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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We see a lot of misconceptions about cuckolding with some thinking its humiliation. If you ask any couple/bull into it will get a different answer every time as to what it is to them. It ranges from simple wife watching/wife going out to be 'unfaithful' to humilation, forced bi, sissifaction and more. What does it mean to you and what parts do you indulge in?

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

I love to watch my wife being 'unfaithful '

And she enjoys both the sex with the other guys plus when I take her home I have to make her mine again.

Not sure if that makes me a cuck or not but certainly humiliating each other doesn't come into it for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to watch my wife being 'unfaithful '

And she enjoys both the sex with the other guys plus when I take her home I have to make her mine again.

"

'Reclaim sex' is tapping into very powerful primal instincts. If you can enjoy it then the feeling is electric. However, for the same reason it sends others into a jealous rage. I don't think men can really help their preference though.

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By *.Man1510Man
over a year ago

Manchester

As a single male, never tried it but like the idea of being told what to do by hubby or wife while hubby is watching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love to watch my wife being 'unfaithful '

And she enjoys both the sex with the other guys plus when I take her home I have to make her mine again.

Not sure if that makes me a cuck or not but certainly humiliating each other doesn't come into it for us "
Cuckolding doesn't have to include humiliation and from what you describe would say sounds like you're a cuck however others might disagree.

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland


"I love to watch my wife being 'unfaithful '

And she enjoys both the sex with the other guys plus when I take her home I have to make her mine again.

'Reclaim sex' is tapping into very powerful primal instincts. If you can enjoy it then the feeling is electric. However, for the same reason it sends others into a jealous rage. I don't think men can really help their preference though."

Fortunately neither of us are the jealous type. Completely agree it is very primal. All about taking her and marking her out as mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single male, never tried it but like the idea of being told what to do by hubby or wife while hubby is watching."

See on the fence when it comes to cuckold porn where the husband is directing the action as to whether this counts?

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

There is certainly an element of cuck in me. We only play together in clubs and she likes me to sit very still don't play with myself even though it turns me on so much .

On the flip side she loves to watch me with other people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is certainly an element of cuck in me. We only play together in clubs and she likes me to sit very still don't play with myself even though it turns me on so much .

On the flip side she loves to watch me with other people "

Its one of those where you can dip your toes in but doesn't have to be how you play all the time although some make it a lifestyle choice.

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

Yes agreed it is something that has developed with us over the years

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By *r_BigHeadMan
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

You have to be very clear before a meet what everyone expects from the scenario otherwise it can go sour very quickly. For me it is a case of constantly pushing the boundaries of what the cuck will allow to happen, both in public and in private. Not asking for permission but also not pushing to far; its a difficult balance to achieve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to be very clear before a meet what everyone expects from the scenario otherwise it can go sour very quickly. For me it is a case of constantly pushing the boundaries of what the cuck will allow to happen, both in public and in private. Not asking for permission but also not pushing to far; its a difficult balance to achieve. "

Definately, we don't meet at the drop of the hat with people until chatted first to find out if we're going to be compatible with each other and then as long as those hard boundaries aren't pushed we're open to others being so.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

You no our views and what we into already cin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see a lot of misconceptions about cuckolding with some thinking its humiliation. If you ask any couple/bull into it will get a different answer every time as to what it is to them. It ranges from simple wife watching/wife going out to be 'unfaithful' to humilation, forced bi, sissifaction and more. What does it mean to you and what parts do you indulge in?"

We indulge in heavy humiliation. We're not into 'sharing' because we're in polyamorous/open relationships (so therefore, we're not sharing, it's just something we always do). But humiliation, status, hierarchy, all those good things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You no our views and what we into already cin"

Haha yes we do but others don't lol. Suppose should say ours only fair. Ginger's the one in charge of what unfolds during our meets and I'm often in chasity. We've played with blindfolds or me being in the next room and there's mild humiliation but nothing degrading. Sometimes she'll play on her own with people we've met before but she makes sure still involved with pics etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still a complete mystery to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"still a complete mystery to me!"

And why's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Means I get my wicked way with another man's wife. What they do about it is down to them. I've never had the whole humiliating extremes but have had a couple where me and her were in a room and hubby was in the next room listening in.

So long as the boundaries are set before hand go and have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You no our views and what we into already cin

Haha yes we do but others don't lol. Suppose should say ours only fair. Ginger's the one in charge of what unfolds during our meets and I'm often in chasity. We've played with blindfolds or me being in the next room and there's mild humiliation but nothing degrading. Sometimes she'll play on her own with people we've met before but she makes sure still involved with pics etc."

This just about sums our experience. We are playing with chastity at the moment but Scarlett is always in control and it is becoming lifestyle-ish lol as she gets more confident with the whole scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We initially started out as a cuck couple on here, but attracted the guys who thought it was an easy f*#k hoping for one nighters. I (N) am still very into the scene as is L, but without the verbal humiliation. We still seek the one regular guy to become possibly a bit of an item as I enjoy the thought of L going out and having fun and depriving me if she so desired. But reclamation sex is phenomenal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We initially started out as a cuck couple on here, but attracted the guys who thought it was an easy f*#k hoping for one nighters. I (N) am still very into the scene as is L, but without the verbal humiliation. We still seek the one regular guy to become possibly a bit of an item as I enjoy the thought of L going out and having fun and depriving me if she so desired. But reclamation sex is phenomenal."

Guessing coined a new phrase here 'reclamation sex'

Sorry to hear that's been your experience to date and certainly it's not easy. Unfortunately it is difficult to find the right person who gets that cuckolding isn't just about fucking someone else's wife but also a cerebral kink or fetish that when played right can be deeply satisfying for cuck, hotwife and bull. These guys do seem to be few and far between even on specialised cuckolding websites (of which most are american based.) however they do exist. That's why we've started to try and make more of a community so that people who are seriously into cuckolding can network together to learn more and experience the proper fun that can be had. Hope you do find what your looking for and don't give up hope.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I meet a cuckold Cpl and for him its the turn on its how he gets hard and the only way one thing I don't like to do but I do it to turn him on is talk to him saying your a little coch man and your wife wants my cock that turn him on more.

after I leave they then play as a cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a shame there's no cuckold socials near us like what you do

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland


"We initially started out as a cuck couple on here, but attracted the guys who thought it was an easy f*#k hoping for one nighters. I (N) am still very into the scene as is L, but without the verbal humiliation. We still seek the one regular guy to become possibly a bit of an item as I enjoy the thought of L going out and having fun and depriving me if she so desired. But reclamation sex is

phenomenal."

Reclamation sex is fab. Very very basic and animalistic and great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We initially started out as a cuck couple on here, but attracted the guys who thought it was an easy f*#k hoping for one nighters. I (N) am still very into the scene as is L, but without the verbal humiliation. We still seek the one regular guy to become possibly a bit of an item as I enjoy the thought of L going out and having fun and depriving me if she so desired. But reclamation sex is

phenomenal.

Reclamation sex is fab. Very very basic and animalistic and great fun "

Neither of can dispute that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a shame there's no cuckold socials near us like what you do"

Why whereabouts are you guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame there's no cuckold socials near us like what you do

Why whereabouts are you guys?"

Teesside (N.E)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah yes so about a 2hr drive, depending on the success of our parties sure a club nearer to home would want to have an event like ours at theirs for you guys in the N.E and as been said before it's something that we might one day take on the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to watch my wife being 'unfaithful '

And she enjoys both the sex with the other guys plus when I take her home I have to make her mine again.

Not sure if that makes me a cuck or not but certainly humiliating each other doesn't come into it for us "

Hi

Robson here, im a bull and was wondering if you need one as i only live down the road,

Rude not to offer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be into humiliation but cuck porn is top of my search list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah yes so about a 2hr drive, depending on the success of our parties sure a club nearer to home would want to have an event like ours at theirs for you guys in the N.E and as been said before it's something that we might one day take on the road "

Not been to a club yet, I think a cuck night would be a good start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be into humiliation but cuck porn is top of my search list "

So would that be as a bull or a cuck? And it doesn't have to involve humiliation for it to be a cuckold scenario as we've had meets with none of that has been involved yet just watched.

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By *ime 2 CumCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

This is something we are exploring, but without the humiliation so I guess we're more of a hotwife couple tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the common misconception is a bull gets to humiliate the cuck, but as previously mentioned humiliation isn't everyone's cup of tea. I find that during make up sex L tends to tell me things like " he was much bigger than you" and likes of. I prefer the role of being left downstairs wondering, unless invited up to lists outside the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something we are exploring, but without the humiliation so I guess we're more of a hotwife couple tbh "

I'd say if u meet couple then you're not a cuckold couple.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I'll be honest I have no idea what we are!

Still trying to figure it out but not losing any sleep over not knowing.

Kate had her first solo meet and is planning her first overnight, but no humiliation involved. Some would say I'm cuck, others that it's hotwifing. All I know is it's fun.

D

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Slightly different but related...there's been a few posts today about cuckolding and cuckqueaning and it raised a question for me. Regardless of whether the cuck is male or female, the lover who comes in is a bull when a man but if it's a woman then what is she called? First instinct is a cow pmsl but I'm sure there's a better term.

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By *aemonDayzMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Slightly different but related...there's been a few posts today about cuckolding and cuckqueaning and it raised a question for me. Regardless of whether the cuck is male or female, the lover who comes in is a bull when a man but if it's a woman then what is she called? First instinct is a cow pmsl but I'm sure there's a better term. "

Don't know if there's an established term, but if not, how about 'vixen'?

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By *iceshortsMan
over a year ago

South East

Everything from being watched at a club to taking her away for the night. The amount of interaction with the cuck varies. It could be sending pics back or making a video to watch after or leaving her in the hotel bed disheveled for him to find when we are finished. Sometimes the cuck is the driver of the relationship sometimes the woman. Each is different. One thing for sure is it is great fun and there is something very primeval pleasuring another mans wife more than he can himself. It could be an exclusive situation too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each individual is different on the level of cuckoldry, i love the humiliation side just as much as mild cuckolding, but love new couples wanting to explore and hopefully help them settle into this wonderful scenario. Socials......fun......regular.....lover..... its all exciting and rewarding. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging the wife and then get her hubby to suck my cock and swallow is pretty hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shagging the wife and then get her hubby to suck my cock and swallow is pretty hot"

Think there may be just a little more to the cuckolding scenario than that, but each to there own.....

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By *eckandcarlCouple
over a year ago

leicester

I've never been humiliated just like watching becky with other guys !!

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest


"You no our views and what we into already cin

Haha yes we do but others don't lol. Suppose should say ours only fair. Ginger's the one in charge of what unfolds during our meets and I'm often in chasity. We've played with blindfolds or me being in the next room and there's mild humiliation but nothing degrading. Sometimes she'll play on her own with people we've met before but she makes sure still involved with pics etc."

This is how we play at cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to watch my wife being 'unfaithful '

And she enjoys both the sex with the other guys plus when I take her home I have to make her mine again.

'Reclaim sex' is tapping into very powerful primal instincts. If you can enjoy it then the feeling is electric. However, for the same reason it sends others into a jealous rage. I don't think men can really help their preference though."

Spot on! I am the complete opposite of a sissy/sub type of man physically and emotionally, yet love to watch N being a slut for hung men, and having reclaim sex afterwards. This just cannot be helped-it's what I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something that intrigues me a lot, id like to be the bull though.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"We see a lot of misconceptions about cuckolding with some thinking its humiliation. If you ask any couple/bull into it will get a different answer every time as to what it is to them. It ranges from simple wife watching/wife going out to be 'unfaithful' to humilation, forced bi, sissifaction and more. What does it mean to you and what parts do you indulge in?

We indulge in heavy humiliation. We're not into 'sharing' because we're in polyamorous/open relationships (so therefore, we're not sharing, it's just something we always do). But humiliation, status, hierarchy, all those good things."

I would never have considered humiliation as a part of polyamorous relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its something that intrigues me a lot, id like to be the bull though."

This whole bull thing is ridiculous. The self proclaimed bulls/doms etc are always skinny or fat, average cocked and ugly as sin.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Its something that intrigues me a lot, id like to be the bull though.

This whole bull thing is ridiculous. The self proclaimed bulls/doms etc are always skinny or fat, average cocked and ugly as sin."

Can you have a cuck with no bull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its something that intrigues me a lot, id like to be the bull though.

This whole bull thing is ridiculous. The self proclaimed bulls/doms etc are always skinny or fat, average cocked and ugly as sin.

Can you have a cuck with no bull?

"

I don't deny the need for dominant men per se, just the level of bull' you get on here.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Its something that intrigues me a lot, id like to be the bull though.

This whole bull thing is ridiculous. The self proclaimed bulls/doms etc are always skinny or fat, average cocked and ugly as sin.

Can you have a cuck with no bull?

I don't deny the need for dominant men per se, just the level of bull' you get on here. "

Personally not a fan of the term bull but can't think of a better term that defines a cuck opposite other than 'lover'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its something that intrigues me a lot, id like to be the bull though.

This whole bull thing is ridiculous. The self proclaimed bulls/doms etc are always skinny or fat, average cocked and ugly as sin.

Can you have a cuck with no bull?

I don't deny the need for dominant men per se, just the level of bull' you get on here.

Personally not a fan of the term bull but can't think of a better term that defines a cuck opposite other than 'lover'"

Lover is a better term imho. I understand there are different levels of cuckoldry, and many enjoy some pretty hard humiliation for the male half, but that always strikes us a sign of a massively abusive relationship akin to mental and physical torture.

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

For me it's a marvellous set up, I get extra sex, both my hotwife and her cuck are happy and I feel they are both my friends as well as the sexual relationship. They do not have sex together any more but that is their (her) choice. They are sensitive and considerate to each other and I try to be the same.

She seems more than happy with the arrangement and has given me exclusive access which is very nice. Sometime he likes to watch sometimes she will spend the whole night alone with me. Then we al chat and sit round breakfast together. I do not go in for any of the overt humiliation stuff, I have never seen his cock and certainly would never be disparaging about it or him, in fact I would never dream of being even mildly rude to him - they care for each other and I have been invited to extend and enhance that relationship - which is deeply satisfying - but I suspect every triple is different - like all couples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shagging the wife and then get her hubby to suck my cock and swallow is pretty hot

Think there may be just a little more to the cuckolding scenario than that, but each to there own....."

True there's the whole psychology behind it. Guess it must be a stroke to the ego being the dominant alpha male thats been able to quite easily supplant the previous male and satisfy their partners wants/desires and needs so effortlessly in front of cuck. In ways it's quite animalistic and the same way a pack of wolves or pride of lions would behave but also very intellectual and kinky at the same time.

As for viewpoint of a cuck when you're in a relationship sex loses some of it's spark as don't need to try as hard with each other. So as a cuck to see someone come in and do those things that with your partner that you no longer do is very erotic. That's without adding any of the other aspects of cuckolding. And although the bull/lover/stud doesn't see it the 'reclamation' sex after is fantastic even if being told how much better the bull was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore your posts on the subject. And I think cukolding is a seriously beautiful special thing.

Way on my way with my tendencies.

Finding a partner is difficult, in the vanilla world they run and mile they do not understand at all. To me its true love. A man who wants his woman to have true happiness and pleasure. I adore women who enjoy black men.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Its something that intrigues me a lot, id like to be the bull though.

This whole bull thing is ridiculous. The self proclaimed bulls/doms etc are always skinny or fat, average cocked and ugly as sin.

Can you have a cuck with no bull?

I don't deny the need for dominant men per se, just the level of bull' you get on here.

Personally not a fan of the term bull but can't think of a better term that defines a cuck opposite other than 'lover'

Lover is a better term imho. I understand there are different levels of cuckoldry, and many enjoy some pretty hard humiliation for the male half, but that always strikes us a sign of a massively abusive relationship akin to mental and physical torture."

I take the hard humiliation with a pinch of salt. I think it's mostly fantasy by people not even taking part in the cuckolding experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need more labels

Pan cuck, hum cuck, sis cuck, cuck queer, fluidic cuck

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I adore your posts on the subject. And I think cukolding is a seriously beautiful special thing.

Way on my way with my tendencies.

Finding a partner is difficult, in the vanilla world they run and mile they do not understand at all. To me its true love. A man who wants his woman to have true happiness and pleasure. I adore women who enjoy black men.

"

For a you lovely single men out there, potential hot wife here

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I'll be honest I have no idea what we are!

Still trying to figure it out but not losing any sleep over not knowing.

Kate had her first solo meet and is planning her first overnight, but no humiliation involved. Some would say I'm cuck, others that it's hotwifing. All I know is it's fun.

D"
And that is all that matters!

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

My journey as a Bull has been a mixed one. I have met a few couple that showed potential but I am yet to find a couple with goals and circumstances similar enough to mine to make an on going arrangement a realistic prospect. In my experience circumstances have been the biggest stumbling block by far.

What am I looking for? A couple to grow with and explore the lifestyle with together. I try to steer away from an exact formula but there are a few basic fundamentals that need to be in place before I seriously consider an arrangement with a couple.

Yes I'm having fun along the way but my quest continues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes like being a cuckold. Sometimes its the horniest thing ever! However, sometimes i feel like a default cuckold. My wife will only meet black guys. And doesn't want to see me play with anyone so that rules out playing with couples. Even if there were any black couples to play with....so sometimes I'd like to experience the rush of playing with another woman but as a single man in a mostly rural area that is impossible. Plus if i was lucky enough to meet with someone out would be on my mind that my wife isn't enjoying the time I'm having fun at all! She is no cuckqueen! So i find myself bouncing between times when I'm horny for the cuck experience, encouraging her to go out and play, take a lover etc. Then flipping to feeling hard done by, jealous and pissed off that i don't get to play in the same way. I don't think there's an answer for me, it's just how it is.

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We are quite a lot different to most peeps on this thread.

We are at the other end of the spectrum, we are very full on. We are both into the humiliation side of things and continue to push boundaries. My cuck spends long periods of time in chastity and we both enjoy the denial and frustrations. I have a few regular lovers/bulls but finding guys/couples with the right mental attutide can be very frustrating. Just reading a few of the posts here from bulls has me banging my head on my keyboard lol.

We are both fully bi too which also plays an important role in our chosen lifestyle.

We began as swingers over 10 years ago and got into a mild form of cuckoldry around 7 years ago... We haven't looked back! We are now extremely full on and looking for more & more ways to move forward. I particularly enjoy public humiliation.

Having said all that I love how diverse cuckoldry is and what peoples interpretations of cuckoldry mean to them. The world would be a boring place if we were all the same.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

What about our posts has you banging your head on the keyboard? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about our posts has you banging your head on the keyboard? lol"

Maybe this:

Means I get my wicked way with another man's wife. What they do about it is down to them.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham


"As a single male, never tried it but like the idea of being told what to do by hubby or wife while hubby is watching."

I meet a cuckold Cpl and he loves it the only thing that scared me to start with was he wanted my condom split so he could lick my cum out of her so I did one beter and let him have his face near her pussy when we fk and then I cum on his face

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"What about our posts has you banging your head on the keyboard? lol"
nothing at all is wrong with your particular post.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"We are quite a lot different to most peeps on this thread.

We are at the other end of the spectrum, we are very full on. We are both into the humiliation side of things and continue to push boundaries. My cuck spends long periods of time in chastity and we both enjoy the denial and frustrations. I have a few regular lovers/bulls but finding guys/couples with the right mental attutide can be very frustrating. Just reading a few of the posts here from bulls has me banging my head on my keyboard lol.

We are both fully bi too which also plays an important role in our chosen lifestyle.

We began as swingers over 10 years ago and got into a mild form of cuckoldry around 7 years ago... We haven't looked back! We are now extremely full on and looking for more & more ways to move forward. I particularly enjoy public humiliation.

Having said all that I love how diverse cuckoldry is and what peoples interpretations of cuckoldry mean to them. The world would be a boring place if we were all the same. "

I'm curious in terms of you both enjoying denial and frustrations, as the wife do you think the pleasure you get is internal. Ie you enjoy seeing his humiliation, similar to a sadist getting off on anothers pain.

Or is it external you enjoy his frustration and turmoil as you know he wants it.

Not judging either way, I'm curious as there are a few men who want humiliation but part of me wonders if you want it, is it really humiliation and does the hotwife enjoy the psychological and emotional turmoil she puts the husband through or is it about just enjoying being free to have sex with others and the humiliation is a spin off for the husband?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm curious in terms of you both enjoying denial and frustrations, as the wife do you think the pleasure you get is internal. Ie you enjoy seeing his humiliation, similar to a sadist getting off on anothers pain.

Or is it external you enjoy his frustration and turmoil as you know he wants it.

Not judging either way, I'm curious as there are a few men who want humiliation but part of me wonders if you want it, is it really humiliation and does the hotwife enjoy the psychological and emotional turmoil she puts the husband through or is it about just enjoying being free to have sex with others and the humiliation is a spin off for the husband?

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Obviously can't speak for Staffs_hotwife or any other couples because each is different and we don't know their reasons for doing so.

Think it would depend on the individual and the dynamic. Some cuckold relationships are male led i.e hubby suggested and others female led. I'll have to ask Ginger although sure she'll say its external and that quite possibly she enjoys the sex with others and the rest is a spin off for me. It would be interesting to find out who introduced who into cuckolding within the relationship and whether it's being done to satisfy the male or female's fantasy or has it become a fantasy that you both share equally now?

A good question to ask though about is it really humiliation? Not sure if the level we play at would be considered mild or not as thats subjective. However I'm quite confident with what god gave me and how to use it so I know anything that's said while she's with someone else is not entirely true. What it does do however is empower the one part of the dynamic you didn't mention the bull/lover/stud. I'm not an alpha male and never will so what we do helps to put that person into role. For us it's not a lifestyle we live 24/7 but roleplay.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I think for most it is roleplay and not a lifestyle.

Certainly some of the extremes on the Internet are over exaggerated for fantasy purposes.

But I'd assume its not all male fantasy and there are some women who get a kick out of their partners discomfort both physically and emotionally.

Power can be an aphrodisiac for some people.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It would be interesting to hear from cuckold couple who are into humiliation and into it full time. Do they ever slip back from it or how do they work it. J

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We into some humiliation and slip in and out of the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to watch Ellie suck off another man and get a face full of cum before I fuck her.... Does that make me a cuck???

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By *op2Couple
over a year ago

North west


"We are quite a lot different to most peeps on this thread.

We are at the other end of the spectrum, we are very full on. We are both into the humiliation side of things and continue to push boundaries. My cuck spends long periods of time in chastity and we both enjoy the denial and frustrations. I have a few regular lovers/bulls but finding guys/couples with the right mental attutide can be very frustrating. Just reading a few of the posts here from bulls has me banging my head on my keyboard lol.

We are both fully bi too which also plays an important role in our chosen lifestyle.

We began as swingers over 10 years ago and got into a mild form of cuckoldry around 7 years ago... We haven't looked back! We are now extremely full on and looking for more & more ways to move forward. I particularly enjoy public humiliation.

Having said all that I love how diverse cuckoldry is and what peoples interpretations of cuckoldry mean to them. The world would be a boring place if we were all the same. "
what's public humiliation involve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love to watch Ellie suck off another man and get a face full of cum before I fuck her.... Does that make me a cuck??? "

If he's had sex first while you've watched then possibly yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call myself a bull,however I am very dominant in the bedroom and the couples I have been with like the fact that I take control.

Humiliation is a small part of the play and only with consent.

In certain scenarios .........

This is about giving the woman what she wants from her dom/bull that her husband partner cant give her.

Sometimes in that setting the husband partner does get a certain amount of humiliation, and a lot of the time this comes from the wife as well.

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin

We are in more of a hotwife situation. I find my wife super sexy and super hot and like other people to appreciate that. I love taking her out dressed to the nines and looking super sexy. When it comes to extra marital sex.....who wouldn't find the prospect and excitement of a new partner, we all like sex toys so why not have a living breathing one!!!!???

There are many different aspects to this kind of lifestyle none right or wrong hell of you all enjoy it surely it's the right thing for you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to cant find cuck couple here in london who would be into getting humilating i love verbalky humilating the cuck

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over a year ago


"We see a lot of misconceptions about cuckolding with some thinking its humiliation. If you ask any couple/bull into it will get a different answer every time as to what it is to them. It ranges from simple wife watching/wife going out to be 'unfaithful' to humilation, forced bi, sissifaction and more. What does it mean to you and what parts do you indulge in?"

I always think watching is more hotwifing rather than cuckolding. The moment a guy submits to a dominant bull he becomes a cuck, if there is no submission and you are doing it on a level playing field so to speak then it’s hotwifing not cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persoanlly i feel that when cuckolding there has to be some verball communication and some form of humilation to the cuck becouse otherwise personally for me os dead boring and i wouldnt consider calling it cuck scene .

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"We see a lot of misconceptions about cuckolding with some thinking its humiliation. If you ask any couple/bull into it will get a different answer every time as to what it is to them. It ranges from simple wife watching/wife going out to be 'unfaithful' to humilation, forced bi, sissifaction and more. What does it mean to you and what parts do you indulge in?

I always think watching is more hotwifing rather than cuckolding. The moment a guy submits to a dominant bull he becomes a cuck, if there is no submission and you are doing it on a level playing field so to speak then it’s hotwifing not cuckolding"

I agree with you thats just hotwifing thats not cuckolding

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