FabSwingers.com forum: are we ugly

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

simple question really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Why do you ask, has somebody implied you are?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway, one persons ugly is another's beautiful.

But to me there's nowt wrong with either of you

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I won't comment on the dude, I'm straight. The lady...not ugly. Just not my type personally. Hope that's not too harsh!

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By *ifunforuMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

No I think your a hot couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you ask?

You both look nice, but your pics possibly don't show you off in the best light, just our opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may not be everyone's type but I wouldn't say your unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. your not going to be to everyone's liking. Nobody is. Dont let it worry you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

You're very pretty and your husband is better than average. I don't meet couples personally and here for single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

(I haven't looked)

But I wanted to be controversial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read your profile and you say you can't get meets.

I'm guessing it's not looks (as previously stated, look ok to me) so maybe you're not selling yourself to others as well as you could?

Your profile text starts negatively which doesn't help, and have you tried going to clubs etc? That's probably a better way to meet.

You say you get no offers, but do you do the asking or do you sit back and wait for others to contact you?

Obviously I don't know the answers to any of these questions but may be partly why you're not getting success.

Good luck, keep at it, get to a club and be sociable and I'm sure you'll be very popular!

Good luck!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Yes, feel better now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"simple question really"

Bloody hell guys .....

Your pics show there are plenty that clearly don't think so

It's a very subjective thing and hopefully this thread won't be too harsh .

Personally we wouldn't dream of asking such a question on here , for fear that our fragile egos may take a battering

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

Male:- can't really say

Female:- not ugly though prefer pics with longer hair (that's just my taste in fairness)

Even fabbed a couple of pics

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

No x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you need patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, you need patience"

is 4 years patient enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far from ugly, a smile would be nice in some pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, you need patience

is 4 years patient enough?"
It depends if the area is fab active, sometimes you have to travel further away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we do travel but we only have motorbikes, this aint so bad in the summer but it's not so good when it's pissing down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we do travel but we only have motorbikes, this aint so bad in the summer but it's not so good when it's pissing down"
That's good and yeah its been raining a lot this week and being on a bike can get abit wet.

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By *lavemazWoman
over a year ago

sale

Look fine to me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, feel better now?

yes, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentleman has lovely eyes.

Lady is beautiful. Particularly in the sofa, dark hair photo.

Don't ask the cretins on here, though! Have you seen some of the threads?

They're brutal!

Ugly is something that has nothing to do with looks.

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes attitude is everything. Your status and the opening of your profile is very negative, and personally I look for fun people for meets. The vibe of a profile, or even a conversation via messaging, can make the difference, even when people do find you attractive.

Have a more positive attitude, and it will do wonders.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Que the white knight brigade

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes attitude is everything. Your status and the opening of your profile is very negative, and personally I look for fun people for meets. The vibe of a profile, or even a conversation via messaging, can make the difference, even when people do find you attractive.

Have a more positive attitude, and it will do wonders.

-Courtney"

the status is from today, the opening of our profile is a week old, it seems it makes no difference what we put in our profile as the last 4 years proves it, i think we are just cursed. we are actually quite fun to be with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, neither of you are ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope your not x

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

No. If you were closer would love a meet. You look like you know your way round a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to agree with some comments

Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!

It improves a face pic 100%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"simple question really"

I would suggest less revealing pics an lose the action pics, just my opinion. I think people's desire are awakened more by not seeing a preview, more like getting a lucky bag. Good luck x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

*gallops in on his trusty white steed*

Good Couple (he called), betwixt me, thee and yonder stout oaken tree, I have it within mine gift to say 'Nay, the swipe of the ugly stick has behoved upon others, but not you'

*bows elegantly (if a trifle dramatically)*

And clippity-clips off......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd have to agree with some comments

Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!

It improves a face pic 100%.

can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*gallops in on his trusty white steed*

Good Couple (he called), betwixt me, thee and yonder stout oaken tree, I have it within mine gift to say 'Nay, the swipe of the ugly stick has behoved upon others, but not you'

*bows elegantly (if a trifle dramatically)*

And clippity-clips off......"

lmfao, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have to agree with some comments

Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!

It improves a face pic 100%.

can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive

Consider if you will that people will read the first few lines and form a picture straight away. It's like a first impression,

If they like that......they continue. If not then it's click the back button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd have to agree with some comments

Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!

It improves a face pic 100%.

can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive

Consider if you will that people will read the first few lines and form a picture straight away. It's like a first impression,

If they like that......they continue. If not then it's click the back button."

i dont fully agree with that as i read all the profile no matter how it starts, but point taken

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Nope.I would do both of you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not our type but your far from ugly. Perhaps have a break from trying and come back with a more positive mindset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have to agree with some comments

Your profile comes across quite negative, I'd definitely consider more friendly looking face pics too. Smile!!!!!!

It improves a face pic 100%.

can't understand why you find it QUITE negative as there is a little bit about us not being wanted, the rest is all very positive

Consider if you will that people will read the first few lines and form a picture straight away. It's like a first impression,

If they like that......they continue. If not then it's click the back button.

i dont fully agree with that as i read all the profile no matter how it starts, but point taken"

But you yourselves have said nobody seems to want to meet you so surely it must be down to your profile? The first part is very off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, look good to us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems a daft question to me, surely you must know some will fancy you and some won't without asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you yourselves have said nobody seems to want to meet you so surely it must be down to your profile? The first part is very off-putting. "

Agree

I didn't even read past the first paragraph

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted"

do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet?

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By *iwynMan
over a year ago

north wales

Personally I would love to have the opportunity to meet you both, you both look fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted

do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet? "

if we do get offers (which is not very often) it's mostly from timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted

do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet?

if we do get offers (which is not very often) it's mostly from timewasters"

I find it odd that a couple on here would struggle to meet

i dont think it's easy for anybody to be honest but I though any couple would do ok

not very helpful I know I'm just sharing my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted"

I just want to note that while I said the first bit in your profile was negative, I also suggested that it can be more than just your profile that sounds negative. This sarcasm, for example....

Another example is how you write in the forums sometimes when you constantly mention that you never have meets. I even thought you were a troll when I first saw your posts.

I'm not trying to be mean, I really am trying to be helpful. Be more positive. Smile in your pics. Have happy status updates. That is my suggestion.

Good Luck!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted

do you just not get offers or is it a case of you don't get offers from people you want to meet?

if we do get offers (which is not very often) it's mostly from timewasters

I find it odd that a couple on here would struggle to meet

i dont think it's easy for anybody to be honest but I though any couple would do ok

not very helpful I know I'm just sharing my thoughts

seriously we get like 3 mails a month if we are lucky

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've often said it's tough for all demographics on here to get meets...often for very different reasons.

From my perspective as a couple that wants to meet couples you have twice as many folk to please as a single.

Have you tried clubs and or socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've often said it's tough for all demographics on here to get meets...often for very different reasons.

From my perspective as a couple that wants to meet couples you have twice as many folk to please as a single.

Have you tried clubs and or socials.

we used to go to clubs several years ago, not too keen on them tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"right we have got rid of the first part that people say is off putting despite it only being there for a week so now the offers should come flooding in. i will keep you posted

I just want to note that while I said the first bit in your profile was negative, I also suggested that it can be more than just your profile that sounds negative. This sarcasm, for example....

Another example is how you write in the forums sometimes when you constantly mention that you never have meets. I even thought you were a troll when I first saw your posts.

I'm not trying to be mean, I really am trying to be helpful. Be more positive. Smile in your pics. Have happy status updates. That is my suggestion.

Good Luck!

-Courtney"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity breeds negativity.

Single guys on here can go months/ years without any meets yet they rarely get sympathy.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use to think it was the single males who had it hard getting a meet. But it must be a nightmare for couples trying to find 4 people who are all attracted to each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Negativity breeds negativity.

Single guys on here can go months/ years without any meets yet they rarely get sympathy........."
tell me about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

to be honest i did better as a single man, but that was years ago when fab first started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always use to think it was the single males who had it hard getting a meet. But it must be a nightmare for couples trying to find 4 people who are all attracted to each other x"

It's not easy that's for sure!

And OP, no you are not ugly, neither of you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your both fine definitely not ugly

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

How good looking (or how ugly) is largely based on society's perception of what is attractive (which can change a bit from culture to culture and from era to era). There will always be a sliding scale of very attractive (think Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie) down to downright unattractive....I would say you guys are probably somewhere in the middle of such a scale...

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

"No, you need patience

is 4 years patient enough?"

Single males have to wait at least 4 years to receive an answer to one of the many messages they send

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, you need patience

is 4 years patient enough?

Single males have to wait at least 4 years to receive an answer to one of the many messages they send

lmao

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"simple question really"

No definitely not!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Why do you ask?

You both look nice, but your pics possibly don't show you off in the best light, just our opinion x"

this

go to a club..cameras don't love everyone x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

What about me, am I ugly?

Hurry come look at my profile and fab my pics....

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

"simple question really"
defo not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"simple question really"

We would meet you. But way too far for us. we could meet a single guy every day of the week if we wanted. We find it harder to meet couples. But we message and chat to loads. hope you get more response after posting this. X

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"simple question really

We would meet you. But way too far for us. we could meet a single guy every day of the week if we wanted. We find it harder to meet couples."

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about me, am I ugly?

Hurry come look at my profile and fab my pics....

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ok done

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

I think your pics are ok, some nice ones in there (always love sock sucking pics personally).

Profile is reasonably informative, I dont see it as too negative. Just stating what you are and what you want (my profile is way more negative and has to be given some of the messages I get).

You are limiting yourselves a little bit in specifying MF, FF & F as single F is relatively rare, FF even more so, so just the MF couples I guess. Then after you have been on here a while it will generally only be the new registrations that will search and find you. Again im not saying you are wrong looking for only certain things as thats what you are after. Im just saying that if you were to ask for single guys you would possibly be inundated with messages.

Looking at your profile and if you had listed TV/TS and also were 200 miles closer.....and I looooove bikes too

Good luck with finding fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"to be honest i did better as a single man, but that was years ago when fab first started"

Hope you don't tell the wife that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people on here are probably a bit straight laced so the mention of heavily tattooed and motorcycles,,probably scares them,,but really you probably wouldn't want to meet someone that judgemental anyway,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No look ok to me, sod the timewasters!!

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