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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please??

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please?? "

I think you might find the "girlfriend" does not exist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please??

I think you might find the "girlfriend" does not exist..."

Yep. Are you into guys? Because you might have yourself a meet is you are

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please?? "

We've been told by single guys that it's quite common for gay or bi guys to present themselves as a couple to try catch single guys out.

When we first started we thought it safer if I (the male) met up with any potential meets to check they were ok if we both couldn't attend a social, we had let down after let down, and I think this is why. Now if it's to meet a single guy and we can't both attend the social my wife goes alone (she's quite safe, choosing the right kind of public location and she is after all a former world karate champion). We haven't had any let downs since then.

Just got to tread carefully whether you're a single male, single female or couple, because some people will try back you into a corner. Keep social meets public and have an escape plan should it be needed.

Those of you who meet and play first time I'm sure you have your own safety devices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please??

I think you might find the "girlfriend" does not exist...

Yep. Are you into guys? Because you might have yourself a meet is you are

-Courtney"

No not into guys.the whole thing was just jangling alarm bells so thought Ide run it through here first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please??

I think you might find the "girlfriend" does not exist..."

This was my first thought.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please??

I think you might find the "girlfriend" does not exist...

This was my first thought."

Always go with your gut instinct x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have been chatting to a single guy, classic couple with gf out lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay finally had a meet arranged with a couple local to me.asked to see pics,told as soon as the girlfriend gets back they will send some.later on im told they couldn't get a sitter at short notice,fair enough I thought.

4 hours later I get a text asking if it's still ok to meet,by now I've gone out.

They still won't send pics but lad wanted to come round by himself.

Any thoughts on this please??

I think you might find the "girlfriend" does not exist...

This was my first thought.

Always go with your gut instinct x"

Always this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I am not proactive as I used to be looking for meets but it used to piss me of when you would be exchanging messages with a couple who liked your photos only to be then told the female was actually out and she would consider them later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must admit I am not proactive as I used to be looking for meets but it used to piss me of when you would be exchanging messages with a couple who liked your photos only to be then told the female was actually out and she would consider them later. "

Yeah was abit of a let down.me being nieve I even went out to buy wine&beer for the night.now got two bottles of wine left.oh well lesson learnt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the advice

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