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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we were wondering how all the couples on here decided to start swinging and who raised the topic in the first place lol

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

For us it started out as a joint fantasy, then decided that that we should stop talking about it and give it a go.

Not got much experience yet but we certainly want more!!

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Married for 30 year's, we had talked about swinging for a long time, so when the kids had left home we decided to give swinging a go and we have met some very lovely people off this site, we wish the kids had left sooner LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When Kate came home early and caught me shagging with the couple next door, I just said, "oh, I've got us a membership at a swingers club and this is my entrance exam....Your turn next"

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By *oucaneerMan
over a year ago

London

I had a realy sexy girlfriend from manchester who wanted alot of public sex, we were on holiday and talked about setting up a swingers club when we got back to England.

We never did, but it planted the seed.

Plus when I was little I found my Dad's porno collection and was reading magazines like rapier and contact dates, I guess it set the scene.

Used swinger heaven, went to munches and got invites to swinger's partys.

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Started of as something we watched in porn films or read stories about when we first got together.

Started talking about it and sharing fantasies. Joined a couple of sites, watched some more porn and talked about it some more...

Eventually stopped talking about it and went for it at the start of this year. Loving it!

Bx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we started when we had a chat and Lou asked what we could do to really spice things up,i had swinging in mind but didnt quite know how to broach the subject,it could either have gone one of two ways ,shouldnt have worried really told her what i had in mind and the rest is history lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We were talking about fantasies one night and decided to write down in a column what fantasies we had. In the next column we wrote Yes, No or Maybe as to wether we fancy trying them out or not.

We then swopped lists and compared notes. We had a lot of fantasies that were the same, some I liked the sound off that the OH had thought of and vice versa.

We then made a bigger list to put all the Maybes and Yes's on and then we went from there turning some of them into reality

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By *ucati1098Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Talked about it for some times thendecided to got on and do it. Never looked back. xx

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By *ohnsusCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We started off after discussing it over the breakfast table, as you do lol. Initially we went mostly dogging and then on to swinging, parties then clubs and haven't looked back since.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i wouldnt have been brave enough to mention it over the breakfast table lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not suprised ducati you look a fab couple xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Tracy)love to read. I started out on romance, a bag full of books a friend gave me then went onto crime, mystery and all the usual stuff, then back to romance. That took me to the more racy types of books like blaze, then found a black lace book at the library. Lots of stories that wet my appetite so to speak and Jez and I started talking about what it would be like to have sex with others. The rest is history. Like others have said, only wish we'd done it sooner.

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By *ohnsusCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

oh there was only a slight choke on the cornflakes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex actually signed us up and didnt tell me, he then convinced me I wanted to try my bi side.. which I did but he went about it the wrong way.

I had some very bad experiences in swinging as I was rarely allowed me, and if I was they had to be guys I didnt find attractive..

How different things are with my Husband and I... we both knew the other was into things like this before we got together..( in fact it was each others naughty side that attracted us to each other)Once we had enjoyed time together as a couple we started to experiment. For us its a way to keep our sex life interesting while we are apart for a bit. ( Master works away often)

We get more daring all the time and we love it. But we dont really see ourselves as swingers.. more sexual adverturers, that find what we need on these sites. ( mainly lots of horny single guys)

I would love to find a girl for Master but its rare. :D

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been married 13 years and over the years our fantasises included sex with others but it was not until this year they we played them out for real and now so wished we had done it years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old schoolfriend and her husband introduced me to Chams in July this year....just txt me one day, mentioned that they found this swingers club and would i fancy it. I didn't even have to think about it

and like everyone else says...the rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hubby used to talk about it during sex a lot - i played along with it til one day he asked me if i would do it for real

i said dont be silly it doesnt happen in real life

then he dipped under the bed and pulled out all these contact mags to show me otherwise!

it was a a long journey - didnt jump in with two feet - but slowly built up to having great fun

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By *nlyme1Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"When Kate came home early and caught me shagging with the couple next door, I just said, "oh, I've got us a membership at a swingers club and this is my entrance exam....Your turn next" "

lool class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met someone as naughty as me and we were completely open from the start, so it was a fairly easy start to our adventures.

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