FabSwingers.com forum: ladies would you do this

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know many women won't meet One half of a couple because of concerns. To be honest if I had any interest in meeting without Mr I'd prefer it with half of a couple I already knew and had met with Mr.

We have tried a few things in the past and what worked for me was when we were both planning on sending photos and videos and I spoke to the lady more than Mr did coming up to the meet.. I found this a huge turn on and felt very into this and was actually gutted when it fell through. ( none swinging reasons )

However as easy as it would be for me to get a guy to talk to Mr, discuss what photos he would love. Finding women either single or part of a couple that are happy to Fully engage with the female half is proving difficult.

The only successful meet like this we had was with a good friend of ours who I had talked to all week and thhey met in our hotel First for a few hours, then I joined them... And then we had the rest of the night to ourselves.

So are there women out there that are happy to engage wjth the lady to set up meets and keep her included in it. As I have read lots on here that most women dont want to as its the guy they see meeting.

For me if I'm meeting a guy alone it's not really alone I'm still having a couples meet its just Mr isn't there so I have to find ways of keeping him included... Normally video or photos... (Currently have no Desire to meet alone after trying a few times and finding it not for me at all)

But I'm not to sure other women like to be reminded that there is another woman xx I can't quite grasp this as if I meet someone else's partner I am and have been quite happy to take photos for her and to be honest I enjoyed it more because I knew that she was enjoying it. And I got to talk to her after...

So are there any other ladies that are happy to keep the partner included.

I've been told by some ladies that sorry but they want the guys attention on them not getting shots that please their partner but I find that a little Selfish and I never just think about the guy I'm With.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think in the way Ligea has described would work for me if I was in a similar situation.

Otherwise it wouldn't enhance my sexual experience meeting the male half via the women ~ I prefer to be the centre of his attention when we meet and I like the flirty build up beforehand."

Oh no Mr would certainly do a lot of the talking . I just meant women that would be happy to include the other partner too.

Although I what I enjoyed in the past meets that worked was the woman and I talking after. I enjoy the same with couples that we have met.. especially the ones that really enjoy Mr. Or met him as a single before we were together... I enjoy hearing how much they enjoy him x its hard to explain x