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Does anyone accept random friend requests??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally if a friend request is either sent randomly or at the same time as their first message it will be just be ignored and deleted.

Not just single guys doing this either unless they are pretending to be a couple

Put some effort in as full access to the additional pics needs to be earned. Or are we being self righteous??

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I block them as well for good measure. If I am feeling really grumpy, I will send them a message asking who they think they are assuming they can send one without even a message ... but most days I am only feeling grumpy, not really grumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I ignore them

There's nothing much exciting in my friends gallery anyway so they'd only be bitterly disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally if a friend request is either sent randomly or at the same time as their first message it will be just be ignored and deleted.

Not just single guys doing this either unless they are pretending to be a couple

Put some effort in as full access to the additional pics needs to be earned. Or are we being self righteous?? "

Im the same as you guys, I get sent friend requests from men every day who

havent bothered to message..

I just delete without even checking their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least 4 or 5 a day...))

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Depends who it is.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes we do when they aren't on line, have a quick look then unfriend them. We feel that they're suggesting we look and see if we're suited

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't even delete them, as they can friend you again straight away if you do. My unaccepted friendslist is enormous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just leave them there.

Never accept random requests

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By *.Man1510Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Always deny, sometimes block if we have not chatted.

As far as sending a friend request, I only do so if we have chatted and always ask first .

It's just nice to be nice !

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

no your not ..these people often have no profile or pix or anything to say and live 100s of miles away.inevitably they wont have even read your profile

once youve accepted a friends request you wonder why u bothered.. really wish we could just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooooo at least get to know us first

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I've just deleted 3 friends requests received in the last few mins without even looking at their profiles. Some people are just plain stupid thinking they'll be randomly accepted no effort.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

as i have my message filters on, some send me one, i assume, as a substitute for a message.. so i treat them the same as a message..look at profile..etc etc before replying or deleting..

no, i don't just accept people as friends, randomly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, they get deleted straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...as noted above I don't delete them...then they cant send again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I won't even bother to delete them now.

Doubt they will learn. But pretty clear that sending random friend requests is pretty futile.

It's a massive turn off as it's clear they haven't taken any time to read our profile or respect our simple request.

Zero effort, Zero response

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

If I've chatted few times with them I'll accept to check out the 'friend pictures' but delete as a friend if not to my liking.

Mean? Yes I guess so

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yes, from ladies and occasional couples.

All they get out to it, is more material to use at Halloween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block them as well for good measure. If I am feeling really grumpy, I will send them a message asking who they think they are assuming they can send one without even a message ... but most days I am only feeling grumpy, not really grumpy"

Oh good, glad to know that it's not just me then...

A Friend's Request as a first approach always gets a Block from me - it says so on my Profile - but still they come, and still they go the same way...

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By *.Man1510Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"

Zero effort, Zero response "

Yep...I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello everyone now be my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irksome when it's on your profile that you don't accept them. And yet they come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a male I don't get so many unsolicited friend requests. Except from guys.

So feel free to send them! Unless your a guy. And only if you have good private pics. Nothing worse than getting a friend request from someone who doesn't even have private pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we do when they aren't on line, have a quick look then unfriend them. We feel that they're suggesting we look and see if we're suited "

Exac y lying the same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My delete finger goes in to action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore them says in profile we will lol but lots cannot read lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we do when they aren't on line, have a quick look then unfriend them. We feel that they're suggesting we look and see if we're suited "

Yup I do this 100%

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

I ignore random friend's requests.

I look but sorry guys you have no picture and almost nothing on your profile.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I don't mind, there's nothing in there that's not available in my public gallery,

And they get one of my crappy jokes a day when I change my status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely accept friends requests at all and if those I do accept if they stop talking I delete.....I not on here to collect friends I'm on here for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes we do when they aren't on line, have a quick look then unfriend them. We feel that they're suggesting we look and see if we're suited "

I occasionally do that

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have done on occasion if they are fit and local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....well...arent you a miserable unfriendly bunch...boo yah!!

...im here if anyone needs a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It's just an attempt to see hidden face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. It's just an attempt to see hidden face pics. "

Our face pics are hidden and not in the friends pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes accept to have a peek at their photos then remove as a friend.

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By *onia1969Woman
over a year ago

Bridgwater

No I ignore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. It's just an attempt to see hidden face pics.

Our face pics are hidden and not in the friends pics . "

Double sneaky !!

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By *arkman69Man
over a year ago

Erdington

I have a peek at their profile too. If I like then I accept, then message straight away. If they don't reply then I quickly delete. Done it plenty times and about to do it again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few random requests but I never except them, Sometimes I explain why I haven't excepted them sometimes I ignore them

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Never got one, but if I did, I wouldn't accept it.

Job's a goodun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete delete they obviously cant read as says on my profile in capital letters, don't send friend requests..but still they do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. I leave them.

They cannot send another if you don't accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ignore random requests here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont accept them

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We just ignore them so they can't send another. Says on our profile no random requests so they obviously can't read.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Simply put, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first came on fab I did send a few random friend requests, But now I only send them if I have chatted for a while I think they will accept it

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Block instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I let them build up and accept them all. I'm easily amused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We accept all friend requests.

We are not greedy or selfish people so we want to share the immense wealth we are about to receive from the various people who have contacted us via e-mail to help them get money out of their various countries from associates and family members we never knew we had, it's been a really lucky year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had a few but I send message if no reply I ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used too accept all. Not anymore. Follow the only if we've talked rule as most do now.

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Nope, delete & block..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. It's just an attempt to see hidden face pics.

Our face pics are hidden and not in the friends pics .

Double sneaky !! "

Not at all . . Face pics are sent before a request is accepted

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We have been known to accept an off the cuff friend request, but there are rules that we apply, we don't accept from single guys, or MM couples, no Tv or Ts, and people with no pics or no public pics, the ones we do accept are people we are interested in, after checking out their profile if they get our interest, if they don't pass our rules we don't get offended and block, we just ignore and delete, lots of people on here are so highly strung they get mad if they feel someone isn't playing the game their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do occasionally, yes.

I don't see what the big deal is. Why is it such a terrible insult to send one?

If they look nice, or I'm in a good mood, if we've spoken, or if I hit 'Accept' accidentally.

Done that a few times.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait til they're offline, accept, browse their private photos then delete them off my friend list.

Silly of them to have sent it in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wait til they're offline, accept, browse their private photos then delete them off my friend list.

Silly of them to have sent it in the first place!"

We do exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we rarely accept friends requests unless they are closeish to us and there is a good chance of meeting/playing, otherwise whats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't even delete them, as they can friend you again straight away if you do. My unaccepted friendslist is enormous."

I do exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually, they are 100's of miles away, out of our age range and not what we're looking for. Completely pointless. Have been known to send a questionable message back depending on my mood as it's blatantly obvious they've not read the profile then block their Ass. We don't care if you are the best thing since sliced bread, male/female or couple, If we've not been talking and met up, it's not happening.

(her)

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By *rivate lashesCouple
over a year ago

isleworth

Either delete or ignore for a while. Then clear out every now & again.

Second time offenders get blocked no matter what they look like etc.

Love the block button

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By *xploringusCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Either delete or ignore for a while. Then clear out every now & again.

Second time offenders get blocked no matter what they look like etc.

Love the block button "

We are the similar - leave them for ages and then have a mass clear out & block if we recognise a repeat request.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Jane here been playing years i like to chat with like minded people none of our friends no about this side of our life so if any one gets in touch and they seem ok will get back for a chat i give most people a chance.

At the end of the day we all have a lot to talk about and tell which you can not with vanilla friends

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By *uperGuy68Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"I ignore them

There's nothing much exciting in my friends gallery anyway so they'd only be bitterly disappointed "

There's nothing disappointing about your pictures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there hot i might accept otherwise i leave them to build up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no pictures in a friends only folder so no point of adding for friends. If we want someone to see pictures we will send then an email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if their pics are hot or not ...

A hello would have been nice tho...

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

No way.

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