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Single men/ladies who meet couples. A question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those of you that have met or want to meet couples for play.

What is it that you like about it ?

Have you had repeat meets with any couples ?

B xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pleasuring sensually the woman with her partner ... but haven't found a couple yet

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"pleasuring sensually the woman with her partner ... but haven't found a couple yet "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

(ask the unicorns if they ever meet together. If they are all in one place at the same time, they might be easier to catch!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me as a single guy it was the thrill of her response. I may be unusual this way, but I find when we (her partner and I) focus on her and she has the best time possible, we get carried along in her enthusiasm.

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By *afkaMan
over a year ago

Essex and London

Met a couple once and was their complete bitch, did what they both wanted, blindfolded half the time so I didn't even know which one was which. Second time we met I blindfolded them and we reversed the fantasy. Both times everyone couldn't stop.

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest

Connection through banter, relaxed sexy fun. I/we've met a few couples who we remain in touch/contact with, often doing socials, on other occasions parties.

On the same token, have also met one or two couples who we definitely will not meet again-crazy people!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single fem on here and have been for a few years now i have finally found what i was looking for a couple i get on with in and outside the bedroom. We meet regular basis and i count them as good friends.

What i enjoy .... I like the diversity of the meets with a couple always something to play with and if you get tired you can sit back and perve at the sexy sight infront of you (im a big perve)

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single fem on here and have been for a few years now i have finally found what i was looking for a couple i get on with in and outside the bedroom. We meet regular basis and i count them as good friends.

What i enjoy .... I like the diversity of the meets with a couple always something to play with and if you get tired you can sit back and perve at the sexy sight infront of you (im a big perve)

Xx"

Im single and have yet to meet a couple yet but this definitely sounds like my cup of tea . To be able to comfortable sit back and perve at 2 people you know and get on with sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those of you that have met or want to meet couples for play.

What is it that you like about it ?

Have you had repeat meets with any couples ?

B xx"
never had a repeat meet. Couples don't seem to do that ? I don't no why?

Also I like getting best of both world as I love pussy and cock!

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I've met one couple twice, for me the whole scenario was a huge turn on.

Both times were different. Hoping for another meet soon ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet.

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By *atcher80Man
over a year ago

The


"pleasuring sensually the woman with her partner ... but haven't found a couple yet "

definitely! this was exactly it for me! i used to get off knowing the hubby was watching me lick/finger or fuck his wife and only she going home with him! i think as the guy, it probably stems from knowing your lady is being completely pleasured, however chooses to stay with you, proving you're the most valued male !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting, couples were my norm. Being bi, I enjoy the best of both worlds, but more importantly it was about connecting with people and having a good laugh. I did meet couples more than once on a few occasions as we all got on so well.

People seem surprised when I say it's as difficult for a single bi fem to find a couple as it is for them to find a bi fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet couples but I no longer do

It just didn't work for me

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By *atcher80Man
over a year ago

The

i too met couples more than once, as we genuinely got on as friends and probably doesn't the first hour or so catching up, laughing etc....

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet."

I find this really interesting, I hope my comment doesn't come across as negative at all. I probably would have thought along these lines when I was single, or before we started swinging, more orgasms equals more chance of being invite back, but now I think that wouldn't always be the case. I think a much more successful way of looking at it would be "I want to make this woman/couple feel as comfortable and relaxed as possible around me as possible" The person that you feel comfortable with, is the person that you invite back again.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've met couples - and often repeat. I really enjoy meeting people and getting to know and trust them - it does get better.

Usually not from fab though sadly.

Some couples on fab seem to treat single females as a commodity to fulfil their fantasies, and not give a damn about the female. Saying that though, there are some absolutely cracking couples on here too... some of whom I've been lucky enough to be able to coordinate diaries and distance with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the feeling of being watched by the Mr. whilst the Mrs is getting pleasured and then he joins in for a dp... Love meeting couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting responses so far. Thanks everyone.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"For those of you that have met or want to meet couples for play.

What is it that you like about it ?

Have you had repeat meets with any couples ?

B xx"

I like it because of the variety of positions and experiences 3 people can have. It's different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pleasuring sensually the woman with her partner ... but haven't found a couple yet "

As above.......

But I have found quite a few......ok lots? And yes. I have met several of them on a number of occasions and now count some of them as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots.

I never thought I'd have sex in front of a man,or joining in with a man and his gf/wife/partner.

Its the sex,laughs,chats...at the end, we all have a good time..not much more I can say really.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"For those of you that have met or want to meet couples for play.

What is it that you like about it ?

Have you had repeat meets with any couples ?

B xx"

I've met a few couples ... Some have been repeat meetings,

It's a totally different dynamic from meeting singles,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was meeting, couples were my norm. Being bi, I enjoy the best of both worlds, but more importantly it was about connecting with people and having a good laugh. I did meet couples more than once on a few occasions as we all got on so well.

People seem surprised when I say it's as difficult for a single bi fem to find a couple as it is for them to find a bi fem. "

I try to put myself in the position of the third person. I imagine it takes guts to meet a couple, especially if they are a long term couple who know each other and each others bodies so well. Lucky for us couples there are some great singles about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was meeting, couples were my norm. Being bi, I enjoy the best of both worlds, but more importantly it was about connecting with people and having a good laugh. I did meet couples more than once on a few occasions as we all got on so well.

People seem surprised when I say it's as difficult for a single bi fem to find a couple as it is for them to find a bi fem.

I try to put myself in the position of the third person. I imagine it takes guts to meet a couple, especially if they are a long term couple who know each other and each others bodies so well. Lucky for us couples there are some great singles about. "

a reason some couples dont understand,even a single bi-fem may wish to bring a male FB.Not for safety reasons, just for the fact the couple will essentially act like a unit in most cases..which can be off putting, so some psychological back up can help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3+ is more fun than 2.

I think I've been 'chatted up' by a couple of couples recently but I was too stupid to realise until a few days later. Or else they were only being nice, in which case I'm an even bigger numpty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new here....and have little chance to play due to work.

Only played with my fab and two couples so far....would play with them again for sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb....decking auto correct!...lol feckin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet.

I find this really interesting, I hope my comment doesn't come across as negative at all. I probably would have thought along these lines when I was single, or before we started swinging, more orgasms equals more chance of being invite back, but now I think that wouldn't always be the case. I think a much more successful way of looking at it would be "I want to make this woman/couple feel as comfortable and relaxed as possible around me as possible" The person that you feel comfortable with, is the person that you invite back again."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet."

lost me at 'outdo' eachother..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was meeting, couples were my norm. Being bi, I enjoy the best of both worlds, but more importantly it was about connecting with people and having a good laugh. I did meet couples more than once on a few occasions as we all got on so well.

People seem surprised when I say it's as difficult for a single bi fem to find a couple as it is for them to find a bi fem.

I try to put myself in the position of the third person. I imagine it takes guts to meet a couple, especially if they are a long term couple who know each other and each others bodies so well. Lucky for us couples there are some great singles about. "

I know I couldn't be the 3rd person

Her x

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

From a couples point of view.... We will have repeat meets with a single who understands that we are couple.

It must be tough for a single to try to work out the dynamics, but some do. And they are the ones we meet. Again... And again.... And again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet.

I find this really interesting, I hope my comment doesn't come across as negative at all. I probably would have thought along these lines when I was single, or before we started swinging, more orgasms equals more chance of being invite back, but now I think that wouldn't always be the case. I think a much more successful way of looking at it would be "I want to make this woman/couple feel as comfortable and relaxed as possible around me as possible" The person that you feel comfortable with, is the person that you invite back again."

No your quite correct. I would look at it this way though. They would have had to have been conformable to invite me in the first place. I like to get to know people a bit and part of that is establishing that comfort and also trust. My previous answer was made assuming those were a given.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet."

You got it wrong. Very wrong.

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By *angersgaloreCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire/Warwickshire border


"As a single fem on here and have been for a few years now i have finally found what i was looking for a couple i get on with in and outside the bedroom. We meet regular basis and i count them as good friends.

What i enjoy .... I like the diversity of the meets with a couple always something to play with and if you get tired you can sit back and perve at the sexy sight infront of you (im a big perve)

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet.

lost me at 'outdo' eachother.."

Light hearted way of looking at the fact that your with another man's partner. As the third leg you dont want to be giving less of a performance. Like I said it's a bravado thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never actually managed to seal the deal with a couple as yet. We live in hope though lol. For me it's about pleasuring the woman to the best of my ability much like with a one on one. I want to leave there with them thinking wow. He gave it is all. I guess it's also a bravado thing. Another man and you trying to outdo each other. But primarily it's the woman whose the focus. As I say this is all my theory as not had the experience yet.

You got it wrong. Very wrong."

I'm not denying that. Probably why I've got no where. I read your earlier post and I see where your coming from. Focusing too much on the woman. Forgetting your a couple. I think I just had an epiphany. Facepalm.

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By *angersgaloreCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire/Warwickshire border


"Love the feeling of being watched by the Mr. whilst the Mrs is getting pleasured and then he joins in for a dp... Love meeting couples "

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I don't think you can generalise because everyone has their own personality and interests. My own experience is that repeats are great where the first meet already had sparks flying.

I'm straight but when I meet a couple the driver is that everyone has the fun they want. This means communication.

One observation is that the lady seems to be much more relaxed in the presence of her Mr and that he is a great help in guiding the meet to the best benefit of his Mrs.

I don't see it as any sort of competition either all of us should have the greatest fun possible.

For any couples considering MFM I'd say give it a go but maybe look for a male who isn't just meeting to get into Mrs knickers freezing Mr out...unless that's what you want.

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