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"I think the true definition of the word would be for couples wouldn't it? " In this thread I am purely interested in what people think of themselves, so would you call yourself a swinger? | |||
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"I think the true definition of the word would be for couples wouldn't it? " I am on here as a single and as a couple, and in neither case am I sure that I am ... like a previous poster says, does it really matter? | |||
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"Not really a swinger but I'm just having fun so who cares " | |||
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"I think the true definition of the word would be for couples wouldn't it? " I would have thought so but then Austin Powers claimed he put the "gerrr" in "swinger" and he was single... | |||
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""Swinger" is a term originally catered for couples! So any singles wouldn't be classed as swingers " Not at all. It's more to do with state of mind rather relationship status. | |||
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"I am. In fact I'd say most people are on here." 17 people responded so far, only 6 said they are swingers and one wasnt sure. | |||
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""Swinger" is a term originally catered for couples! So any singles wouldn't be classed as swingers Not at all. It's more to do with state of mind rather relationship status. " I agree. I go to clubs and enjoy group sessions so consider myself a swinger | |||
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"Would you describe yourself as a swinger? We would." you cannot be a swinger if you dont meet, so you might be a redundant one | |||
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"Would you describe yourself as a swinger? We would. you cannot be a swinger if you dont meet, so you might be a redundant one " But we do meet, so i don't understand what you mean. | |||
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"tags i for clothes, i am sexual freedom fighter" me too and it don't need a name tag . lol | |||
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"tags i for clothes, i am sexual freedom fighterme too and it don't need a name tag . lol " i would like to tag you | |||
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"I am. In fact I'd say most people are on here. 17 people responded so far, only 6 said they are swingers and one wasnt sure." That's up to them. If they looked up the definition of swinger some might change their minds. | |||
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"tags i for clothes, i am sexual freedom fighterme too and it don't need a name tag . lol i would like to tag you " lol could be our new kinky game . | |||
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"tags i for clothes, i am sexual freedom fighterme too and it don't need a name tag . lol i would like to tag you lol could be our new kinky game . " as long as you can peg i will play that game tag n peg spin the wheel | |||
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"If swinging is just for couples, why do they look for women and men tho? lol." To use and abuse lmao xx | |||
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"If swinging is just for couples, why do they look for women and men tho? lol. To use and abuse lmao xx" take me please | |||
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"If swinging is just for couples, why do they look for women and men tho? lol. To use and abuse lmao xx" lol that's a good one | |||
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"I am. In fact I'd say most people are on here. 17 people responded so far, only 6 said they are swingers and one wasnt sure. That's up to them. If they looked up the definition of swinger some might change their minds." As far as the broad minded 2015 updated definition then yes I am. But I hate the term 'swinger' as it still infers the seventies elitist yet narrow minded mentality of wife swapping. So I will not use the term for myself. | |||
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"I am. In fact I'd say most people are on here. 17 people responded so far, only 6 said they are swingers and one wasnt sure. That's up to them. If they looked up the definition of swinger some might change their minds. As far as the broad minded 2015 updated definition then yes I am. But I hate the term 'swinger' as it still infers the seventies elitist yet narrow minded mentality of wife swapping. So I will not use the term for myself." I prefer the 60s free love version of 'swingers' myself. There does seem to be a belief that 'swinging' is wife swapping. Very narrow minded. | |||
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"Would you describe yourself as a swinger? We would." Yes we are a couple who enjoy nsa sex with other couples or singles | |||
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""Swinger" is a term originally catered for couples! So any singles wouldn't be classed as swingers " You are thinking of wifeswappers. | |||
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"I'm not looking to meet and have no interest in group sex as a singleton but yes I am a swinger" Without wishing to go off topic , if you are not looking to meet , how does that make you a swinger ? | |||
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"I'm not looking to meet and have no interest in group sex as a singleton but yes I am a swinger Without wishing to go off topic , if you are not looking to meet , how does that make you a swinger ?" sexual fantasy swinger or timewaster as most call them on here | |||
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"If swinging is just for couples, why do they look for women and men tho? lol. To use and abuse lmao xxlol that's a good one " In our defence we usually give the person whatever they want lol xx | |||
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"If swinging is just for couples, why do they look for women and men tho? lol. To use and abuse lmao xxlol that's a good one In our defence we usually give the person whatever they want lol xx" can i have a car please | |||
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"If swinging is just for couples, why do they look for women and men tho? lol. To use and abuse lmao xx take me please " That's sweet of you xx | |||
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"I'm not looking to meet and have no interest in group sex as a singleton but yes I am a swinger Without wishing to go off topic , if you are not looking to meet , how does that make you a swinger ?" It's not off topic and a perfectly valid question . I went to my first swinging event almost 8 years ago, I've been meeting people, going to clubs and going to socials ever since until a few months ago. And I eexpect I will be again at some point in the relatively near future. But for now I'm taking a break. And just because I'm not presently swinging I don't think that equates to not being a swinger. But equally if this break turns out to be longer than I anticipate at some point I will say that I used to be a swinger | |||
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"I'm not looking to meet and have no interest in group sex as a singleton but yes I am a swinger Without wishing to go off topic , if you are not looking to meet , how does that make you a swinger ?sexual fantasy swinger or timewaster as most call them on here " No disrespect mate but an awful lot of the regular forumites can tellr youhow wide off the mark that comment is | |||
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"I'm not looking to meet and have no interest in group sex as a singleton but yes I am a swinger Without wishing to go off topic , if you are not looking to meet , how does that make you a swinger ? It's not off topic and a perfectly valid question . I went to my first swinging event almost 8 years ago, I've been meeting people, going to clubs and going to socials ever since until a few months ago. And I eexpect I will be again at some point in the relatively near future. But for now I'm taking a break. And just because I'm not presently swinging I don't think that equates to not being a swinger. But equally if this break turns out to be longer than I anticipate at some point I will say that I used to be a swinger" That's a very valid explanation , and that certainly makes you a swinger in our eyes | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one " I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser" Who mentioned relationship? | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser Who mentioned relationship? " Your a single female therefore you must be clingy and after love, has nobody told you this yet | |||
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"No, I think we are just sexually liberated. We don't always and only meet couples, so I don't think the old fashioned term "swinger" applies. -Courtney" Yep nail on head. Sexually liberated, that's the one. | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser Who mentioned relationship? " Good point hahaha I'm still a noob | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser Who mentioned relationship? Your a single female therefore you must be clingy and after love, has nobody told you this yet " Not to my face, but I'm sure behind my back I'm def not looking or after love and def not clingy going by going from some of the stories Iv heard I am however after respect (yes even though it is a sex site) and to be treated the way I treat others. I know, I know, I'm on the wrong site | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser Who mentioned relationship? Your a single female therefore you must be clingy and after love, has nobody told you this yet " Lol, or I'm a retard | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser Who mentioned relationship? Your a single female therefore you must be clingy and after love, has nobody told you this yet Lol, or I'm a retard " | |||
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"Would you describe yourself as a swinger? We would." I'd like to think I was as I quite like the idea of having a lifestyle choice but I'm probably not. I'll have to think of something else. | |||
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"If I say no,I'm just looking for a bit of cock to cheer me up,will the swinging police come and take me away? " Not till they've taken us first ! | |||
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"If I say no,I'm just looking for a bit of cock to cheer me up,will the swinging police come and take me away? " nee naw nee naw nee nawwwww | |||
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"I'd say we are swinger's that like extra. We mainly full swop with other couples but also do sometimes have fun with singles too. We have lots of very good like minded friends that we socialise with as well as have sex with. But also I (Mrs) have started to meet alone as an extra kink to our relationship too. " | |||
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"If I say no,I'm just looking for a bit of cock to cheer me up,will the swinging police come and take me away? nee naw nee naw nee nawwwww" Iss a fair cop. Ooh nice handcuffs | |||
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"No, as I'm single female. I'm here to meet genuine men that are a gentleman and know how to treat a lady, even sexually. Iv experienced both a gentleman and a tosser, I know which I prefer. If I'm on the wrong site, please do point be to another as I'd quite happily leave this one I'd love to be your gentleman, but sadly I'm going to have no time for relationships when college starts. Also, I'm neither a gentleman nor a tosser Who mentioned relationship? Your a single female therefore you must be clingy and after love, has nobody told you this yet Not to my face, but I'm sure behind my back I'm def not looking or after love and def not clingy going by going from some of the stories Iv heard I am however after respect (yes even though it is a sex site) and to be treated the way I treat others. I know, I know, I'm on the wrong site " | |||
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