FabSwingers.com forum: Recent Turn Offs

By *erotic_adventure OP Man
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

What turn off(s) spring to mind for you recently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing the X factor is back on telly. Guaranteed telly turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An extremely hairy pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A totally shaved pubic area on a man.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Asking me stupid questions that are answered in my profile anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked.

This"

Surely nothing guaranteed until performed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When men keep asking for pics...yawn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who say they are straight but fuck tvs

Nothing against tvs tho

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

A woman wearing slippers & dressing gown on our 3rd (and final) meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked.

This

Surely nothing guaranteed until performed?"

Goes from polite and friendly to entitled. Hate it. Someone i've been flirting with for weeks recently joined fab and found out i'm on here and now he's the same. Spoils it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of men with their tongues hanging out.

No idea why but I really fucking hate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women that love football!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who think they're hilarious for pulling a stupid face in their photos.

Manky toenails visible in cock pics.

Asking about anal.

Asking if I 'squirt'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking if we meet outside the club, when it's written all over our profike that we do! X

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

"Guys who say they are straight but fuck tvs

Nothing against tvs tho"

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Men messaging to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your point! Love to be ur friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your point! Love to be ur friend

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The avatar above!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beards

Same word for word copy and paste message sent 4-5 times

Men who say your loss when you say no

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

When men start to talk dirty on here when you have been chatting for a while you can tell there tugging there little willy and getting off on it wankers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called Hun!!! Noooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked."

So people really use this as a social platform?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Men dancing !..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked.

So people really use this as a social platform?"

Some are. I have some friends on here but i'm mainly here for a good fuck.

When people presume it's really off putting. It's their attitude to me that pisses me off. All of a sudden i'm just some object and not a person. Doesn't happen often but when it does i hate it. You should see one guys messages, i just ignored him while i was on skype chatting to someone, when i come back on here he's sent loads of messages saying what 'he wants to do to me', all of them involve him being selfish AND i haven't even spoken to him to let him know i'm even interested. Sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked.

So people really use this as a social platform?

Some are. I have some friends on here but i'm mainly here for a good fuck.

True I have made what I would call buddies not social friends and I can understand if there perception of you is a play thing you being pissed with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women that love football!

Why is that a turn off? I love football!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked.

So people really use this as a social platform?

Some are. I have some friends on here but i'm mainly here for a good fuck.

True I have made what I would call buddies not social friends and I can understand if there perception of you is a play thing you being pissed with them "

No-one i've fucked speaks to me like that, even if we play like that lol. No this is just some random guy, decides he wants servicing and i'm the one to do it. Blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called Hun!!! Noooooooo

I specify in my profile that I absolutely won't reply to anyone using hun or similar. That's how much I hate it

Other than that, I lose interest instantly if someone asks why I haven't replied fast enough, if something's wrong. One guy recently saw I'd read his first message and gave me all of 10 minutes to reply before messaging again to ask what was up. Incredibly unappealing behaviour.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Being called Hun!!! Noooooooo

I specify in my profile that I absolutely won't reply to anyone using hun or similar. That's how much I hate it

Well at least he waited to see if you'd read it I had one guy message me 4 times in 10 minutes before I'd even got a chance to read any, blocked him without reading any of them for sheer desperation

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Pictures of men with their tongues hanging out.

No idea why but I really fucking hate them

#shudders

I'm with you on that one!

Men who decide to send action shots of recent meets whilst you're chatting - why do I want to see some random woman getting a facial when we're talking about a one on one meet?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called Hun!!! Noooooooo

I specify in my profile that I absolutely won't reply to anyone using hun or similar. That's how much I hate it

Well at least he waited to see if you'd read it I had one guy message me 4 times in 10 minutes before I'd even got a chance to read any, blocked him without reading any of them for sheer desperation "

That's bad. I don't understand how they don't realise that desperation is a total turn off.

I NEVER message someone when it's their "turn" to message. I assume they're not interested and forget about them. I'm chasing no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who insist you are shaven but carry more hair than a silverback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the comment about men thinking I am going to fuck them because I replied to their message.

Anyone with 'Bull' or 'Breeder' etc on their profile.

Men using props to show how big their cock is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys who say they are straight but fuck tvs

Nothing against tvs tho"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called Hun!!! Noooooooo

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked.

So people really use this as a social platform?

Some are. I have some friends on here but i'm mainly here for a good fuck.

True I have made what I would call buddies not social friends and I can understand if there perception of you is a play thing you being pissed with them

No-one i've fucked speaks to me like that, even if we play like that lol. No this is just some random guy, decides he wants servicing and i'm the one to do it. Blocked him."

Hate people that don't play the game. Utter turn off.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Being called Hun!!! Noooooooo

This!!!

I don't mind Hun or love afterall I'm a Yorkshire bird they're our go to terms of endearment but I can't stand Babes or baby and none of the above are any terms I'd use Until I actually know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, lack of honesty, bad hygeine, bad manners and time wasting when you know they don't want to meet.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"For me, lack of honesty, bad hygeine, bad manners and time wasting when you know they don't want to meet."

If you have figured out you know they don't want to meet and it annoys you why are you still messaging them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A huge turn off me is a women feeling entitled because you've had a social. I politely declined at a social and she said well we've come all this don't you want to fuck me anyway. No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called Hun!!! Noooooooo

This!!!

I don't mind Hun or love afterall I'm a Yorkshire bird they're our go to terms of endearment but I can't stand Babes or baby and none of the above are any terms I'd use Until I actually know someone "

I used to work with a women who used it with every sentence to me, I really can't stand the word now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, lack of honesty, bad hygeine, bad manners and time wasting when you know they don't want to meet.

If you have figured out you know they don't want to meet and it annoys you why are you still messaging them? "

I meant they say they do want to meet, but you get that feeling they won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When i start chatting to a guy, coz i like the look of him, then he starts acting like i'm a guaranteed fuck.

Blocked."

I have the same trouble with women don't they realise desperation is so off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"For me, lack of honesty, bad hygeine, bad manners and time wasting when you know they don't want to meet.

If you have figured out you know they don't want to meet and it annoys you why are you still messaging them?

I meant they say they do want to meet, but you get that feeling they won't.

So again why stay in contact? As if they intend to meet its not time wasting is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who refer to themselves as my master in the first message

Men who ask what I'm doing, wearing etc before we've even introduced!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, lack of honesty, bad hygeine, bad manners and time wasting when you know they don't want to meet.

If you have figured out you know they don't want to meet and it annoys you why are you still messaging them?

I meant they say they do want to meet, but you get that feeling they won't.

So again why stay in contact? As if they intend to meet its not time wasting is it? "

Because they say they want to meet but never do, being a single guy on here I live in hope they are genuine.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Women who obsess way to much with shaving. Why is hair such a terrible thing?!

Women who always put themselves down. Self confidence is king. Having constant digs at yourself and how you look is a real turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive. "

What does that mean, a man whore in public? *curious*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive.

What does that mean, a man whore in public? *curious*"

Flirting with every Rita, Sue and Jane especially in the forums, I find it off putting personally. That's where the word man whore comes from, from me.

Obviously people flirt etc, but o don't feel the need to plaster it in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message a couple of days ago, daddy is looking for his naughty little girl.

*vomit*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men who insist you are shaven but carry more hair than a silverback "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand over familiarity ..

When men I have never met talk to me like they think they know me just to get into my knickers gets them an instant blovk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Knowing the X factor is back on telly. Guaranteed telly turn off"
yes I hate it to subjecting young people to disappointment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages that read like manuals -

Man

Non pushy

VWE

Discreet

Loves eating pussy

Yawn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned needy people who send a load of messages before you can reply or that beg and whine when say can't meet. Not reading the profile as well.....if you want to do an intimate act like having sex with somebody the least you could do is find out something about them before contacting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures of men with their tongues hanging out.

No idea why but I really fucking hate them

I dislike these pics too.

I can never decide if they think they look cheeky or showing what they have to use to pleasure a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything at the moment it would seem.

If I was to do a search for local men in my age range who can accommodate, I can guarantee I'd be put off by every single one of them.

Be it lack of a profile, bad photos, or the way they sell themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive.

What does that mean, a man whore in public? *curious*

Flirting with every Rita, Sue and Jane especially in the forums, I find it off putting personally. That's where the word man whore comes from, from me.

Obviously people flirt etc, but o don't feel the need to plaster it in public. "

Ah, I see! I haven't been on the forums long enough to see this much, but I'm sure it won't be long until I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive.

What does that mean, a man whore in public? *curious*

Flirting with every Rita, Sue and Jane especially in the forums, I find it off putting personally. That's where the word man whore comes from, from me.

Obviously people flirt etc, but o don't feel the need to plaster it in public.

Ah, I see! I haven't been on the forums long enough to see this much, but I'm sure it won't be long until I do "

You will soon enough :-

Welcome by the way

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"For me, lack of honesty, bad hygeine, bad manners and time wasting when you know they don't want to meet.

If you have figured out you know they don't want to meet and it annoys you why are you still messaging them?

I meant they say they do want to meet, but you get that feeling they won't.

So again why stay in contact? As if they intend to meet its not time wasting is it?

Because they say they want to meet but never do, being a single guy on here I live in hope they are genuine."
yes I understand that but do you cease contact when you realise otherwise your wasting your own time really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive.

What does that mean, a man whore in public? *curious*

Flirting with every Rita, Sue and Jane especially in the forums, I find it off putting personally. That's where the word man whore comes from, from me.

Obviously people flirt etc, but o don't feel the need to plaster it in public.

Ah, I see! I haven't been on the forums long enough to see this much, but I'm sure it won't be long until I do

You will soon enough :-

Welcome by the way

Thank you for the welcome, it's appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loud non players in clubs who clearly go for the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive.

What does that mean, a man whore in public? *curious*

Flirting with every Rita, Sue and Jane especially in the forums, I find it off putting personally. That's where the word man whore comes from, from me.

Obviously people flirt etc, but o don't feel the need to plaster it in public. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A huge turn off me is a women feeling entitled because you've had a social. I politely declined at a social and she said well we've come all this don't you want to fuck me anyway. No!"

But I was gagging for a shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feet yuk sorry but yuk noooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A huge turn off me is a women feeling entitled because you've had a social. I politely declined at a social and she said well we've come all this don't you want to fuck me anyway. No!

But I was gagging for a shagging

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hehe hey honesty is best policy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF !!!!! Have to agree I've never seen such horrible pics , so much hair christ !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of honesty, time wasting and just generally being a man whore in public. Not attractive.

What does that mean, a man whore in public? *curious*

Flirting with every Rita, Sue and Jane especially in the forums, I find it off putting personally. That's where the word man whore comes from, from me.

Obviously people flirt etc, but o don't feel the need to plaster it in public.

Ah, I see! I haven't been on the forums long enough to see this much, but I'm sure it won't be long until I do "

I'm naturally flirty and like seeing flirting as well, but i feel a bit sad when 2 people are flirting in a thread and then on of those starts flirting with someone else...idk how the other person being flirted with would feel, maybe they don't care and just take it as banter and i bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning on forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys who say they are straight but fuck tvs

Nothing against tvs tho

Good to see the ladies notice this not just us guys

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over a year ago

"For me, lack of honesty, bad hygeine, bad manners and time wasting when you know they don't want to meet.

If you have figured out you know they don't want to meet and it annoys you why are you still messaging them?

I meant they say they do want to meet, but you get that feeling they won't.

So again why stay in contact? As if they intend to meet its not time wasting is it?

Because they say they want to meet but never do, being a single guy on here I live in hope they are genuine. yes I understand that but do you cease contact when you realise otherwise your wasting your own time really "

Yes once I'm sure they're timewasters I politely move away as it gets so frustrating.

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