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Meeting a couple for the first time

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By *eej13 OP   Man
over a year ago

sudbury

Hi

I'm meeting a couple for the first time and excited / nervous all rolled into one.

Any tips / rules / advice you can give?

Is it normal to have a drink first or straight to mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have this chat with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its best to discuss it with them as all couples are different!

Personally we like to meet first for a drink and flirt lots!

Remember they will be nervous too so just try to relax and respect the fact they may have boundaries etc. Xx

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I would concur as every couple is different ... before we meet anyone on that level, would really have had to have had a good chat. Meeting at a club or party is a different story ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you shower first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the mentality to not expect anything. If you all get on and it leads to something then Happy days

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi

I'm meeting a couple for the first time and excited / nervous all rolled into one.

Any tips / rules / advice you can give?

Is it normal to have a drink first or straight to mine?"

There is no normal. We have our own rules or boundaries in place and we respect those of the men we meet the couple you are meeting will have theirs too so best to discuss it all with them.

Good luck, hope you all have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go with the mentality to not expect anything. If you all get on and it leads to something then Happy days "

I'd say the most important thing with a meet, is TURN UP. Nothing can happen unless you are actually there.

If you are nervous about a first-time, then a drink is a good way to break the ice. (Not too much though - you dont want to keep disappearing to the loo, during playtime).

If you'd made it as far as a meet, then congrats - you've already shown them some of your personality (or a huge cock - lol).

The couple will probably have a private signal, to say "he is ok" or "it isnt going to happen". If you are invited back, (have a mental high-five), then enjoy the experience

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