefits and some are here to looking for equally open minded folk that might be looking for something more long term.

Horses for courses and all that. "

If people want to find an open minded partner, here is a good place to look.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner"

If you want to find a partner that's into swinging where else are you likely to find them? Last time I looked at a dating site they didn't offer that as a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has there own reasons to be on this site. But think it's predominantly a sex site isn't it ?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

When I'm ready to move on from my ex I will be looking on here for a regular FB who wants to go out and socialise aswell as just fuck. I was with my ex for 6/7 years and we met at a swingers club, I see nothing wrong with seeking someone on this site,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has there own reasons to be on this site. But think it's predominantly a sex site isn't it ?"

Predominantly perhaps. Not 100% though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Everyone has there own reasons to be on this site. But think it's predominantly a sex site isn't it ?"

For some yes but I wouldn't say predominantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ??

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner"

just like people who just want a fuck, fint difficult, so may others who want a connection, want a fb or fwb, or a long term partner..at least looking on here, there is all of it..right?

its as good a place as anywhere for variety..thats why i like it so much,

its full of people not telling you

what you should be on here for...or is it?...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ?? "

trust them with what?

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By *onglashesMan
over a year ago

London

Use as Sex site only but the forums are a great laugh so use it for that too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ?? "

I would suggest not getting into a relationship with someone you don't trust.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"If you enjoy this lifestyle, which to many is more than just fucking, then why not find a likeminded partner to do it with, best place to find them!"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ?? "

It depends on the person. Hopefully it would start with full honesty and continue that way. What makes you think someone on a swinging site would be less trustworthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm ready to move on from my ex I will be looking on here for a regular FB who wants to go out and socialise aswell as just fuck. "

This is my goal, so blooming difficult though!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Some are here just to fuck, some are here to find friends with benefits and some are here to looking for equally open minded folk that might be looking for something more long term.

Horses for courses and all that. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

just like people who just want a fuck, fint difficult, so may others who want a connection, want a fb or fwb, or a long term partner..at least looking on here, there is all of it..right?

its as good a place as anywhere for variety..thats why i like it so much,

its full of people not telling you

what you should be on here for...or is it?... "

Lol! They try telling but don't succeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

I suppose it is a good place if you're looking for an open minded ltr but many on here seem to be looking to meet someone who'll give the whole swinging lifestyle up, and just be one on one with them for evermore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ??

It depends on the person. Hopefully it would start with full honesty and continue that way. What makes you think someone on a swinging site would be less trustworthy?"
People get bored and search for other things hence being on this site. They might be lucky and find the one. Just a question that's all

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston

Why can't it be both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a sex site for us, agree with you"

And us , as we have said so many times .

Puts on a flak jacket .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ?? "

Maybe, if they weren't on here and already cheating on someone.

Jokes aside, why not? I've had relationships and the 2 i got cheated on and the guys were compulsive liars were the ones who both had 'high morals' when it came to sex, or so they implied. You can't trust anyone when it comes down to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use this site how they wish and as long as its within the site rules and they are upfront about what they want, I see no problem.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ??

It depends on the person. Hopefully it would start with full honesty and continue that way. What makes you think someone on a swinging site would be less trustworthy? People get bored and search for other things hence being on this site. They might be lucky and find the one. Just a question that's all"

so your idea of a relationship is monogamy. i see a relationship as a mutual interaction between people...i dont want monogamy, doesnt mean to say i cant have more than one mutually satisfying relationship.. i have more than one friend..and they are all different, but i still can hug them all, and no one gets pissed by it...

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ??

It depends on the person. Hopefully it would start with full honesty and continue that way. What makes you think someone on a swinging site would be less trustworthy? People get bored and search for other things hence being on this site. They might be lucky and find the one. Just a question that's all"

.

Just because someone finds their 'one' doesn't mean you have to give up swinging. Swinging with someone you have strong feelings for is a lot more fun and loving than be a single swinger (in my experience anyway)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ??

It depends on the person. Hopefully it would start with full honesty and continue that way. What makes you think someone on a swinging site would be less trustworthy? People get bored and search for other things hence being on this site. They might be lucky and find the one. Just a question that's all"

I can see what you mean but that isn't the only reason people are here and as many couples will tell you its huge fun searching for other things together.

I know it was just a question I'm not arguing or point scoring just discussing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get fucked? Need to live in north england for that lol, no I just use it for the forum really.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"To get fucked? Need to live in north england for that lol, no I just use it for the forum really."

You need to have patience Shag

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

nope.....

people are here to do what they are here to do... and no one way of getting there is any more right than another...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To get fucked? Need to live in north england for that lol, no I just use it for the forum really.

You need to have patience Shag "
lol yes. I think I need to put in some effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab tinder and pof are all essentially the same I think. Its just more open on fab. Each have daters and shaggers.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not for me, it's a site that i look for sex on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Tinder is far more to the point than fab. Most meets on tinder happen within a few day as oppose to weeks/months of chat that you normally get on fab.

The women act less like spoilt brats too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

Nothing wrong with either approach. I don't see the point in your complaint. If that is what they want and you don't, then don't talk to them. They probably feel the same about people with your priorities. Life is a rich travesty. Enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to use this site for meets only.

I then arranged a meet with a very lovely lady on here. We connected and now we're an item.

Neither of us were looking for it.

It just happened.

Happy as a pig in shit that it did though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as long as everyone is honest about what they are doing on here then it doesn't matter.

As to the why someone on here may not be good for a long term relationship , well I think unless you equate monogamous as the only way to be in a relationship then okay but I'd say most swingers know that there is more to a relationship than monogamy.

I think some seem to think that people only share because they are bored or something is missing from ya relationship.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ?? "

Can you trust people you meet in a vanilla environment? Surely someone you meet on a site like this has no need to cheat because of the lifestyle?

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a very good question. I find that women I have met online look at this site more for dating. Most men I know would be happy with Friends with benefits situation.

In my experience once in a swinging relationship, men tend to want to shag a different person everyday .

Where as the women would like the relationship bond to grow between the two people before engaging other parties.

I noticed many of these relationships end after 3 months due to the man cheating.

Again this has been my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tinder is far more to the point than fab. Most meets on tinder happen within a few day as oppose to weeks/months of chat that you normally get on fab.

The women act less like spoilt brats too."

But does tinder offer forums in which the single men who are so clearly hard done by can bitch in?!

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"If you enjoy this lifestyle, which to many is more than just fucking, then why not find a likeminded partner to do it with, best place to find them! "

If they pay their money it's up to them really. If you don't like it move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope its a sex and no baggage site for us "

This all over.

Myself and no doubt the majority of fab came here for one thing; and it isn't long strolls on the beach holding hands if you catch my meaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tinder is far more to the point than fab. Most meets on tinder happen within a few day as oppose to weeks/months of chat that you normally get on fab.

The women act less like spoilt brats too.

But does tinder offer forums in which the single men who are so clearly hard done by can bitch in?!"

I've used Tinder for dating and I've found that chaps there a lot easier to get on with/deal with. Here, I've found some of the guys to just be such a drag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the fabulous swings but no one seems to know anything about them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can fucking in a hotel room or a man's bedroom be called a date?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Can fucking in a hotel room or a man's bedroom be called a date? "

.

If he takes his socks off I'd class it as a date

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Can fucking in a hotel room or a man's bedroom be called a date?

.

If he takes his socks off I'd class it as a date "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Personally I have never dated anyone I've met on here or any other site

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Tinder is far more to the point than fab. Most meets on tinder happen within a few day as oppose to weeks/months of chat that you normally get on fab.

The women act less like spoilt brats too."

hahaha funny man, have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started with a kiss..........

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"nope its a sex and no baggage site for us

This all over.

Myself and no doubt the majority of fab came here for one thing; and it isn't long strolls on the beach holding hands if you catch my meaning "

gaffa tape and a condom if the womans lucky right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

Ok well me and kitty met here as singles. Wasn't expecting to fall in love and build a love together but we did. Fab is as good a place as any to find mr/mrs right as any. As a above poster said horses for courses

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner"

I'd have agreed with you at one point. My last solo meet was 24 November 2013. I met someone off here with a find em, fuck em, forget em approach. He had no intention of looking for a girlfriend he just sent me a message that made me laugh, he wasn't what I was looking for at all: not a submissive bone in his body.

We've not been apart since that first social meet. He moved in 13 months ago and we're planning our move to Cambridge after my daughter finishes her PhD.

We are polar opposites in everything, he has the patience of a saint too. I was not looking, neither was Ben...cupid has a sense of humour

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It started with a kiss.........."

Pucker up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It started with a kiss..........

Pucker up "

You flirting with me again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a fuck on this site seems to be like applying for a job I'm going to make up a sexual c.v message me if you want to see it lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you enjoy this lifestyle, which to many is more than just fucking, then why not find a likeminded partner to do it with, best place to find them!"

This.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely fab is what you make it

if your just after a fuck have a fuck

if your after more look for more

use the site how it suits you, I don't see why it matters how others use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab is what ever the person wants to use it for. when I joined I was single looking to meet like minded people for fun but I now have a great social life from it, had amazing fun and I now have met someone but not off fab but at an event that was hosted by someone from fab. not sure how it will go as it's early days but what ever happens will happen

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

I'd have agreed with you at one point. My last solo meet was 24 November 2013. I met someone off here with a find em, fuck em, forget em approach. He had no intention of looking for a girlfriend he just sent me a message that made me laugh, he wasn't what I was looking for at all: not a submissive bone in his body.

We've not been apart since that first social meet. He moved in 13 months ago and we're planning our move to Cambridge after my daughter finishes her PhD.

We are polar opposites in everything, he has the patience of a saint too. I was not looking, neither was Ben...cupid has a sense of humour "

Of all the people for this to happen to?!

Very cute... chuffed for you lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely fab is what you make it

if your just after a fuck have a fuck

if your after more look for more

use the site how it suits you, I don't see why it matters how others use it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely fab is what you make it

if your just after a fuck have a fuck

if your after more look for more

use the site how it suits you, I don't see why it matters how others use it "

Oh come on, you know by now that some people are obsessed with how others run their profiles??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ??

Can you trust people you meet in a vanilla environment? Surely someone you meet on a site like this has no need to cheat because of the lifestyle?

Mrs _d40"

Believe me some do feel the need to cheat even with the 'freedom' this lifestyle can offer them....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ?? "

As opposed to someone you met in church? !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for what this site is for well I'd say for whatever people want it to be within the rules set.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Could you guys fully trust someone on this site when or if you got into a relationship with them ??

It depends on the person. Hopefully it would start with full honesty and continue that way. What makes you think someone on a swinging site would be less trustworthy? People get bored and search for other things hence being on this site. They might be lucky and find the one. Just a question that's all"

Neither of us envisage only having sex with each other for eternity! !! Meeting on here means we're open to other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for what this site is for well I'd say for whatever people want it to be within the rules set."

Works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

Fab is what you want it to be. "

Agree with this. I'm looking to find a couple of ladyfriends as FWBs for occasional social and occasional play meets, on a no strings basis.

Not into playing the 'numbers' game like so many people on here, but if I see/meet a lady I'd like to enjoy having sex with as well as connecting with on a social level, then great...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

more like facebook day by day its getting worse its a sex site ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are here just to fuck, some are here to find friends with benefits and some are here to looking for equally open minded folk that might be looking for something more long term.

Horses for courses and all that. "

You're here looking for me lol

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm ready to move on from my ex I will be looking on here for a regular FB who wants to go out and socialise aswell as just fuck. I was with my ex for 6/7 years and we met at a swingers club, I see nothing wrong with seeking someone on this site, "

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To get fucked? Need to live in north england for that lol, no I just use it for the forum really.

You need to have patience Shag lol yes. I think I need to put in some effort "
I reckon if yer got yourself a 6 pack they would be gagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you care what others are on the site for?

My own observation is that there seems to be members who like to dictate to others how they use the site. It's amusing how judgemental some folk can be on a supposedly sexually liberated swinging site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Why do you care what others are on the site for?

My own observation is that there seems to be members who like to dictate to others how they use the site. It's amusing how judgemental some folk can be on a supposedly sexually liberated swinging site x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you care what others are on the site for?

My own observation is that there seems to be members who like to dictate to others how they use the site. It's amusing how judgemental some folk can be on a supposedly sexually liberated swinging site x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

It's different for couples and singles. If singles are looking to date are you miffed that it reduces potential meets for yourselves?

I'm looking forward to finding a kinky swinging Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting a fuck on this site seems to be like applying for a job I'm going to make up a sexual c.v message me if you want to see it lol !! "

Sending a message seems that way very much so. Chat off the back of forum posts is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

It's different for couples and singles. If singles are looking to date are you miffed that it reduces potential meets for yourselves?

I'm looking forward to finding a kinky swinging Dom "
as if by magic Tosh appeared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone wanna marry me?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone wanna marry me? "

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah! "

Damn it I saw her first!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry but I am not scared to admit I am not a fuck and go, in fact nothing turns my stomach more than a man who thinks I am and therefore think they can treat me as such.

I am not however looking for a relationship, I am looking for people who I want to spend time with and who like and respect me.

So I will continue to use fab for what I am looking for and leave others to do the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

What do you think OP?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!! "

hmmm sure we can come to an understanding that we're all happy with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

Here here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?"

So are you saying we can't be fussy ??

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Everyone has there own reasons to be on this site. But think it's predominantly a sex site isn't it ?

For some yes but I wouldn't say predominantly. "

predominantly its a swingers site, but its used by all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

It's different for couples and singles. If singles are looking to date are you miffed that it reduces potential meets for yourselves?

I'm looking forward to finding a kinky swinging Dom as if by magic Tosh appeared "

You must have waved your wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

It's different for couples and singles. If singles are looking to date are you miffed that it reduces potential meets for yourselves?

I'm looking forward to finding a kinky swinging Dom as if by magic Tosh appeared

You must have waved your wand "
a staff I like to call it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

Most are I am sure but a very small minority are here looking for something more permanent ... Not just women either, I would say some men use fab to find women who enjoy the social side as well as the fucking but without the responsibility of a full blown relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah! "

I need bank statements, doctors certificates & three references please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!! "

This could be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting "
adulteress

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

I need bank statements, doctors certificates & three references please "

lol oh god sounds like i need a prenuptial agreement written references or just contact information?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress "

You can be part of my harem too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

I need bank statements, doctors certificates & three references please

lol oh god sounds like i need a prenuptial agreement written references or just contact information? "

Written references of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too "
thought I already was. Pfft

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

I need bank statements, doctors certificates & three references please

lol oh god sounds like i need a prenuptial agreement written references or just contact information?

Written references of course "

ok consider it done! I'll have the prenuptial drew up by the end of the week

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Anyone fancy a date?

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By *imply lushWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I met my partner on here and we are very very happy,as for trust its probably the best place to meet because why wouldnt we trust each other we are both on fab why would I go behind his back and cheat on him I have the perfect life I can meet with his full approval in a world we both share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there certainly is a lot of single men on here.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone fancy a date? "

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft "

Ahem laddy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was very much like date. Nice meal. Cinema then pub. But I enjoyed it so not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... "
oops was just joking. Yer know me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me "

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? "
can be anything yer want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? "
I'm the alpha male of the harem

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know "

You can't get married this is not a dating site

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know

You can't get married this is not a dating site "

Ssh Innocent is getting a harem and I'm getting a kinky, swinging, dominant Gemini

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know

You can't get married this is not a dating site "
can yer get engaged ? And just have a sort of honeymoon night

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know

You can't get married this is not a dating site

Ssh Innocent is getting a harem and I'm getting a kinky, swinging, dominant Gemini "

Oh can we share

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want. "

hahaha so versatile...giggles x

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know

You can't get married this is not a dating site

Ssh Innocent is getting a harem and I'm getting a kinky, swinging, dominant Gemini

Oh can we share "

oh it's good to share or so i here

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "

People should just do what they want to do - as long as it is between consenting informed adults!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want.

hahaha so versatile...giggles x "
a versatile Gemini. Now that's pushing it

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "
Meant to thumb up

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "

We found each other here and made the connection because we have a similar outlook and approach to life, relationships and fun. We actually were both on the fish site, but hadn't logged on for ages - the men on there are only after sex too, but hide it, so there is a lot of deception there. We went very quickly from meets to dating to moving in together and sharing everything. Neither of us were looking for anything long term or settled, but it landed right in our laps. Now we stay mainly for the social aspect and for shared fun ...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "

We found each other here and made the connection because we have a similar outlook and approach to life, relationships and fun. We actually were both on the fish site, but hadn't logged on for ages - the men on there are only after sex too, but hide it, so there is a lot of deception there. We went very quickly from meets to dating to moving in together and sharing everything. Neither of us were looking for anything long term or settled, but it landed right in our laps. Now we stay mainly for the social aspect and for shared fun ...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where.

People should just do what they want to do - as long as it is between consenting informed adults!"

informed of what?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want.

hahaha so versatile...giggles x a versatile Gemini. Now that's pushing it "

so you're 'mr rigid' are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want.

hahaha so versatile...giggles x a versatile Gemini. Now that's pushing it

so you're 'mr rigid' are you? "
yeah can't beat a rigid one. Well so they tell me

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want.

hahaha so versatile...giggles x a versatile Gemini. Now that's pushing it

so you're 'mr rigid' are you? yeah can't beat a rigid one. Well so they tell me "

i wouldnt know who 'they' are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want.

hahaha so versatile...giggles x a versatile Gemini. Now that's pushing it

so you're 'mr rigid' are you? yeah can't beat a rigid one. Well so they tell me

i wouldnt know who 'they' are "
Them the strange people. there everywhere

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner"

Feck!

Wish I'd read this sooner.

Oh well. Too late to cancel now.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

Iv done POF and the men I encountered just use it as a sex site so I was getting a lot of crossed wires and dishonesty...... Hence on fab at least I know what's expected and more honest about it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

Feck!

Wish I'd read this sooner.

Oh well. Too late to cancel now.

A"

Aren't you two about to get married?!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want.

hahaha so versatile...giggles x a versatile Gemini. Now that's pushing it

so you're 'mr rigid' are you? yeah can't beat a rigid one. Well so they tell me

i wouldnt know who 'they' are Them the strange people. there everywhere "

really? cant say i take much notice i kinda go about doing my own thing..unless its requesting apron pics of course.. apparently ive been invited to cloud cuckoo land..did you hear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? can be anything yer want.

hahaha so versatile...giggles x a versatile Gemini. Now that's pushing it

so you're 'mr rigid' are you? yeah can't beat a rigid one. Well so they tell me

i wouldnt know who 'they' are Them the strange people. there everywhere

really? cant say i take much notice i kinda go about doing my own thing..unless its requesting apron pics of course.. apparently ive been invited to cloud cuckoo land..did you hear? "
how uncanny. I just happen to have a apron pic going spare xx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

Feck!

Wish I'd read this sooner.

Oh well. Too late to cancel now.

A"

bless, dont listen to the poor man, he just wants a fuck and cant find anyone to cooperate...

congrats btw xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

Feck!

Wish I'd read this sooner.

Oh well. Too late to cancel now.

A

Aren't you two about to get married?! "

Married??

After meeting on here?

Not having read the new rules above.

A

*yes. Next month.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"I think as long as everyone is honest about what they are doing on here then it doesn't matter.

As to the why someone on here may not be good for a long term relationship , well I think unless you equate monogamous as the only way to be in a relationship then okay but I'd say most swingers know that there is more to a relationship than monogamy.

I think some seem to think that people only share because they are bored or something is missing from ya relationship.

"

I like having a regular playmate in tow as child at home so easier when it comes to my needs being satisfied but know that I'm far better playing alone in clubs!! So who's up for Cupids on Saturday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know

You can't get married this is not a dating site

Ssh Innocent is getting a harem and I'm getting a kinky, swinging, dominant Gemini

Oh can we share "

Since it's you, yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a date? "

Mmm nom nom. How YOU doin'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "

And then there would be less singles as they'd all be in couples.

You'd think the couples would be happy the singles are coupling up...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

Feck!

Wish I'd read this sooner.

Oh well. Too late to cancel now.

A

Aren't you two about to get married?!

Married??

After meeting on here?

Not having read the new rules above.

A

*yes. Next month. "

Ha! Rule breaker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know "

Oi!

The pre-nup is null & void now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone wanna marry me?

Omg i been dreaming about this day! Hell yeah!

Damn it I saw her first!!!

This could be interesting adulteress

You can be part of my harem too thought I already was. Pfft

Ahem laddy.... oops was just joking. Yer know me

Being part of a harem is hardly Dom. Are you a Gemini? I'm the alpha male of the harem "

Shut up & get on with the naked dusting you

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Anyone fancy a date?

only if you can keep a secret i'm getting married don't you know

Oi!

The pre-nup is null & void now "

you clearly didn't read the small print

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just purchased fabswingers with the intention of turning it into a dating site.

By tomorrow it will be called Fabdaters. I shall personally be setting members up for blind dates (for a small fee). No sex allowed.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone fancy a date?

Mmm nom nom. How YOU doin'? "

All the better for seeing you here

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"nope its a sex and no baggage site for us "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely a NSA sex site for me.

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By *laire888Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

First and foremost, it's for sex for me. But, if I happened to meet someone I clicked with here, then great! In fact, better than great, as there's no awkward 'reveal' about my sex life, they'd already know!!

Not looking for it, but if it happens, it happens!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a date?

Mmm nom nom. How YOU doin'?

All the better for seeing you here "

I've pulled!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Reading through this thread I have noticed a lot of couples say that it's just sex for them. Thing is, you're already a couple. If single people get together and decide they are more than just a meet and pair up, what's wrong with that? Two open minded people who just so happened to find each other on a swinging site. There's no need for that conversation of introducing the idea of swinging. People find people, doesn't matter how or where. "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Dating sites are mostly filled with people wanting sex anyway - wereas on here I've had loads of great days and nights out, weekends away, everything. It's way more social on here, I get loads of invitations.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

I think that if you want swinging to be part of your life long term it's probably as good a place as any because the people you're meeting are of the same mind."

Exactly. After six months of meaningless funtimes, I'm now looking for an open relationship.

I've tried more conventional sites but would rather meet someone here where swinging is all out in the open from the off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can seem that way.... I was asked out for dinner and went. wasnt a good move. Il stick with nsa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's human nature to eventually want more than just sex... That being said if I was to settle down per se it would have to be with a fellow swinger as this is very much part of who I am

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Obviously, there is also the fact that your individual circumstances will change how you use the site.

If you are a couple, then chances are you're not looking for "love". Similarly if you are married but on here as a single, then mostly you'll just be looking for sex. I'd even go as far to say that a large proportion of the single guys on here are not looking for a relationship.

I honestly do believe that the largest share of the people on here who are actually looking for a romantic progression to their meets are the genuine single ladies... and if that suits them, why not.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you enjoy this lifestyle, which to many is more than just fucking, then why not find a likeminded partner to do it with, best place to find them!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's human nature to eventually want more than just sex... That being said if I was to settle down per se it would have to be with a fellow swinger as this is very much part of who I am"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You'd think that. But many treat it like a dating site. To many boundaries etc. I get people need to out the fakes time wasters etc. But it's about meeting for fun and plenty of sex right ?

For you it is and why not, but for others is might be different and again, why not? true but not the best place to find a life partner

Feck!

Wish I'd read this sooner.

Oh well. Too late to cancel now.

A"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More and more I see 'looking for mr right' or 'looking for a long term partner'..... isnt that what POF or Tinder is for?

Arent we all here to just fuck?

"

It can be whatever you want it to be. If you are already an established couple you already have someone special so its easy to use the site with the sole purpose of meeting people for fucks.

However for us singles sometimes we want that too and I certainly don't feel ill at ease when my desires change. So when I do feel the need to have something a little more special with someone. Why not look here where I know a potential companion is more likely to have a similar sexual mindset to my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a wife, don't tell me I've got the wrong website....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always has been

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