FabSwingers.com forum: safe sex is not really enjoyable

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Condoms ruin the sensation for me. Women always prefer natural fucking with a sticky climax. So called safe group sex is ridiculous as impossible to keep sperm out of the womans pussy as all the guys cum and slip on another condom. If you are going to have GB or multiple men fucking a woman or two the risk of STD is real or HIV.

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Condoms ruin the sensation for me. Women always prefer natural fucking with a sticky climax. So called safe group sex is ridiculous as impossible to keep sperm out of the womans pussy as all the guys cum and slip on another condom. If you are going to have GB or multiple men fucking a woman or two the risk of STD is real or HIV.

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

Women always prefer natural sex with a sticky ending? Really? Not with any man that is not a long term partner, and certainly not with guys that are happy to do that with every woman they fuck.

Each to their own but definitely not for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it Groundhog Day?

You're right, there's nothing quite like the feeling of uncovered sex with a trusted and safe partner. The warmth and wetness directly on your skin

But I'm not going around doing it with randomers on the swinging scene. Can I be the first to use the phrase 'Russian Roulette' on this thread?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Well many people don't call it "safe sex" anymore, and use terms such as "safer sex" or "risk aware sex" instead, as there are always risk involved, but it is certainly safer than no condom.

As a man I really don't find wearing a condom has that much of an effect on me. Perhaps I concentrate more on the erotic time I am having with my play partner, rather than just the sensation from the tip of my penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable.

Women always prefer natural sex with a sticky ending? Really? Not with any man that is not a long term partner, and certainly not with guys that are happy to do that with every woman they fuck.

Each to their own but definitely not for me!"

it's the OPs daily 'everyone is at it and enjoys it and there's no risk' thread. I think the confusion is that he meets likeminded people at BB GBs so equates that small segment of the scene to be 'everybody'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

This is an interesting statement. Where do you get your information from? I certainly do not prefer bareback, sticky sex and I actually really enjoy sex with a condom.

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Another one of these threads. Mate you need to diversify. People will see you as someone who can only talk constantly about one thing and you will never get any decent meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with the idea of bareback with anyone other than someone I'm in a relationship with, or feel very much at ease with due to repeated meets. However, I have a type of condom I like and that makes all the difference because until I started trying different types of condom, I abhorred them, but now I enjoy them

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Another one of these threads. Mate you need to diversify. People will see you as someone who can only talk constantly about one thing and you will never get any decent meets."

This guy does seem to have an obsession.

Maybe he just likes to be controversial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither is aids or stds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another thread about bb from the OP - yawn!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

Thing is your just re-proposing the dangers of unprotected sex by marketing the pros of barebacking.

Not only is wearing rubber safe for you and her but also it makes you last longer and in affect as long as you remain hard she will love you for the performance and stamina from lasting so long with a condom, so it's worth it to work hard for the buildup of pleasure and the extra pumping and banging is a great way to exercise and "keep fit" lol.

Besides, who ever wants a short 1 min "quickie" where the average female usually requires much longer to focus and receive her pleasure while. Sounds like your more in it for yourself and not giving a shit about her needs.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

" So called safe group sex is ridiculous as impossible to keep sperm out of the womans pussy as all the guys cum and slip on another condom. If you are going to have GB or multiple men fucking a woman or two the risk of STD is real or HIV.

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe."

What kind of group sex have you been involved in?!

You do know that you don't have to all use the same condom!

In group situations it's perfectly possible to establish safe sex rules and make sure people abide by them - no double dipping in different women with the same condom, no sticky fingers etc.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

The question has to be, do you want meets?

If yes and the lady says glove up are you really going to say no because I loose some sensation? If your answer is yes, you're a looser. Buy thinner condoms!

Really guy's always complain that they don't get meets so why then shoot yourself in the foot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well many people don't call it "safe sex" anymore, and use terms such as "safer sex" or "risk aware sex" instead, as there are always risk involved, but it is certainly safer than no condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again....

Can't even be bothered to get out the camping chair and popcorn...

I wonder what else is going on?.....

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By *evilishCouple69Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You might be one of the safest and most careful drivers but you're still going to wear a seatbelt in case someone else hits you. Same deal with sex, it would be wonderful if it was still the time when stds were rare but it's not so a lot of people will practice safer sex including during gangbangs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exception to the norm here have a little condom fetish Op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable.

Women always prefer natural sex with a sticky ending? Really? Not with any man that is not a long term partner, and certainly not with guys that are happy to do that with every woman they fuck.

Each to their own but definitely not for me!

Harsh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another one of these threads. Mate you need to diversify. People will see you as someone who can only talk constantly about one thing and you will never get any decent meets."

Who wants a decent meet

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

Did it hurt when you were dropped on your head as a baby OP? Most ludicrous pile of arse gravy I've ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable.

Thing is your just re-proposing the dangers of unprotected sex by marketing the pros of barebacking.

Sorry your post makes a huge assumption. Natural sex is not an obstacle to keeping it up for me. Maybe you are deflecting your own performance. Not saying you are just assumotions are just that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe.

What kind of group sex have you been involved in?!

You do know that you don't have to all use the same condom!

In group situations it's perfectly possible to establish safe sex rules and make sure people abide by them - no double dipping in different women with the same condom, no sticky fingers etc."

Sounds like fun making riles !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe.

What kind of group sex have you been involved in?!

You do know that you don't have to all use the same condom!

In group situations it's perfectly possible to establish safe sex rules and make sure people abide by them - no double dipping in different women with the same condom, no sticky fingers etc.

Sounds like fun making rules !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder why the figure for men over 50 with HIV has doubled over the last ten years

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I rather quite enjoy sex with condoms. Doesn't bother me one bit.

I'd rather go without than go bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many threads are you going to post promoting bareback? I hope your getting checked out regularly. You certainly haven't mentioned the need for testing have you??

The frightening thing is I looked at your veris and was able to see your meets lead back to people here. Anyone who has met you certainly wont be advertising the fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable.

Women always prefer natural sex with a sticky ending? Really? Not with any man that is not a long term partner, and certainly not with guys that are happy to do that with every woman they fuck.

Each to their own but definitely not for me!

Harsh

Ha not intended to be harsh but I don't concur with your generalisation that everyone's at it bareback! Certainly not the people I've met!

But then I've only met those interested in 'safer' sex so my experience is perhaps blinkered by what I've seen first hand. Likewise you participate in lots of BB GBs so this is your norm!

There's a market for both and as adults we are free to make our own choices as long as everyone is informed of the risks, making their choice and enjoying what they're doing covered or uncovered.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Another one of these threads. Mate you need to diversify. People will see you as someone who can only talk constantly about one thing and you will never get any decent meets.

This guy does seem to have an obsession.

Maybe he just likes to be controversial. "

Repeating posts is not controversial. Its dull.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

"Wonder why the figure for men over 50 with HIV has doubled over the last ten years

Mostly because they were 40ish 10yrs ago when the same thing happened to the 40+

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How many threads are you going to post promoting bareback? I hope your getting checked out regularly. You certainly haven't mentioned the need for testing have you??

The frightening thing is I looked at your veris and was able to see your meets lead back to people here. Anyone who has met you certainly wont be advertising the fact.

Well that is harsh. Im not an egotist like many on here collecting veries.

"Oh sorry, will you give me a veri" as Im so insecure noone will believe Ive actually fucked someone. Are reviews of performance what turns you on I wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

I'm sorry, but I don't prefer 'natural fucking' with a 'sticky climax'. In fact the thought of it makes me feel a bit gross.

If you're careful with removing condoms and then putting them on properly there's no reason why body fluids should be on the outside of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

OP, run that one past a doctor and listen to the advice. Condoms are never safe but they are safer than bareback in any situation. If you and your partners wish to take the potential risk, that is fine but PLEASE do not take advantage of unknowing recipients.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* Gets the haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm to assume you speak for all men who have sex with multiple people at one time I can safely say I will never go to a club or party ever in my life. I was hoping that men washed in between women hopping and coming in a condom. Would it be acceptable to take a man into a shower and scrubbing him with Dettol before he touched me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable.

Women always prefer natural sex with a sticky ending? Really? Not with any man that is not a long term partner, and certainly not with guys that are happy to do that with every woman they fuck.

Each to their own but definitely not for me!"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm to assume you speak for all men who have sex with multiple people at one time I can safely say I will never go to a club or party ever in my life. I was hoping that men washed in between women hopping and coming in a condom. Would it be acceptable to take a man into a shower and scrubbing him with Dettol before he touched me? "

Shower together as foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this too!

When I go to a club I'm making sure I stick to the guy Iv planned to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware of the backlash of " you don't know what your meet has been upto before your planned meet"

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If consenting adults decide to play bare that's up to them but saying condoms are a waste of time and not safer in group situations Is just bloody stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex with new partners always, on fab or not on fab.. bareback only after known the person and trust build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex with new partners always, on fab or not on fab.. bareback only after known the person and trust build up."

And a check up!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

So what's your point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Safe sex with new partners always, on fab or not on fab.. bareback only after known the person and trust build up.

And a check up!"

And that as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware of the backlash of " you don't know what your meet has been upto before your planned meet"

Well,there's only so many questions you can ask a man before he gets pissed off

Not accounting for the non-truths telling. I comfort myself with a scrubbing brush,a bottle of Dettol and a good inspection of his cock before he touches me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one of these threads. Mate you need to diversify. People will see you as someone who can only talk constantly about one thing and you will never get any decent meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what is basically an announcement of your personal taste, this thread should be at least varied from your previous posts that are similar...

Just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Addressing the issue of bb being more enjoyable. It isn't for me. I don't like semen dripping out of me and the likelihood I will get BV from it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another one of these threads. Mate you need to diversify. People will see you as someone who can only talk constantly about one thing and you will never get any decent meets.

I had no idea people took sex so seriously. I thought it was about having dirty sexy fun. Feeling fullgilked and generally having a good time. All ive had is following rules and personal comments about me.

Sorry I had no idea sex and seingers was so complicated and serious.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Sorry I had no idea sex and seingers was so complicated and serious."

Whats so difficult about putting on a condom? And why is sex with a condom more serious than sex without?

Honestly, you're trying to impose your views on us, but complain when you feel we're imposing ours on you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I had no idea sex and seingers was so complicated and serious.

Whats so difficult about putting on a condom? And why is sex with a condom more serious than sex without?

Honestly, you're trying to impose your views on us, but complain when you feel we're imposing ours on you.

Im sorry if I have given that impression. Im just discussing things and I certainly dont want to give the impression of imposing my views.

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Sorry I had no idea sex and seingers was so complicated and serious.

Whats so difficult about putting on a condom? And why is sex with a condom more serious than sex without?

Honestly, you're trying to impose your views on us, but complain when you feel we're imposing ours on you.

Im sorry if I have given that impression. Im just discussing things and I certainly dont want to give the impression of imposing my views."

Mate you give the impression of being obsessed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I had no idea sex and seingers was so complicated and serious.

Whats so difficult about putting on a condom? And why is sex with a condom more serious than sex without?

Honestly, you're trying to impose your views on us, but complain when you feel we're imposing ours on you.

Im sorry if I have given that impression. Im just discussing things and I certainly dont want to give the impression of imposing my views."

You're not really 'discussing' things, you're telling people things.

"Women always prefer sex without condoms"

"Condoms are pointless when having sex with multiple people"

etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we get the idea, you like bareback gangbangs and bare back sex in general.

Some others will agree

Most won't

Here's looking forward to tomorrow's thread................

'Bareback orgies are amazing, discuss'

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable."

Condoms ruin the sensation for you. I get that. It's your preference. As one of many, many women I prefer 'natural' fucking with long term partners since there's an intimacy and closeness to it that makes it more romantic in a way for me. That isn't a preference for every sexual activity I indulge in however. If I were to take part in a group meet or gangbang I wouldn't be looking for that intimacy so would want them to wear condoms. Same as with a one to one meet if I wasn't in a relationship with the person I was meeting. So whilst there is a tiny grain of truth to your oft-repeated clamour for the joys of bareback it doesn't mean that it is always the case for all women. It certainly isn't for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So condoms are safe on a 1 to 1 but in group sex not safe. Bareback is at least more enjoyable.

Thing is your just re-proposing the dangers of unprotected sex by marketing the pros of barebacking.

Sorry your post makes a huge assumption. Natural sex is not an obstacle to keeping it up for me. Maybe you are deflecting your own performance. Not saying you are just assumotions are just that

Or may we can assume your performance is hindered whenever you try to put one on, ahh the old tale tale can't remain hard springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay... I despise sex with a condom... Apart from my new ones which you can't really feel... But... The point is as much as I hate it... I'm still happier to use them.. as the dread that follows a broken Condom is not good for me...

I'm one of these ladies that does group stuff a lot. and cum rarely gets near my pussy unless I ask for it.... So to suggest all us ladies that enjoy gg should go bare as its not safer is insulting.

I actually stopped going to some gg sessions when a lady I had introduced to it started to only go bare and guys assumed I would. Not only that I didn't want to increase my risks as if they would bareback a stranger who had just been barebacked by ten or more other strangers. It was more than my risks would allow xx so I stopped going.

Yes I've been In group sex where the only considerAtion is that a condom is changed before swapping ladies but it still limits my risk more than not caring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I don't notice any difference when wellying up or not ,shooting my load after some naughty sex is the same outcum ,just not going to get any nasties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"personally I don't notice any difference when wellying up or not ,shooting my load after some naughty sex is the same outcum ,just not going to get any nasties "

Well you are less likely to get nasties x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we get the idea, you like bareback gangbangs and bare back sex in general.

Some others will agree

Most won't

Here's looking forward to tomorrow's thread................

'Bareback orgies are amazing, discuss'"

And the "Isn't HIV a turn on" thread.

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