FabSwingers.com forum: filing sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is it really that bad if the girl knows about it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oops, Filming is what i meant

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"is it really that bad if the girl knows about it..."

why would you film her if she didn't know about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are into filming women with or without there permission then good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is it really that bad if the girl knows about it...

why would you film her if she didn't know about it?"

that's sad. i prefer if she new then she would look at the camera just like in porn....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it really that bad if the girl knows about it...

why would you film her if she didn't know about it?

that's sad. i prefer if she new then she would look at the camera just like in porn....lol

But I take it you are not bothered if they don't know???????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is it really that bad if the girl knows about it...

why would you film her if she didn't know about it?

that's sad. i prefer if she new then she would look at the camera just like in porn....lol

But I take it you are not bothered if they don't know???????????"

i said 'thats sad'

i'm not that tpe of person..well i am devious but not in that way, more like raiding the cookie tin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people perefer to be asked if they were going to be filmed cause it can cause some problems if they found out later on u filmed them with out their premmision

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By *y_funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

SHEFFIELD

WTF?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

am off for a lie down with a cold wet flannel over my face..

this place gets more weird by the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"am off for a lie down with a cold wet flannel over my face..

this place gets more weird by the day

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lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"am off for a lie down with a cold wet flannel over my face..

this place gets more weird by the day

lol

is the nature of filming to do it behind their back then

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"am off for a lie down with a cold wet flannel over my face..

this place gets more weird by the day

phfffff.....says the man who fancies the feckin' bank robbers, other people are risking their lives tackling them and all you want to do is fiddle with their bits.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"am off for a lie down with a cold wet flannel over my face..

this place gets more weird by the day

phfffff.....says the man who fancies the feckin' bank robbers, other people are risking their lives tackling them and all you want to do is fiddle with their bits.

lol xxxxxx fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think it os always best if she does actually know about it.

Theres a word that springs to mind that is associated with doing it without someones permission, but the word escapes me at the moment, hang on though, I think it's comming to me now.

Errrm JAIL ! That's it I knew it would come to me in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally, I think it os always best if she does actually know about it.

Theres a word that springs to mind that is associated with doing it without someones permission, but the word escapes me at the moment, hang on though, I think it's comming to me now.

Errrm JAIL ! That's it I knew it would come to me in the end

not everyone knows every law and even if they did they still have to accept it as a law

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Personally, I think it os always best if she does actually know about it.

Theres a word that springs to mind that is associated with doing it without someones permission, but the word escapes me at the moment, hang on though, I think it's comming to me now.

Errrm JAIL ! That's it I knew it would come to me in the end

not everyone knows every law and even if they did they still have to accept it as a law

Yeah.....and if things don't change they will stay as they are!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally, I think it os always best if she does actually know about it.

Theres a word that springs to mind that is associated with doing it without someones permission, but the word escapes me at the moment, hang on though, I think it's comming to me now.

Errrm JAIL ! That's it I knew it would come to me in the end

not everyone knows every law and even if they did they still have to accept it as a law

Yeah.....and if things don't change they will stay as they are!"

but u either adapt to society or not.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you and a partner are having conscensual sex and conscensually filming it great. If the girl doesnt know not only is it WRONG its weird

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

And a bird in the hand is worth a feel of my bush...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you and a partner are having conscensual sex and conscensually filming it great. If the girl doesnt know not only is it WRONG its weird"

i know it's wrong but i didn't need a law to tell me that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And a bird in the hand is worth a feel of my bush..."

so if i can get a bird to sit on my hand i can do a little wondering

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"If you and a partner are having conscensual sex and conscensually filming it great. If the girl doesnt know not only is it WRONG its weird

i know it's wrong but i didn't need a law to tell me that"

Well if someone knew it was wrong and they did it and there wasnt a law how would they get sentenced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody should ever film anyone without their consent, or take photographs of them. Saying you prefer it if they knew, suggests that you probably would still go ahead if they didnt.

Im quite horrified actually at this thought. Who knows what could happen if anything like that ever got out onto the internet, it could ruin someones life. Im sure its a criminal offence too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you and a partner are having conscensual sex and conscensually filming it great. If the girl doesnt know not only is it WRONG its weird

i know it's wrong but i didn't need a law to tell me that

Well if someone knew it was wrong and they did it and there wasnt a law how would they get sentenced"

knowing with yur mind and feelings.

do u need to commit a crime before u accept it is a crime. some things are inherent in u

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody should ever film anyone without their consent, or take photographs of them. Saying you prefer it if they knew, suggests that you probably would still go ahead if they didnt.

Im quite horrified actually at this thought. Who knows what could happen if anything like that ever got out onto the internet, it could ruin someones life. Im sure its a criminal offence too

I didn't say i prefer it. i prefer them knowing so they look at the camera...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody should ever film anyone without their consent, or take photographs of them. Saying you prefer it if they knew, suggests that you probably would still go ahead if they didnt.

Im quite horrified actually at this thought. Who knows what could happen if anything like that ever got out onto the internet, it could ruin someones life. Im sure its a criminal offence too

I didn't say i prefer it. i prefer them knowing so they look at the camera...

So,if they didnt want to be filmed would you just go ahead and film them anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I originally clicked this post becuaseci was untitled tonknow what filing sex was.

Now I have read the post and the comments, I'm horrified by it. Some people are quite happy with the sexuality but many like their personal lives kept as such. Filming someonexwithput their consent is plain wrong.

Nowt wrong with filming with consent and keeping that private between the agreed adults but doing it without their consent, that's just plain perverted. Sickening... Sorry but it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody should ever film anyone without their consent, or take photographs of them. Saying you prefer it if they knew, suggests that you probably would still go ahead if they didnt.

Im quite horrified actually at this thought. Who knows what could happen if anything like that ever got out onto the internet, it could ruin someones life. Im sure its a criminal offence too

I didn't say i prefer it. i prefer them knowing so they look at the camera...

So,if they didnt want to be filmed would you just go ahead and film them anyway?"

how could i. a real director stops and starts...

it would be highly suspicious

seriously i wouldn't do that...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

have I wandered into a parallel reality?? if someone filmed me without either my knowledge or consent then (if it was a female), I would be using their tits as lampshades or if it was guy then I would be using their balls as Christmas tree decorations or earrings!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have I wandered into a parallel reality?? if someone filmed me without either my knowledge or consent then (if it was a female), I would be using their tits as lampshades or if it was guy then I would be using their balls as Christmas tree decorations or earrings!!!!"

I'm pretty sure they wouldnt have anything worth using as earrings to be honest.....as much as I love a picture if a sexy woman, there's a line you don't cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't laughed so much in ages...... Poor O.P x Poor Veiw .....lol ...

Just goes to show how things get out of hand.

NOT ONCE did the OP say that he thinks it's okay to film someone without their knowledge..... sheesh ...

He keeps saying he WANTS them to know.

Im gonna read it again .....cos it'll make me laugh AGAIN.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm missing something but I can't see where the OP said that it was OK to film without consent.

My answer to the original question is no, it's not wrong to film with consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just me and you then D.A

I read it again ......twas just as funny .... Poor bugger keeps pleadin but no ones readin' xx

I really wanted to know how to file sex.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

In that case, I apologise for my mistake at having read things wrong. Sorry OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm totally shocked what is the OP on about, filming someone having sex if they don't know that is the sickest thing I've read on these forums, you deserve the roasting your gonna get on here serves you right you sick puppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I said

IF i was to film i would RATHER have them know

As for filming as it stands - it has a sordid reputation anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just me and you then D.A

I read it again ......twas just as funny .... Poor bugger keeps pleadin but no ones readin' xx

I really wanted to know how to file sex."
It was the typo that drew me in, I mean if you have anal with two men and a woman and then three more cum and squirt on her face then she posses everywhere, filing that would be a nightmare, even redtube and youporn struggle to get that right

damned if I'm letting my iTunes organise it, would file it all under family holidays or something.

And yeh I read the op a certain way too but yes reading back, easy to see where train if conversation derailed. Stand by my comments though, filing without consent is plain wrong and sick.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Just me and you then D.A

I read it again ......twas just as funny .... Poor bugger keeps pleadin but no ones readin' xx

I really wanted to know how to file sex.It was the typo that drew me in, I mean if you have anal with two men and a woman and then three more cum and squirt on her face then she posses everywhere, filing that would be a nightmare, even redtube and youporn struggle to get that right

damned if I'm letting my iTunes organise it, would file it all under family holidays or something.

And yeh I read the op a certain way too but yes reading back, easy to see where train if conversation derailed. Stand by my comments though, filing without consent is plain wrong and sick."

I before E except after c and Mac before Mc... I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filming before filing is even worse, predictive text. Damn this iPod, apple you die......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It fell down with the word - prefer

The OP probably hasnt expressed himself clearly enough and I admit some of his replies were a bit like riddles

But when he said, Id prefer her to know - did immediately lead to the conclusion that he might still do it regardless. of course he didnt say this but once someone questioned that, then it led to the whole host of replies that its received. I am guilty of not reading all replies in a thread, I tend to go to the last reply, so miss half of it in the middle etc, and all of us are capable of reading something and putting our own slant on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It fell down with the word - prefer

The OP probably hasnt expressed himself clearly enough and I admit some of his replies were a bit like riddles

ok, poor choice of words. i shouldn't use 'prefer'

what should i have said? How do u say something and at the same time illiminate the other from your preference.

*oh dear*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too right but he should read back what he put in the 1st place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too right but he should read back what he put in the 1st place"

i still stand by it..

as i said, filming in general is looked upon as sordid.

all i said was how can it be sordid when the girl knows about it..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Too right but he should read back what he put in the 1st place

i still stand by it..

as i said, filming in general is looked upon as sordid.

all i said was how can it be sordid when the girl knows about it.."

Who says its sordid when its conscential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was all a bit of hit and miss wasnt it. firstly with the mistyping of the thread name, so everyone had an image of filing cabinets to start off with and then just an obscure sentence that I didnt actually understand.

It might have looked better if it had been written like this:-

What are your _iews about being filmed whilst having sex. Is it a big taboo even if the female is happy to be filmed. I am interested in home made porn, with everyone's consent, is this acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too right but he should read back what he put in the 1st place

i still stand by it..

as i said, filming in general is looked upon as sordid.

all i said was how can it be sordid when the girl knows about it..

Who says its sordid when its conscential"

ignore whether the girl knows or doesn't know. the reputation of filming is seen as getting upto no good.

thats what i was asking......

hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is that what you mean OP, or are you saying that you think filming sex is sordid even if the female is happy to do so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is that what you mean OP, or are you saying that you think filming sex is sordid even if the female is happy to do so? "

hmmmm

I want the girl to know as she would look in the camera hopefully. and all the memories will flood back to me when i play it back

but also there may be more than one girl on film and i would want to clarify wh it was...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus ...are you really going to keep replying to people who are giving you elocution lessons ? Fuck me ......

But don't film it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just for the record 'fuck me' wasn't an invite it was exasperation ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking forward to reading about some office nookie against the cabinets

I have been filmed before and yes I knew about it. It was bloody brilliant and watching it back afterwards was fantastic. I still have a copy somewhere...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was looking forward to reading about some office nookie against the cabinets

I have been filmed before and yes I knew about it. It was bloody brilliant and watching it back afterwards was fantastic. I still have a copy somewhere..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This man is crackers!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I originally clicked this post becuaseci was untitled tonknow what filing sex was.

Nowt wrong with filming with consent and keeping that private between the agreed adults but doing it without their consent, that's just plain perverted. Sickening... Sorry but it is."

I am totally with you!! Didn't read this earlier for the same reasons, but I am actually horrified that a man actually has to ask that question....think the OP needs some socialising skills, sorry if that sounds harsh, but can you hear yourself??? Just plain wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a forum this is, its incredible to read some of the posts in this thread, some of the people replying should read back and be ashamed of themselves, the Op asks a question and gets made out to be a raving pervert who should be locked up. Sad that people who are on a swinging site are so bloody narrow minded, self righteous and bloody rude.

Master ( Katie can have her own opinion )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry master but go back and read what he put

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

ignore whether the girl knows or doesn't know. the reputation of filming is seen as getting upto no good

hahah

SORRY, some people will just not see past this statement!!!!! reads now that you are condoning this act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore whether the girl knows or doesn't know. the reputation of filming is seen as getting upto no good

hahah

SORRY, some people will just not see past this statement!!!!! reads now that you are condoning this act"

I think what he's trying to state is that his point isn't about whether the person knows or not, but about the act of filming in general.

Is it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct !

He is saying whether the person knows or not the act of filmin is 'in general' frowned upon.

Talk about a witch hunt.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

but when it comes to filming surely the "other person" should have a choice to agree or not to the filming?.... the OP has never mentioned this (if he has then I apologise)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but when it comes to filming surely the "other person" should have a choice to agree or not to the filming?.... the OP has never mentioned this (if he has then I apologise)"

Of course.

However because something isn't mentioned, should one assume?

I don't think that was the point of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah bless ,I always soooo look forward to the OP's posts, its not the first time that he has made me laugh, though.

Unfortunately not in the same way that View does!

But Although he said filing, i thought it was going to be about flings, still he never dissappoints, think you are way past the shovel stage and may now need a JCB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not kidding Testy ...... lol ....he keeps on goin tho . x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

That is the problem with the written text, if you do not write it properly people with always read it their way, and unfortunately the way I read was 'is it ok to film without knowledge' as they wanted the other party to look into the camera as if they were in a porn movie'....to me that is how I read it as that was the way it was written, other than that, no apologies from me.

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By *hebrummiesCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you make a "home movie" of yourself/friends/lovers/partners, they MUST be made aware of it...

However, I have been in a situation (many moons ago) where I wasn't made aware of filming at a party until AFTERWARDS, along with the rest of the guests. We were then all told that this had been filmed, shown the footage (we were all there for over 36 hours as part of the party deal) and told we were free to immediately delete any part we were not comfortable with, so if you didn't want yourself on there at all, this was deleted, or if you simply wanted the parts where you were identifiable deleted then this was done...

This was done in the very early 1990's though, the recording material extremely easy to control (ahhh the grand old days of the VCR!) and therefore the end result was totally under our control...

Now? No, I would be furious, with live streaming etc available I would never know what to believe or trust... There are ways around that if you are looking for an unaware filming, the idea can be discussed and decided many days/weeks/months beforehand, limits talked about and imposed, with no-one knowing when, or if it is ever likely to happen - that could work...

Another point though... If you do make the consensual home movie - ALWAYS make sure everyone involved knows EXACTLY what you intend to do with the footage, and stick by what you promise, coming across myself on rudetube or similar with filming I thought was for personal use only would have me round your house with an axe!

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By *ixson-BallsMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

so after all these comments....what IS filing sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I really don't know whats got into some people on here at the moment

Witch hunt is so correct

People happy to jump on the bandwagon and join in without even reading a word the OP has to say,or twisting it to suit so you can just have a go

It makes you all look ridiculous

If this keeps up like it has the last few days people will find they won't be able to post anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so after all these comments....what IS filing sex??

I dunno ... people seem to have simply overlooked us filing fetishists .... UP WITH FILING SEX ....

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