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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see so many profiles on here men and women that state they are married so discretion is needed surely they should be on findafuckbuddy or some similar site, surely they can't be swingers if they are cheating

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

A lot of the single guys are married we can spot them always have a shower after fun

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Always an emotive subject on the forums, everyone has an opinion - there are many reasons for people being on this site - best thing to do is if you don't like or agree with what someone is doing, move along to the next profile

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

They want sex, this is a site for sex. Swinging offers casual,no strings sex.

As long as they are telling you they are married up front you have a choice to meet them or not. It's the sneaky ones you have to watch out for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you call a single person a swinger regardless if there married or not?

Yet this site allows singles to join..

Everyone has different opinions on things.. block/ delete and find better suited naughty people instead would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did not realise that only guys cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooo not seen this subject before. Please continue.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"They want sex, this is a site for sex. Swinging offers casual,no strings sex.

As long as they are telling you they are married up front you have a choice to meet them or not. It's the sneaky ones you have to watch out for!

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you get my vote , if there married and you dont want to meet them dont problem solved , let the married females and men meet each other that way every one has some fun , with hopefully a lot of sex ,

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i did not realise that only guys cheat"

She didn't say that, women were included in her post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many profiles on here men and women that state they are married so discretion is needed surely they should be on findafuckbuddy or some similar site, surely they can't be swingers if they are cheating"

You could also argue that singles seeking singles are not swinging. Or that people who only want to use the chat rooms or foums shouldn't be on tbe site. And there aee probably otger examples too

Let them get on with it, if a profile isn't fir you pass it by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many profiles on here men and women that state they are married so discretion is needed surely they should be on findafuckbuddy or some similar site, surely they can't be swingers if they are cheating

You could also argue that singles seeking singles are not swinging. Or that people who only want to use the chat rooms or foums shouldn't be on tbe site. And there aee probably otger examples too

Let them get on with it, if a profile isn't fir you pass it by. "

take up skateboarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many profiles on here men and women that state they are married so discretion is needed surely they should be on findafuckbuddy or some similar site, surely they can't be swingers if they are cheating

You could also argue that singles seeking singles are not swinging. Or that people who only want to use the chat rooms or foums shouldn't be on tbe site. And there aee probably otger examples too

Let them get on with it, if a profile isn't fir you pass it by.

take up skateboarding"

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take up skate boarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couples that are married to each other require that same discretion as long as they are being honest than thats fine like one reply has said its the sneaky ones who dont declare it thats more one to watch but we are all adults make your choice if a married person's profile is not for you move on

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Some couples that are married to each other require that same discretion as long as they are being honest than thats fine like one reply has said its the sneaky ones who dont declare it thats more one to watch but we are all adults make your choice if a married person's profile is not for you move on "

well said ,

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

Why can't there be an option on sign up opt for happy to play with married guy/fem yes or no and hide from timeline search etc .

And put a end to this once and for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't there be an option on sign up opt for happy to play with married guy/fem yes or no and hide from timeline search etc .

And put a end to this once and for all "

"The enemy has come up with a new plan sir, they've started to actually not tell the truth!"

"The fiends! Is there no end to the lengths they'll go!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people lie and we don't want to hire private investigators to vet every single potential meet we go on the basis of not giving a flying crap about people's marital situation. We play with who we want to play with if they'll play with us.

They're adults and it's their problem not ours.

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

What ?

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you


"Because people lie and we don't want to hire private investigators to vet every single potential meet we go on the basis of not giving a flying crap about people's marital situation. We play with who we want to play with if they'll play with us.

They're adults and it's their problem not ours."
Ok that's better lol

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you


"Why can't there be an option on sign up opt for happy to play with married guy/fem yes or no and hide from timeline search etc .

And put a end to this once and for all

"The enemy has come up with a new plan sir, they've started to actually not tell the truth!"

"The fiends! Is there no end to the lengths they'll go!""
So would that be a good move on fans behalf? Then the ones who don't won't and the ones that do do !!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

NOW WITH ADDED OUTRAGE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

football teams play away and no one complains there

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


" A lot of the single guys are married we can spot them always have a shower after fun"

If my hubby came home freshly showered, I would start to wonder .... but as he always showers at home, think we are safe ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine if everyone who either has cheated on their spouse, or is thinking about it was banned from using this site. The drop in revenue would be humongous. Maybe ask the site owners what they think about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not anyone else's place to tell someone whether they should be here or not. Avoid anyone you don't want to meet or talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i did not realise that only guys cheat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is used as a meet for a shag by lots of guys and girls playing away. I personally do not judge, if I wanna play with someone I'll play we are not after all looking for emotional connection or love we are all looking to have our sexual appetite satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many profiles on here men and women that state they are married so discretion is needed surely they should be on findafuckbuddy or some similar site, surely they can't be swingers if they are cheating"

Maybe we are looking for swingers to play with....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a single guy is not a swinger does he become one if he joins a party at a club or private...mmm chicken and egg syndrome me thinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a single guy is not a swinger does he become one if he joins a party at a club or private...mmm chicken and egg syndrome me thinks"

I'm not saying a single guy or gal can't be a swinger but surely if they are cheating they can't be swingers....swinging is consensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aah! What if he/she is a gay married person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A lot of the single guys are married we can spot them always have a shower after fun"

Is it only married men who like to be clean? I shower before I meet. I shower after I've played. I really need that shower after.

Fairy snuff I'm married but I'm not hiding anything. I just don't like putting clothes on when I've been, er, perspiring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't there be an option on sign up opt for happy to play with married guy/fem yes or no and hide from timeline search etc .

And put a end to this once and for all

"The enemy has come up with a new plan sir, they've started to actually not tell the truth!"

"The fiends! Is there no end to the lengths they'll go!""

loved this x

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take up skate boarding"

I'm married, "playing away" as it's called (all straight up and honest about this on my pro,since this site seems a ridiculous place to lie about such things) AND I skateboard!

Hmm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't there be an option on sign up opt for happy to play with married guy/fem yes or no and hide from timeline search etc .

And put a end to this once and for all

"The enemy has come up with a new plan sir, they've started to actually not tell the truth!"

"The fiends! Is there no end to the lengths they'll go!"

loved this x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like some other posters , we play with whoever we want to play with , and their marital status is irelevant . We aren't looking to forge a bond or a relationship with anyone , just hooking up with like minded people for fun . We wouldn't have a clue if the guys or ladies we are playing with are married and cheating or not .

And so back to the question of whether they are swingers or not . We have been told we aren't real swingers as we avoid the social side . As we treat the site like a shagging site we can't be real swingers can we ?

We are actually a genuine happily married couple who enjoy sexual hook ups with other people , and in our mind that makes us swingers . But not to others .

Op , forget the labels and tags , whether single or attached , anyone enjoying sex with others outside ( and inside ) their relationship can be a swinger .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea. "

Define swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea. "

Yes back to how this site was before channel 4 made all the stupid made up programs about swinging and now we have all the made up portend swingers on this site

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?"

It would be a site for people who define themselves as swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?"

One question and a potential for so many answers .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?

It would be a site for people who define themselves as swingers."

So that's this site then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?"

According to the post above, it's the people who don't shower after sex

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?

It would be a site for people who define themselves as swingers.

So that's this site then?"

No, there are loads of people on this site who dont describe themselves as swingers, of single women i would guess more than half would not describe themselves as swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?

According to the post above, it's the people who don't shower after sex "

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south


"They want sex, this is a site for sex. Swinging offers casual,no strings sex.

As long as they are telling you they are married up front you have a choice to meet them or not. It's the sneaky ones you have to watch out for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?

It would be a site for people who define themselves as swingers.

So that's this site then?

No, there are loads of people on this site who dont describe themselves as swingers, of single women i would guess more than half would not describe themselves as swingers."

More than half of single women on this site don't describe themselves as swingers? Can you quantify that in any way at all?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

It's here nor there to me.

A lot tend to be upfront about it so if you don't like it, don't play with them.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?

It would be a site for people who define themselves as swingers.

So that's this site then?

No, there are loads of people on this site who dont describe themselves as swingers, of single women i would guess more than half would not describe themselves as swingers.

More than half of single women on this site don't describe themselves as swingers? Can you quantify that in any way at all?"

I started a thread about 6 months ago and only one or 2 said that they were, I can't for the life of me remember what the title was, and as the little green arrow only goes back 35 posts I can't find it that way. But I've started a thread called "Are you a Swinger" so we can watch and wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see so many profiles on here men and women that state they are married so discretion is needed surely they should be on findafuckbuddy or some similar site, surely they can't be swingers if they are cheating"

Do those sites lend themselves to group sex situations?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?"

In my opinion a swinger is a married couple or unattached singles that enjoy sex with other married couples or unattached singles. If you are married and play away or attached and play away you are a cheat/player not a swinger?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"take up skate boarding"

Skateboarding is brilliant and life-affirming. now is the golden age what with all the awesome Crete around.

It's one of the constants of my life... Proud to have many skating brothers from all over the World

Tony Hawk, Rodney Mullen and Bob Burnquist are big heros of mine.

Carry on wiv da filth talk... I'll keep searching for Animal Chinn x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


" A lot of the single guys are married we can spot them always have a shower after fun"

I am single...very single. I always shower after sex.

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London


" A lot of the single guys are married we can spot them always have a shower after fun"

Having a shower after sex = Cheater

Really?

I thought it was just basic hygiene especially if you're heading home via public transport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a swingers site just for swingers would be a great idea.

Define swinger?

In my opinion a swinger is a married couple or unattached singles that enjoy sex with other married couples or unattached singles. If you are married and play away or attached and play away you are a cheat/player not a swinger?!"

What if they have a boyfriend / girlfriend or fiancé / fiancée?

I'd say true swingers are full swap couples and anything else is a deviation from the true definition by different magnitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see separate profiles from the couples as well, wonder what they are up to lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all this moaning, shhh not would complain if they offered you a fuck lol

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I see separate profiles from the couples as well, wonder what they are up to lol."

Do you mean couples have singles profiles too? We do ... because I meet women alone, not with my partner, and only meet men with my partner. Similar for him ... we are individuals in our own right as well as being a couple who live together .... we dont hide anything from each other, but we do hold individual views on things too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see separate profiles from the couples as well, wonder what they are up to lol.

Do you mean couples have singles profiles too? We do ... because I meet women alone, not with my partner, and only meet men with my partner. Similar for him ... we are individuals in our own right as well as being a couple who live together .... we dont hide anything from each other, but we do hold individual views on things too"
Yes couples as well and good you don't hide anything either, but no doubt some others might do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married but actively looking for fun can't find any other sites that are free

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I see separate profiles from the couples as well, wonder what they are up to lol.

Do you mean couples have singles profiles too? We do ... because I meet women alone, not with my partner, and only meet men with my partner. Similar for him ... we are individuals in our own right as well as being a couple who live together .... we dont hide anything from each other, but we do hold individual views on things tooYes couples as well and good you don't hide anything either, but no doubt some others might do."

We have a good laugh at some who try to convince one or the other to meet without the other knowing ... most times its women who do this to him, but on the odd occasion I get a man telling me to try getting it from a real man for a change ... okay ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with cheating married men, oh aren't a naughty homewrecker hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because people lie and we don't want to hire private investigators to vet every single potential meet we go on the basis of not giving a flying crap about people's marital situation. We play with who we want to play with if they'll play with us.

They're adults and it's their problem not ours."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no my profile I see married men. I'm not a home wrecker. Its upto them if they play away.

My reg FB is married but the wife is a swinger too. Ive played with her too.

For reasons I cant go into I cant have a full time partner, so swinging is perfect for me! Plus married men mean they are untouchable which is perfect as I dont want to become "involved" I'm here for NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see separate profiles from the couples as well, wonder what they are up to lol.

Do you mean couples have singles profiles too? We do ... because I meet women alone, not with my partner, and only meet men with my partner. Similar for him ... we are individuals in our own right as well as being a couple who live together .... we dont hide anything from each other, but we do hold individual views on things tooYes couples as well and good you don't hide anything either, but no doubt some others might do.

We have a good laugh at some who try to convince one or the other to meet without the other knowing ... most times its women who do this to him, but on the odd occasion I get a man telling me to try getting it from a real man for a change ... okay .... "
Yes, it must be a great laugh lol, but yeah fun how they try it on aint it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation, a guy I worked with was playing behind his wife's back, but she was involved in an accident and was quite severely disabled. Although he still loved her and cared for her, she couldn't fulfill his sexual desires. It was difficult listening to him talk about it as I could see the guy was clearly torn up about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always an emotive subject on the forums, everyone has an opinion - there are many reasons for people being on this site - best thing to do is if you don't like or agree with what someone is doing, move along to the next profile "

This

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


" A lot of the single guys are married we can spot them always have a shower after fun"

That's quite an assumption. Hygiene and cleanliness equates to adultery?

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