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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else spotted the site being used more and more like match.com?

ladies stating they only "seek one special guy" for dates and fun?

i have no issue with the possibility of finding love during the swing thing but i don't see this as being the right starting ground for love. if you stumble on it great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to them really. This place is full of people and some of them who might want the same thing they do.

Personally i think the worst place you can find anyone for a relationship is the internet overall because they'll just use it for a place to cheat on you when they want that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's up to them really. This place is full of people and some of them who might want the same thing they do.

Personally i think the worst place you can find anyone for a relationship is the internet overall because they'll just use it for a place to cheat on you when they want that."

Hopefully yiur not speaking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i am speaking from experience. 2 relationships wrecked now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk use the site for all manner of things. If they don't align with what you're looking for, it doesn't affect you and I'm sure you can leave them be without the need to make the critical observations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world my choices as a single girl intimidate men. What better place to find someone with the same outlook as somewhere like this?

I'm not actively looking, but yeah, it would be nice if I found a connection with someone and it involved more than the casual nsa!

It's my profile, I'll use it how the hell I like!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Did you all know that people from Internetland are real ?

If you pick shit partners you pick shit partners. The pub , a catalogue , an internet chat room, work. Same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you all know that people from Internetland are real ? "

I don't believe you, but I'll ask Santa Claus!

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Yes i ave an im looking on here for nsa . An ive had guys want to date me. This is a swing site an im happy being single an having more fun being single. An i certainly dont want to date

I like my freedom too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Folk use the site for all manner of things. If they don't align with what you're looking for, it doesn't affect you and I'm sure you can leave them be without the need to make the critical observations."

was there any need for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tried finding something more on here and it never ends well in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Yes I see it used like a dating site more and more

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By *ay871Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I'm more likely to find someone here into the same sort of things as me than any other vanilla dating site!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think people may use it wanting more than sex,but as long they are honest about it theres no problem.People get together in all walks of lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folk use the site for all manner of things. If they don't align with what you're looking for, it doesn't affect you and I'm sure you can leave them be without the need to make the critical observations.

was there any need for that"

I humbly beg your pardon, I've mistaken this for a public forum where one can air an opinion. I'll beat a hasty retreat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Folk use the site for all manner of things. If they don't align with what you're looking for, it doesn't affect you and I'm sure you can leave them be without the need to make the critical observations.

was there any need for that

I humbly beg your pardon, I've mistaken this for a public forum where one can air an opinion. I'll beat a hasty retreat."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Folk use the site for all manner of things. If they don't align with what you're looking for, it doesn't affect you and I'm sure you can leave them be without the need to make the critical observations.

was there any need for that

I humbly beg your pardon, I've mistaken this for a public forum where one can air an opinion. I'll beat a hasty retreat."

Making a critical observation about a person you claim was making a critical observation, then getting sarcastic when called on it. What point is there in that? Your postings are inherently contradictory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We single are looking for compatible folks I'm a swinger and would love to meet similar single female for friends, friends with bennefits and possible relationships so we can be like you couples

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

There should be two separate websites.

Fabfucking.com

&

Fabsoulmate.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People moan about it being used as instashag. Or being used by cheats. Or being used by people that just want to cam. Or by people seeking BBC. And now about people who want to date. And dozens of other preferences that don't mach what they are looking for

If someone doesn't match what you are looking for then move on and find someone that does. Surely it's not that difficult is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People moan about it being used as instashag. Or being used by cheats. Or being used by people that just want to cam. Or by people seeking BBC. And now about people who want to date. And dozens of other preferences that don't mach what they are looking for

If someone doesn't match what you are looking for then move on and find someone that does. Surely it's not that difficult is it? "

OP wasn't moaning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People moan about it being used as instashag. Or being used by cheats. Or being used by people that just want to cam. Or by people seeking BBC. And now about people who want to date. And dozens of other preferences that don't mach what they are looking for

If someone doesn't match what you are looking for then move on and find someone that does. Surely it's not that difficult is it?

OP wasn't moaning."

Are you sure? He certainly wasn't enthusing about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP's green arrow of truth suggests all he does is criticise others choices.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We met here although neither of us were looking for it ... I had been on the scene four years and Mr on and off for over twenty .... strangest thing in one way, but in another, the ideal place to find someone with a similar perspective on life and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol match is like an desert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol match is like an desert."

Shag, you're a Fab national treasure. Always the voice of light heartedness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol match is like an desert.

Shag, you're a Fab national treasure. Always the voice of light heartedness "
Thanks and yes I always spice it up with abit of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother has managed to pull on match.com

There truely is hope for us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no doubt there are more and more singles on fab looking for the special one . If it works out like it has for _awandorder that's great .

But from our experience , way more singles getting together on here end up in tears .

And if I'm honest , since fab is a swinging site , it's not surprising . We have met hundreds of singles over the years and are far from the type to suggest singles shouldn't be part of the swinging scene - it would proper put the brakes on our fun . But those looking for exclusivity and love are on the wrong site in our opinion .

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London


"But those looking for exclusivity and love are on the wrong site in our opinion ."

Joining Fab to try and find exclusivity, is like diving into the sea and expecting to not get wet.

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

If people use the site to find what they're looking for, sex, relationship, ought that be a good thing?

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

If you want to buy a xylophone, you should go to a music instruments store.

Not a guitar shop.

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