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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had my first meet a few days ago, I was pretty nervous as you just never know how it's going to go.

We had been speaking for quite a while and swapped pics etc and got to know each other before the meet which made it less daunting.

The meet went perfect from start to finish, it was even better than I was imagining, and the sex was out of this world! I couldn't have asked for a better first meet to be honest!

It got me thinking... Was I just lucky to get the perfect meet or do some people have horror stories about their first encounter?? I'd be interested to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first meet was very similar actually,

I remember it as if it was yesterday.

Good start for you mate enjoy fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first one was lovely.

We chatted and decided to meet that evening. Met in a north London pub and he came back to mine for the night. Kept in touch for a while but now I'm dating someone so I don't bother with him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"my first meet was very similar actually,

I remember it as if it was yesterday.

Good start for you mate enjoy fab "

Glad to hear it!! And thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first one was lovely.

We chatted and decided to meet that evening. Met in a north London pub and he came back to mine for the night. Kept in touch for a while but now I'm dating someone so I don't bother with him. "

That started off so nice then it sounded like you had a better offer so you got rid of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet was a foursome. The day after I joined. Thought I might as well throw myself in at the deepend. Was amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first ever meet was a foursome. The day after I joined. Thought I might as well throw myself in at the deepend. Was amazing. "

Wow the day after! That's pretty brave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first one was lovely.

We chatted and decided to meet that evening. Met in a north London pub and he came back to mine for the night. Kept in touch for a while but now I'm dating someone so I don't bother with him.

That started off so nice then it sounded like you had a better offer so you got rid of him "

Sorta did. I'm in a monogamous relationship. It was definitely fun and I liked him a lot as a person, I just don't think it's appropriate keeping in touch with my old shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first ever meet was a foursome. The day after I joined. Thought I might as well throw myself in at the deepend. Was amazing.

Wow the day after! That's pretty brave! "

Im surprised people believed I was real tbh haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first ever meet was a foursome. The day after I joined. Thought I might as well throw myself in at the deepend. Was amazing.

Wow the day after! That's pretty brave!

Im surprised people believed I was real tbh haha"

Good on you though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first one was lovely.

We chatted and decided to meet that evening. Met in a north London pub and he came back to mine for the night. Kept in touch for a while but now I'm dating someone so I don't bother with him.

That started off so nice then it sounded like you had a better offer so you got rid of him

Sorta did. I'm in a monogamous relationship. It was definitely fun and I liked him a lot as a person, I just don't think it's appropriate keeping in touch with my old shags. "

A good point well made!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our first play meet was a disaster. Our luck improved afterwards thankfully."

Can I ask why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet was with a couple was a social that inadvertently nearly turned into a dogging session!? Awesome people, still friends with them today.

That was coming for a 10 year monogamous (relatively vanilla) relationship. It blew my mind!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first ever meet was with a couple was a social that inadvertently nearly turned into a dogging session!? Awesome people, still friends with them today.

That was coming for a 10 year monogamous (relatively vanilla) relationship. It blew my mind! "

Sounds like a good first meet!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It went great, carried on seeing him for years but he then moved to the other end of the country but still in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoyed our first time with another couple although it got a little awkward towards the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet bloody awful second one more than made up for the first one and every one I've had after now I know what I want out of them go good

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Define 'fist meet'...

On here or generally in life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It went great, carried on seeing him for years but he then moved to the other end of the country but still in touch

"

Another success story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define 'fist meet'...

On here or generally in life? "

Really?? Did you honestly think my post was about the first time I met anyone in general? I thought the fact I posted it on here would be self explanatory! I'm sure people are not that interested in my first kiss behind the bike shed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First meet bloody awful second one more than made up for the first one and every one I've had after now I know what I want out of them go good "

Why was the first awful??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet, after a 13 year relationship with little sex, was only supposed to be a social. We ended up playing in a car under a flyover on the A1 I think that counted as a 'good first meet'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We enjoyed our first time with another couple although it got a little awkward towards the end. "

Why was it awkward?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We enjoyed our first time with another couple although it got a little awkward towards the end.

Why was it awkward? "

Rather not kiss n tell. They may or may not still read the forums.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Define 'fist meet'...

On here or generally in life?

Really?? Did you honestly think my post was about the first time I met anyone in general? I thought the fact I posted it on here would be self explanatory! I'm sure people are not that interested in my first kiss behind the bike shed "

Just checkin'.

My first meet of here was well weird...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Define 'fist meet'...

On here or generally in life?

Really?? Did you honestly think my post was about the first time I met anyone in general? I thought the fact I posted it on here would be self explanatory! I'm sure people are not that interested in my first kiss behind the bike shed

Just checkin'.

My first meet of here was well weird..."

Still think I got off lightly.

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

My first Fab meet.

Started chatting to her late Sunday night.

Swapped photos and phone numbers.

Chatted on the phone.

By around 4:30am Monday morning, I was booking a hotel.

(It was a bank holiday weekend)

Monday 2:30pm we met and had a lot of fun.

It's not the first time I've had a quick meet from the Internet.

I'm really not interested in waiting for weeks and months to arrange something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first meet, after a 13 year relationship with little sex, was only supposed to be a social. We ended up playing in a car under a flyover on the A1 I think that counted as a 'good first meet' "

I think that certainly qualifies!! Especially as it was on the A1 xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We enjoyed our first time with another couple although it got a little awkward towards the end.

Why was it awkward?

Rather not kiss n tell. They may or may not still read the forums."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define 'fist meet'...

On here or generally in life?

Really?? Did you honestly think my post was about the first time I met anyone in general? I thought the fact I posted it on here would be self explanatory! I'm sure people are not that interested in my first kiss behind the bike shed

Just checkin'.

My first meet of here was well weird...

Still think I got off lightly. "

I'm

Intrigued!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My first Fab meet.

Started chatting to her late Sunday night.

Swapped photos and phone numbers.

Chatted on the phone.

By around 4:30am Monday morning, I was booking a hotel.

(It was a bank holiday weekend)

Monday 2:30pm we met and had a lot of fun.

It's not the first time I've had a quick meet from the Internet.

I'm really not interested in waiting for weeks and months to arrange something. "

Is it just me or did anyone else think there were the lyrics of a well known Craig David song??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet was great. We discovered a lot about ourselves that day too.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Define 'fist meet'...

On here or generally in life?

Really?? Did you honestly think my post was about the first time I met anyone in general? I thought the fact I posted it on here would be self explanatory! I'm sure people are not that interested in my first kiss behind the bike shed

Just checkin'.

My first meet of here was well weird...

Still think I got off lightly.

I'm

Intrigued!!"

Sure you are :P

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Mind you, the *first* meet I had with someone from this site was before I joined and they suggested that I join up.

That was pretty good, except for the dog fetish part but I wasn't having any of that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my first meet, it was fun and it went to quick x.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mind you, the *first* meet I had with someone from this site was before I joined and they suggested that I join up.

That was pretty good, except for the dog fetish part but I wasn't having any of that lol"

What???????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember my first meet, it was fun and it went to quick x."

Hope you didn't bolt too quick mate!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Mind you, the *first* meet I had with someone from this site was before I joined and they suggested that I join up.

That was pretty good, except for the dog fetish part but I wasn't having any of that lol

What???????"

You should see what I can do when I put my mind to it :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even remember who mine was with.

It was a long time ago though.

And my memory isn't very good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember my first meet, it was fun and it went to quick x.

Hope you didn't bolt too quick mate! "
No I don't pal, had some foreplay first as well.

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By *atcher80Man
over a year ago

The

mine was a 3some with a couple in a hotel room. did the pub meet before hand which went brilliantly, then back to our seperate rooms at hotel. I reshowered and got ready in my room, giving them the chance to cancel if they wanted with no pressure. Awaited 30 mins for the text as was both our first times.... longest nervous wait ever! lol ended up having an AMAAAAAZINGLY dirty night with them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"mine was a 3some with a couple in a hotel room. did the pub meet before hand which went brilliantly, then back to our seperate rooms at hotel. I reshowered and got ready in my room, giving them the chance to cancel if they wanted with no pressure. Awaited 30 mins for the text as was both our first times.... longest nervous wait ever! lol ended up having an AMAAAAAZINGLY dirty night with them! "

Good meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't even remember who mine was with.

It was a long time ago though.

And my memory isn't very good."

Not that memorable

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