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By *enrydarren OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrow Weald

the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you for real..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is bareback. 'Ok' now?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all grown up and should be old enough and wise enough to make sensible decisions. I for one will always go protected but it's not for me to judge if someone decides to go without.

We know the risks.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults "

About as okay as running through traffic blindfolded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't listen to the others. Bareback is fine until another human turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its fine, just turn the Russian roulette wheel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its OK if you want to do it, your an adult you make your own choices

No it's not OK if you don't want to do it, don't make your choices by what other people do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much you value your health!!

I personally value my health.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes its OK if you want to do it, your an adult you make your own choices

No it's not OK if you don't want to do it, don't make your choices by what other people do "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Right this VERY second, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a long term partner maybe but anyone else safe is best

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Are you for real.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right this VERY second, yes. "

How about now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't listen to the others. Bareback is fine until another human turns up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think yeah it's fine until u realise the person who is fine with it must've been fine with other guys so it's just viscous circle

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"With a long term partner maybe but anyone else safe is best "

Agreed only time i would consider going bare is with a long term partner xx

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Omg i cant believe it bareback ok now

erm no think about your health an other peoples health an whats wrong with useing condoms

i would never consider bareback, why take such risks like Russian roulette!!!

Nothing wrong with condoms

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"it's just viscous circle "

More true than you realise

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By *ighclassfunMan
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Right this VERY second, yes.

How about now? "

Carried away with the moment?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Omg i cant believe it bareback ok now

erm no think about your health an other peoples health an whats wrong with useing condoms

i would never consider bareback, why take such risks like Russian roulette!!!

Nothing wrong with condoms "

Quite a lot wrong with condoms but they are a million times better than an STD and/or a baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't take long for the ridiculous Russian roulette analogy to pop up again.

Russian roulette.....pull the trigger......1 in 6 chance of certain and instant death.

Does bare back sex carry those odds. I very much doubt it.

OP if you want to, weigh up the risks and if you deem them acceptable to you, go for it.

If not, bag that bad boy up before you stir the pot.

Life's all about choices. Make your own mind up

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By *enrydarren OP   Man
over a year ago

Harrow Weald

Thanks for the replies. was just wondering that's all that's why I asked the question. mixed reviews cheers.

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By *hyblueEyesMan
over a year ago

Daventry

If it's cost that's an issue, just take some cling film and roll your own

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Right this VERY second, yes.

How about now? "

Nahh, the moment passed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults "

Yes, it's ok now!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its fine, just turn the Russian roulette wheel."

Bingo! 6th post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults

About as okay as running through traffic blindfolded. "

Stationary traffic?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Yes its OK if you want to do it, your an adult you make your own choices

No it's not OK if you don't want to do it, don't make your choices by what other people do "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want life long happiness swinging instead of visiting health clinica and hospitals...then vonfoms shpuld always be your first attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes its OK if you want to do it, your an adult you make your own choices

No it's not OK if you don't want to do it, don't make your choices by what other people do "

What she said

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"If it's cost that's an issue, just take some cling film and roll your own "

Try some tin foil under the cling film for added effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a guy assume it's ok cos he's had a vasectomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's cost that's an issue, just take some cling film and roll your own "

Or check out your local GUM/STD clinic, pick them up for free, and if your going BB get a check up while your there.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I have had a guy assume it's ok cos he's had a vasectomy "

I had a lady friend that had the attitude of, if he looks ok then he's clean and bareback everyone. We fell out because I refused to go down on her.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"If you want life long happiness swinging instead of visiting health clinica and hospitals...then vonfoms shpuld always be your first attraction"

And wearing condoms, you should still be regularly visiting clinics to get tested.

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

It up to the individuals " MUTUAL"

Though personally i would,nt no matter how tempting.....

Nor should insult be taken if other insists....

.. Simple,s

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"If it's cost that's an issue, just take some cling film and roll your own

Try some tin foil under the cling film for added effect "

Crisp packet all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy message me the other day and dropped into the conversation whether I would ever go bareback and when I said no he then said 'Ok, but would you be ok with it bareback up the ass?' uh...no!!!!

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By *aitMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Go for it!

Choose to spread any resulting infection to as many people as you can!

Swinging is all about "choice"! Never mind what grief you spread.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Bare back has always been ok there would be a very small population without it. As other people have doubtless said it's a choice that's down to each individual and as long as you protect yourself there is no need to concern yourself with what other people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual over dramatic frenzied responses to a bareback thread, quite funny really

Most of the fervent, religious, pious responders to bareback threads also play bareback themselves, they just don't mention it.

Bareback is fine so long as you're upfront about it and agreed in advance and you choose your partners with care.

Also fine is slapping a condom on, sticking it inside some willing receptacle and banging for a bit until everyone gets bored and goes home.

Play how you like with people who like to play your way. We play bareback only and we haven't caught the black death, our genitals are still intact and there isn't a giant red 'X' on our door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes its OK if you want to do it, your an adult you make your own choices

No it's not OK if you don't want to do it, don't make your choices by what other people do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults "

NO

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults "

If you want to do it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If what is said about barebackers and STIs is true then through natural selection they will all die out because of the plethora of STI diseases they contract. So all you Condomers, fear not, it will soon be a disease free world.

Mind you, many of the non-sexual diseases, like colds, flu, c dificile, CJD, MRSA, turbuculosis, etc. we just take as a part of life, and take little precautions against, are significantly more damaging than STIs. It seems illogical to panic over chlamydia and ignore Flu which kills on average 8,000 per year in the UK.

Still, personal preference I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a no no for us

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

its ok as long as you don't let a guy cum on your ears.

you could catch hearing aids

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By *ong riderMan
over a year ago

belfast

Delighted that this thread has been reasonably sensibly replied to and the usual popcorn and haribo idiots have stayed away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults "

Some people find it acceptable, some people don't.

Some men prefer to use pre-exposure prophylaxis for HIV.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Delighted that this thread has been reasonably sensibly replied to and the usual popcorn and haribo idiots have stayed away"

their lazy jobless arses dont get up for another hour.

does anyone know if foil popcrn bags for an efective viral barrier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its ok as long as you don't let a guy cum on your ears.

you could catch hearing aids "

pardon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell no you must be on drugs just asking this safe sex the only way in my eyes when it come too swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hell no you must be on drugs just asking this safe sex the only way in my eyes when it come too swinging "

If it's in your eyes that's not really safe now is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hell no you must be on drugs just asking this safe sex the only way in my eyes when it come too swinging

If it's in your eyes that's not really safe now is it"
how you work that out ? i am saying i am saying bearback not safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults "

STI's are on the increses because people choose to cose their eyes and ignore whats going on around them... DO NOT be ignorant or nonchalant about this...

If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases...

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over a year ago

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By *jeibm2012Man
over a year ago

manchester nr piccadilly

Interesting thread, so many different opinions.

I guess these days there are other methods of reducing STI risk and pregnancy risk (e.g. regular testing, PrEP, the pill), so maybe that's why more people are willing to try bareback. Some people seem to only bareback and avoid catching anything, and either they're extremely lucky or do take some care with choice of partner and other preventative measures. Of course, it's possible to try it only once and catch HIV. Condoms, as I see it, are another preventative measure, and are very effective (but not 100%) against pregnancy and STIs. So you use the combination of precautions that best reflects your attitude to the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases... "

One could also state (accurately) that if you adopt the swinging lifestyle you're doing your bit to spread diseases. If you marry as a virgin to a virgin and stay monogamous your entire life you won't catch an STD. Unless you do this then you are not in any position to cast any stone let alone the first.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults

STI's are on the increses because people choose to cose their eyes and ignore whats going on around them... DO NOT be ignorant or nonchalant about this...

If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases... "

You can pick up STIs even using a condom and via unprotected oral. We are nearly all doing our bit.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Reading some comments here make me cringe.what make you think bareback is fine with strangers.?Yes very adult have the responsibility to decide what he or she want.But barebacking with strangers is complete naive,reckless and irresponsible..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is bareback. 'Ok' now"

Wow

That is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's cost that's an issue, just take some cling film and roll your own

Try some tin foil under the cling film for added effect

Crisp packet all the way "

Or if you are on the small side.....fingers off a marigold? 5 for the price of one!

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

ner ner ner ner police alert on this one ......adults make your own choices..ps how long do you go with a new partner before ya start barebacking???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The usual over dramatic frenzied responses to a bareback thread, quite funny really

Most of the fervent, religious, pious responders to bareback threads also play bareback themselves, they just don't mention it.

Bareback is fine so long as you're upfront about it and agreed in advance and you choose your partners with care.

Also fine is slapping a condom on, sticking it inside some willing receptacle and banging for a bit until everyone gets bored and goes home.

Play how you like with people who like to play your way. We play bareback only and we haven't caught the black death, our genitals are still intact and there isn't a giant red 'X' on our door."

How refreshing, an honest post!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is not to bareback but I am also fully aware that even with condoms I am still at risk of contracting something... Yes... They aren't the ultimate it safe sex. They aren't a free pass to infection free life!!

I make that choice every time I sleep with someone. New or not. With multiple partners I increase the probability of that risk. But as an adult that is my choice and I will deal with any consequences of MY decisions. I won't blame another part of society who chose to play by different decisions.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults

STI's are on the increses because people choose to cose their eyes and ignore whats going on around them... DO NOT be ignorant or nonchalant about this...

If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases...

You can pick up STIs even using a condom and via unprotected oral. We are nearly all doing our bit. "

We're taking part in a sexually, high-risk lifestyle. Ask your GUM Clinic Nurse. Regular testing is just as important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, in n way shape or form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The usual over dramatic frenzied responses to a bareback thread, quite funny really

Most of the fervent, religious, pious responders to bareback threads also play bareback themselves, they just don't mention it.

Bareback is fine so long as you're upfront about it and agreed in advance and you choose your partners with care.

Also fine is slapping a condom on, sticking it inside some willing receptacle and banging for a bit until everyone gets bored and goes home.

Play how you like with people who like to play your way. We play bareback only and we haven't caught the black death, our genitals are still intact and there isn't a giant red 'X' on our door.

How refreshing, an honest post!! "

Is it honest, but is it refreshing?

My Nan always used to talk about how she'd smoked twenty a day for her entire life and she wasn't dead yet...

... and then she was diagnosed with cancer caused by smoking and she died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If what is said about barebackers and STIs is true then through natural selection they will all die out because of the plethora of STI diseases they contract. So all you Condomers, fear not, it will soon be a disease free world.

Mind you, many of the non-sexual diseases, like colds, flu, c dificile, CJD, MRSA, turbuculosis, etc. we just take as a part of life, and take little precautions against, are significantly more damaging than STIs. It seems illogical to panic over chlamydia and ignore Flu which kills on average 8,000 per year in the UK.

Still, personal preference I guess. "

If I have flu,a cold,cold sore etc I try to avoid giving it to someone else. If someone else has something communicable I try to avoid catching it. Using a condom is my way of trying to avoid catching something. I had the flu jab because I was taking medication that lowered my immune system. Every little helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The usual over dramatic frenzied responses to a bareback thread, quite funny really

Most of the fervent, religious, pious responders to bareback threads also play bareback themselves, they just don't mention it.

Bareback is fine so long as you're upfront about it and agreed in advance and you choose your partners with care.

Also fine is slapping a condom on, sticking it inside some willing receptacle and banging for a bit until everyone gets bored and goes home.

Play how you like with people who like to play your way. We play bareback only and we haven't caught the black death, our genitals are still intact and there isn't a giant red 'X' on our door."
Wow....proper adults on an adult site......more please

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases...

One could also state (accurately) that if you adopt the swinging lifestyle you're doing your bit to spread diseases. If you marry as a virgin to a virgin and stay monogamous your entire life you won't catch an STD. Unless you do this then you are not in any position to cast any stone let alone the first. "

The above post shows how naive some people are.

You would think in this day and age people would know the truth.


"If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases... "

FALSE, there is no reason why people playing bareback automatically spread “these diseases”.

Yes there is a chance that they could but if both are STI free before the meet they will not spread any STIs by playing bareback.


"One could also state (accurately) that if you adopt the swinging lifestyle you're doing your bit to spread diseases. "

Again this is totally false there is no reason why swingers cannot go through life STI free whether they use a condom or play bareback, you are simply scaremongering.


"If you marry as a virgin to a virgin and stay monogamous your entire life you won't catch an STD. Unless you do this then you are not in any position to cast any stone let alone the first. "

This is perhaps the most frightening bit of the whole inaccurate post. A person may carry a STI even though they have never had sex.

Some babies are born with HIV; some babies are born with Syphilis, Gonorrhea or even Chlamydia etc. they can pass these diseases on to there monogamous husband or wife thereby falsifying your statement

A person may play bareback all their adult life and never catch a STI or they may play just once bareback and catch a STI.

In a similar manner a person may use a condom every time they play and catch a STI or they may use a condom every time they play and never catch a STI.

If the chance is 1 in 100 that does not mean that a person can shag 99 others and on shagging the 100th they will catch something it means every time they shag someone they have a one percent chance of catching something, the odds don’t change with every shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, it's only fine if it's an Apple Pie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok if it's what you and your partners want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases...

One could also state (accurately) that if you adopt the swinging lifestyle you're doing your bit to spread diseases. If you marry as a virgin to a virgin and stay monogamous your entire life you won't catch an STD. Unless you do this then you are not in any position to cast any stone let alone the first.

The above post shows how naive some people are.

You would think in this day and age people would know the truth.

If you play bareback you are doing your bit the spread these diseases...

FALSE, there is no reason why people playing bareback automatically spread “these diseases”.

Yes there is a chance that they could but if both are STI free before the meet they will not spread any STIs by playing bareback.

One could also state (accurately) that if you adopt the swinging lifestyle you're doing your bit to spread diseases.

Again this is totally false there is no reason why swingers cannot go through life STI free whether they use a condom or play bareback, you are simply scaremongering.

If you marry as a virgin to a virgin and stay monogamous your entire life you won't catch an STD. Unless you do this then you are not in any position to cast any stone let alone the first.

This is perhaps the most frightening bit of the whole inaccurate post. A person may carry a STI even though they have never had sex.

Some babies are born with HIV; some babies are born with Syphilis, Gonorrhea or even Chlamydia etc. they can pass these diseases on to there monogamous husband or wife thereby falsifying your statement

A person may play bareback all their adult life and never catch a STI or they may play just once bareback and catch a STI.

In a similar manner a person may use a condom every time they play and catch a STI or they may use a condom every time they play and never catch a STI.

If the chance is 1 in 100 that does not mean that a person can shag 99 others and on shagging the 100th they will catch something it means every time they shag someone they have a one percent chance of catching something, the odds don’t change with every shag

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once again though its personal choice and if you are a grown man over 30 and you have to ask.....then we dont really hold out much hope for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice - lots do, lots don't - why not live and let live and respect people who have different views either way....none of us have a monopoly on being right.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Bare back has always been ok there would be a very small population without it. As other people have doubtless said it's a choice that's down to each individual and as long as you protect yourself there is no need to concern yourself with what other people do."

Dont be silly, no ones parents actually went bareback, if they had they would all have died instantly. We are all just adopted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock snot up the fart pipe is not acceptable........

Trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My preference is not to bareback but I am also fully aware that even with condoms I am still at risk of contracting something... Yes... They aren't the ultimate it safe sex. They aren't a free pass to infection free life!!

I make that choice every time I sleep with someone. New or not. With multiple partners I increase the probability of that risk. But as an adult that is my choice and I will deal with any consequences of MY decisions. I won't blame another part of society who chose to play by different decisions. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"My preference is not to bareback but I am also fully aware that even with condoms I am still at risk of contracting something... Yes... They aren't the ultimate it safe sex. They aren't a free pass to infection free life!!

I make that choice every time I sleep with someone. New or not. With multiple partners I increase the probability of that risk. But as an adult that is my choice and I will deal with any consequences of MY decisions. I won't blame another part of society who chose to play by different decisions. "

Simply: this!

As I say on these types of threads, the fact we're on this site means we're promiscuous, sleeping with strangers taking risks.

Yet some, somehow manage to find a moral high ground to ride their high horse up and look down on other promiscuous people who take more risks than them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My preference is not to bareback but I am also fully aware that even with condoms I am still at risk of contracting something... Yes... They aren't the ultimate it safe sex. They aren't a free pass to infection free life!!

I make that choice every time I sleep with someone. New or not. With multiple partners I increase the probability of that risk. But as an adult that is my choice and I will deal with any consequences of MY decisions. I won't blame another part of society who chose to play by different decisions.

Simply: this!

As I say on these types of threads, the fact we're on this site means we're promiscuous, sleeping with strangers taking risks.

Yet some, somehow manage to find a moral high ground to ride their high horse up and look down on other promiscuous people who take more risks than them!

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton


" the reason I ask is I notice not only on this site but others as well a lot of it goes on especially with man on man. just thought you had to be careful these days or am I wrong and it is now acceptable between all adults "

In a relationship is fine, but swinging fuck know. I value my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If what is said about barebackers and STIs is true then through natural selection they will all die out because of the plethora of STI diseases they contract. So all you Condomers, fear not, it will soon be a disease free world.

Mind you, many of the non-sexual diseases, like colds, flu, c dificile, CJD, MRSA, turbuculosis, etc. we just take as a part of life, and take little precautions against, are significantly more damaging than STIs. It seems illogical to panic over chlamydia and ignore Flu which kills on average 8,000 per year in the UK.

Still, personal preference I guess.

If I have flu,a cold,cold sore etc I try to avoid giving it to someone else. If someone else has something communicable I try to avoid catching it. Using a condom is my way of trying to avoid catching something. I had the flu jab because I was taking medication that lowered my immune system. Every little helps. "

Understood but the care taken with avoiding non-STIs is far less than STIs. For instance, do you wear latex gloves all the time and a mask in public? Sterilize anything you are going to touch?

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By *oinMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

It's ok for people that do it and not for people that don't different strokes for different folks me personally wouldn't as it's not worth my health

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