FabSwingers.com forum: Responding to ads

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was wondering what way people like their ads to be replied to? I take my time, read the ad a few times then reply in a polite manner usually ask for a reply either way. This doesn't seem good for a lot as messages just get deleted without any response hence the question

Thanks

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not necessarily that your message isn't any good, it could well be that you're not what they're looking for. About 100 threads on this in the forums....

Have to say though, I hate it when people tell me to reply either way. I only reply if I'm interested - just like I don't reply to my junk mail.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed...I don't like being told to reply either way either. It's usually stated by someone who feels I meet what they're looking for, but are the polar opposite to what I'm looking for!

If someone has obviously read my profile, sent a personal message relevant to me they will get a response even if it's to say "thanks, no thanks".

If they are not, my profile advises against wasting time writing to me as I wont reply to anyone outside my stated criterias...and I don't!

By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Its been said before but as theres so many threads about this at the moment im gonna say it again

A message that states at the end if you're interested then get back to me is a better idea

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fancy a fuck works for us