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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

this is my my dilemma,

I don't like camming or phone sex, but people keep asking to see me on cam to see if im real,i do prefer to arrange a meet and turn up. I have been accused of being a fake so far and not real. but I did a 5 minute cam for a girl who was asking nicely and got a verification, but for some people that's not enough.so ill persevere for now, as I do have regular women off here I play with..this is just for extra fun and games.has anyone else been in this situation and how did you deal with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A photo verification might be a good start?

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Will the women you play with off here not verify you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On kik you can send pictures straight from the camera so you know they aren't fake. And you don't have to give your number out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ask to talk on Skype with people (no funny business), but mostly to see if we get along.

If your happy to chat for five minutes, then why not do it? If you aren't, then don't. It's simply up to you. If people then don't want to meet, that is their choice.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't cam but I'm happy with a phone call. If people insist I do anything to prove I'm real I'm happy to just leave it. Like you, I'm a meet face to face person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't trust webcams on here at all - you can be recorded and passed on, and what you see on someone's cam may just as easily be a recording of somebody else...

Start by getting photo-verified, then go at a pace that you're happy with and don't let anyone push you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have sent face pix, and been told im older than my stated age.

I do have Skype but just not happy going on cam. only time I use cam is when I chat to family around country, I wont do it with strangers, I feel better meeting in flesh, for coffee etc. oh and not at 4am like one person who I spoke to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do anything you don't want to. Surely you can see why people would be suspicious.

Just meet the way you want to. Single guys with no verifications have similar issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never cammed or made a phone call to prove who I am and neither should you...If they are interested then they will meet you...you shouldn't have to jump through hoops for anyone on here

A x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been in the chat rooms on here in cam. Just chatting. (Mainly) Got a veri too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been in the chat rooms on here in cam. Just chatting. (Mainly) Got a veri too! "

ill do chat rooms but not cam, I make my rules and when I meet the person who im happy with they will get their rewards.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most blatantly fake profiles are the ones where the young slim unattached nymph wants to meet. Oh, but that young, slim nymph has no photos and no verifications on display because they are really a sweaty bloke wanking over his keyboard.

2 hours later and the profile is gone.

So how do you show you aren't fake: put some subtle pictures on your profile, have a profile pic, and if you really want to get verifications, go to a local club or social. There'll be plenty of local people (male or female) who would offer to be a guide/chaperone for your first visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cammed or made a phone call to prove who I am and neither should you...If they are interested then they will meet you...you shouldn't have to jump through hoops for anyone on here

A x"

Damn right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't can or any of that stuff , we would do a phone call to make sure there are girls in couples so we all know but really we haven't had many bad experiences, some no shoes but that's there loss . Don't be pushed into doing things your not happy with op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never cammed or made a phone call to prove who I am and neither should you...If they are interested then they will meet you...you shouldn't have to jump through hoops for anyone on here

A x

Damn right "

Is it "jumping through hoops" to actually put up a couple of pics?

It may come as a surprise to some people, but some men aren't desperate to meet just anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am grateful for all the sound advice. I will carry on as I want and try to make the best of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love chatting on cam, it's a good way to get an idea if you'll 'click' and to see each other. Obviously it's not the same as real life but it's a start and you don't have to get naked! .

Otherwise if people want to get to know you they'll have to compromise a little and respect your wishes - if not, fcuk them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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