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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have you done to look and how long have you been looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started out looking for a unicorn but found much more fun playing with other couples. So much opportunity for fem fem fun plus 2 guys to play with too! All good

Weve made some good friends on here and I have met the odd couple on my own or just the lady on my own too.

You may wait forever but my advice would be get to a club or social, network, keep your options open and you can have a fabulous time.

Is there something thats making you not consider another couple? So many of the couples on here have a bi fem so have a think and consider it.

You've only been here 2 weeks so its really early days. You will find so many threads on here about elusive single bi fems, youre not on your own. They are out there, but in the minority.

Good luck, it can happen

Miss Nico

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are looking for a needle in a haystack, but they are definitely worth the wait !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met a few , had some great fun with them too .

Thing is , we have never really looked for them , never mind made them our primary focus .

So stop looking so hard , it will happen

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Totally agree with Miss Nico. As a bi fem I have played with couples and in MFF scenarios but with those I already knew from couples meets with the BF or as three singles in a friend of a friend type thing. I have always been daunted by the prospect of being the extra to a couple without knowing them or one of them first, especially if it's their first threesome meet. I know there are plenty of bi girls who won't feel that way but that's my personal perspective on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, we do exist but we're also in high demand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you know how hard it is for single men to meet women lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree with Miss Nico. As a bi fem I have played with couples and in MFF scenarios but with those I already knew from couples meets with the BF or as three singles in a friend of a friend type thing. I have always been daunted by the prospect of being the extra to a couple without knowing them or one of them first, especially if it's their first threesome meet. I know there are plenty of bi girls who won't feel that way but that's my personal perspective on it."

Agree with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unicorns sure do exist but are very elusive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unicorns forever!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been chatting to a few girls and had a "date" organised last night. 2 weeks we waited, went to a lot of trouble too. She called off on Thursday we were so disappointed.

Another girl we were talking too I'm convinced now it's a guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We started out looking for a unicorn but found much more fun playing with other couples. So much opportunity for fem fem fun plus 2 guys to play with too! All good

Weve made some good friends on here and I have met the odd couple on my own or just the lady on my own too.

You may wait forever but my advice would be get to a club or social, network, keep your options open and you can have a fabulous time.

Is there something thats making you not consider another couple? So many of the couples on here have a bi fem so have a think and consider it.

You've only been here 2 weeks so its really early days. You will find so many threads on here about elusive single bi fems, youre not on your own. They are out there, but in the minority.

Good luck, it can happen

Miss Nico "

Hi Nico, yeah we were thinking we were going to do the couple thing but I'm really not up for playing with a guy. This is about a fantasy I've had for years so I don't want to wake up in the morning regretting anything and I know if we swapped I would

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picked a female bi friend from chams last night for dinner and she said that chams was wall to wall single women last night. She said it was all bi action.

Perhaps time to try a club?

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen "

Plenty of them on here but most aren't worth meeting cos their heads are so far up their own arses, they also can't handle rejection as they think they're the only ones on this site that exist and for some reason, far superior than everyone else! I've been lucky enough to have met a few of the genuinely lovely ones but in all honesty, I wasn't looking for single fems at the time! Usually the case isn't it! You could maybe try searching for a bi fem through couples? I imagine many others are in the same position as yourself so it could work! Or try bi nights in clubs? Good luck! I only joined fab to meet single bi fems but soon gave up on them as they proved to be damn hard work and much prefer meeting couples now! Yours sincerely...the best unicorn on this bloody site!!!! Hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen

Plenty of them on here but most aren't worth meeting cos their heads are so far up their own arses, they also can't handle rejection as they think they're the only ones on this site that exist and for some reason, far superior than everyone else! I've been lucky enough to have met a few of the genuinely lovely ones but in all honesty, I wasn't looking for single fems at the time! Usually the case isn't it! You could maybe try searching for a bi fem through couples? I imagine many others are in the same position as yourself so it could work! Or try bi nights in clubs? Good luck! I only joined fab to meet single bi fems but soon gave up on them as they proved to be damn hard work and much prefer meeting couples now! Yours sincerely...the best unicorn on this bloody site!!!! Hahaha! "

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen

Plenty of them on here but most aren't worth meeting cos their heads are so far up their own arses, they also can't handle rejection as they think they're the only ones on this site that exist and for some reason, far superior than everyone else! I've been lucky enough to have met a few of the genuinely lovely ones but in all honesty, I wasn't looking for single fems at the time! Usually the case isn't it! You could maybe try searching for a bi fem through couples? I imagine many others are in the same position as yourself so it could work! Or try bi nights in clubs? Good luck! I only joined fab to meet single bi fems but soon gave up on them as they proved to be damn hard work and much prefer meeting couples now! Yours sincerely...the best unicorn on this bloody site!!!! Hahaha! "

Ha love it!

I don't find them elusive unicorns. I know loads of single bi fems. This isn't directed in any way at the OP as that isn't the vibe I've gotten from them... But most of these 'unicorns' can't be arsed being treated like a free escort by couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen

Plenty of them on here but most aren't worth meeting cos their heads are so far up their own arses, they also can't handle rejection as they think they're the only ones on this site that exist and for some reason, far superior than everyone else! I've been lucky enough to have met a few of the genuinely lovely ones but in all honesty, I wasn't looking for single fems at the time! Usually the case isn't it! You could maybe try searching for a bi fem through couples? I imagine many others are in the same position as yourself so it could work! Or try bi nights in clubs? Good luck! I only joined fab to meet single bi fems but soon gave up on them as they proved to be damn hard work and much prefer meeting couples now! Yours sincerely...the best unicorn on this bloody site!!!! Hahaha!

Ha love it!

I don't find them elusive unicorns. I know loads of single bi fems. This isn't directed in any way at the OP as that isn't the vibe I've gotten from them... But most of these 'unicorns' can't be arsed being treated like a free escort by couples. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen

Plenty of them on here but most aren't worth meeting cos their heads are so far up their own arses, they also can't handle rejection as they think they're the only ones on this site that exist and for some reason, far superior than everyone else! I've been lucky enough to have met a few of the genuinely lovely ones but in all honesty, I wasn't looking for single fems at the time! Usually the case isn't it! You could maybe try searching for a bi fem through couples? I imagine many others are in the same position as yourself so it could work! Or try bi nights in clubs? Good luck! I only joined fab to meet single bi fems but soon gave up on them as they proved to be damn hard work and much prefer meeting couples now! Yours sincerely...the best unicorn on this bloody site!!!! Hahaha! "

Great post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats me! Gen single Bi fem.

But I hate the offers for "bi curios" want to try me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats me! Gen single Bi fem.

But I hate the offers for "bi curios" want to try me. "

I met a bi selfish girl at a party once. Didn't even know what it meant at the time.

Soon found out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen "

there are lots of bi fems on here (I don't agree with using terms like unicorn as it gives some of them a false sense of their own supposed importance. I have only ever played with one couple off here (over a period of about 4 months)and that ended badly and has made me personally, very wary of ever meeting couples again, but never say never....

I used to get a bit cagey when I see that the fem is 'bi curious' on a couples profile, or if I am in the chatrooms and the male of the profile starts to question me....now I just tell them I am not looking for couples as it saves a lot of hassle.

For most things to work for me there has to be a connection between everyone involved and that isn't always the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many couples don't establish a three way connection that's why they fail

And couples just looking for a single female and nothing else rarely succeed, why would any single Bi Fem want to be a couples fantasy?

For us it's about establishing friendships all round xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen "

I know a good few..........I think you must be missing something...

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

They do exist. You just have to hunt them out. Many can be found lurking in these very forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I have to also point out, single fems regardless of bi or straight, may wish to meet a verified couple...

I'd seriously consider the many social events that are going on in glasgow and the surrounding areas..

Your profile doesnt show much of the male half`(few cock pics really?), hardly a winning advert...

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Unicorns sure do exist but are very elusive..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also have started this thread on Scottish forum that way any fems who contributed could be contacted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're looking to explore your bi fantasies, which reads as looking for someone to provide a service. Not really that enticing. What are you offering the woman? Perhaps another bi curious woman in a couple might be more a more productive search, so you can explore together?

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Yes there is, I'm taking one to Cupids tonight. Shame she's only looking for women to play with though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"starting to feel we're trying to find a needle in a haystack what's people's experience when looking for a bi-sexual female to join in on some genuine couple fun. Have came across so many time wasters we're starting to think it's never going to happen

Plenty of them on here but most aren't worth meeting cos their heads are so far up their own arses, they also can't handle rejection as they think they're the only ones on this site that exist and for some reason, far superior than everyone else! I've been lucky enough to have met a few of the genuinely lovely ones but in all honesty, I wasn't looking for single fems at the time! Usually the case isn't it! You could maybe try searching for a bi fem through couples? I imagine many others are in the same position as yourself so it could work! Or try bi nights in clubs? Good luck! I only joined fab to meet single bi fems but soon gave up on them as they proved to be damn hard work and much prefer meeting couples now! Yours sincerely...the best unicorn on this bloody site!!!! Hahaha! "
Haha love it ! X

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"You're looking to explore your bi fantasies, which reads as looking for someone to provide a service. Not really that enticing. What are you offering the woman? Perhaps another bi curious woman in a couple might be more a more productive search, so you can explore together?"

agree totally. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exist

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Ive played with couples (no longer on this site) and felt like an extra plaything/sex toy. Much better when you all get on and have a laugh and it's just mutual enjoyment!

Sometimes the lovey doviness of the couple puts me off. Just rub it in how much in love you are while I drive home on my own!

Loads of arrogant single fems but some lovely ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are looking for a needle in a haystack, but they are definitely worth the wait ! "

More needles than you think!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I have to also point out, single fems regardless of bi or straight, may wish to meet a verified couple...

I'd seriously consider the many social events that are going on in glasgow and the surrounding areas..

Your profile doesnt show much of the male half`(few cock pics really?), hardly a winning advert..."

I think your going to have to show us how this is done haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're looking to explore your bi fantasies, which reads as looking for someone to provide a service. Not really that enticing. What are you offering the woman? Perhaps another bi curious woman in a couple might be more a more productive search, so you can explore together?"

Oh I'm not asking anyone to provide a service as I'm sure I wouldn't disappoint either. X

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

We exist but not only are we in high demand but the key is mutual attraction to the male and female of the couple and that's hard I usually like the look of one half of the couple but not the other half.

I also want to feel a part of a mutually inclusive experience not to be used like a fleshy sex toy or to be nothing more than a fantasy on a checklist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet couples off here, I have had far to many problems in the past, had a few fall out mid meet, last couple I met the woman threw me out their house at 1am because of something he said, its just to much drama for me

I do play with couples but ones I gave gotten to know first, by chatting regular at clubs etc, I need to know they are secure and stable as a couple and with what they do before I will play

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable


"OP I have to also point out, single fems regardless of bi or straight, may wish to meet a verified couple...

I'd seriously consider the many social events that are going on in glasgow and the surrounding areas..

Your profile doesnt show much of the male half`(few cock pics really?), hardly a winning advert..."

This...

veri's make me feel a bit safer, and yes, its nice to see pics of both.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Also factor in that meeting a couple on your own as a single fem can be very daunting/intimidating do you suggest a no pressure social meet first? It could help or would you meet her in a swingers club so you can all play in the safety of that environment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a fair few so yes they do......

Met my best friend on here....raving bi! (But not on site at mo....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exist, but like any other meet I have to click with the couple first and meet socially before I proceed further

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also factor in that meeting a couple on your own as a single fem can be very daunting/intimidating do you suggest a no pressure social meet first? It could help or would you meet her in a swingers club so you can all play in the safety of that environment? "

Yeah there would be no pressure at all as we would need to feel a connection too. I don't know what clubs to go to lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sneaks in thread..... waves and jumps up and down!! runs back out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sneaks in thread..... waves and jumps up and down!! runs back out "

That ones went way over my head? Lol x

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I chatted with my friends at HDZ last night and count at least half a dozen single bi fems among them. Get to a club, more needles out there than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also factor in that meeting a couple on your own as a single fem can be very daunting/intimidating do you suggest a no pressure social meet first? It could help or would you meet her in a swingers club so you can all play in the safety of that environment?

Yeah there would be no pressure at all as we would need to feel a connection too. I don't know what clubs to go to lol x"
. The unit in blackpool regularly have bi nights and you will get website on club review pages

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Yes we exist xxxx

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

They sure do

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