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By *urely4fun OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Im quite interested in meeting a fit, healthy attractive couple. I'm a little bi curious but easy going .Nothing turns me on more than a fitt woman.

But what bugs me is finding the perfect, hottest couple, seen they have viewed my profile but they have blocked guys from contacting them. I know it's completely up to them, and its not about that, it just bugs me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? That they've looked at you and don't want you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very irritating to get bombarded with messages off guys who you've just looked at. If they looked at you and didn't message you then it's a fair bet that you're not what they're looking for at this time. Might be they'd be interested in you in a couple of months from now and put you on their hotlist, or they looked and didn't see what they were after. Who knows.

The point is if they want to message you they will do.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Maybe clubs are a good idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quite interested in meeting a fit, healthy attractive couple. I'm a little bi curious but easy going .Nothing turns me on more than a fitt woman.

But what bugs me is finding the perfect, hottest couple, seen they have viewed my profile but they have blocked guys from contacting them. I know it's completely up to them, and its not about that, it just bugs me.

"

Supply and demand my friend. You're seeking what most of the other men on here are seeking too and the 'perfect, hottest' couples in your opinion are likely to be the 'perfect, hottest' couples to all the other guys too hence they get inundated with demand and so block off men from contacting them.

I get hot people view my profile from time to time (not that often mind) then they obviously decide middle aged chubby guys are not for them and move on ...

Maybe try clubs etc, meet them socially etc and see how you get on. Good luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very irritating to get bombarded with messages off guys who you've just looked at. If they looked at you and didn't message you then it's a fair bet that you're not what they're looking for at this time. Might be they'd be interested in you in a couple of months from now and put you on their hotlist, or they looked and didn't see what they were after. Who knows.

The point is if they want to message you they will do."

This

We go stealth for exactly this reason . Got tired of messages from guys we had simply looked at.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im quite interested in meeting a fit, healthy attractive couple. I'm a little bi curious but easy going .Nothing turns me on more than a fitt woman.

But what bugs me is finding the perfect, hottest couple, seen they have viewed my profile but they have blocked guys from contacting them. I know it's completely up to them, and its not about that, it just bugs me.

"

If they are looking for men but they've blocked males from contacting them and have viewed your profile but not messaged you they clearly aren't interested. So not being able to message them is irrelevant unless you think you could persuade them why they are wrong. And that attitude is likely why they blocked males from contacting them in the first place

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By *urely4fun OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"What? That they've looked at you and don't want you? "

Lol. It's not about that. It just bugs me that I can't even say hi .

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Im quite interested in meeting a fit, healthy attractive couple. I'm a little bi curious but easy going .Nothing turns me on more than a fitt woman.

But what bugs me is finding the perfect, hottest couple, seen they have viewed my profile but they have blocked guys from contacting them. I know it's completely up to them, and its not about that, it just bugs me.

If they are looking for men but they've blocked males from contacting them and have viewed your profile but not messaged you they clearly aren't interested. So not being able to message them is irrelevant unless you think you could persuade them why they are wrong. And that attitude is likely why they blocked males from contacting them in the first place"

exactly this , suck it up and move on.

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By *urely4fun OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I didn't mean to make myself sound so silly. I fully understand why privacy and blocking exists, especially with the dirty messages guys send as a "hi".

I'm lucky to not get bombarded with messages I guess. Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't mean to make myself sound so silly. I fully understand why privacy and blocking exists, especially with the dirty messages guys send as a "hi".

I'm lucky to not get bombarded with messages I guess. Ha!"

I don't think you sound silly. I get where you are coming from. But, for all the reasons mentioned, it is what it is. I'm sure you'll find a great couple to meet at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't mean to make myself sound so silly. I fully understand why privacy and blocking exists, especially with the dirty messages guys send as a "hi".

I'm lucky to not get bombarded with messages I guess. Ha!

I don't think you sound silly. I get where you are coming from. But, for all the reasons mentioned, it is what it is. I'm sure you'll find a great couple to meet at some point. "

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By *urely4fun OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I didn't mean to make myself sound so silly. I fully understand why privacy and blocking exists, especially with the dirty messages guys send as a "hi".

I'm lucky to not get bombarded with messages I guess. Ha!

I don't think you sound silly. I get where you are coming from. But, for all the reasons mentioned, it is what it is. I'm sure you'll find a great couple to meet at some point. "

Thank you x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I didn't mean to make myself sound so silly. I fully understand why privacy and blocking exists, especially with the dirty messages guys send as a "hi".

I'm lucky to not get bombarded with messages I guess. Ha!

I don't think you sound silly. I get where you are coming from. But, for all the reasons mentioned, it is what it is. I'm sure you'll find a great couple to meet at some point. "

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