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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you married ladies (on here without hubby knowing) get as much abuse as us married guys on fab?

I'm up front about it in my profile but people feel compelled to tell me what a low life i am....

Just wondered if it's the same on the other side..

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's one rule for men and another for women, silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't make any difference to me if someone is married or not, seems a bit unfair to abuse someone about it. It's their choice as an adult and nobody else's business!

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Im still married but soon my divorce will be finalised

i class myself as single.

Guys dont see it as a problem or dont stop contacting me cause of it

so not really an issue for me on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you married ladies (on here without hubby knowing) get as much abuse as us married guys on fab?

I'm up front about it in my profile but people feel compelled to tell me what a low life i am....

Just wondered if it's the same on the other side.. "

Just don't tell the women your married , say your single and staying with a friend and can't accomadate .

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland


"Do you married ladies (on here without hubby knowing) get as much abuse as us married guys on fab?

I'm up front about it in my profile but people feel compelled to tell me what a low life i am....

Just wondered if it's the same on the other side.. "

It is nothing to do with anyone why you are here,at least you are honest,unlike some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't say abuse thats a bit strong but yes comments have been made about my marital status but as I post In here sometimes asking for advice, you have to expect to hear people's honest opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's one rule for men and another for women, silly"

Seems that way

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I definately think men get more abuse for being married than women,i've seen some profiles saying that the man wants only married women.I think they believe married women are less likely to be clingy etc or that its more exciting without their hubby knowing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would say I'm glad its not just me but that would be harsh...

Get at least 1 -2 a week from mostly women and couples and just out of the blue. Strange that people go to such lengths to judge....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not bothered about someone's marital situation, male or female, they're adults and it is their problem not ours. We meet someone that fits who we're looking for, whether they are 'allowed' or not is up to them, we aren't about to hire private i's or become judge and jury on their choices.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're not bothered about someone's marital situation, male or female, they're adults and it is their problem not ours. We meet someone that fits who we're looking for, whether they are 'allowed' or not is up to them, we aren't about to hire private i's or become judge and jury on their choices."

refreshing

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By *edroseCouple
over a year ago

wigan

I get very little abuse because of it. Just every now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're not bothered about someone's marital situation, male or female, they're adults and it is their problem not ours. We meet someone that fits who we're looking for, whether they are 'allowed' or not is up to them, we aren't about to hire private i's or become judge and jury on their choices."

yep that's how we see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married. I get told how lucky I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get very little abuse because of it. Just every now and again "

Well i suppose all men are dogs right? Much worse when we do it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nobody's business...until you publicly announce it on the forum. Then I guess you're kind if inviting perspectives and if you're hoping to get answers you want,I doubt it will happen.

Don't know why they don't add a married box to tick so those searching can tick don't mind or similar to avoid people fibbing or similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume everyone's probably hiding something and concentrate on what I'm looking for.

I'm not here to right the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married. I get told how lucky I am "

I get told how unlucky I am yet she gets told how lucky she is

So yes double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married. I get told how lucky I am

I get told how unlucky I am yet she gets told how lucky she is

So yes double standards "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet married or attached women, but I certainly don't abuse them, I find it sad that people who, with the intention of indulging in the most intimate act with someone, then abuses them when things don't go their way. That's tantamount to treating them like meat. Still, wouldn't do for us all to be the same. I've had the same from single women who I don't want to meet, I always think I've had a lucky escape. Que Serra eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more acceptable to be a married woman on fab lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one rule for men and another for women, silly

Seems that way "

Not true in this case. One lady who I think as now left site got a fair bit of stick. She stood up for her self nicely though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" It's nobody's business...until you publicly announce it on the forum. Then I guess you're kind if inviting perspectives and if you're hoping to get answers you want,I doubt it will happen.

Don't know why they don't add a married box to tick so those searching can tick don't mind or similar to avoid people fibbing or similar."

Probably dont have that box as most people probably dont care. Remember the forum is a very minor part of the site. Views expressed here are not necessarily the majority thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women generally don't come in the forums advertising the fact they're married by moaning that people don't want to meet them. They just go about it quietly and under the radar.

There are exceptions but from what I've read over the time in fab, it's a fair generalisation I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is good that people are up front about one status. And i don't think people should get abuse for being honest about their status and personnel choice. But if you are getting involved with someone then you are making it someone else's business. I choose to avoid people who are married or in relationships if possible simply because i have had the screaming partner on the phone at 2am in the morning before....which i felt dreadful about.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

When I (f) had a single profile I was regularly berated for this and in deed one evening found myself on the receiving end of a pint of lager being poured over me and was also threatened with being exposed. So yes, women do get as much stick as men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I (f) had a single profile I was regularly berated for this and in deed one evening found myself on the receiving end of a pint of lager being poured over me and was also threatened with being exposed. So yes, women do get as much stick as men"

Thats horrendous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're not bothered about someone's marital situation, male or female, they're adults and it is their problem not ours. We meet someone that fits who we're looking for, whether they are 'allowed' or not is up to them, we aren't about to hire private i's or become judge and jury on their choices.

refreshing "

we agree and feel the samex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you married ladies (on here without hubby knowing) get as much abuse as us married guys on fab?

I'm up front about it in my profile but people feel compelled to tell me what a low life i am....

Just wondered if it's the same on the other side..

Just don't tell the women your married , say your single and staying with a friend and can't accomadate .

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Please don't do this, be honest about your marital status. I understand why there are so many married people on here and I really sympathise but I don't want to meet them, it's a preference like any other. If someone will lie about that what else would they lie about?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's one rule for men and another for women, silly"

Of course there is, the consequences are different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you married ladies (on here without hubby knowing) get as much abuse as us married guys on fab?

I'm up front about it in my profile but people feel compelled to tell me what a low life i am....

Just wondered if it's the same on the other side..

Just don't tell the women your married , say your single and staying with a friend and can't accomadate .

Please don't do this, be honest about your marital status. I understand why there are so many married people on here and I really sympathise but I don't want to meet them, it's a preference like any other. If someone will lie about that what else would they lie about?"

Someone I was meeting turned out to be in a long-term relationship and I found out accidentally. Realising you have been deceived is not a nice feeling. I don't judge people who play without their partner's knowledge, I just don't want to be involved. There are enough fabbers who don't mind meeting attached people without drawing in those that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet married men it's my own personal decision not a judgement call. However I have been abused when married men contact me and I explain this. Arrogant fucking bitch was a recent example

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won't meet married men it's my own personal decision not a judgement call. However I have been abused when married men contact me and I explain this. Arrogant fucking bitch was a recent example "

That's a bit harsh. A personal preference is just that and should be respected.

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