FabSwingers.com forum: V-W-E-ouch

By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago

Wembley

Am I the only woman around who wants to meet guys in the 4-6 'category'. Whilst I appreciate that nobody can do anything about changing their body, I do find it rather painful if the guy is any bigger

There are a couple of guys I meet who are bigger but they are well aware of that and take things very gently and don't go for positions which mean even fuller penetration

Sometimes it appears that VWE is considered 'good' and not is, 'not good'. Just an impression I get. What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone. I cannot accommodate larger men either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue, inbox meltdown for you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cue, inbox meltdown for you two

Behave lady, not all of us are built like buckets

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Not sure I know exactly what well endowed means .... but that is another thread. Depends on what is done with it, I think ... and speak from experience. Not a fan of the smaller variety though. We often have a fairly lengthy delay during play .... for me to be ready

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Everybody likes different things. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure I know exactly what well endowed means .... but that is another thread. Depends on what is done with it, I think ... and speak from experience. Not a fan of the smaller variety though. We often have a fairly lengthy delay during play .... for me to be ready "

I can delay play til the cows come home. Too big still doesn't fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you OP. I prefer probably from 5.5 to 6.5. Otherwise it hurts too much to be enjoyable.

Though I will say that I have met guys who are larger, and for the most part they know how to not make it hurt too much....but still, my preference is definitely in the average category.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cue, inbox meltdown for you two

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lol! I was thinking how reassuring this post is and has your exact same thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found my comfort zone is 6 and under because I have scarring inside from an operation. A long cock,thrust in hard can be very painful. Thankfully men are pretty astute when it comes to knowing the punching power they pack in their pants and go carefully. If it's not hurting I will tell them it's ok to go harder. It's quite sexy having a man look at me with concern on his face as he penetrates me and asks if I'm ok. Men are caring creature really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah nice to hear there's hope for us all.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

My wife doesnt like them too big either. She is so tiny to begin with, there is just not enough space to fit it comfortably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only woman around who wants to meet guys in the 4-6 'category'. Whilst I appreciate that nobody can do anything about changing their body, I do find it rather painful if the guy is any bigger

There are a couple of guys I meet who are bigger but they are well aware of that and take things very gently and don't go for positions which mean even fuller penetration

Sometimes it appears that VWE is considered 'good' and not is, 'not good'. Just an impression I get. What do you think?"

Lucky 4-6 inchers ay!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been with a VWE man. Bit curious, but I even suffer with average guys, unless they're considerate, if I'm honest.

I prefer a precision instrument to a sledgehammer!

Xxxx

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I wish more guys would realise that size isn't everything. There's plenty of women around who are quite happy with a smaller package. Would cut down on the 'is my cock big enough' threads as well

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Never been with a VWE man. Bit curious, but I even suffer with average guys, unless they're considerate, if I'm honest.

I prefer a precision instrument to a sledgehammer!

Xxxx"

Not every guy with a larger tool has a sledgehammer ...

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

There are a couple of guys I meet who are bigger but they are well aware of that and take things very gently and don't go for positions which mean even fuller penetration

Sometimes it appears that VWE is considered 'good' and not is, 'not good'. Just an impression I get. What do you think?"

To be fair I have met a few similar to you & I suppose it's all down to fit.

What always makes me smile is it has nothing to do with physical size....

I find the petite ladies like to hard and deep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I meant much bigger than small.

Sledgehammer was a metaphor.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it's a turn off for women if a man is worrying about the size of his cock, confidence is sexy insecurity is not!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"I imagine it's a turn off for women if a man is worrying about the size of his cock, confidence is sexy insecurity is not!"

You see I never go for the women who want a big cock, because I like to use my mind too, love to play a role, build a scene...

When they want a big cock your basically a dildo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine it's a turn off for women if a man is worrying about the size of his cock, confidence is sexy insecurity is not!

You see I never go for the women who want a big cock, because I like to use my mind too, love to play a role, build a scene...

When they want a big cock your basically a dildo!!"

Haha I love the idea of being a dildo!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Flood of new threads entitled 'Am I small enough?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small cocks are the new rage!!!

I'm booking in for a reduction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple of guys I meet who are bigger but they are well aware of that and take things very gently and don't go for positions which mean even fuller penetration

Sometimes it appears that VWE is considered 'good' and not is, 'not good'. Just an impression I get. What do you think?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big cocks. I like it when I hurt inside after they've fucked me hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flood of new threads entitled 'Am I small enough?'

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like big cocks. I like it when I hurt inside after they've fucked me hard

well said

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"Small cocks are the new rage!!!

I'm booking in for a reduction! "

Ugh!!.... Has nobody said it yet???

Ahem!!!

Small is the new black!

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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I imagine it's a turn off for women if a man is worrying about the size of his cock, confidence is sexy insecurity is not!

You see I never go for the women who want a big cock, because I like to use my mind too, love to play a role, build a scene...

When they want a big cock your basically a dildo!!

Haha I love the idea of being a dildo! "

Coincidently, the majority of the dildos and vibrators manufactured are about the size I find easy. But these don't replace men; they haven't manufactured one which gives kisses during and hugs afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting thread. I've been turned away, which I didn't mind. We just focused on foreplay and had an even better time.

I hate it if the other person is not enjoying it. It's a turn off for myself.

So if you don't like it big it self deflates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Small cocks are the new rage!!!

I'm booking in for a reduction!

Ugh!!.... Has nobody said it yet???

Ahem!!!

Small is the new black!"

Oh here, I thought black was always the new black?

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like big cocks. I like it when I hurt inside after they've fucked me hard

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't take well endowed it can be painful and can make me bleed at times as I have a tilted womb also a coil fitted. having said that I have a buddy that is very well endowed it always amazes me that we fit well as it were

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's been commented upon a lot over the years that some men are just much too big for many recipients to be comfortable with.

All cocks are good, when you're with someone who appreciates what you have. There's no reason for anyone to feel inferior.

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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago

Wembley

There are a couple of guys I meet who are bigger but they are well aware of that and take things very gently and don't go for positions which mean even fuller penetration

Sometimes it appears that VWE is considered 'good' and not is, 'not good'. Just an impression I get. What do you think?

To be fair I have met a few similar to you & I suppose it's all down to fit.

What always makes me smile is it has nothing to do with physical size....

I find the petite ladies like to hard and deep?"

So true; I have seen much smaller women in clubs who positively enjoy BBC/BWC. Just watching makes me run for the hills

Having said that, there are two guys I meet who are rather large in length and proportionally, in girth. It doesn't hurt much with them; I guess I am more relaxed with them because I know them; but meeting a stranger in a swingers club won't work for me

BTW, One is Black and the other Caucasian; seems like there is an even spread with sizing

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"Small cocks are the new rage!!!

I'm booking in for a reduction!

Ugh!!.... Has nobody said it yet???

Ahem!!!

Small is the new black!

Oh here, I thought black was always the new black?

Xxx"

Head in hands.... But I could not resist it!!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

There are a couple of guys I meet who are bigger but they are well aware of that and take things very gently and don't go for positions which mean even fuller penetration

Sometimes it appears that VWE is considered 'good' and not is, 'not good'. Just an impression I get. What do you think?

To be fair I have met a few similar to you & I suppose it's all down to fit.

What always makes me smile is it has nothing to do with physical size....

I find the petite ladies like to hard and deep?

So true; I have seen much smaller women in clubs who positively enjoy BBC/BWC. Just watching makes me run for the hills

BTW, One is Black and the other Caucasian; seems like there is an even spread with sizing

Cause it's even spread... It's just a stereotype....

Also I thought women get deeper the more turned on they are...

Yeah... I'm inviously not a Dr!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been with a VWE man. Bit curious, but I even suffer with average guys, unless they're considerate, if I'm honest.

I prefer a precision instrument to a sledgehammer!

Xxxx"

I'd consider reductive surgery for those curves and that face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a lot of men with huge cocks just think they have to turn up and really don't know how to turn a woman on tbh.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Perfect fit works for me ... but agree its the whole package. Men have more than a cock, whatever size it is, although I spend most of my spare moments thinking about Mr's

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

"I can't take well endowed it can be painful and can make me bleed at times as I have a tilted womb also a coil fitted. having said that I have a buddy that is very well endowed it always amazes me that we fit well as it were

In your case your "friend" has learnt how to use it, and knows how to allow you to take more of it than some other guy's, and of course just how hard you yourself like your intercourse. Personally I'm in the 7.5/8 range and because I'm a gentle lover I've never had an issue with how I use it, though one lady did say I went to deep but then she was in control as she was on top, but she did confess it did give her a different kind of pleasure than her usual partner

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I can honestly say, in all my 30 odd years of shagging, I have never known the size in inches (or any other measurement) of any penis I've had contact with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine it's a turn off for women if a man is worrying about the size of his cock, confidence is sexy insecurity is not!

You see I never go for the women who want a big cock, because I like to use my mind too, love to play a role, build a scene...

When they want a big cock your basically a dildo!!

Haha I love the idea of being a dildo!

Or kiss your neck and grab your arse...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I can honestly say, in all my 30 odd years of shagging, I have never known the size in inches (or any other measurement) of any penis I've had contact with."

Yup, here I am having this debate and I don't know either, including that of my partner. I was just assuming he has a big cock because he is black ....

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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I can honestly say, in all my 30 odd years of shagging, I have never known the size in inches (or any other measurement) of any penis I've had contact with.

Yup, here I am having this debate and I don't know either, including that of my partner. I was just assuming he has a big cock because he is black ...."

But he has a big c**k

OK, I'll bring my measuring tape over next time I see you two in the club; and you know that I won't be shy using it in front of everyone

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I can honestly say, in all my 30 odd years of shagging, I have never known the size in inches (or any other measurement) of any penis I've had contact with.

Yup, here I am having this debate and I don't know either, including that of my partner. I was just assuming he has a big cock because he is black ....

But he has a big c**k

OK, I'll bring my measuring tape over next time I see you two in the club; and you know that I won't be shy using it in front of everyone

I won't tell him ... okay?! It was only semi last time, gulp ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average is good for mildred she is small inside. She does like to be full inside with toys and fingers but no hard thrusting involved

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Think wifey would love to try vwe given half the chance. Had a few bigger than myself which isn't hard to beat

but we still have lots of fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are not alone. I cannot accommodate larger men either. "

small pround happy and available!

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

"I like big cocks. I like it when I hurt inside after they've fucked me hard

I'm a gentle guy lol

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By *he Milf ClubCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'm more interested in girth.

Got to touch the sides lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making me feel a lot happier about my 5 3/4"

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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Making me feel a lot happier about my 5 3/4"

Now, if only you were closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Making me feel a lot happier about my 5 3/4"

Now, if only you were closer

Think I need a trip down Wembley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a few meets, I'm not so bothered about my size because it works well enough and I'm gentle with a bit of foreplay too. I'm average at 6,but I enjoy kissing and sensual stuff, especially for first meets because it helps me feel comfortable with a person, but that's not to say I don't also fuck hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have a preference for 4-6 inches or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also have a preference for 4-6 inches or so.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Small cocks are the new rage!!!

I'm booking in for a reduction! "

I've always said BBC is just a craze, a fad, want women Really want is AWC - Average White Cock

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I also have a preference for 4-6 inches or so.

I just want to clarify that we are talking about Four to Six inches here, and not Fourty Six right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been with a VWE man. Bit curious, but I even suffer with average guys, unless they're considerate, if I'm honest.

I prefer a precision instrument to a sledgehammer!

Xxxx

Not every guy with a larger tool has a sledgehammer ..."

I would say 80% of couples profiles request VWE and single ladies. I blame porn for creating unrealistic expectations.

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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I also have a preference for 4-6 inches or so.

I just want to clarify that we are talking about Four to Six inches here, and not Fourty Six right?

Definitely not 46; neither inches nor centimetres

4" - 6"; I got that from my rabbit; that is comfortable and fun

And just like the other lady, although I haven't really measured any guy, I have a fairly good idea how big he is when we get down to intimacy

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

4 to 6 is just perfect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally! A thread where being average is a good thing...

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By *tankyCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Personally I am a bit of a size queen perfect size For me is nine inches with girth although I have had bigger which was nice as a previous post says its down to the guy who should know how to use it.

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

Ladies! You should be able to accommodate the bigger guys - god knows vaginas were made to stretch and bounce back!

If you're getting pain something isn't right - get it looked at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems every other thread the past week or so has been about cock size

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Ladies! You should be able to accommodate the bigger guys - god knows vaginas were made to stretch and bounce back!

If you're getting pain something isn't right - get it looked at. "

That's what they are trying to do on this thread ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies! You should be able to accommodate the bigger guys - god knows vaginas were made to stretch and bounce back!

If you're getting pain something isn't right - get it looked at. "

No offense, but I don't tell women who don't get enjoyment from small or average dicks that they need medical attention because they are too stretched.

I have a preference, not a medical disorder. My vagina is used to an average penis, and that is what I find enjoyable. But thanks for your concern.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies! You should be able to accommodate the bigger guys - god knows vaginas were made to stretch and bounce back!

If you're getting pain something isn't right - get it looked at. "

My vagina is just fine, thanks.

I just have a smaller vagina and I've not had children, so therefore I find smaller penises just right and larger penises uncomfortable.

I actually prefer playing with very large toys (it's a kink of mine) but I find the repetitive action of sex with a man with a large penis just rubs me raw and is very painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies! You should be able to accommodate the bigger guys - god knows vaginas were made to stretch and bounce back!

If you're getting pain something isn't right - get it looked at.

No offense, but I don't tell women who don't get enjoyment from small or average dicks that they need medical attention because they are too stretched.

I have a preference, not a medical disorder. My vagina is used to an average penis, and that is what I find enjoyable. But thanks for your concern.

-Courtney"

well said Courtney

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By *osie OP Woman
over a year ago

Wembley

The reason I asked was because I had started to feel that there was something wrong with me. In clubs, as well as here, I had started to feel a little 'inadequate'

I guess we are all different otherwise men won't be made in a variety of sizes. It is just good to know that I am not the only one or in a minority but there are others too whose preference is similar to mine

Just for the record; less than 4" or more than 6" isn't 'bad'; it is just not for me; phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always heard that women love it big... the bigger the better. is that a myth? if so, no wonder am having a hard time on here. will take pics down

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We meet a nice lad who is vvvwe struggle to take it no chance doggy to be on top and in full control would not want it every week can never relax enough to enjoy

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Everyone is different.

Personally, I like the 7-8" with a good girth range as I quite like the slight sexual pain of being stretched and having a cock bouncing off my cervix.

If I wasn't a weirdo who quite liked the pain, I'd probably prefer smaller.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always heard that women love it big... the bigger the better. is that a myth? if so, no wonder am having a hard time on here. will take pics down

Some women do.

Perhaps your problem with meeting women is that you think that everyone who owns a vagina wants the same thing?

(Also if I met a guy and I didn't know he had a large penis, I just wouldn't have sex with him. We'd do other things instead.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see abbreviation VWE I just think Volkswagen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow... interesting. i really thought all women loves a big size, especially if the guy know how to use it...(which am very talented at). but no i didn't know some women or it seems like most women prefer smaller sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wow... interesting. i really thought all women loves a big size, especially if the guy know how to use it...(which am very talented at). but no i didn't know some women or it seems like most women prefer smaller sizes "

Do you think all men prefer big tits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah but am sure all men prefer a big booty

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

I personally prefer an average size ,6 " is perect and if its a nice girth all the better, iv played with much bigger guys and had a wonderful time but then had an awful time with others because they had terrible technique. What i do find a turn off is guys that thiink just because they are vwe that you will drop your knickers and worship their cock just because they are big.

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By *ockyjohnMan
over a year ago

North West

Just 'cos I've got a big one doesn't mean it all has to go in

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

I love a good hard seeing to by a huge bbc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nah but am sure all men prefer a big booty

Well clearly that's not true either...

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Thinking of the guys..I think I give a better bj with smaller ones..just saying

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

"Thinking of the guys..I think I give a better bj with smaller ones..just saying"

absolutely. Less jaw ache lol

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