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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been reading through the cheating buddies thread and made us think its not exclusive to the cheating buddies at all..

We have known at least two male partners of couples who proclaim their undying love and devotion (still members on here too lol) who have tried to meet up with Mrs Notts without mine nor their wives knowledge.. and this is while we have been friends, were freinds even lol..

Maybe its just part of the scene, normal to some maybe.. but in both cases its just killed the friendship dead.. Sad eh! So its not exclusive to buddies.....

This happened to anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time hun, when I had a joint profile oh so many moons ago we would meet couples and then I would get texts and calls from the male wanting to meet alone without telling our respective partners.

Bang out of order and they got short shift from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same from us lol.. we just don't see at all after they try. Kills every bit of trust even when they later say.. 'were were just teasing' One even pretended his phone had been stolen.. and someone rang pretending to be him ff's.... Yeah.. and they knew all about our last meet lol.. Dohhhhhhh......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i had a female from a couple suggest to me that we look for another guy!!

i was not best pleased i can tell u!

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

I guess some people get turned on by the thought of cheating on their partners.....so many different minds out there....:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess some people get turned on by the thought of cheating on their partners.....so many different minds out there....:D"

Can't see how that would work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been asked several times and they are history within seconds ... it's both of us or none of us debs xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been asked several times and they are history within seconds ... it's both of us or none of us debs xxx"

Same here... We know Mrs Notts is a weaker option .. but if they want me they get her too lol.. Just the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked several times and they are history within seconds ... it's both of us or none of us debs xxx

Same here... We know Mrs Notts is a weaker option .. but if they want me they get her too lol.. Just the way it is "

well exactly that, all or nothing they soon get their hint. dont you think it comes with the territory of what we all do tho???

And yet dont they say.....God loves a trier....afterall in many ways we are advertising a commodity, they just failed to ready the small print properly

pmsl

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive had a few guys message me from a couples account and after a couple of messages have asked me to then send my messages to another account. Well you know what my answer was. This has happened a few times but not of late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been asked several times and they are history within seconds ... it's both of us or none of us debs xxx

Same here... We know Mrs Notts is a weaker option .. but if they want me they get her too lol.. Just the way it is "

Mrs notts the weaker option? ... now how would you like your genitals stapled to a plank? nails ok? lol debs xxx

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

hee hee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nailed is a bit harsh....

Stapled might be nice lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bending nails into staple shape as we speak lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mean... plain mean xx

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

well for us its both or nothing at all as well!!! pity yer so far away notts2!!! lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well for us its both or nothing at all as well!!! pity yer so far away notts2!!! lol xxxxx"

Phwoooor.. your not kidding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i also have had the male half of a couple of couples message me and ask me to meet without their wifes knowing, these are both males from couples i have met, personally i find it insulting that they think that low of me thats i'd cheat on their wifes with them, feels worse when its people you know, first time it happened i told the women and it back fired on me and i was made out to be the one in the wrong, he told her that it was me who asked to meet him and because he said no i had sent the message as pay back for being turned down! and she believed him, so when it happened again i just said no to him and left it at that, i lernt my lesson in letting women know their hubbies was cheating on them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree its worse when you know them... and insulting to all involved!

Spot on...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Been reading through the cheating buddies thread and made us think its not exclusive to the cheating buddies at all..

We have known at least two male partners of couples who proclaim their undying love and devotion (still members on here too lol) who have tried to meet up with Mrs Notts without mine nor their wives knowledge.. and this is while we have been friends, were freinds even lol..

Maybe its just part of the scene, normal to some maybe.. but in both cases its just killed the friendship dead.. Sad eh! So its not exclusive to buddies.....

This happened to anyone else?

"

Although we don't play with couples it has happened to us too. We have had mail from one half of a couple who's profile states they never play alone.

On a slightly different note, we have also had a man after meeting him for MFM ask me ( mrs) to meet alone the next time without the hubby knowing.

That was so disrespectful to my husband and the answer ended in off.

As the turn on for me ( apart from the obvious )is watching the Mr get turned on by the situation then a twosome just wouldn't work anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I would never ask 1 half of a couple to meet alone because that's the point in playing with a couple that there are 3 or more of you.

If I wanted to meet a female on their own then I would do that and not bother with a couple.

Would be like changing the rules of a game half way through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i have never understood is if a man has a wife that swinging and they meet as a couple, why would he want to meet a woman for 1 on 1 behind her back? do you think its the thrill of doing it alone, maybe he dont really like men touching his wife so feels better meeting alone where noones playing with her? suppose there could be a number of reasons, any men whos done this and brave enough to reply id be interested to hear lol i just never get it, why meet for a 1 on 1 and risk your marrage when you could be meeting with your wife and all having fun

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling


"well for us its both or nothing at all as well!!! pity yer so far away notts2!!! lol xxxxx

Phwoooor.. your not kidding!"
lol!!!

och well just have to perv ya profile again lol!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what i have never understood is if a man has a wife that swinging and they meet as a couple, why would he want to meet a woman for 1 on 1 behind her back? do you think its the thrill of doing it alone, maybe he dont really like men touching his wife so feels better meeting alone where noones playing with her? suppose there could be a number of reasons, any men whos done this and brave enough to reply id be interested to hear lol i just never get it, why meet for a 1 on 1 and risk your marrage when you could be meeting with your wife and all having fun "
it is so cheating in our eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what i have never understood is if a man has a wife that swinging and they meet as a couple, why would he want to meet a woman for 1 on 1 behind her back? do you think its the thrill of doing it alone, maybe he dont really like men touching his wife so feels better meeting alone where noones playing with her? suppose there could be a number of reasons, any men whos done this and brave enough to reply id be interested to hear lol i just never get it, why meet for a 1 on 1 and risk your marrage when you could be meeting with your wife and all having fun it is so cheating in our eyes"

And ours.

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