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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well iv been on here a couple of weeks now and am wondering how i am meant to actually get a meet lol seemingly most of the couples profiles are men and the woman profiles just ignore lmao

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Your profile says you've been on before. Just do what you did then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your profile more intresting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well iv been on here a couple of weeks now and am wondering how i am meant to actually get a meet lol seemingly most of the couples profiles are men and the woman profiles just ignore lmao "

I feel for you dude, but these kind of forum posts never end well.....

My advice be patient, go to a club and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems alot harder now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're cheating on someone then many people won't wanna meet you.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"Well iv been on here a couple of weeks now and am wondering how i am meant to actually get a meet lol seemingly most of the couples profiles are men and the woman profiles just ignore lmao

I feel for you dude, but these kind of forum posts never end well.....

My advice be patient, go to a club and take it from there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have only been here 2 weeks lol patience now I have the guns N Roses song in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't state anywhere that he is cheating or have I missed summit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're cheating on someone then many people won't wanna meet you."

Agreed! I wouldn't meet someone cheating on their partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're cheating on someone then many people won't wanna meet you.

Agreed! I wouldn't meet someone cheating on their partner"

These comments are pretty pointless when it doesn't say anywhere that he is cheating..... have I mis-read some where??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're cheating on someone then many people won't wanna meet you.

Agreed! I wouldn't meet someone cheating on their partner"

I am not cheating or is there something even i dont know lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're cheating on someone then many people won't wanna meet you.

Agreed! I wouldn't meet someone cheating on their partner

I am not cheating or is there something even i dont know lmao "

Pmsl xx

There is 100 of profiles on here you have to make yours stand out a little xxx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

In the 27 words that I read, I could find no evidence of any cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're cheating on someone then many people won't wanna meet you.

Agreed! I wouldn't meet someone cheating on their partner

I am not cheating or is there something even i dont know lmao "

Fair enough. Just got that impression from your profile. And that it is the first reason why i'd ignore any message from you.

I automatically ignore men if i don't know what they look like, so send pics in messages if you don't want them on their page. Loads of guys have good pics up so we can tell what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the 27 words that I read, I could find no evidence of any cheating "

I hope this isn't the infamous Chilcot enquiry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know he doesn't say it, but not being funny i've been around a long time and know there are liars on the internet and i have an idea now who is cheating on a partner and who isn't.

His profile gives me that impression.

He says he isn't, i'll not accuse him any further.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

That's better OP, but perhaps explain why you can't accom ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's better OP, but perhaps explain why you can't accom ?"

Might live in shared accommodation, live with parents, have kids living there there is a number of reasons why people can not accommodate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's better as well, makes me less suspicious anyway.

Good luck.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

There are good clubs in the north west area that give you the opportunity to meet many people on this scene up there and visit some with a social point of view and take anything else that may happen as a bonus

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By *CoastFunMan
over a year ago

Southampron

Luck has a big part to do with it. You also need thick skin to take all the rejection you'll get on your journey to getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club. Go to socials. M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds boring and all the lol are very teenage laddish.

Also remove the comment about cheating. It makes you look like you are. You don't need to explain if you can accommodate or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make your profile stand out from the crowd, use some tasteful photo's, message people you are compatible with and make your messages interesting and worth replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I personally can't imagine that anyone would show an interest in a profile without any pictures. When we look at a profile, we like to get an idea of body size/shape. Without this we'd just move on. There's no shortage of profiles to look at.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can try all of the tips mentioned by people here,as I have done at one point or another over the years.it still won't get you much luck.99%of the woman on here seem to delete or ignore messages to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is my advice. Take it or leave it:

-Add public pictures. They don't need to be face pics, but add something that shows your body. I don't even talk to shadow profiles, regardless of what is in their message or if they send pics with it. You may not be cheating, but zero public pics makes me feel like you are.

-Write a profile with more personality.

-Think about what you are sending in your messages. It doesn't have to be War and Peace, but it shouldn't be "Hi"

-Go to clubs and parties. It is far easier to meet people there, especially if you have no pics on your profile.

In the end you need to do what represents you. If that is a picture-less profile, who can't accommodate, and says very little about himself, then so be it. As many on the forums say, you get out what you put in.

I wish you the best of luck.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP there are hundreds of men on here so you need to stand out. And to be blunt you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I joined fab first time in 2011 I found meets were very possible with fems and cpls and had approx 10-15 meets that year so was very happy, however since rejoining I'm finding it not so easy, I guess being a single guy is the toughest market on here, for a start the volume of us means fems and cpls can be more selective, and looks like a good proportion have 6 packs and/or vwe, so being a normal build and very avg cock size its tougher before you even get the chance to chat, I guess just keep trying or get to a club (although not been brave enough to do this myself).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make your profile more intresting xx"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put up pics, if we got a message from someone with no pics its an immediate delete...

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