Flirting etiquette

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone.

I'm fairly new to this and have been on a couple of social meets and had a great time, but am just wondering what the etiquette is about flirting with the other couples partner if there is to be no swap involved, just same room fun with own partners.

Any advise appreciated and apologies if it's a dumb question xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone.

Any advise appreciated and apologies if it's a dumb question xx"

If it's just same room fun with own partners, is there a need to flirt with the others' partner?

Are you looking to meet the other couple again at some point and swap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh now that's a tough one!

If it's no swapping at all then the extent of flirting is a minefield, the best bet would be to discuss boundaries with the other couple.

They might be dead set against no touching at all, or not even want any flirting at all. You won't know unless you ask them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Even if there isn't any swapping, I think a bit of flirting would make it more relaxed and enable a certain bonding, but that's just my opinion.

Thanks for the advise. I guess asking, but then that's not very spontaneous.

It's all a learning curve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking is surely better than accidentally over stepping the line.

Good luck with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes very true, thank you x

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