FabSwingers.com forum: When should you give up...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I've had about 5 messages off the same person now which I'm not interested in... I've also said that I'm not interested and good luck, she won't take the hint.. Now do I block or should I leave it... I don't like blocking people if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is annoying you and won;t take no for an answer - why wouldn't you block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this today, had a few (crap) messages off a guy. I just ignored and deleted them. Next thing I know he sends an abusive message, calls me a bitch and blocks me! Saved me a job I suppose

Just block them before it gets nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I've had about 5 messages off the same person now which I'm not interested in... I've also said that I'm not interested and good luck, she won't take the hint.. Now do I block or should I leave it... I don't like blocking people if I'm honest.

Block but then again she could always do a new profile. Maybe report too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block her as it sounds like she isn't going to give up

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Block & forget

Mrs _d40

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

If it's that Mrs ddc I can only pass on my heartfelt apologies. She has discovered they do the local Prosecco in 1½ litre bottles.

Block her

(I know I did once when she was hassling me)

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's that Mrs ddc I can only pass on my heartfelt apologies. She has discovered they do the local Prosecco in 1½ litre bottles.

Block her

(I know I did once when she was hassling me)

Mr ddc"

Tut tut, at least Mrs ddc is having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a serial blocker but I would on this occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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if she uses the forums you won't need to block her after she reads this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fuck her and then she'll leave you alone for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had one today but as luck would have it she seems to have given up after the 4th message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block she obviously isn't getting the hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I a female mailed me. I would not block her.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We had one today but as luck would have it she seems to have given up after the 4th message "

I had that bloody Greta Garbo tap, tap, tapping on my bloody window pane too.

I blocked her, shortie nightie or no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I a female mailed me. I would not block her. "

Even if you weren;t interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, ive been doing it a lot lately, mainly people who dont fit my needs. saves embarrassment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say no thanks you're not interested. Never reply again, just delete any further messages. Report abuse.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I personally would have blocked by now...

Or just ignore any further messages from her. Leave them unread, she will soon get the message, even if it takes a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I'm pretty sure she's got 2 profiles arghhh

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

why are people so sensitive about blocking or being blocked? This is the internet not playschool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone makes an effort, with messages or with attached pics etc, we always reply to say thanks but no thanks (or words to that effect). If they message again a few weeks later (quite often with same pasted text) we check the message history and if they already got told no we block then. No point backing and forthing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Just fuck her and then she'll leave you alone for sure

Haha oooh sharp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone's not got the hint after 2/3 messages = block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this today, had a few (crap) messages off a guy. I just ignored and deleted them. Next thing I know he sends an abusive message, calls me a bitch and blocks me! Saved me a job I suppose

Just block them before it gets nasty."
Does this really happen? It seems stupid to send abusive messages just cause your not someone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What, someone saying no to a woman? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why are people so sensitive about blocking or being blocked? This is the internet not playschool."

I love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had the shortest message ever. A guy 10 miles away sent just a full stop...... just the one.

deleted and blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What, someone saying no to a woman? lol

I (he obviously) have said no to quite a few women. We're not all ready to hang out of a bust ball you know lol. One messaged recently that I am keen to meet though so fingers crossed it comes off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had the shortest message ever. A guy 10 miles away sent just a full stop...... just the one.

deleted and blocked!"

lmao, we once had an exclamation mark and though that was bad, yours is even less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do 'unread deleted' if you don't want to block?

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing

I wish someone would hassle me so I could block them

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

We had one today but as luck would have it she seems to have given up after the 4th message

I had that bloody Greta Garbo tap, tap, tapping on my bloody window pane too.

I blocked her, shortie nightie or no!"

She's been bothering me as well. Bloody woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had the shortest message ever. A guy 10 miles away sent just a full stop...... just the one.

deleted and blocked!"

He may have pressed send in error before he meant to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just had the shortest message ever. A guy 10 miles away sent just a full stop...... just the one.

deleted and blocked!

He may have pressed send in error before he meant to

Haha I've done that before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

toy with her or block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had the shortest message ever. A guy 10 miles away sent just a full stop...... just the one.

deleted and blocked!

He may have pressed send in error before he meant to

Haha I've done that before"
op you blocked him quick enough??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this....do you genuinely really need advice on what to do???

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

She aint all bad; she puts unleaded in her chain saw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this today, had a few (crap) messages off a guy. I just ignored and deleted them. Next thing I know he sends an abusive message, calls me a bitch and blocks me! Saved me a job I suppose

Just block them before it gets nasty. Does this really happen? It seems stupid to send abusive messages just cause your not someone's cup of tea."

Yep. Cannot win either way. Ignore them and you're a bitch. Say no thank you and then you're still a bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had the shortest message ever. A guy 10 miles away sent just a full stop...... just the one.

deleted and blocked!

He may have pressed send in error before he meant to

Haha I've done that before"

Exactly, blocking without seeing if that's the case seems a little harsh but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why are people so sensitive about blocking or being blocked? This is the internet not playschool."

Some people like to treat the block button like it's a weapon of mass destruction. It's just a site tool to stop contact with those you don't wish to communicate with. Any sane person doesn't see it as a personal insult and if they do then you're better off not being able to communicate anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would block. I rarely block people but if they incessantly message after I've already said no and explained why then there is no other option.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Having suffered with a real life stalker, that had to involve the police, block now and forget it. If you get further messages then make notes with exact time and day etc just in case. But never, ever , reply. They take that as a sign you want to speak.

It's really not nice.

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