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The tongue or the fingers???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who prefers what?? Personally I'm a fan of the fingers!!!! Makes me so hot! I generally find the guys I've been with have no idea what they're doing with their tongues... (No offence guys) nothing worse than a bad head between legs... Thoughts??? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been meeting the wrong guys if they're useless with their tongues.

I love giving oral to a woman and it definitely works

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By *rolley DollyWoman
over a year ago

TT

Personally it's the tongue if he knows what he s at lol. Girls tongue all the way mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me! Bit of clit stim with the tongue and some tactical finger work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue & fingers please.

Double the pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clit concentrated tongue work with two fingers in pussy and one in the ass seems to do the trick every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely sounds like you've been meeting the wrong guys. Maybe you need to change your age setting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers 100%. I don't much enjoy oral, but I LOVE when a man uses his fingers on me.

-Courtney

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

No contest for me ... tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers, I don't enjoy oral that much, it is over too quickly. I enjoy good long sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue always gets me wetter, so tongue then fingers is best for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to have the lady bent over with her bum in the air so my fingers can work magic on her pussy while my tongue goes to work on her arse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tongue seems to be winning... Or a bit of both.

Maybe I am meeting the wrong guys!!!

Hmm.... I just find it sloppy!! Or have done....! Anyone care to change my mind Haa xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue seems to be winning... Or a bit of both.

Maybe I am meeting the wrong guys!!!

Hmm.... I just find it sloppy!! Or have done....! Anyone care to change my mind Haa xx "

Oh come on then if I must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't I have both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tongue teasing my tongue with fingers stroking my clit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't I have both? "

Haa well I suppose would be the better option!!!! ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone care to change my mind Haa xx "

Well now that you've asked

You should try a magic wand whilst having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do some men really do it that badly ?

I absolutely adore it and been told I've a talented tongue, or maybe that's because I don't shut up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both at the same time. Guarantees gushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both at the same time. Guarantees gushing "

Even more erotic when that happens

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Do some men really do it that badly ?

I absolutely adore it and been told I've a talented tongue, or maybe that's because I don't shut up "

Some men do do it badly. For me it is all about the right amount of pressure as well as being in the right place. Fingers work well too for me ... different strokes for different folks, the sensation is different for each ... one thing I can't abide though, is anything else inside me apart from fingers, cock ... no toys inside for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh tongue please and light use of fingers for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue seems to be winning... Or a bit of both.

Maybe I am meeting the wrong guys!!!

Hmm.... I just find it sloppy!! Or have done....! Anyone care to change my mind Haa xx "
love to, whenever you fancy a tongue teasing meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A firm good licking and fingers inside nice & gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only met 1 guy who could make me cum with his tongue alone

Shame he was married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been meeting the wrong guys if they're useless with their tongues.

I love giving oral to a woman and it definitely works "
I love the tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A firm good licking and fingers inside nice & gentle "
yes!

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"Tongue seems to be winning... Or a bit of both.

Maybe I am meeting the wrong guys!!!

Hmm.... I just find it sloppy!! Or have done....! Anyone care to change my mind Haa xx "

You may be meeting the wrong sex not just the wrong guys!!! Never not had, 'that was the best ever' said to me!!! Cocky?! Nope, just bloody fantastically perceptive of individual needs! And slightly modest?! There was a brill thread a while ago called cunnilingus I think...some good pointers on there! Cunnilingus or similar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem using my tongue and fingers simultaneously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who prefers what?? Personally I'm a fan of the fingers!!!! Makes me so hot! I generally find the guys I've been with have no idea what they're doing with their tongues... (No offence guys) nothing worse than a bad head between legs... Thoughts??? Xx"

Fingers hurt when done wrong.. tongue at least is just lame when done wrong ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to use both but I'm very good with my tongue ??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tongue on my clit please. Love it!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I have to choose between the two it would be tongue. Attached to a lady preferably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use my tongue..been told im quite talented with it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who prefers what?? Personally I'm a fan of the fingers!!!! Makes me so hot! I generally find the guys I've been with have no idea what they're doing with their tongues... (No offence guys) nothing worse than a bad head between legs... Thoughts??? Xx"

Both

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By *ippingrugbyboyMan
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

I like to start with the tongue then finish with both.To get the most out of the lovely ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clit concentrated tongue work with two fingers in pussy and one in the ass seems to do the trick every time."

So tongue and the shocker then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one to brag usually. But I'm gonna lol. A girl I met with earlier this Year, not off fab, nearly killed me whilst I was using my tongue. She clamped her thighs so hard round my head during orgasm I couldn't breath. I tapped out lol. And no this is not one for the stories section before some smart arse pipes up.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Fingers for me. Having a tongue used on me is a bit boring really. Hubby is the only person who's ever made me cum by licking me and no one else does it the way he does.

No, I'll settle for either a nice finger session or being in control of things on my knees, giving the oral instead of receiving it thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of tongue and fingers then receiving a blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm.....I'm not sure tbh, it's hard to beat a good finger, saying that good tongue action sends me OTT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tornado tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tongue seems to be winning... Or a bit of both.

Maybe I am meeting the wrong guys!!!

Hmm.... I just find it sloppy!! Or have done....! Anyone care to change my mind Haa xx "
I'd love to change your mind ;0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm.....I'm not sure tbh, it's hard to beat a good finger, saying that good tongue action sends me OTT.

"

The icing on the muffin is maintaining eye contact at the sametime. ??.... bit of a chin grind to mix it up can add to the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers, definitely.

If I had £1 for every guy who's been convinced he'd be THE ONE orally, I'd be a bloody gazillionaire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both at the same time, a gentle finger though, no ramming

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Both together. Tongue firmly teasing and tasting the clit. Fingers delicately dancing on the G-spot working up to firmer/faster pressure. Measured with the ladies response of course

We both love giving good oral. So sexy seeing a lady get off on what you are doing!

Xxx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Who prefers what?? Personally I'm a fan of the fingers!!!! Makes me so hot! I generally find the guys I've been with have no idea what they're doing with their tongues... (No offence guys) nothing worse than a bad head between legs... Thoughts??? Xx"

I like a mixture of tongue, fingers and both together. With a toy thrown in for good measure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use both, , as all ladies are different and respond to different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who prefers what?? Personally I'm a fan of the fingers!!!! Makes me so hot! I generally find the guys I've been with have no idea what they're doing with their tongues... (No offence guys) nothing worse than a bad head between legs... Thoughts??? Xx"

Use both in a slow motion. Two fingers cupped upwards to stroke the g spot. While slowly licking and kissing the clit in a similar motion.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

If I had to choose one i'd pick tongue. But i'd rather have both at the same time x

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the ladies love my tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me,,hubby has an amazing sucking technique with his mouth whilst working the fingers expertly

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By *laire888Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Both! Tongue on my clit, and a finger (at least!) in each hole.... Mmmmmmm....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like we guys have some work to do. I thought I was pretty good with my tongue with reading the comments, I will start to doubt on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who prefers what?? Personally I'm a fan of the fingers!!!! Makes me so hot! I generally find the guys I've been with have no idea what they're doing with their tongues... (No offence guys) nothing worse than a bad head between legs... Thoughts??? Xx"

I think you haven't met the right guys yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to some of my verifications I'm good with my tongue

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

Definitely the tongue cos I find a lot of guys are too rough with the fingers lol

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By *lue-greenMan
over a year ago

Taunton

My tongue always seems to work. I must be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh both for us. Mr L kisses around that area then gently starts to lick my clit before introducing his fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Tongue to get it Nice a sloppy. Then add the fingers ready to cum

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By *illymint45Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Both definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers in my pussy and tongue in my arse, then switch x

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

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By *ugatits76Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

tongue nice, slow and wet then fingers to make me gush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both I'd always believed I couldn't come through oral alone, was proved wrong recently. Was a pleasant surprise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I know what a tongue can do. But I also have fingers and toys and the rest of my body, so it's never just my tongue for very long.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Tongue and gentle fingers massaging my gspot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do some men really do it that badly ?

I absolutely adore it and been told I've a talented tongue, or maybe that's because I don't shut up "

Maybe I've just had mediocre experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm excellent at both (so I'm told) but much prefer fingering. Frees my mouth up for kissing and sucking and I get a great point of view.... I'm all about the visuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please and now if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both from girls and boys - but gawd his nibs fingers know my body so well im a gonna in no time at all

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By *rs PleasuresWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Both as it's the best feeling ever - for me..

Giving and receiving this, with another lady is an amazing feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do some men really do it that badly ?

I absolutely adore it and been told I've a talented tongue, or maybe that's because I don't shut up

Maybe I've just had mediocre experiences. "

No doubt you've been inundated with offers ? Well I've a free pass to the front gents

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm excellent at both (so I'm told) but much prefer fingering. Frees my mouth up for kissing and sucking and I get a great point of view.... I'm all about the visuals "

Good answer... I think that's why I prefer the fingers!!! ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I seem to be missing a trick with the ladies!!! Thanks for your input girlies xxxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I love using my tongue ..then sliding my fingers in as well hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't I have both? "
Looking at your sexy pics I would happily offer you both Jennij

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me. Unless she has a great big bush then it's fingers only. But if it's trimmed I love to use my tongue an fingers. Love the taste of a woman's wet pussy. Especially love the taste of a woman's sweet cum on my tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me as long as it's clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm excellent at both (so I'm told) but much prefer fingering. Frees my mouth up for kissing and sucking and I get a great point of view.... I'm all about the visuals

Good answer... I think that's why I prefer the fingers!!! ?? "

Which part, the kissing/sucking or the visuals?

I love being able to "watch" and fingering opens up so many possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me please

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By *ixFoot2nFun4UMan
over a year ago

gosport

I like to us both never really have any complaints

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