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Cuckolding...I don't get it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..firstly no offence intended to any man that partaken in this but I don't understand the kick a man gets from 'cleaning up' up after another male has finished in his partner...

I know I'm very alpha, so I'm aware this could have something to do with it but I'm not alpha to the point of not letting a women take control...

Is the degradation...

Is it the taboo side...

I honestly can't understand the buzz...

Don't get me started on Bob and piss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean (partly).

I for one don't fuck another man's missis and yeah I don't quite understand what the man gets out of it really. Kinda find it humimiating his part.

That's why i stick with the single ladies FULL STOP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don't understand it..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to make it clear I'm not disrespecting anyone's personal choices, I just like delving into what turns people on and for what reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..firstly no offence intended to any man that partaken in this but I don't understand the kick a man gets from 'cleaning up' up after another male has finished in his partner...

I know I'm very alpha, so I'm aware this could have something to do with it but I'm not alpha to the point of not letting a women take control...

Is the degradation...

Is it the taboo side...

I honestly can't understand the buzz...

Don't get me started on Bob and piss!! "

You dont get it because you have the wrong definition.

Please... just google 'cuckold definition' then come back.

You are talking about an act that can be part of cuckold fun but is not actually predicated on the term Cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean up may or may not be part of cuckolding. Since your question seems very genuine here is the scientific answer:

In evolutionary biological terms, the sight of one's partner engaged in sex with another man evokes a very primal fear that he will impregnate her. Survival of the fittest and all directs the urge to then fuck her in order that his spunk is replaced by yours, you may notice your dick is the ideal shape to act like a plunger if you'll forgive the crude analogy. This feeling is incredibly strong and it's sort of cool to want your wife again like it's the first time you've met her.

So in short, cuckolding taps into very strong primal emotions that are incredibly arousing to certain types of men.

However, for other types it would just piss them off and send them into a rage, that's kinda the thing with evolution - there clusters of behaviours that are similar but you don't get the same rules for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read some recent research that stated - it increased the motility an/or quantity of sperm in some men. That is, those men that were turned on by cuckolding fantasies )and tested afterviewing cuckold porn).

That gives further credence to it having a evolutionary basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..firstly no offence intended to any man that partaken in this but I don't understand the kick a man gets from 'cleaning up' up after another male has finished in his partner...

I know I'm very alpha, so I'm aware this could have something to do with it but I'm not alpha to the point of not letting a women take control...

Is the degradation...

Is it the taboo side...

I honestly can't understand the buzz...

Don't get me started on Bob and piss!! "

There is much more to cuckolding than 'cleaning up'. Who's Bob??

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"Clean up may or may not be part of cuckolding. Since your question seems very genuine here is the scientific answer:

In evolutionary biological terms, the sight of one's partner engaged in sex with another man evokes a very primal fear that he will impregnate her. Survival of the fittest and all directs the urge to then fuck her in order that his spunk is replaced by yours, you may notice your dick is the ideal shape to act like a plunger if you'll forgive the crude analogy. This feeling is incredibly strong and it's sort of cool to want your wife again like it's the first time you've met her.

So in short, cuckolding taps into very strong primal emotions that are incredibly arousing to certain types of men.

However, for other types it would just piss them off and send them into a rage, that's kinda the thing with evolution - there clusters of behaviours that are similar but you don't get the same rules for everyone "

I couldn't have said it any better. Love your well informed response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get what you mean (partly).

I for one don't fuck another man's missis and yeah I don't quite understand what the man gets out of it really. Kinda find it humimiating his part.

That's why i stick with the single ladies FULL STOP."
your kind of naive this is fabswingers another man wants you to fuck his wife and cuckold not for me hate labels sex is about enjoying the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clean up may or may not be part of cuckolding. Since your question seems very genuine here is the scientific answer:

In evolutionary biological terms, the sight of one's partner engaged in sex with another man evokes a very primal fear that he will impregnate her. Survival of the fittest and all directs the urge to then fuck her in order that his spunk is replaced by yours, you may notice your dick is the ideal shape to act like a plunger if you'll forgive the crude analogy. This feeling is incredibly strong and it's sort of cool to want your wife again like it's the first time you've met her.

So in short, cuckolding taps into very strong primal emotions that are incredibly arousing to certain types of men.

However, for other types it would just piss them off and send them into a rage, that's kinda the thing with evolution - there clusters of behaviours that are similar but you don't get the same rules for everyone "
hehe that's I scientific fact wow I just thought it was something us humans made up to pass the time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clean up may or may not be part of cuckolding. Since your question seems very genuine here is the scientific answer:

In evolutionary biological terms, the sight of one's partner engaged in sex with another man evokes a very primal fear that he will impregnate her. Survival of the fittest and all directs the urge to then fuck her in order that his spunk is replaced by yours, you may notice your dick is the ideal shape to act like a plunger if you'll forgive the crude analogy. This feeling is incredibly strong and it's sort of cool to want your wife again like it's the first time you've met her.

So in short, cuckolding taps into very strong primal emotions that are incredibly arousing to certain types of men.

However, for other types it would just piss them off and send them into a rage, that's kinda the thing with evolution - there clusters of behaviours that are similar but you don't get the same rules for everyone hehe that's I scientific fact wow I just thought it was something us humans made up to pass the time of day "

No not made up. I didn't use the word "fact". I said it was scientific. Science can have competing theories, that's kind of what science is; rival theories being competed and refined.

Try reading Allen MacNeill's 'Evolutionary Psychology' - alternatively present another explanation that you belive is scientific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clean up may or may not be part of cuckolding. Since your question seems very genuine here is the scientific answer:

In evolutionary biological terms, the sight of one's partner engaged in sex with another man evokes a very primal fear that he will impregnate her. Survival of the fittest and all directs the urge to then fuck her in order that his spunk is replaced by yours, you may notice your dick is the ideal shape to act like a plunger if you'll forgive the crude analogy. This feeling is incredibly strong and it's sort of cool to want your wife again like it's the first time you've met her.

So in short, cuckolding taps into very strong primal emotions that are incredibly arousing to certain types of men.

However, for other types it would just piss them off and send them into a rage, that's kinda the thing with evolution - there clusters of behaviours that are similar but you don't get the same rules for everyone

I couldn't have said it any better. Love your well informed response"

Thanks, I like to think it beats the kind of "well in my personal experience" responses (read: sample of 1) and "I once knew a guy who had a friend who said something and it sounded alright at time so I've never reconsidered my view..." types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand it either so am interested hearing viewpoints from people that do.

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