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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hmmm just a thought and not that I'm complaining, but what it is about couples and single women that you read their profile and they have certain preferences that your not suitable for them, but they look at your profile? It was just a thought, maybe people can change their mind I guess but just wondered what your thoughts are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm just a thought and not that I'm complaining, but what it is about couples and single women that you read their profile and they have certain preferences that your not suitable for them, but they look at your profile? It was just a thought, maybe people can change their mind I guess but just wondered what your thoughts are "

How do they know your not suitable for them until they view your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need to look at your profile to see if you are suitable. Otherwise how would we no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For example, they have prefences like no single men under any circumstance or we not looking for black guys etc :/ I hear what your saying though

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

If it shows someone has looked at our profile or fabbed one of our pics, we look to see who. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank for that I do see what you mean. It doesn't bother me really just wondered what other people thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For example, they have prefences like no single men under any circumstance or we not looking for black guys etc :/ I hear what your saying though "

Maybe the wife likes single black guys but the husband don't want to meet them

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

You don't have to read my profile to know I am unsuitable.

C...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't think of it like that I guess!!! But then you do show interests en they don't reply lol if that's the case then the bloke shouldn't be on a swinging site. Let the female get on with it lol x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It amazes me how may men think it is wrong for women/couples to know what they like or don't like,

It's as if they think that if we are on here we should have sex with anyone who asks.

It really does not work like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You totally missed the point!!! I was merely saying that people have prefences in which they entitled to you but why would you look at a persons profile knowing your not their type or match their prefences. :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to read my profile to know I am unsuitable.

C..."

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Hmmm just a thought and not that I'm complaining, but what it is about couples and single women that you read their profile and they have certain preferences that your not suitable for them, but they look at your profile? It was just a thought, maybe people can change their mind I guess but just wondered what your thoughts are

How do they know your not suitable for them until they view your profile "

this

end of thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You totally missed the point!!! I was merely saying that people have prefences in which they entitled to you but why would you look at a persons profile knowing your not their type or match their prefences. :/ "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Yeah i get what you're saying OP. We got a friend request from a couple ONLY wanting bareback BBC. Not couples or anything else. Just single black guys, which is totally fine, but obviously we are not that as we are a white male and an asian female couple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad you got what I'm saying, just didn't make sense to me why they would look at someone that doesn't does fit their description :/ lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Because they like to window shop. No harm in looking. They might be thinking of entertaining a single man for a change and are seeing what's out there

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"It amazes me how may men think it is wrong for women/couples to know what they like or don't like,

It's as if they think that if we are on here we should have sex with anyone who asks.

It really does not work like that."

Nowhere did he say that or even mean that.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"You totally missed the point!!! I was merely saying that people have prefences in which they entitled to you but why would you look at a persons profile knowing your not their type or match their prefences. :/ "

Maybe they have seen a forum post, your avatar caught their eye or they are just plain nosey, like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we have stealth mode enabled full time, it's nice to look for what you want without leaving a trail of bread crumbs that result in messages from people who we don't think we match.

If we look and like then we will message or wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm just a thought and not that I'm complaining, but what it is about couples and single women that you read their profile and they have certain preferences that your not suitable for them, but they look at your profile? It was just a thought, maybe people can change their mind I guess but just wondered what your thoughts are "

it's what is commonly known as perving!! if you have pics on your profile...especially ones showing all, then I'm afraid its an open invitation for anyone to look regardless of whether you are suitable for them or not.....

you can usually tell if you get the same people revisiting your profile regularly....so if you are wondering why they aren't messaging you...they are too busy 'appreciating the picures'

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