FabSwingers.com forum: Fed up with being let down.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that op. Do you not meet socially first may I ask ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain. I had three people let me down last week. It seems this site is getting worse for it. Don't leave though, this site needs genuine ladies like you. Please give us men another chance. X

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Dont give up, stick in there

im the same no commitments but busy in the weekday due to my commitments to my courses an passing exams/qualifications

but can only really have fun on a weekend, due to tiredness due to my course

an i too have been messed about from single guys

or guys having jealousy issues bearing in mind its a swing site an im single an just seek nsa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be a nightmare especially when your time is limited! I don't let it get to me personally x Onwards and upwards x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel your pain. I had three people let me down last week. It seems this site is getting worse for it. Don't leave though, this site needs genuine ladies like you. Please give us men another chance. X"

Its not the site, its a small percentage of certain individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

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bloody ell that is bad x

had you been talking to these guys long?maybe stick to club meets your attractive and wouldn't have any problems there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Switch to social meets first, you'll be glad you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Men / women / couples .... Each category has its share of timewasters and we reckon over half of those who arrange meets have no intention of turning up .

Bearing this in mind we all go through spells of frustration . You will get the usual people saying you need to look at your selection process , but that's nonsense . It's down to luck as much as anything .

Sorry you are going through a rough time with the dreamers on here . Maybe you should go for safer bets , well verified guys and use your gut instinct . Oh and keep your fingers crossed .

One last thing , please report the no shows and we hope it gets better for you really soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the site, its a small percentage of certain individuals."

It's not just the men, women do it too ...

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I know this is a swinging site first and for most. But there's so much more to this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Time can't be that limited if you can have 3 meets in a day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Don't give up.

Embrace the anger, the disappointment, the betrayed feelings.. let them do their worst, because before you know it, you've dealt with them and they're gone.

There's always good things to come - a well worn cliché, but oh so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Time can't be that limited if you can have 3 meets in a day..."

Perhaps the second and third was because the first and second let her down, if that makes sense ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

It's not good

I had 2 separate let downs last weekend I was annoyed and a little bit upset if I'm honest,ended up staying in with a tub of Ben and Jerrys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in there I'm constantly busy with work and the kids I deleted my last account due to this . Can't understand people not turning up for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's disappointing when it happens but don't let it phase you, some of the people that let you down really are time wasters, others have perfectly valid reasons for cancelling. I class those with the gumption to let you know well ahead of time as the honest ones. Dont take it to heart and as has been said before, move on if need be!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

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. Sorry about the bad news . Did you speak in person to the meets r were they arranged via text messages ?. Did they have detailed profiles ?

If going to a meet I always phone the meet before leaving the house . If they do not answer their phone , I do not go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fuck buddy is a busy single mum. I met her for a quick coffee in a café local to her and went from there. She only meets like this when it suits her and is going for a coffee on her break anyway so if they no show its not a problem. Don't let it put you off op.

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By *ADBOY9.5Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Sorry to hear Uve been getting let down. I totally understand I keep getting let down by women so it's not just men. Unfortunately this site isn't what it used to be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Poor lass, here's a hug {} I wish you better fortunes in the future

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By *ADBOY9.5Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Sorry to hear Uve been getting let down. I totally understand I keep getting let down by women so it's not just men. Unfortunately this site isn't what it used to be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But on the flip side, you have verifications on three consecutive days 2 weeks ago. So you must be going about things the right way.

Keep on doing what you're doing. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear Uve been getting let down. I totally understand I keep getting let down by women so it's not just men. Unfortunately this site isn't what it used to be xx"

How is it the sites fault ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that op. Do you not meet socially first may I ask ? "

Surely that would run the same risk of a no show with no chance of the reward of a nice fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure whoever you're meeting has good veri's, it will show some degree of prior showing up when arranged. It won't be foolproof, but hopefully it'll out some of the time wasters.

You are in demand, block, report and move on, we need more females on this site, don't go.

There's no point in trying to appeal to the time-wasters consciences they don't have one, but they are a scourge on the rest of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Switch to social meets first, you'll be glad you did."

I do this first now, if they want to meet you and are genuine, they will show up. You are a attractive lady so no reason why they shouldnt and you seem nice too. Their loss, report and move on

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man had posted this thread......

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Hang in there. We had a few time wasters as well but we just move on.

Bob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man had posted this thread......

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lol your so right... i wouldnt dare

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"If a man had posted this thread......

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I'd say "don't give up" (ya whinging loser!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have had 3 let downs and its only Tuesday..but your time is limited..Wow.

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By *lackgrapeMan
over a year ago

Purley

We've all been let down at some point no one is exempt, I know the feeling you'll bounce back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

I would suggest you need to improve your vetting process.

Sucks to be let down but there are a lot of fantasists out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that op. Do you not meet socially first may I ask ?

Surely that would run the same risk of a no show with no chance of the reward of a nice fuck? "

Have a social when you're out shopping or doing other stuff, arrange your meet around other stuff. If they no show, carry on with your day. Getting all revved up for a fuck them being let down is a whole lot worse than just going for a coffee and being let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have had 3 let downs and its only Tuesday..but your time is limited..Wow."

As I said earlier to a similar post, the second and third meet might have been because the first and second let hoer down is that makes sense so in effect, one meet time wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man had posted this thread......

I'd say "don't give up" (ya whinging loser!)

Ha, or grow some balls fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have had 3 let downs and its only Tuesday..but your time is limited..Wow.

As I said earlier to a similar post, the second and third meet might have been because the first and second let hoer down is that makes sense so in effect, one meet time wise."

And maybe it wasn't ...im sure the op will survive and move on... from her veris she seems to be doing fine with 3 consecutive meets and limited time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man had posted this thread......

I'd say "don't give up" (ya whinging loser!)

Ha, or grow some balls fella

I am waiting for the *Its their loss* statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im sure the op will survive and move on... from her veris she seems to be doing fine with 3 consecutive meets and limited time.

That's what I thought. Maybe I'm not as sympathetic as the rest of the forum this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im sure the op will survive and move on... from her veris she seems to be doing fine with 3 consecutive meets and limited time.

That's what I thought. Maybe I'm not as sympathetic as the rest of the forum this morning. "

Bugger is that what we are supposed to feel...Sympathy...damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain. Let down by guys I've spoke to on the phone, by a guy who kept in touch even when abroad for a week, I've stopped trying to make sense of it. Don't let the bastards grind you down. Chalk it down to experience and move on my love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man had posted this thread......

I'd say "don't give up" (ya whinging loser!)

Ha, or grow some balls fella

I am waiting for the *Its their loss* statement

I, um, said this to her a few minutes ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice."

But it happens though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a man had posted this thread......

I'd say "don't give up" (ya whinging loser!)

Ha, or grow some balls fella

I am waiting for the *Its their loss* statement

I, um, said this to her a few minutes ago

Did you..sorry...there we go then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally sympathise.

I was let down a few weeks ago and could have wept with fraustration, as having very little freedom to meet, the time is very precious.

Onwards and upwards though, think positive and crack on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I never get its their loss comment..obviously they didn't want to meet so what exactly are they losing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im sure the op will survive and move on... from her veris she seems to be doing fine with 3 consecutive meets and limited time.

That's what I thought. Maybe I'm not as sympathetic as the rest of the forum this morning. "

I know when you're upset you want to stamp and shout and get sympathy. But put things into perspective: you've more recent meets than most of the people posting in this thread, you are doing fine, the site is great and both the men and women of Fab are a mix of good and could-be-better

Think of your recent successful meets and work out how to avoid no-shows for future meets.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

This is one of the reasons why we much prefer to meet in clubs.

When we first started we arranged lots of meets and to be fair some did turn up, but many didn't. There is nothing more annoying than organising your day around a meet only to be left sat there feeling bloody stupid. We got lots of excuses and some that just avoided us afterwards.

These days we only very rarely arrange private meets, but a few weeks ago we did and guess what? another bloody no show.

At least if we arrange to meet in a club then we can still have a good night whether they show up or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well women do the same lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice.

But it happens though..."

It does but it still isn't nice when it happens.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"You have had 3 let downs and its only Tuesday..but your time is limited..Wow.

As I said earlier to a similar post, the second and third meet might have been because the first and second let hoer down is that makes sense so in effect, one meet time wise."

If that was the case... It must have been a very short message / communication process between the second and third persons.

Frustrating yes, luckily the forums are a place to vent so you're in the right place op

Block report move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice.

But it happens though...

It does but it still isn't nice when it happens."

No true but moaning about it doesnt make a difference..if a guy had posted this he would have been slated and you know that ...its part and parcel of fab happens to us all at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice.

But it happens though...

It does but it still isn't nice when it happens.

No true but moaning about it doesnt make a difference..if a guy had posted this he would have been slated and you know that ...its part and parcel of fab happens to us all at some point "

If a man moans about it he will get slated. It's not Instashag!!

If a woman moans about it she will get an inbox bulging with compliments and offers.......

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Always have a Plan B..even if its to go shopping instead. That way you still have a nice albeit different day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being let down is terribly demoralising. More than once must be truly awful.

Being told that 'it's part and parcel of Fab, move on and deal with it,' doesn't make you feel better in the slightest, I would imagine?

As you've had your confidence knocked, maybe club visits would be best for a while? As has already been said, you're an attractive lady and a unicorn, too!

Don't let the unreliable, inconsistent, gutless bastards get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use your instincts more, that's what they're there for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice.

But it happens though...

It does but it still isn't nice when it happens.

No true but moaning about it doesnt make a difference..if a guy had posted this he would have been slated and you know that ...its part and parcel of fab happens to us all at some point

If a man moans about it he will get slated. It's not Instashag!!

If a woman moans about it she will get an inbox bulging with compliments and offers.......

I agree wuth Scarlet. If a man had posted this thread the first two comments would have been "Buh-Bye!!" the next would have been "you have veris, which is more than most men have" the next would have been "this isn't insta-shag" and the next would have been "you're not gone yet?!"

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice.

But it happens though...

It does but it still isn't nice when it happens.

No true but moaning about it doesnt make a difference..if a guy had posted this he would have been slated and you know that ...its part and parcel of fab happens to us all at some point

If a man moans about it he will get slated. It's not Instashag!!

If a woman moans about it she will get an inbox bulging with compliments and offers.......

-Courtney"

How true! I've just been slated for my comment!!

Think I'll have to open a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had one let down....I tend to talk on here for a very long time before meeting and thankfully it's worked well for me.I hope things improve for you op as a mum I know how much effect it takes to arrange a meet.sending good luck your way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi - its so hard to see why on earth you be let down im sure you have us drooling men knocking at your door all the time

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

No idea why so many women get so many no shows/late cancelations and at the same time so many men are unable to get even a social meet it just seems bizarre, lots of decent guys out there and lots of women looking to meet yet they never connect maybe Sydney university should use its research facility to find the source of the strange phenomenon.

Sorry you've been let down though and good luck in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Switch to social meets first, you'll be glad you did."

We always have a social meet first because we need to feel the attraction between everyone and if they let you down at the last min you don't feel so bad as you have just mist a few drinks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single parent myself nothing pisses me off more than this, but unfortunately I just accept it's one of the perils of this kind of site, it does attract wannabes and posers as well as the genuine people. I just block and move on, forget the idiots and enjoy the genuine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice.

But it happens though...

It does but it still isn't nice when it happens.

No true but moaning about it doesnt make a difference..if a guy had posted this he would have been slated and you know that ...its part and parcel of fab happens to us all at some point "

It doesn't but maybe having a good old rant the op feels better for it. The fact is it probably would get different responses if a guy had posted it but a guy hasn't posted I in this caset. My response would have been the same as my initial post regardless of who posted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have had 3 let downs and its only Tuesday..but your time is limited..Wow.

As I said earlier to a similar post, the second and third meet might have been because the first and second let hoer down is that makes sense so in effect, one meet time wise.

If that was the case... It must have been a very short message / communication process between the second and third persons.

Frustrating yes, luckily the forums are a place to vent so you're in the right place op

Block report move on. "

Having been with my female fuck buddy when she posted a meet once, offers come thick and fast in response. Maybe she was let down by her initial planned meet then posted a meet today. I'm aure a woman could get offers in no time at all. Anyway, its all guessing with no response on the situation from the op. Being let down by anyone whether you are male, female or a couple is not nice and can affect some more than others. Saying it happens and move on is easier for some than others.

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By *lackgrapeMan
over a year ago

Purley

Good self marketing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they let you know they ere cancelling or did they just not show up.

And 3 meets in one day , pass me the Sanatogen.....oh and a wheelchair !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Time can't be that limited if you can have 3 meets in a day..."

Having been berated for making this comment, I'm out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether she's had meets or not in the past or recently, being let down isn't nice."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good self marketing x"

But wonder how many have said they'd help the lady forget the let down

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over a year ago

I've been let down by both females and couples so I don't think it's fair to just blame man

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By *lackgrapeMan
over a year ago

Purley

"I've been let down by both females and couples so I don't think it's fair to just blame man "
mission accomplished.....attention has been commanded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't think there were that many idiots in the area

It may be difficult to arrange sometimes but you would hope that once the trouble has been gone to od finalising arrangements then it would have to be something major to blow it off

keep persevering as not all bad out there I am sure

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over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Switch to social meets first, you'll be glad you did.

We always have a social meet first because we need to feel the attraction between everyone and if they let you down at the last min you don't feel so bad as you have just mist a few drinks lol "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try women then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well now , there have been all sorts of replies on this one !

From the comment that there's more to the site than meeting ( a pointless statement ) to disbelief that the op has enough spare time to arrange 3 meets ( or indeed that anyone would want that many ) . There's also the if a man said this .... And it's the ops vetting process , and do a social first .

All no doubt meant with good intention but all completely useless .

The fact is that as I said earlier we all get let downs , it sucks and the excitement of the anticipation of meeting is a wonderful thing .

No doubt the op will be not feeling excitement before the next , more a sense of hope . And that's a shame , because meeting and having fun is why fab exists .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would a social make a difference? If a bloke won't turn up for guaranteed sex he sure as hell is no more likely to turn up for a social meet. They are idiots and op hope you get better luck going forward.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

I would suggest you need to improve your vetting process.

Sucks to be let down but there are a lot of fantasists out there."
. My thoughts exactly . I have a fairly detailed vetting process and it has not failed me in the past couple of years. In addition using your instinct helps.

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over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

I would suggest you need to improve your vetting process.

Sucks to be let down but there are a lot of fantasists out there.. My thoughts exactly . I have a fairly detailed vetting process and it has not failed me in the past couple of years. In addition using your instinct helps. "

The op has been let down 3 times in 2 days , and you have had 3 verified meets in however many years you have been on here . Quite how this qualifies you to suggest that your vetting process is the way forward for the op is beyond me .

Ckearly you and the op are poles apart in how you use the site and what you desire .....

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over a year ago

"I'm so fed up I could cry, and throw my dummy out my pram.

Being a MILF, I have little commitments around due to hols, I work and have no evening child care. So summer play time is very VERY limited. I was let down last week, the morning of for a hotel meet.

This week I've had 3 let downs and it's only Tuesday morning. Really feeling like deleting my account and giving up.

Its your fault because you didnt choose wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials always out some of the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Socials always out some of the time wasters

And also waste a lot of time for those of us on here to play

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over a year ago

"Socials always out some of the time wasters

And also waste a lot of time for those of us on here to play

We're on here to play and don't see socials as a waste of time. They help us decide who we would like to play with.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The op has been let down 3 times in 2 days"

... AND 2 weeks ago had three verified meets in three days.

Higher numbers of potential meets evidently equals both more meets and more no-shows.

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over a year ago

"Socials always out some of the time wasters

And also waste a lot of time for those of us on here to play

We're on here to play and don't see socials as a waste of time. They help us decide who we would like to play with.

-Courtney"

you following me? *wink*

I like it xx

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over a year ago

"Socials always out some of the time wasters

And also waste a lot of time for those of us on here to play

We're on here to play and don't see socials as a waste of time. They help us decide who we would like to play with.

-Courtney

you following me? *wink*

I like it xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A few answers to questions and points made.

3 verys in a few days. = gangbang. So 1 meet but lots of men to leave verys.

All these men I've swung with before. So didnt need a social first.

I do have lots of good meets, but just of recent Ive had a few 10 mins bj's so although looks a lot quality is not there.

I did have some coffee and walnut cake and feeling much better now!

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over a year ago

"Socials always out some of the time wasters

And also waste a lot of time for those of us on here to play

We're on here to play and don't see socials as a waste of time. They help us decide who we would like to play with.

-Courtney"

We get out two or three times a week , paying a sitter each time .

So we don't want to waste time on a social meet as a pic and a message are enough .

Horses for courses

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By *yLittleMushroomIndeedMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

you lovely lady got messed around by stupid fools, i definitely wouldnt mess you around, i dont get much off here at all if anything, but if you did in theory message i would be there in a heartbeat, guaranteed

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