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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ever since I was in my late teens the trend of anal became increasingly more popular...and it then became a Louty 'lads' jeer as in..

."whaay did you stick it up her arse maaayyte"

I've no doubt some men and women enjoy it but for me....well...it's just too close to actually bumming someone...I mean it's your actual waste pipe!!! Has it just become a completely overblown taboo trend..

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"ever since I was in my late teens the trend of anal became increasingly more popular...and it then became a Louty 'lads' jeer as in..

."whaay did you stick it up her arse maaayyte"

I've no doubt some men and women enjoy it but for me....well...it's just too close to actually bumming someone...I mean it's your actual waste pipe!!! Has it just become a completely overblown taboo trend.."

Different strokes for different folks....if you don't like it, don't do it! It's not compulsory!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" but for me....well...it's just too close to actually bumming someone..."

So what's bumming someone then if it isnt anal?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Has it become compulsory?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is no one actually reading the last line that asks the basis of a question????

Who mentioned compulsory...???

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ooo thats us told off then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people enjoy it why shouldn't they do it?

What one person considers taboo is normal to another.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It's obviously still taboo if people find it distasteful but, like most taboos, some people enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anal is a trend, per se. A trend is a beard right now, or a Hollywood wax. Anal has been popular since Roman times so your laddish types are a bit behind the times!

I personally don't care for it, although I have done it, and not many men have requested it so maybe it's mainly bravado than an every day occurrence?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think anal is a trend, per se. A trend is a beard right now, or a Hollywood wax. Anal has been popular since Roman times so your laddish types are a bit behind the times!

I personally don't care for it, although I have done it, and not many men have requested it so maybe it's mainly bravado than an every day occurrence? "

Eloquently put.....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be grossed out by the idea but I was convinced to try it and I was surprised how much I enjoyed it. I guess it's cause it feels so naughty.

But I like pain so I'm a kinky fucker anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mind blowingly awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the pain factor from anal and each to their own i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ever since I was in my late teens the trend of anal became increasingly more popular...and it then became a Louty 'lads' jeer as in..

."whaay did you stick it up her arse maaayyte"

I've no doubt some men and women enjoy it but for me....well...it's just too close to actually bumming someone...I mean it's your actual waste pipe!!! Has it just become a completely overblown taboo trend.."

I'm not really qualified to answer your last question.

But it seems to have become almost mainstream x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some people write their threads of a way of attention seeking

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Up the bum, no harm done

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"ever since I was in my late teens the trend of anal became increasingly more popular...and it then became a Louty 'lads' jeer as in..

."whaay did you stick it up her arse maaayyte"

I've no doubt some men and women enjoy it but for me....well...it's just too close to actually bumming someone...I mean it's your actual waste pipe!!! Has it just become a completely overblown taboo trend.."

My advice is that you don't let the guys have anal sex with you; I don't think you are ready for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok to explore the subject a little deeper (pun intended)...for those who regularly indulge, do you give yourself an enema beforehand? What's the etiquette??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not given it yet but it's on my wish list eventually

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Ok to explore the subject a little deeper (pun intended)...for those who regularly indulge, do you give yourself an enema beforehand? What's the etiquette??"

Garden hose on a pressure limiting valve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it at ladish or bravado.. its more about pleasure and sensory.

A prostate orgasm for men is much more intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love a good bit of hard anal with male and female and fuck it i love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think some people write their threads of a way of attention seeking"

Now now grumpy...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"i think some people write their threads of a way of attention seeking

Now now grumpy..."

Come on now; she does have a point there and you know it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I certainly enjoy both giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not given it yet but it's on my wish list eventually "

How about taking?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Ok to explore the subject a little deeper (pun intended)...for those who regularly indulge, do you give yourself an enema beforehand? What's the etiquette??"

I bought a douche from bondara, but you can also get showerhead attachments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would actually but only from a lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ scarlet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ scarlet "

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

One way street...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"@ scarlet

"

Get yer strap on, you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I hear about laddish bravado regarding sex all I can think of is jay from the inbetweeners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ scarlet

Get yer strap on, you've pulled "

I wear it all the time. You just never know when it might come in handy.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"@ scarlet

Get yer strap on, you've pulled

I wear it all the time. You just never know when it might come in handy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ever since I was in my late teens the trend of anal became increasingly more popular...and it then became a Louty 'lads' jeer as in..

."whaay did you stick it up her arse maaayyte"

I've no doubt some men and women enjoy it but for me....well...it's just too close to actually bumming someone...I mean it's your actual waste pipe!!! Has it just become a completely overblown taboo trend.."

Hate it....too painful...and just feels like you need a poo..i believe it is an overblown taboo...but thats just my humble opinon..v.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's an odd one.

I shag lads and lasses, I'm well acquainted with the human backside.

I must say that sex with women is physically easier - you have this handy thing called a vagina that's almost like it was made for it.

Arse fucking, on the other hand, takes far more time and can be an annoyingly messy thing.

Still fun. But pussy's much easier.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"Ok to explore the subject a little deeper (pun intended)...for those who regularly indulge, do you give yourself an enema beforehand? What's the etiquette??

I bought a douche from bondara, but you can also get showerhead attachments "

my shower head is fixed to the wall 6 1/2ft up the wall- how the feck do i get my arse up there without step ladders?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my late teens I suppose I saw it as a laddish bravado. However, since wanting to experiment and explore more I've seen it as more of an enhancement and secondary pleasure of both women and men are willing.

As with any taboo, it is to your taste or not. Nevertheless, there is no need to point and accuse per se.

On the other hand, I recently found my self on my knees sucking a thick cock before taking it. If you are relaxed it isn't painful I find.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Ok to explore the subject a little deeper (pun intended)...for those who regularly indulge, do you give yourself an enema beforehand? What's the etiquette??

I bought a douche from bondara, but you can also get showerhead attachments

my shower head is fixed to the wall 6 1/2ft up the wall- how the feck do i get my arse up there without step ladders? "

You need one of those detachable metal hose type ones I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a fan of being done up bournville lane but me doing a man...thats a whole different ball game..i love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the 80s shaving your minge was almost unheard of and anyone who did it was well kinky. Anal was for gay men or the really sick people who weren't all there. Unfortunately I married a man who thought anal was for gay men and he didn't want to feel he was bumming someone. Almost every man I have met has wanted anal. Some say it's because it's tight (maybe I have a bucket fanny?); some say it's because it's really naughty; some like filling all orifices; some say it's a power thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And did you like it or just do it too please


"Back in the 80s shaving your minge was almost unheard of and anyone who did it was well kinky. Anal was for gay men or the really sick people who weren't all there. Unfortunately I married a man who thought anal was for gay men and he didn't want to feel he was bumming someone. Almost every man I have met has wanted anal. Some say it's because it's tight (maybe I have a bucket fanny?); some say it's because it's really naughty; some like filling all orifices; some say it's a power thing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And did you like it or just do it too please

Back in the 80s shaving your minge was almost unheard of and anyone who did it was well kinky. Anal was for gay men or the really sick people who weren't all there. Unfortunately I married a man who thought anal was for gay men and he didn't want to feel he was bumming someone. Almost every man I have met has wanted anal. Some say it's because it's tight (maybe I have a bucket fanny?); some say it's because it's really naughty; some like filling all orifices; some say it's a power thing. "

I never said they got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's seen as a sign of dominance and control , also punishment for me anyways ..

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Back in the 80s shaving your minge was almost unheard of and anyone who did it was well kinky. Anal was for gay men or the really sick people who weren't all there."

Very true, I think it is much more accepted these days as something anyone may or may not want to try.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Personally I like female who is into anal.i like variety of different sex, anal is one of it. You need to display calmness when it comes to anal fun.Trust is the key.make sure the female in question need to be in relaxed state

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ scarlet

Get yer strap on, you've pulled

I wear it all the time. You just never know when it might come in handy. "

Where do I sign up

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"And did you like it or just do it too please

Back in the 80s shaving your minge was almost unheard of and anyone who did it was well kinky. Anal was for gay men or the really sick people who weren't all there. Unfortunately I married a man who thought anal was for gay men and he didn't want to feel he was bumming someone. Almost every man I have met has wanted anal. Some say it's because it's tight (maybe I have a bucket fanny?); some say it's because it's really naughty; some like filling all orifices; some say it's a power thing.

I never said they got it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an acquired taste that's for sure.

I'm guessing the men who do like to perform it, enjoy it because it's classed as taboo and a lot tighter than a pussy and a lot naughtier.

I can only answer why I enjoy it (with certain people and only on occasion)

I only enjoy it if I'm extremely turned on and I really enjoy the person I'm fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an acquired taste that's for sure.

I'm guessing the men who do like to perform it, enjoy it because it's classed as taboo and a lot tighter than a pussy and a lot naughtier.

I can only answer why I enjoy it (with certain people and only on occasion)

I only enjoy it if I'm extremely turned on and I really enjoy the person I'm fucking. "

Exactly this , I didn't do it until meeting my husband . We don't do it all the time but from the first time it was so intense , and such a huge orgasm . I don't do it on meets though , just with my husband as I have to be in that special place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an acquired taste that's for sure.

I'm guessing the men who do like to perform it, enjoy it because it's classed as taboo and a lot tighter than a pussy and a lot naughtier.

I can only answer why I enjoy it (with certain people and only on occasion)

I only enjoy it if I'm extremely turned on and I really enjoy the person I'm fucking.

Exactly this , I didn't do it until meeting my husband . We don't do it all the time but from the first time it was so intense , and such a huge orgasm . I don't do it on meets though , just with my husband as I have to be in that special place "

Agreed, that special place, with someone you have got to know and trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ scarlet

Get yer strap on, you've pulled

I wear it all the time. You just never know when it might come in handy.

Where do I sign up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my thing.

Witnessing a repaired rectal prolapse torn open because a husband thought that anal sex was an expected part of normal sex, put me off the idea for life!

Xxx

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By *orshamcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

Mr C introduced me to it and I didn't think I would like it. Soon realised it can feel great and I can have some amazing orgasms from it.

We don't do it too often, but it's a nice naughty treat. I find it I'm in the mood for his tongue or fingers up there then it often leads to me wanting his cock buried to the hilt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ever since I was in my late teens the trend of anal became increasingly more popular...and it then became a Louty 'lads' jeer as in..

."whaay did you stick it up her arse maaayyte"

I've no doubt some men and women enjoy it but for me....well...it's just too close to actually bumming someone...I mean it's your actual waste pipe!!! Has it just become a completely overblown taboo trend.."
it has become a trend everything does tattoos anal bald heads beards smooth etc I like anal because its tight but only for that reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember guys, if your gf won't do anal, cum and see one of us sissy TVs. We never say no

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