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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm a single guy, and I'd like to say I'm not a dick, and pushy, but so many people won't give you the light of day, or take a moment to see I'm nice fun and just want to have a good time, meet new people.

Any help on how I should go about it all would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks x

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Attend a social and get your face known.

Contribute to threads on the forums, to get yourself known.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay but don't the socials need member ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attend a social and get your face known.

Contribute to threads on the forums, to get yourself known."

this

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Also, try adding more yo your profile. I'd pass 6ou by as I ain't got the time, nor patience to be asking questions.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Also, try adding more yo your profile. I'd pass 6ou by as I ain't got the time, nor patience to be asking questions."

*to

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Okay but don't the socials need member ? "

No that's clubs and not all socials are in clubs. Some that are don't require membership. Just your name on list and ID

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Are you asking for help with your profile, op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums, fab and the world of swing!

May I take the opportunity to suggest, change your avatars, adding some more content to your profile?

Inject a little humour, as mentioned previously, be patient!

Be polite

Never expect, use the forum to raise awareness and show your personality.

In the mean time you could attend socials or a club.

I hope you find this helpful and I wish you a very enjoyable Fab experience

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you I'll update my profile now, being new all this, but gotta start somewhere x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text in minimal, and if you think a big dick is all you need, you're wrong. I'd pass you by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd love help with my profile I'm terrible with stuff like like.

Thanks you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 cock shots aren't necessary either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people will look at the profile before they read a message. So make improvements there. Add different pics of yourself and have others have said post on the forums and get yourself to socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile text in minimal, and if you think a big dick is all you need, you're wrong. I'd pass you by."
I know it's not everything, your right, but the more I learn the better my profile will be.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Even if you were the age I was looking for I'd completely ignore any message you sent.

You have made no effort with your profile and it sounds like you are saying 'you are a dick'

Most women need their imaginations teased, I'm not here to do the Spanish inquisition with someone you has 'just ask' as their text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, patience is the key lol.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So I'm a single guy, and I'd like to say I'm not a dick, and pushy, but so many people won't give you the light of day, or take a moment to see I'm nice fun and just want to have a good time, meet new people.

Any help on how I should go about it all would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks x "

time.... patience.... and being proactive....

is 6 weeks in the grand scale of things giving it time?... or showing patience?

and what have you done to be proactive?... the biggest oppotunity to do that is to use your shop window to the world...

it looks like you spent more time on your opening posting than using your shop window to the world to give people a reason to say to people " wow i have to meet this person!!!"

so again... being proactive also includes using a bit of common sense.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your all right, just the when it comes to profiles what to say is a bit tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the advice in the world to help you with your profile ain't going to get you meets. Only you can do that. No lady will meet you because you have a good profile. Like its been said before you need to get yourself known ie clubs socials or interacting on forums. Good luck

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Your all right, just the when it comes to profiles what to say is a bit tricky. "

We don't know you so can't write it for you. Show some personality. What are you looking for, what do you have to offer, other than a cock? Can you accommodation, if not why and where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm a single guy, and I'd like to say I'm not a dick, and pushy, but so many people won't give you the light of day, or take a moment to see I'm nice fun and just want to have a good time, meet new people.

Any help on how I should go about it all would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks x "

Being a single guy.....

SUCKS ... Sometimes. I feel for you, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your advise, I've changed my profile a bit, I carnt put face pics as public just security.

I'll defiantly post in forums, and try get to some events.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's too many guys on here, i delete messages from loads of guys i'm interested in just coz there's no time to chat with them or get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your advise, I've changed my profile a bit, I carnt put face pics as public just security.

I'll defiantly post in forums, and try get to some events.

X"

You don't need a public face pic, but most women like bum and torso pics

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"So I'm a single guy, and I'd like to say I'm not a dick, and pushy, but so many people won't give you the light of day, or take a moment to see I'm nice fun and just want to have a good time, meet new people.

Any help on how I should go about it all would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks x "
. Why do you sat people will not give you the light of day ?. A profile needs to be at least fifteen lines accompanied by interesting pictures if. you wish to attract attention.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Thank you all for your advise, I've changed my profile a bit, I carnt put face pics as public just security.

I'll defiantly post in forums, and try get to some events.

X"

You need body pics too - I will not talk to anyone with an all cock profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm a single guy, and I'd like to say I'm not a dick, and pushy, but so many people won't give you the light of day, or take a moment to see I'm nice fun and just want to have a good time, meet new people.

Any help on how I should go about it all would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks x "

i share your predicament mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer as previously said we all get tarred with the same brush.

I find the forums do help a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet for me...

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