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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive noticed when some people post a different out the box posting and especially a bareback forum. they seem to get slated with various replies from a broad range of same old same old comments.. is this acceptable?? or do you think forum should be comical, constructive comments, what are your thoughts??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not another bareback debate...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a controversial topic there will be controversy. It's the way of the world.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

It happens. As long as people post within the rules then the OP should know that posting threads like that will get the same comments as always, bareback, cheating, fat/thin etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not another bareback debate...??"

people join the site, are new to the forum every day. so what might seem as another to yourself, no doubt will be new to someone joining the forum for the first time and the thread is generalisation of postings

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If someone posts just to cause controversy, or posts then gets cross when they don't get the replies they want then yes, its tedious.

What's the point of posting when you know what the responses will be? And why advertise your disregard for your own sexual health on a site where the members are having sex with others?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Not another bareback debate...??

people join the site, are new to the forum every day. so what might seem as another to yourself, no doubt will be new to someone joining the forum for the first time and the thread is generalisation of postings"

There's a search function.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone posts just to cause controversy, or posts then gets cross when they don't get the replies they want then yes, its tedious.

What's the point of posting when you know what the responses will be? And why advertise your disregard for your own sexual health on a site where the members are having sex with others?"

or inviting blocks from many? Maybe a bareback post is a sadistic " block me" post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, don't mention haribos in a bareback thread lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not another bareback debate...??

people join the site, are new to the forum every day. so what might seem as another to yourself, no doubt will be new to someone joining the forum for the first time and the thread is generalisation of postings

There's a search function."
very true but hardly it would be used for a fuck kiss avoid

and some dont realise that there is one, when i first used a few weeks back i did not realise you could search previous postings

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Maybe a bareback post is a sadistic " block me" post?"

I think its so they can point and say 'See? Those intolerant swingers aren't as sexually liberated as they think. Only I am liberated, so I will keep posting the same thing over and over.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a controversial topic there will be controversy. It's the way of the world. "

If it's controversial a mod will have the final say and close the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tbh ive not met anyone from the forum, so if they did block or ignore me, it would make no difference,

also i pointed out in thread maybe not clear enough .. for example what might be boring, tedious, oh not another one, will no doubt be refreshing and new to a person just starting to use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a search function....like most websites on the internet...

But lately I have noticed a lot of bareback threads. So, recently, when another was posted, I rolled my eyes. Why? Because if someone who promotes condoms says anything against bareback, they are getting on their "high horse" and when anyone who promotes bareback says such, they get the spiel on STDs.

Its the same old same old, and everyone is discouraged from giving their honest opinions for fear of being contentious. So I roll my eyes...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will always look down on others for their choices when it makes them feel insecure, they're just trying to make themselves feel safe.

I ignore them, they're pretty naive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some people write their threads of a way of attention seeking

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"ive noticed when some people post a different out the box posting and especially a bareback forum. they seem to get slated with various replies from a broad range of same old same old comments.. is this acceptable?? or do you think forum should be comical, constructive comments, what are your thoughts??"

Certain groups of people dislike certain types of posts. I have been Shushed, called a pedant and various other things for trying to discuss the whole BBC term thing ... but, with some persistence, a good debate ensued ... even got through the star signs which I enjoyed and get my weekly forecast now ... I think its a good way to pass the time, learn and discuss things. Not sure if everyone thinks about what or how they post ... or even want a debate. I want to connect with like minded people. So when I debate the use of a term and try to justify the use of it, I do get told to shush by those using the forum to snag a meet. I don't want to meet anyone who can't have a chat, banter and a laugh. I live those threads, but they can be repetitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

"

Don't forget cheats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think some people write their threads of a way of attention seeking"
i have noticed that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

Don't forget cheats "

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By *rtpr7Man
over a year ago

South Ribble

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By *rtpr7Man
over a year ago

South Ribble


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

"

post is well quality innit

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"ive noticed when some people post a different out the box posting and especially a bareback forum. they seem to get slated with various replies from a broad range of same old same old comments.. is this acceptable?? or do you think forum should be comical, constructive comments, what are your thoughts??"

People should be free to write exactly what and how they want (within the limits set by admkn) - that is the whole point of a forum. God forbid that anyone should start dictating how we should respond, be it about bareback or anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

Don't forget cheats "

And also don't forget dogging , and loads of verifications .

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

Don't forget cheats

And also don't forget dogging , and loads of verifications .

"

Or absence of verifications

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Remember this is a forum .where robust discussion and vigorous rebutted strive. Expect feisty feedback. If you can't stand the heat.keep your post in your closet

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If someone posts just to cause controversy, or posts then gets cross when they don't get the replies they want then yes, its tedious.

What's the point of posting when you know what the responses will be? And why advertise your disregard for your own sexual health on a site where the members are having sex with others?"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i think some people write their threads of a way of attention seeking"

Without a doubt. Sometimes I think ahhh, someone's mummy didn't cuddle them enough as they obviously need some attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive noticed when some people post a different out the box posting and especially a bareback forum. they seem to get slated with various replies from a broad range of same old same old comments.. is this acceptable?? or do you think forum should be comical, constructive comments, what are your thoughts??

Certain groups of people dislike certain types of posts. I have been Shushed, called a pedant and various other things for trying to discuss the whole BBC term thing ... but, with some persistence, a good debate ensued ... even got through the star signs which I enjoyed and get my weekly forecast now ... I think its a good way to pass the time, learn and discuss things. Not sure if everyone thinks about what or how they post ... or even want a debate. I want to connect with like minded people. So when I debate the use of a term and try to justify the use of it, I do get told to shush by those using the forum to snag a meet. I don't want to meet anyone who can't have a chat, banter and a laugh. I live those threads, but they can be repetitive. "

Excellent post, life is all about learning; I've done a post slating recruitment agencies, have had loads of responses, some that might seem negative but have learnt to turn them into a positive plus how to deal with agencies too so its all good

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

be proud to bareback

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

Don't forget cheats

And also don't forget dogging , and loads of verifications .

"

And also, don't forget the full stop at the end of every bullet point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

Don't forget cheats

And also don't forget dogging , and loads of verifications .

And also, don't forget the full stop at the end of every bullet point! "

Lol ... I stand corrected

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

No, Bareback is NOT acceptable. Especially anal!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do bareback all the time and can't see anything controversial about it. Mind you we only do it with each other. Bareback with anyone else. Not a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think some people write their threads of a way of attention seeking"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freedom of speach and all as long as its within the rules we can say what we want right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

"

just having an opinion too. Don't agree with something then fair enough, that's why we're all different, if we all agreed on the same things the world would be pretty boring, but probably peaceful too. People just have to accept that others have different opinions and to get over it... I have plenty of debates with people over politics/immigration/globalisation (shudders) etc, yet I still manage to accept their beliefs and remain friends with them.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

BAREBACK is a volatile topic. Must people view it unacceptable.Is like playing the Russian roulette game.Personally I don't subscribe to it . It's a strong view held by majority of folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put people that do bareback in the same category as drink drivers. 8 out of 10 would make it home but 1 might crash and the other might kill someone.

It's also very selfish as these bareback Women obviously don't give a shit that the 'attached' Men they fuck will be going home to fuck their Wives.

It's actually made us think very seriously who we arrange to meet now, as we will not consider anyone that has a shit load of meets or that has pictures showing them fucking bareback.

Oh and we personally would love to know for sure who partakes bareback -so we could avoid them like the plague - but as most won't openly admit it, we will just have to continue with our tactics to catch them out

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"BAREBACK is a volatile topic. Must people view it unacceptable.Is like playing the Russian roulette game.Personally I don't subscribe to it . It's a strong view held by majority of folks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

"

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

bareback......call the police ,stone them,shun them,etc etc ....my thing is adults, choices, own risk, QUESTION when u meet new partner how long do u wait before going bb ???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No condom, no fun, fuck disease, and fuck bareback....up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put people that do bareback in the same category as drink drivers. 8 out of 10 would make it home but 1 might crash and the other might kill someone.

It's also very selfish as these bareback Women obviously don't give a shit that the 'attached' Men they fuck will be going home to fuck their Wives.

It's actually made us think very seriously who we arrange to meet now, as we will not consider anyone that has a shit load of meets or that has pictures showing them fucking bareback.

Oh and we personally would love to know for sure who partakes bareback -so we could avoid them like the plague - but as most won't openly admit it, we will just have to continue with our tactics to catch them out

"

Wow , you must have way too much time on your hands !

We assume every meet has potentially played bare , and take our own health into consideration by applying our own measures to do our best to be safe .

We visit our local gum clinic every six weeks , have both the hep jabs , and so on .

So far so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put people that do bareback in the same category as drink drivers. 8 out of 10 would make it home but 1 might crash and the other might kill someone.

It's also very selfish as these bareback Women obviously don't give a shit that the 'attached' Men they fuck will be going home to fuck their Wives.

It's actually made us think very seriously who we arrange to meet now, as we will not consider anyone that has a shit load of meets or that has pictures showing them fucking bareback.

Oh and we personally would love to know for sure who partakes bareback -so we could avoid them like the plague - but as most won't openly admit it, we will just have to continue with our tactics to catch them out

Wow , you must have way too much time on your hands !

We assume every meet has potentially played bare , and take our own health into consideration by applying our own measures to do our best to be safe .

We visit our local gum clinic every six weeks , have both the hep jabs , and so on .

So far so good "

Wow indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put people that do bareback in the same category as drink drivers. 8 out of 10 would make it home but 1 might crash and the other might kill someone.

It's also very selfish as these bareback Women obviously don't give a shit that the 'attached' Men they fuck will be going home to fuck their Wives.

It's actually made us think very seriously who we arrange to meet now, as we will not consider anyone that has a shit load of meets or that has pictures showing them fucking bareback.

Oh and we personally would love to know for sure who partakes bareback -so we could avoid them like the plague - but as most won't openly admit it, we will just have to continue with our tactics to catch them out

Wow , you must have way too much time on your hands !

We assume every meet has potentially played bare , and take our own health into consideration by applying our own measures to do our best to be safe .

We visit our local gum clinic every six weeks , have both the hep jabs , and so on .

So far so good

Wow indeed "

Why wow indeed ?

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Barebacking is becoming much more common. It is natural sex and real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive noticed when some people post a different out the box posting and especially a bareback forum. they seem to get slated with various replies from a broad range of same old same old comments.. is this acceptable?? or do you think forum should be comical, constructive comments, what are your thoughts??"
I think many threads deserve comical but bareback is a searyarse issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mr) used to be on a fetish site many years back, there are so many kinks out there that do nothing for me but obviously do for others, likewise I'm sure there are things I/we would get up to that others wouldn't. I learned to be less judgmental, if something is not for me I ignore it, move along. Bareback is a risk I wouldn't even consider but it's not my place to condemn those prepared to risk their health.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Barebacking is becoming much more common. It is natural sex and real."

As opposed to wearing a condom being unnatural and unreal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow,i have only just realized that you can't catch an sti from oral sex,this has to be true as most of the people who are against bareback and who slag others off seam to be sucking more than one bare cock in their pictures.my point is, before you slag other people off for what is their choice. think about it then keep your holier than thou fingers from the keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there going to be a mass debate about this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe this keeps getting regurgitated

It's 10 weeks old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have been slated for a lot less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put people that do bareback in the same category as drink drivers. 8 out of 10 would make it home but 1 might crash and the other might kill someone.

It's also very selfish as these bareback Women obviously don't give a shit that the 'attached' Men they fuck will be going home to fuck their Wives.

It's actually made us think very seriously who we arrange to meet now, as we will not consider anyone that has a shit load of meets or that has pictures showing them fucking bareback.

Oh and we personally would love to know for sure who partakes bareback -so we could avoid them like the plague - but as most won't openly admit it, we will just have to continue with our tactics to catch them out

Wow , you must have way too much time on your hands !

We assume every meet has potentially played bare , and take our own health into consideration by applying our own measures to do our best to be safe .

We visit our local gum clinic every six weeks , have both the hep jabs , and so on .

So far so good

Wow indeed

Why wow indeed ?"

Reading this back , I think it may have been not the best way to put our stance !

When I said we take our own measures , I didn't go into any detail on what we actually do on a meet , although I have on many occasions in past posts . So here goes .

For penetrative sex , condom only .

Always mouthwash after oral ( corsodyl )

Stay clean , pee after sex .

Be aware of anything odd regarding a meet - unusual sores , warts , smells . Never go ahead if in doubt , no matter how horny you feel .

Common sense .

Plus as I said the hep jabs , keeping them topped up and regular visits to the gum clinic .

In a nutshell that's us .

It may seem pedantic , but we do play more often than most , and there are still risks no matter how safe you think you play .

We believe that cleanliness and hygiene are a major part of why we have always been and still are sti free . Equally , the fact that we visit the clinic as often as we do means we are constantly aware of the importance of our sexual health in this lifestyle we love .

Hopefully this clears up any confusion which may have arisen from our original post .

So if you play bareback that's cool , just stop messaging us and asking to join you for bareback fun . We enjoy the fun we have way too much to risk that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's risk assessment for me. I recently read a bb thread in the London forums asking for sluts to take loads of cum in their pussy and maybe arse. Anyone putting their name down for that would be off limits to me. I have noticed though that men who have messaged me ,who I later found to attend bb parties or paid gang bangs,didn't excite my mind anyway. I have refused a number of men before talking just because they go to certain parties. It's not fool proof but cuts out some of the risks for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe this keeps getting regurgitated

It's 10 weeks old "

It's an issue that doesn't go away. Plus people can see who is pro bb and message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put people that do bareback in the same category as drink drivers. 8 out of 10 would make it home but 1 might crash and the other might kill someone.

It's also very selfish as these bareback Women obviously don't give a shit that the 'attached' Men they fuck will be going home to fuck their Wives.

It's actually made us think very seriously who we arrange to meet now, as we will not consider anyone that has a shit load of meets or that has pictures showing them fucking bareback.

Oh and we personally would love to know for sure who partakes bareback -so we could avoid them like the plague - but as most won't openly admit it, we will just have to continue with our tactics to catch them out

Wow , you must have way too much time on your hands !

We assume every meet has potentially played bare , and take our own health into consideration by applying our own measures to do our best to be safe .

We visit our local gum clinic every six weeks , have both the hep jabs , and so on .

So far so good

Wow indeed

Why wow indeed ?

Reading this back , I think it may have been not the best way to put our stance !

When I said we take our own measures , I didn't go into any detail on what we actually do on a meet , although I have on many occasions in past posts . So here goes .

For penetrative sex , condom only .

Always mouthwash after oral ( corsodyl )

Stay clean , pee after sex .

Be aware of anything odd regarding a meet - unusual sores , warts , smells . Never go ahead if in doubt , no matter how horny you feel .

Common sense .

Plus as I said the hep jabs , keeping them topped up and regular visits to the gum clinic .

In a nutshell that's us .

It may seem pedantic , but we do play more often than most , and there are still risks no matter how safe you think you play .

We believe that cleanliness and hygiene are a major part of why we have always been and still are sti free . Equally , the fact that we visit the clinic as often as we do means we are constantly aware of the importance of our sexual health in this lifestyle we love .

Hopefully this clears up any confusion which may have arisen from our original post .

So if you play bareback that's cool , just stop messaging us and asking to join you for bareback fun . We enjoy the fun we have way too much to risk that "
i don't bare back and have turned down sex when asked , that's just me though

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By *aughtyHOTWifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Bath

A valid point, Funny how Some people on here slate this as a 'here we go again' subject, they really should just pass on by unless willing to add constructive comments along with those new to discussing bareback sex.

Perhaps FABB profile options should expand the safe sex tick box to show Oral, Vaginal & Anal bareback yes/no in detail, At least you will have a better idea of the candy on offer before popping it in your mouth 'so to speak'.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"If someone posts just to cause controversy, or posts then gets cross when they don't get the replies they want then yes, its tedious.

What's the point of posting when you know what the responses will be? And why advertise your disregard for your own sexual health on a site where the members are having sex with others?"

Agree ..... end of ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A valid point, Funny how Some people on here slate this as a 'here we go again' subject, they really should just pass on by unless willing to add constructive comments along with those new to discussing bareback sex.

Perhaps FABB profile options should expand the safe sex tick box to show Oral, Vaginal & Anal bareback yes/no in detail, At least you will have a better idea of the candy on offer before popping it in your mouth 'so to speak'.

"

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's risk assessment for me. I recently read a bb thread in the London forums asking for sluts to take loads of cum in their pussy and maybe arse. Anyone putting their name down for that would be off limits to me. I have noticed though that men who have messaged me ,who I later found to attend bb parties or paid gang bangs,didn't excite my mind anyway. I have refused a number of men before talking just because they go to certain parties. It's not fool proof but cuts out some of the risks for me. "
isn't corsodyl so godamn expensive nearly £5 a pop do you buy it in bulk ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's risk assessment for me. I recently read a bb thread in the London forums asking for sluts to take loads of cum in their pussy and maybe arse. Anyone putting their name down for that would be off limits to me. I have noticed though that men who have messaged me ,who I later found to attend bb parties or paid gang bangs,didn't excite my mind anyway. I have refused a number of men before talking just because they go to certain parties. It's not fool proof but cuts out some of the risks for me. isn't corsodyl so godamn expensive nearly £5 a pop do you buy it in bulk ? "

I use Hydrochloric acid,I can use it on my vagina too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's risk assessment for me. I recently read a bb thread in the London forums asking for sluts to take loads of cum in their pussy and maybe arse. Anyone putting their name down for that would be off limits to me. I have noticed though that men who have messaged me ,who I later found to attend bb parties or paid gang bangs,didn't excite my mind anyway. I have refused a number of men before talking just because they go to certain parties. It's not fool proof but cuts out some of the risks for me. isn't corsodyl so godamn expensive nearly £5 a pop do you buy it in bulk ? "

Actually we do , but it's a small price to pay

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Have seen a fair few bareback threads over the years and they've always resulted in outrage. I've long suspected that outrage is more to do with making themselves look more appealing to others rather than their being any genuine outrage. Oh look how safe I am, meet me instead of this other person. Maybe bareback is silly but each to their own IMO, for such a liberal lifestyle there ain't half some judgemental folk in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's risk assessment for me. I recently read a bb thread in the London forums asking for sluts to take loads of cum in their pussy and maybe arse. Anyone putting their name down for that would be off limits to me. I have noticed though that men who have messaged me ,who I later found to attend bb parties or paid gang bangs,didn't excite my mind anyway. I have refused a number of men before talking just because they go to certain parties. It's not fool proof but cuts out some of the risks for me. isn't corsodyl so godamn expensive nearly £5 a pop do you buy it in bulk ?

I use Hydrochloric acid,I can use it on my vagina too "
you're a loose fit then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a stag do earlier this year and a younger lad who was with us was taking a girl back to his room, I offered him a condom, His response was "No one wear's condoms these day's"

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Barebacking is becoming much more common. It is natural sex and real."

and the sti's that come along with it are very "real" as well...... just a shame the drugs you need to treat them aren't very natural....

at the end of the day it is about risk management.... because at the end of the day, to only one who can look after your health is you......

analogy time......

its a lot safer to cross a road when the green man is on at a zebra crossing, than it is at a 6 lane motorway..... but if you want to cross at a motorway then be my guess.....

doesn't mean the zebra crossing is fullproof.... or the six lane motorway is instant death.... but you at the end judge that risk....

statistically i can guess which one i do on a regular basis is likely to increase my life expentancy

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"

statistically i can guess which one i do on a regular basis is likely to increase my life expentancy"

Neither. But the zebra crossing is less likely to reduce your life expectancy.

*Post brought to you from the Department of Fab Pedantry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

barebacking on a casual sex site is pretty dumb

so you are always gonna get alot more negs posting about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a forum so people can post whatever they like to a certain degree but everybody is entitled to an opinion aswell

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Yes I noticed this trend on fab forum.As for Bareback as a thread. Is a controversial topic. I don't subscribe to it.i won't endorsed the practice. But I won't insult the op because he or she posted such a topic. No matter how shallow and daft the topic may be..Again criticising a topic is not an insult.So bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to learn that on this site there are certain things that will get you instantly vilified. They include:

Bareback posts

Spelling mistakes

Incorrect grammar

Text speak

Having preferences

Disagreeing with 'the crowd'

Steer well clear of these and you should be OK!

"

I couldn't agree more with this!

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

I feel we need to get the elf&safety people involved here......or the union....lets call an all out strike

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I get certed roughly every 3 weeks so my certs stay within the 28 day period, i only have BB with other certed people for work purposes who have also been tested on a regular basis, when swinging its condoms only with uncerted people as the risks are not worth it.

I have been in the adult industry for years but me & Kim have never had a single STD, no one can be safe when it comes to sex but we can try to cut down on the the risks by being tested regular & having your Hep A & B jabs.

Having unprotected oral sex can be dangerous but all of us do this quite freely without worry for some reason, you access the people you meet & take it from there as its not only your life but the life of others you are playing with.

More & more people are getting tested on a semi regular basis which may not be perfect but its better than nothing.

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Barebacking is becoming much more common. It is natural sex and real.

As opposed to wearing a condom being unnatural and unreal ?

"

Obviously

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