FabSwingers.com forum: Frequency of meets..

By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

Just wondering what different people consider a good frequency of meets off here? Or at least how regularly do you feel you need to hit lucky in order to justify the time you spend on here? Different for everyone I know, but just interested....

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

My time spent on here has never been indicative of how often I meet

I can go weeks or months without meeting but if I want to meet I'll sort something out with people I know or we'lll go to a club,all of which can be pretty much sorted out without being on here

I just loiter around the forums,or do a bit of perving around the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet 2-3 times a week from my singles profile and once a month with my hubby as couple to couple m x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Depends on my mood, on a normal day sex at the weekend regularly seems ideal.

If I'm feeling horny sex every night seems ideal.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I go through phases. Work and life wise I tend to go for a spate of meets every few months. Hanging out on here amuses me regardless of how often I meet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats a meet? lol.

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I like to meet 2-3 times a week from my singles profile and once a month with my hubby as couple to couple m x"

That is a pretty high frequency I would say....good on you....what percentage are 'return meets'?

I seem to average about 2 per month, but it does depend a bit on just how much time I devote to spending on fab

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm lucky if I meet every couple of months, sometimes even 3.

Think it is more to do with the calibre of people that actually interest me in my area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol."

Come up to Leeds and I'll show you

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not "a meeter" I just stalk people quietly and post nonsense on the forums .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to meet 2-3 times a week from my singles profile and once a month with my hubby as couple to couple m x"

How do you find the time?! Good on you though x

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"I'm lucky if I meet every couple of months, sometimes even 3.

Think it is more to do with the calibre of people that actually interest me in my area."

...or how far one might be prepared to travel to find the right 'calibre'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol.

Come up to Leeds and I'll show you

-Courtney"
Yes, will book next train

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol."

You wouldnt say that if you live in my town!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the question, though, we meet about 3 weekends a month, depending on how busy we are (sometimes only once or twice a month). Sometimes the weekend includes multiple meets on different days, but usually it is a club weekend where we only play with eachother.

We prefer repeat meets, though it doesn't always work that way because scheduling is a nightmare.

-Courtney

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Whats a meet? lol."
similar to winning the lottery and being struck by lighting at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to meet in clubs...any meets from here are a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol.

You wouldnt say that if you live in my town!"
That's right, it depends where you live as well x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol. similar to winning the lottery and being struck by lighting at once"
lol that's right as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to spend any time on here to get a meet, i have loads of ways to contact many people from here off site. Just like chatting to loads of people at once and it's easier to do it here.

But i'd like meets every day, used to have them too and it could take anything from 10 mins to 20 mins to sort one out. The site isn't stopping me having meets, i just can't do them while it's the holidays.

Just deleted really nice messages from about 80 guys i fancied, and 20 i didn't. But i didn't talk to any of them so no idea which were time wasters or anything, but i've no problem getting meets. Don't think you need to justify getting meets to be on here either, this sites a really good social tool as well.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I like to meet 2-3 times a week from my singles profile and once a month with my hubby as couple to couple m x"

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I meet daily, others weeks apart, depends on my mood.

Been known to meet several times in a day if mood takes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 6 in a week,including one mmf. I haven't met anyone for almost 6 weeks to date. I have spates of wanting/not wanting sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To answer the question, though, we meet about 3 weekends a month, depending on how busy we are (sometimes only once or twice a month). Sometimes the weekend includes multiple meets on different days, but usually it is a club weekend where we only play with eachother.

We prefer repeat meets, though it doesn't always work that way because scheduling is a nightmare.

-Courtney"

Oh! and I forgot to add that I don't really think of it in terms of time in-meets out. I spend most of my time here chatting on the forums with people I could never meet, even if I wanted to (distance being what it is and all), just because I find it fun

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm lucky if I meet every couple of months, sometimes even 3.

Think it is more to do with the calibre of people that actually interest me in my area.

...or how far one might be prepared to travel to find the right 'calibre'

That is true! But rarely happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol."

You need to be patient Shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't justify being on here. I don't have to put in much effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go months between meets then I may have a couple of meets close together

I don't actively seek out meets I just chat and see who catches my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dint believe in meets they are fiction made up by couples and single females. There is only the forums, cold showers and the tender tough of your right hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol.

You need to be patient Shag lol

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lol that's right, you know the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We stay on fab for forums mostly.

Happy with 2-3 meets a year in general. We only play occasionally to be honest. We're pretty relaxed about it all.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm lucky if I meet every couple of months, sometimes even 3.

Think it is more to do with the calibre of people that actually interest me in my area.

...or how far one might be prepared to travel to find the right 'calibre'

That is true! But rarely happens

God this has got me thinking, I think I have only had sex 5 times this year in total, no wonder I am a single miserable bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have a frequency of meets target but if you averaged it I suppose it would be in the region of once every 6 / 8 weeks off here.

Supplemented by outside sources...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as life in the real world allowes but mostly people ive already met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only really when I go to the clubs. And even though I want to go this week, the real world looks like it's trying to prevent that

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends on the guys I chat to. I had a meet on Sunday which went well, was supposed to have one tonight but he stood me up. If I'm in a mood I don't meet for a while, if I'm feeling horny I might meet a lot, or go to a club to have a few all in one night.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I dint believe in meets they are fiction made up by couples and single females. There is only the forums, cold showers and the tender tough of your right hand.

Its a pity I'm too old for you then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I average one every 6 months. Mostly people on holiday in NYC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet once in a blue moon is good for me, I have more coffee meets than sexual ones.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'd like to meet every week but not new people all the time, I would much rather have a few people I really like and see them regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely meet but spend a hell of a lot of time on here chatting. ...That's how I decide who I want to meet next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go through phases. Work and life wise I tend to go for a spate of meets every few months. Hanging out on here amuses me regardless of how often I meet though."
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Described us perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty much out of my control so whenever is good enough for me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to come in spurts for me.If all goes to plan this weekend I'll have 3 meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 4 men I see regularly, another 4 i have met 2-3times sofar over 5 months and hubby and I have a couple that we meet every now again. I like to build up a connection with my swinging friends,return meets are very satisfying! Mind you , impromptu strangers joining in can also be a great turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minimum of twice a month but sometimes I can be out to play two or three times in a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a meet? lol."

You need patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single but busy guy with other interest once a week is a target that keeps me sane and calm with a smile on my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our meets in 8 months on here from fab members only average out at one a day .

That's not exactly how it is though , as we only go out two or three times a week , and meet up to 4 people each time we go out .

As we enjoy dogging , there are plenty we have met that aren't on fab too , so we are pretty prolific !

May have to move soon as we seem to be running out of local people to meet , as we don't normally do repeat meets

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Our meets in 8 months on here from fab members only average out at one a day .

That's not exactly how it is though , as we only go out two or three times a week , and meet up to 4 people each time we go out .

As we enjoy dogging , there are plenty we have met that aren't on fab too , so we are pretty prolific !

May have to move soon as we seem to be running out of local people to meet , as we don't normally do repeat meets

East Anglia is nice

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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago

North Cambs

"As a single but busy guy with other interest once a week is a target that keeps me sane and calm with a smile on my face."

I'd say you are out stripping the vast majority of guys on here by quite a margin then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to meet 2-3 times a week from my singles profile and once a month with my hubby as couple to couple m x"
Mmmm would love to meet you have just been looking at your sexy pics wow fantastic fit looking body very sexy and have just fab'd them!!! Thank you miss sweetpussy you've made my day!!! Now feel horny. David

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

My meets are all dependant on my childcare so sometimes I can meet for a few weekends on a trot then can't for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a blue moon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet new people often and as for people ive already met it depends on their work etc and my kids I have been known to meet a couple of times a week when I had a regular friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of a gap between meets at the moment, work related mainly. Schools hols I can meet more often than when Im working but I havent been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont meet new people often and as for people ive already met it depends on their work etc and my kids I have been known to meet a couple of times a week when I had a regular friend "
I have a meet tonight and he says he works this way a lot.....so fingers crossed

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I don't have enough time to meet frequently, and I wouldn't want to meet multiple times in a week as it wipes out a whole evening every time I do.

I would be happy with one every week or 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How often I meet is not a criterion for me in deciding whether it is worth spending time on here. I've not met anyone for sex in over 18 months and don't imagine I'll be doing so in the foreseeable future either. It's not why I am here anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of a gap between meets at the moment, work related mainly. Schools hols I can meet more often than when Im working but I havent been "

Someone ive met a few times recently is working away at the moment, otherwise im sure id see a lot more of him.

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By *emmabTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I like to meet 2-3 times a week from my singles profile and once a month with my hubby as couple to couple m x"

Gosh, how do you find the time.

Slightly jealous though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once every 2-3 months. Enough to stop me going crazy, infrequent enough to keep me keen and eager!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what different people consider a good frequency of meets off here? Or at least how regularly do you feel you need to hit lucky in order to justify the time you spend on here? Different for everyone I know, but just interested...."

Once a month is good for me

I don't solely come on her to just find a meet. The amount of time spent on her is down to me and how much I want to spend wasting my te on here sometimes.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Well I don't use Fab to arrange meets, but sometimes we are playing every weekend, other times nothing for a month or 2. It all depends how we feel.

I haven't had a play meet since the start of the year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often spend collectively about an hour and a half per day on online adult meet sites.

To date, my ratio is zero meets in nearly 2 years

I keep being told to be patient

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Whats a meet? lol. similar to winning the lottery and being struck by lighting at once"

I like you already ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a meet at least once a day.most regular,some new ones from time to time.................................................then my alarm gans off,I wake up get dressed,have a brew&gan to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go through fits and starts tbh. Never desperately looking but never complain when something happens.

Just been forming last month or so but as certain things in my life have changed again I'd like to get back into the groove. It's all about having fun though as if you need to justify it clearly your not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of a gap between meets at the moment, work related mainly. Schools hols I can meet more often than when Im working but I havent been

Someone ive met a few times recently is working away at the moment, otherwise im sure id see a lot more of him.

Strike this as I cannot see it happening now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of a gap between meets at the moment, work related mainly. Schools hols I can meet more often than when Im working but I havent been

Someone ive met a few times recently is working away at the moment, otherwise im sure id see a lot more of him.

Strike this as I cannot see it happening now!! "

I was hoping I wouldn't get stabbed in the back but they have achieved what they set out to do

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

2-3 times a week for us as long as we can find the guys

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I dont meet every week..not even every month. Had one in july and one 2 weeks ago(regular). Before that it was february. In between i hit a spell of quite a number of timewasters.

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