FabSwingers.com forum: Manners don't cost anything

By *ommy26. OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have been on here a long time, I see people I like and match their age range and descriptions but they don't reply.

How many other people find it annoying when they don't reply, all I am looking for is a bit of fun !! Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then you should know they get inundated with emails and do mass deletes often, don't worry about it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here a long time, I see people I like and match their age range and descriptions but they don't reply.

How many other people find it annoying when they don't reply, all I am looking for is a bit of fun !! Simple "

dont you think alot of cpls and single ladys get alot of mail not just that you cant Cannot accommodate or travel so how you going meet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your gripe isn't so much that they don't reply,it's more the fact they don't want fun with you when you want fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly mate...this has been done to death..

Try and befriend a female user...no matter what they look like and just ask to look at their inbox...its literally ridiculous..women are innundated..not just 2 or 3 a day..and if they upload a hot pic they can wake up to over 100 unread...

Now add to that at least 30% just asking for 'a fuck'

30% not asking ANYTHING just hey

30% asking for the bizzare or disgusting..5% being fucking rude...then it leaves around 5% of a decent offer...

So...would you really sit and filter all that AND rsvp???

Just take it on the chin mate..if theres no reply then its a no likey...move in and up

Enjoy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here a long time, I see people I like and match their age range and descriptions but they don't reply.

How many other people find it annoying when they don't reply, all I am looking for is a bit of fun !! Simple "

Nope...not annoying at all...

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here a long time, I see people I like and match their age range and descriptions but they don't reply.

How many other people find it annoying when they don't reply, all I am looking for is a bit of fun !! Simple "

We've had about a thousand pizza leaflets, patio cleaners, roofers, taxis and God knows what else come through our letterbox and we haven't replied to a single one to tell them we don't want their services and yet we match everything they're looking for in a customer. Are we rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then you should know they get inundated with emails and do mass deletes often, don't worry about it lol."

You need patience lol

Sorry Shag I couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above..we don't always have time to reply and give feedback to everyone. I do try to reply to everyone with a no thank you. Some men will ask why not and want feedback as you said,I may tell them if I'm not busy chatting to someone already. I can't ignore the possibles for the nevers. I have 17 unread mails I have to get back to at some point. They have gone off my page so I have no idea who they are from. People aren't being rude,they are using their time for their benefit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a cpl we get quite a lot of messages.When we have time we reply to some.If its a no sometimes we get"why not whats up with me" and so on.So you would need a PA to sort it all out.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have been on here a long time, I see people I like and match their age range and descriptions but they don't reply.

How many other people find it annoying when they don't reply, all I am looking for is a bit of fun !! Simple "

I, I and I.

Its not all about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then you should know they get inundated with emails and do mass deletes often, don't worry about it lol.

You need patience lol

Sorry Shag I couldn't resist

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loll its fine and fun as well

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have been on here a long time, I see people I like and match their age range and descriptions but they don't reply.

How many other people find it annoying when they don't reply, all I am looking for is a bit of fun !! Simple "

And replying back costs more than manners it costs time

Time is precious! Dont waste it

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By *ommy26. OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

The point I am trying to get at is I have spent the time asking somebody a question to get to know them and they completely ignore blank it,I understand that they may get a lot of mail, but even I answer every question they send me, a quick "not interested" reply wouldn't go a miss !

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been explained there maybe 100 plus messages. When you reply to all those messages. That 100 messages may well turn into 400 before the message is received that they are not interested in your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly mate...this has been done to death..

Now add to that at least 30% just asking for 'a fuck'

30% not asking ANYTHING just hey

30% asking for the bizzare or disgusting..5% being fucking rude...then it leaves around 5% of a decent offer...

So...would you really sit and filter all that AND rsvp???

Just take it on the chin mate..if theres no reply then its a no likey...move in and up

Enjoy.."

Well said. Someone who seems to appreciate the 'difficulties' others have.

Then take into account reading a few and getting mightily ticked off and that may cover why some send irksome and annoyed messages in reply when you think your single message, taken as one message all alone, 'wasn't that bad'. Try reading 5-50 crass/rude/tedious messages before getting to 'yours' x

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

If you just take no reply as a sign they're not interested, you'll enjoy the site more

Admin x

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