FabSwingers.com forum: Do you have a sign

By *aneandpaul OP Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Do any of you have a sign when you meet someone like us. We always meet in a pub first for a drink and a chat and take things from there, our sign is i hold my glass in my left hand if i don,t want it to go any further might sound like a bitch but i have the final say there as got to be something there not just a cock.

Been playing many years met many nice couples and singles said sorry not for us like we have been told sorry it,s life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always presumed that if I met a couple they would be comunicating in some way weather eather one or both of then we're still interested or not

After all they know each other's signals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sign

think if I wanted to take things further after a social I'd say so and to be honest I would hope they would know with all the flirting and chatting going on. I prefer to communicate with my fellow perverts than a sign...

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By *aneandpaul OP Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We meet as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sign

I think she's talking about non verbs communication with her hubby bf what ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'He'can read me like a book,and knows if I'm interested in taking things further. If it's just a social meet we've had,we talk about it after . .

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sign

I think she's talking about non verbs communication with her hubby bf what ever"

But why not just say...sorry just words are better for me ...ive met with a friend a few times and met other couples we have all just said something silly and ive turned to my fiend and asked him if hes up for it...

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

We have a couple of "let's get out of here" code words in case people aren't as described or we just aren't feeling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any of you have a sign when you meet someone like us. We always meet in a pub first for a drink and a chat and take things from there, our sign is i hold my glass in my left hand if i don,t want it to go any further might sound like a bitch but i have the final say there as got to be something there not just a cock.

Been playing many years met many nice couples and singles said sorry not for us like we have been told sorry it,s life "

Hang on, is there some period of time you have to hold the glass for? What if you accidently picked it up with your left hand, remembered, put it down and then picked it up with your right hand - what would that mean?

We have a sign too. It's a bit like morse code with hand squeezes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried the sign thing but it never really worked. We always forgot or whatever. Now we just straight-up ask eachother. He looks at me and goes "yeah?" and I say yes or no. Easy.

-Courtney

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"We tried the sign thing but it never really worked. We always forgot or whatever. Now we just straight-up ask eachother. He looks at me and goes "yeah?" and I say yes or no. Easy.

-Courtney"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got double sided laminated signs with yes and no on and at certain points throughout a social we will get them out and vote, oh, hang on, nope that's Wanted Down Under, get so confused these days

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By *maz.Man
over a year ago

Southampton / iford

So no one does the numbers thing like strictly come dancing , I'll look out for that in my local !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been playing many years met many nice couples and singles said sorry not for us like we have been told sorry it,s life "

Good question , and since we don't do socials it's not that easy to answer . We arrange to meet people at a local outdoor beauty spot , and like yourselves we have said no thanks as often as we have played .

Sabrina has the final say and she will either pinch my arm or whisper quietly if she isn't interested in playing with the person .

We are very shallow with the initial feeling , that being the way someone looks and many a time I have had the pinch early on . On other occasions they look fine but have behaviour or mannerisms which cause the pinch . And the most awkward is when play starts and finishes very quickly because of hygiene issues .

We have yet to play with anyone for the sake of it , and have standards as high as anyone on the site . The pinch method works well for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A sign

I think she's talking about non verbs communication with her hubby bf what ever

I guess it's a simple way of moving from a social to playing without offering any offence or unnecessary awkwardness. This openly happened to me once a few years back when I met a couple for a social. She headed to the loo and he asked if I was up for watching them that night (it was a purely voyeuristic meet) and I said yeah but only if she was, and he said 'it's all good, she likes you she's given me the signal'. I didn't ask what the signal was but had she not given it we would have just left it as a social and I'd be none the wiser that I'd been 'turned down'. It's a good trick I think

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Been playing many years met many nice couples and singles said sorry not for us like we have been told sorry it,s life

Sabrina has the final say and she will either pinch my arm or whisper quietly if she isn't interested in playing with the person .

We have yet to play with anyone for the sake of it , and have standards as high as anyone on the site . The pinch method works well for us .

Meeting at a club or party, we will rarely play as I prefer privacy and a non door rattling situation. Mr is terrible with signs anyway ... I had sorted for us to meet a lovely bi guy at a club, and we met up at the bar there ... conversation went -

Mr: Pepper is terrible, she fell asleep last night when she was giving me a blow job (sadly, it was true);

Man: Really, I would never fall asleep giving you a blow job;

Me: (thinks) - okay, its about to start now ....

Ten minutes later, the guy goes off with another couple

Mr: I would have liked to play with him (or words to that effect), but was not sure he was up for it

Me: Don't you remember, he came here to meet us, and said basically he wanted to suck your cock, what more do you want

Suffice to say the story ended happily as we met up on another occasion and the relationship was consummated .... I adore him, but sometimes its hard work ... having so much fun

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By *aneandpaul OP Couple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Don,t think your shallow at all you have fun with who you want like us no means no which can upset a few men like i have said there's got to be something there not just a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet as a couple"
Is it just you the woman in the couple that hold the glass in the left hand as you use "I" meaning one person, what about hubby lol?.

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