FabSwingers.com forum: Judgemental on having tattoos

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

Personal taste? Her preferences. Wouldn't let it bother you. Some people think tattoos are hot. Some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found since I've had a sleeve done on my arm girls seem to like it more

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

because they look fuckin awful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She doesn't find tattoos attractive.

What's so difficult to understand? It's no different to any other preference on physical appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to chameleons last night, was sat having a chat with my friend and a guy just walking upto me, poked me in the arm and said....look at you covered in all that shit

I mean really

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why do people focus on those NOT interested in them opposed to those that are?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love tattoo,s if they suit the persons personality, they can be very sexy...

I dont like them if they are about look at me im a hard man...

You can tell if the ink is about the person or just the mentality behind them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

I love them and have quite a few of my own but some people think you're a bad person if you have them lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Why are you bothered about the people who don't like tattoos? They obviously don't find it attractive, go look for someone who does.

( in the not attracted to tattoo camp )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"because they look fuckin awful? "

Hahaha fool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because they look fuckin awful?

Hahaha fool"

It's not being a fool it's personal choice

if people turn me down on here for them that's fine, I do object to comments in real life though when I haven't asked their opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the same woman you were chatting to last month.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this the same woman you were chatting to last month....."

Nope just another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this the same woman you were chatting to last month.....

Nope just another"

So you're expecting different replies to this thread than the last one? Some people like tattoos, some people don't, but you've already heard that!

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually surprised there's anyone left that doesn't like tattoos as they seem to have become such a fashion item these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to chameleons last night, was sat having a chat with my friend and a guy just walking upto me, poked me in the arm and said....look at you covered in all that shit

I mean really

But did he like your tattoos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to chameleons last night, was sat having a chat with my friend and a guy just walking upto me, poked me in the arm and said....look at you covered in all that shit

I mean really

But did he like your tattoos?

Oh yeah I shagged him 10 mins later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to chameleons last night, was sat having a chat with my friend and a guy just walking upto me, poked me in the arm and said....look at you covered in all that shit

I mean really

But did he like your tattoos?

Oh yeah I shagged him 10 mins later

Messy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few well done tattoo's are really hot. Shit ones err nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

Not everyone likes tattoos? It's not that difficult a concept surely?

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By *ark074Man
over a year ago

nottingham

"because they look fuckin awful? "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

My wife isnt a fan either I'm afraid.

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By *urvyemmaWoman
over a year ago

wigan/bolton

I have found generally that people with loads of tattoos are generally not my type of people. .not that they are bad or weird or anything negative just that they generally have a different outlook on life than me...so loads of tattoos put me off (on men and women)

Am aware this is a huge sweeping statement but on fab you have to go on gut reaction a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoos... terrible things...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my tattoos called the mark of the devil since they have slipknot references in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys with tattoos

and when there coloured tattoos

So much sexier with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where she is coming from. I personally don't mind a few, and they can even be hot, but I'm not a fan of tons of them either. I like looking at a man's skin, his body. Sometimes loads of tattoos can distract from that a bit.

But in the end it is just her preference, surely?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys with tattoos

and when there coloured tattoos

So much sexier with "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

her personal opinion.....which she is entitled to. not everyone has to like tattoos (and beards) just because you do!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"because they look fuckin awful? "

......in your opinion (think you missed that bit off your statement

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I'm actually surprised there's anyone left that doesn't like tattoos as they seem to have become such a fashion item these days "

I don't have any tattoos at all and I do ok. Tattoos seem to be so common these days (fashion item) it seems more alternative not to have any?

Personally I don't mind tattoos on people either way it's not a deal breaker when it comes to meeting someone for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys with tattoos

and when there coloured tattoos

So much sexier with

Ta"

Most welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because they look fuckin awful?

Hahaha fool

It's not being a fool it's personal choice

if people turn me down on here for them that's fine, I do object to comments in real life though when I haven't asked their opinion

Nah to be fair he either made a sweeping statement that all tattoos in general are fucking awful in which case the op had the right to reply with his opinion, or he was questioning if the ops tattoos were fucking awful and same applies.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Funny thing is people that have tattoos don't care if you don't have one. But people that don't have seem to be soooo bothered about those that do have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm investing in laser removal technologies because in 10 years time there are going to be a lot of regretted tattoos ! It's already started now, once the cover up of the cover up of the cover up has turned the artwork into a blob.. What next ? Think about it if a fascist regime came to power and you wanted to become a revolutionary, that damn tatoo makes it easier for you to be identified. I think when the government failed to get I.d cards through they hired david beckham to trick people into barcoding themselves with cliches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should add above was in joking tone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care what others think I have them done for me not them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us have tattoos and we both prefer without. It's not a deal breaker though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really care what others think I have them done for me not them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't really care what others think I have them done for me not them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women change their mind like the wind she will like them tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to chameleons last night, was sat having a chat with my friend and a guy just walking upto me, poked me in the arm and said....look at you covered in all that shit

I mean really

"Oh yeah, sorry. Couldn't resist rolling in the fox shit this morning while I went for my morning walk."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one has their likes and dislikes! I have afew and love mine. Like men with or without. It's rest of the person, body and personality that I am attracted to.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

OP, couldn't you find last week's thread to re-re-re-bump?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

life does throw up some shocking challenges at times...

I may have to carry my spunk around for an extra few days because i have tattoos... how will I cope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference , and maybe concentrate on people who do like them than those that don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are hot .... More the better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

Never mind her lol I find tattoos a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

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some tatts look great some are over the top eg face and cock tatts

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"life does throw up some shocking challenges at times...

I may have to carry my spunk around for an extra few days because i have tattoos... how will I cope"

Have a wank!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"life does throw up some shocking challenges at times...

I may have to carry my spunk around for an extra few days because i have tattoos... how will I cope

Have a wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife isnt a fan either I'm afraid."

Its a personal choice personally I detest them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny thing is people that have tattoos don't care if you don't have one. But people that don't have seem to be soooo bothered about those that do have..."

Is that not because those that don't could be largely generalised as not big fans of them? I know that definition works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to chameleons last night, was sat having a chat with my friend and a guy just walking upto me, poked me in the arm and said....look at you covered in all that shit

I mean really

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id have given him more than a fkn poke back - rude git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

her personal opinion.....which she is entitled to. not everyone has to like tattoos (and beards) just because you do!"

Tattoos AND beards? Now you're being contraversial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife isnt a fan either I'm afraid.

Its a personal choice personally I detest them

Lol u wouldn't like me then. I have a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'am very much in the don't like tattoos camp,

I personally don't find them a turn on at all,

Having them bears no difference on how I _iew someone though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Judgemental on having tattoos"?

But you're being judgmental on people who express their own personal likes and dislikes....!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Judgemental on having tattoos"?

But you're being judgmental on people who express their own personal likes and dislikes....!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't trust anyone who hasn't got tattoos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab I don't mind one bit if someone is put off by my tattoos, it's down to their personal preference like many have already stated here. For that reason I'm absolutely ok with someone's personal choices to meet someone.

I did get offended recently when I was with my 4yo daughter at the swimming pool, heard a woman tell her sons to get away from the tattooed man as I looked dangerous!

I hardly think I did, was carrying a bright pink flotation board and my daughter had put two pink glittery hair clips in my hair!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Your choice to have tattoos...

Her choice to not meet you because of them..

I've chosen not to have any tattoos, tattoos wouldn't personally stop me from meeting someone.

everyone has choices.. simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't trust anyone who hasn't got tattoos! "

Really??

police, paramedic, firemen, doctor you would turn away their help in an emergency situation because they have chosen not to have tattoos,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't trust anyone who hasn't got tattoos!

Really??

police, paramedic, firemen, doctor you would turn away their help in an emergency situation because they have chosen not to have tattoos,

I didn't say I'd turn them away did I? Besides, we are talking about swinging, not emergency services.... Honestly, some people...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jesus .. didn't realise I was so bad for asking why....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus .. didn't realise I was so bad for asking why.... "

The answer was obvious , you knew that .

Perhaps you were looking for 100% support - but when does that ever happen on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On fab I don't mind one bit if someone is put off by my tattoos, it's down to their personal preference like many have already stated here. For that reason I'm absolutely ok with someone's personal choices to meet someone.

I did get offended recently when I was with my 4yo daughter at the swimming pool, heard a woman tell her sons to get away from the tattooed man as I looked dangerous!

I hardly think I did, was carrying a bright pink flotation board and my daughter had put two pink glittery hair clips in my hair! "

Perhaps she meant you looked dangerous because of the hair clips.

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By *ouplefun1Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably best if you ask the lady what she considers too much!!

"Recently I've been chatting to a woman on here, she said she wasn't keen on being with a guy with tattoos...

Apparently she doesn't mind a few tattoos but not too much... What is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live for now and all that and if you like them, great!

I do know a few 'older' people that had tattoos years ago and now regret them. The thing with tattoos is that they're so permanent - I wonder if in ten or twenty years there will be a generation of people covered in tattoos that will start to regret them as the skin starts to age and they're no longer firm and smooth bodied like they were when younger?

Who knows, maybe that won't happen. It will be interesting to see all these pensioners in 2050 with their purple rinses and full body tattoos everywhere

Anyway, live with no regrets and live for now! If you like tats, have them but only have them if you're 100% sure!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I genuinely don't care about tattoos either. They don't define someone. It's not a factor for me but then very few things bother me on that score. Your body, your choice. I would no more judge someone on their ink or lack of than the amount of pubes they have.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't have any (yet) myself. I mostly have no opinion either way. But I do wonder in a non swinging way about those who have loads but there's no thought gone into them, they're just generic what everyone else has ones. Just shows a lack of personality/originality/imagination which seems to be the opposite of what they're trying to portray.

But in a swinging sense definitely personal preference. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't have any (yet) myself. I mostly have no opinion either way. But I do wonder in a non swinging way about those who have loads but there's no thought gone into them, they're just generic what everyone else has ones. Just shows a lack of personality/originality/imagination which seems to be the opposite of what they're trying to portray.

But in a swinging sense definitely personal preference. Each to their own. "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't trust anyone who hasn't got tattoos!

Really??

police, paramedic, firemen, doctor you would turn away their help in an emergency situation because they have chosen not to have tattoos,

i took the comment of lack of trust as a tongue in cheek comment - dont really think they meant it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't trust anyone who hasn't got tattoos!

Really??

police, paramedic, firemen, doctor you would turn away their help in an emergency situation because they have chosen not to have tattoos,

i took the comment of lack of trust as a tongue in cheek comment - dont really think they meant it "

It might have been said slightly in jest... Mind you, I did used to say I didn't trust men with beards as they are obviously hiding something and now look at me.

I can't say I give it any thought on what people make of my tattoos, they are entirely my choice. I have noticed that people judge me more now I've got a full sleeve. Surprisingly it's not "toffs" or oap's who seem to judge but 40/50 something's who are some what middle class but they are welcome to. I have my own _iews on them anyway lol!

And people who tell me "you'll regret that when your older" obviously haven't thought that statement through and don't know me at all. Yes, I've met people who have regretted having tattoos but they tend to be the people with one or two smaller tattoos. I suspect that people like me who are very much into tattoos will still be getting them when we're older!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But in a swinging sense definitely personal preference. Each to their own. "

How do you know how much thought went into their tattoo's?

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