FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, I have this fantasy where Marc and I are on vacation somewhere (like a resort) and one night Marc ties me to the bed and invites another guy to come and fuck me. He knows who I'm attracted to, so that wouldn't be an issue.

My question is this - if a couple invited you to their room for something like this, would you do it? Do you think a guy who hadn't done the whole swinging thing would do it, or would he just be freaked out that we asked?

-Courtney

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West

I have done this only a few months back... Got invited to a couples home and the lady was face masked and sort of tied to the bed.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done this only a few months back... Got invited to a couples home and the lady was face masked and sort of tied to the bed......."

Were you approached randomly, though? Like, not through this or any other swinging/sex site?

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West

The couple just listed a meet..... I replied...... Once it was arranged and I arrived at the place was I told the scenario.... To be honest it was a bit strange at first but then.......well what can you say?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it but through here, however I would've freaked out and not comfortable if randomly asked outside if I wasn't into swinging.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Without any prior contact, I'd be slightly concerned!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Without any prior contact, I'd be slightly concerned! "

Yeah, this is how I thought guys would react. It will remain a fantasy I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is the couple like you absolutly yes

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By *halMan
over a year ago

North West

Of course it would have to be off here or another site etc..... Anything else forget it......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Before I joined fab I'd have said no. Now I would say yes.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I'd be thinking they were axe murderers; that the man was ready to go nuts and stab me at some point if I ever dropped my pants and fucked her. That is if I didn't spit out my drink laughing at him when he brought it up in the bar

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd be thinking they were axe murderers; that the man was ready to go nuts and stab me at some point if I ever dropped my pants and fucked her. That is if I didn't spit out my drink laughing at him when he brought it up in the bar

Ok. Good to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be a bit on edge but once I got in there I'd be fine!

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By *unguy_4_uMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I think most people on fab would - however the reality of the situation if asking a random guy is risky and I would think 75% would say no as they'd think there was a catch

When its too good to be true to normally is (buy obviously not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry - no.

Bondage doesn't excite me at all. I prefer my partner to be able to move freely.

But wouldn't life be dull if everyone had the same likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess it depends on how the question is asked. there cant be a shortage of guys out there that are up for a no questions asked, no strings fucked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think most people on fab would - however the reality of the situation if asking a random guy is risky and I would think 75% would say no as they'd think there was a catch

When its too good to be true to normally is (buy obviously not always

Yeah, I realize people on fab will answer differently to people off the site. As I said, it is just a fantasy that will remain a fantasy. So it's more just a question of whether guys would entertain this.

Interestingly enough, it seems like most of the guys on this thread would say no, even though they are on fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If asked out of the blue I'd say no. There would be so many scenarios running through my head and only one of them is pleasurable.

If it had been arranged properly I'd be in you like a rat up a drainpipe!

I'm such a sweet talker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its really coming down to if the other guy was up for it, if it was me being chatted up by the hubby to take part I think id find it hard to resist - the key factor here is "willing parties" as apposed to un known threats

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

There appears to be a certain etiquette amongst swingers that would ensure you would be reasonably safe and also the man would understand how to behave and what was expected. Not at all sure how this would work with a random stranger.

I have a similar fantasy, being blindfolded and having (several) men brought to me. We will do this - but only in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be a tad nervous at first but I'd like to think I'd be up for it

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

I'm a new guy and I'd be very comfortable with this scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see an issue. I believe there's many fantasist 's in this world who are turned on by the whole concept and the chase,but when it becomes reality they get cold feet and nervous...after all you may not be horny on the day of a meet !

But a spontaneous meet coupled with attraction moves faster without all that pausing and consideration. Fir some it's better and less clinical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably if I were approached as part of a grouo of guys then yes (safety in numbers).

If I were on my own no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even if they said they were swingers, I would just be thinking he will be bursting through the door at any minute, I would say if she wanted to go to my room I would be up for it, But I think she would have similar feelings as me being in a strangers room

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

In a vanilla setting, with no prior contact. Nope,

In a swinging setting, with certain provisos ..Yep.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"So, I have this fantasy where Marc and I are on vacation somewhere (like a resort) and one night Marc ties me to the bed and invites another guy to come and fuck me. He knows who I'm attracted to, so that wouldn't be an issue.

-Courtney"

I would but I have all the morals of an alley cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most guys here, if asked I would say no.

I also would never put TB in that situation as you don't know anything about the guy, he could be a total nutter.

We shared your fantasy, so I arranged with a guy from here that I selected knowing her likes and invited him to meet at a hotel. He knew in advance the whole sinario, and that TB had not been involved in any of the planning. Safe to say the event went fantastically, never known her to cum as many times in one session, and all 3 of us really loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I went to Temptations in Cancun this was a common request made to some of the singles.

However that was probably to do with the atmosphere of the hotel. More so when it was the Blue Bay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-Courtney"

You would be hard pressed to find a guy not interested Courtney. You're an attractive lady and as for the not into swinging, I don't mean to be rude, but I think the kind of guys you like would be into trying new things, so while Marc and you might get a guy who is not on the scene, I get the feeling you will get a guy who will get on the scene as a result. I hope this makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like most guys here, if asked I would say no.

I also would never put TB in that situation as you don't know anything about the guy, he could be a total nutter.

A stranger, Like I said I doubt it but from fab, If she was someone who I liked the look of and been chatting with,

100% yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-Courtney

However, for this, you would have to sit and chat before going up, if there is no interaction prior, then chances are huge resounding no's. If it's at a holiday resort, you'll get plenty of chance to get to know people and assess whether they're for you before you pose the question

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