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 Don't be ridiculous! We all know NO black man on the face of God's earth would ever contemplate such a thing!
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" Don't be ridiculous! We all know NO black man on the face of God's earth would ever contemplate such a thing!
I'm aghast you'd suggest such a thing!!! "Hahaha | |||
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"Would let a cuck husband suck your cock?" This happened at a meet when the cuck just started touching and then sucking me. Turned on the fem massively. Good experience just seeing the impact on her | |||
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"Would let a cuck husband suck your cock? This happened at a meet when the cuck just started touching and then sucking me. Turned on the fem massively. Good experience just seeing the impact on her" Nice! Sometimes its just nice to share the jaw ache! | |||
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"Would let a cuck husband suck your cock? This happened at a meet when the cuck just started touching and then sucking me. Turned on the fem massively. Good experience just seeing the impact on her Nice! Sometimes its just nice to share the jaw ache!" Lol | |||
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" Don't be ridiculous! We all know NO black man on the face of God's earth would ever contemplate such a thing!
I'm aghast you'd suggest such a thing!!! "
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"Would let a cuck husband suck your cock?" Certainly wish there was a lot more of them! | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol." That's how those that don't understand the dynamics of such a relationship view it, yes. | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol." Not sure it's gay , but can see how some would . If the guy has fucked the wife , the husband is tasting her , and is savouring the very tool which satisfied her . Seems perfectly good and normal to me , and not gay at all  | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol." Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol. Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... " I would like to know more about the black male culture where sex is concerned. I have heard that some black cultures don't give oral. I asked a black man and he said the man was just trying to get out of doing it and maybe I didn't smell that great. I've spoken to a few black men who don't do it but not given an explanation. | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol. Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... I would like to know more about the black male culture where sex is concerned. I have heard that some black cultures don't give oral. I asked a black man and he said the man was just trying to get out of doing it and maybe I didn't smell that great. I've spoken to a few black men who don't do it but not given an explanation. " My partner blew me away with his oral when we met, but he is a bit older than some of the guys on here - yes, I would be interested to know too - but maybe a different thread - sorry Clem, am loving this one too much | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol. Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... I would like to know more about the black male culture where sex is concerned. I have heard that some black cultures don't give oral. I asked a black man and he said the man was just trying to get out of doing it and maybe I didn't smell that great. I've spoken to a few black men who don't do it but not given an explanation. " Well, here I was thinking it was going to get interesting .... but everyone must be watching Match of the Day | |||
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" Don't be ridiculous! We all know NO black man on the face of God's earth would ever contemplate such a thing!
I'm aghast you'd suggest such a thing!!!
Hahaha"jealousy again, me thinks lol | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol. Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... I would like to know more about the black male culture where sex is concerned. I have heard that some black cultures don't give oral. I asked a black man and he said the man was just trying to get out of doing it and maybe I didn't smell that great. I've spoken to a few black men who don't do it but not given an explanation. " In my experience *some* black men see oral as unclean: they don't like receiving either. If they do they won't kiss you after. Some black men won't let you near their food if you're on as you're seen as unclean. "Some* black men are pretty uptight about sex. Black men are the only ones I've heard complaining in clubs about being watched, fucking in an open room!  | |||
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"its horses for courses, I've noticed a few black Bi guys on here... Oh there we go another set of initials to be introduced BBG ... Now I'm just waiting for BFG "Whats bfg ? | |||
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"its horses for courses, I've noticed a few black Bi guys on here... Oh there we go another set of initials to be introduced BBG ... Now I'm just waiting for BFG
Whats bfg ?"big friendly giant ..lol.... Children's book ...like James and the giant peach | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol. Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... I would like to know more about the black male culture where sex is concerned. I have heard that some black cultures don't give oral. I asked a black man and he said the man was just trying to get out of doing it and maybe I didn't smell that great. I've spoken to a few black men who don't do it but not given an explanation. In my experience *some* black men see oral as unclean: they don't like receiving either. If they do they won't kiss you after. Some black men won't let you near their food if you're on as you're seen as unclean. "Some* black men are pretty uptight about sex. Black men are the only ones I've heard complaining in clubs about being watched, fucking in an open room! "Does it depend on their experience and particular culture or faith? I am sure the 'black' experience is vast and varied, after all | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. " I don't care what they are, not even little green men, it's not something I want to witness, however it's all about choice and I stipulate on my profile that I'm not into bi..... Luckily a lot of people see that and don't bother messaging, therefore preventing me wasting my time Strictly hetero here ! | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. " I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ..." That is what is so good about forums , it's open for debate. And wouldn't life be boring if we all liked the same things ? | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... That is what is so good about forums , it's open for debate. And wouldn't life be boring if we all liked the same things ?" Totally agree, what annoys me the most is being told to shush because we are tying to all get along ... we can get along and have a debate or discussion too, surely? I never hold on to what people say, although I do question is, as I question myself about things to get a clearer perspective. Am thinking on your post and trying to formulate my thoughts | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol. Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... I would like to know more about the black male culture where sex is concerned. I have heard that some black cultures don't give oral. I asked a black man and he said the man was just trying to get out of doing it and maybe I didn't smell that great. I've spoken to a few black men who don't do it but not given an explanation. " It's all lies lol as regular to the Caribbean. They most definitely do. Jamaicans call it swiping. Have you heard the song about it. Swipe at home ba nah swipe ah road lol | |||
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"It's funny how a percent of black dudes are seen on this site fucking a TV or TS & quite frankly I see this as a big step whether they see them selves as Bi or not is neither here or there , so I think it's cool now but if we go back a few years this SCENE was quite under ground & was conducted in your local park toilets . But now we have clubs or parties to have fun . I think it's disgusting how I have to put up with middle aged couples having vanilla sex when I prefer to watch middle aged Bi couples and interracial sex instead !" And I prefer joining in rather than watching | |||
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"I do think, however, that the fact that some people can do their thing at parties without giving a second thought because it is mainstream and others still have to hide away because it is not accepted enough is a problem. For myself personally, I get a bit bored at the vanilla type airport lounge clubs where there is a lot of posturing and chit chat .... so I just don't go to those type things any more. don't get me wrong, I love the social side of the scene, but vanilla is vanilla ...and I like chocolate (just as well, because I get it all the time)" I agree with this. On the rare times that hubby and I have played with a bi guy at a club it has always been behind closed doors, which is a shame considering how acceptable it seems to be for women to be bi and they are more able to play openly. | |||
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"I do think, however, that the fact that some people can do their thing at parties without giving a second thought because it is mainstream and others still have to hide away because it is not accepted enough is a problem. For myself personally, I get a bit bored at the vanilla type airport lounge clubs where there is a lot of posturing and chit chat .... so I just don't go to those type things any more. don't get me wrong, I love the social side of the scene, but vanilla is vanilla ...and I like chocolate (just as well, because I get it all the time) I agree with this. On the rare times that hubby and I have played with a bi guy at a club it has always been behind closed doors, which is a shame considering how acceptable it seems to be for women to be bi and they are more able to play openly." Its on going and a big issue for us, hence going primarily to bi clubs. If we go to certain clubs and parties we know its only ever going to be a social thing, as there won't be any bi action for him and that is important to both of us as we are a couple and are going together. I am honestly not sure why some people are so offended by it ... just don't look and walk on by. The social dynamic is different at openly bi clubs and everyone is much more on a par .... less pressure and loads more relaxing. Interesting to read this in conjunction with the thread on couples and single guys ... | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ..." Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community " Don't I? Do you know my address now? See now that is reverse stereotyping if I ever heard it .... | |||
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"Ehm... how does someone "live in the black community" IN LONDON?!" Haha, but he is not answering now ... was just a question. Does East LA count as the black community? | |||
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"Anyway, while you lot debate the rights and wrongs....anyone fancy letting me and my husband share their cock?? "he can have the molded version... *not mouldy | |||
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"Anyway, while you lot debate the rights and wrongs....anyone fancy letting me and my husband share their cock??
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*not mouldy"I should think so.....no green furry cocks are wanted | |||
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"How did we get over the sea to east LA ,much as I'm trying to appreciate everyone's point here, without attempting to score points, we do really have to consider that some peoples upbringing and different moral code does nor ever will include having bi sexual tendencies, whether they be male or female As a previous poster wrote. He never thought he would have another guys cock in his mouth but it's part of the scenario he enjoys This is a marmite question..... You either love it or loathe it ......accept it but don't try to dictate that it's either right or wrong " You are right of course, but that was the point I was making, I don't ever claim to be speaking for everyone of my ethnicity or class .... but to not be allowed to have an opinion based on a presumption of where I live or who I am. I don't preclude others from enjoying what they want to, I think its just that some people can and do, because it is accepted, and some people still have to hide in the shadows, which is a very sad state of affairs. I don't visit mainstream swinging clubs because I want to avoid what is 'normal' .... so that is how I make my choice, until what I do becomes more 'normal' perhaps? And for my own moral code, not judging others is an important aspect of it, as is open-minded discussion ..... | |||
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"Anyway, while you lot debate the rights and wrongs....anyone fancy letting me and my husband share their cock??
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I should think so.....no green furry cocks are wanted "I never let the mushrooms go green | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community Don't I? Do you know my address now? See now that is reverse stereotyping if I ever heard it ...." Look. i respect everyone sexuality. Heterosexual or gay.Just because your partner is bi and black is not a yardsticks to say the black community embrace such act. Get real. I don't know when Kingston upon Thames become ethnic minority area. Lol | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community Don't I? Do you know my address now? See now that is reverse stereotyping if I ever heard it .... Look. i respect everyone sexuality. Heterosexual or gay.Just because your partner is bi and black is not a yardsticks to say the black community embrace such act. Get real. I don't know when Kingston upon Thames become ethnic minority area. Lol" Personally, I think you are a bigot. Just because you have gay colleagues doesn't stop you from being homophobic. How can you use phrases such as "gay antics" and "gay tendencies" and then claim to be respectful of others' sexuality? If you are going to be a bigot then do it proudly rather than hiding behind the "black community" which I think is quite cowardly. My comments might be harsh but I get annoyed with people from BME backgrounds thinking they are entitled to be bigoted. You should know better! | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community Don't I? Do you know my address now? See now that is reverse stereotyping if I ever heard it .... Look. i respect everyone sexuality. Heterosexual or gay.Just because your partner is bi and black is not a yardsticks to say the black community embrace such act. Get real. I don't know when Kingston upon Thames become ethnic minority area. Lol" Ah right now, because I have Kingston on my profile, that is where I live? and that is where I have always lived? | |||
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"Yes, I love it. Before and after I've pleasured his wife. Making him taste his wife's excitement all over the phallus that brought it. " Me and my partner fantasised over this just last night | |||
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"I wouldn't, but then I'm white, is that an issue  "I would not say it makes a difference, unless you are into the interracial thing ... I think there is also the debate about whether allowing that is bi ... which in turn has caused some interesting viewpoints to emerge ... | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community Don't I? Do you know my address now? See now that is reverse stereotyping if I ever heard it .... Look. i respect everyone sexuality. Heterosexual or gay.Just because your partner is bi and black is not a yardsticks to say the black community embrace such act. Get real. I don't know when Kingston upon Thames become ethnic minority area. Lol Personally, I think you are a bigot. Just because you have gay colleagues doesn't stop you from being homophobic. How can you use phrases such as "gay antics" and "gay tendencies" and then claim to be respectful of others' sexuality? If you are going to be a bigot then do it proudly rather than hiding behind the "black community" which I think is quite cowardly. My comments might be harsh but I get annoyed with people from BME backgrounds thinking they are entitled to be bigoted. You should know better! " Wow. a bigots?. Just because I said the black community don't embrace the act of men sucking their cock. You sound pathetic. If you read my first comment. I don't have problem if a guy allowed another man to suck his Dick. What I am saying is that. Majority Black ethnic male don't embrace such act. Calling me a bigot won't help your point. Get a life | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community Don't I? Do you know my address now? See now that is reverse stereotyping if I ever heard it .... Look. i respect everyone sexuality. Heterosexual or gay.Just because your partner is bi and black is not a yardsticks to say the black community embrace such act. Get real. I don't know when Kingston upon Thames become ethnic minority area. Lol Personally, I think you are a bigot. Just because you have gay colleagues doesn't stop you from being homophobic. How can you use phrases such as "gay antics" and "gay tendencies" and then claim to be respectful of others' sexuality? If you are going to be a bigot then do it proudly rather than hiding behind the "black community" which I think is quite cowardly. My comments might be harsh but I get annoyed with people from BME backgrounds thinking they are entitled to be bigoted. You should know better! Wow. a bigots?. Just because I said the black community don't embrace the act of men sucking their cock. You sound pathetic. If you read my first comment. I don't have problem if a guy allowed another man to suck his Dick. What I am saying is that. Majority Black ethnic male don't embrace such act. Calling me a bigot won't help your point. Get a life " Been having a think about this as I have been cooking the plantain. Apparently not crispy enough for my son, must be I can't do it right. To be honest I don't think its the black community per se anti bi and gay, as white working class would have the same view. I would ever go so far as to say that it may be only 'accepted' by the middle class ... thoughts? | |||
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"Just another gay antics lol. Its bi actually, but often threatening in the black male culture (of course, I am not an expert, but have my own opinion) Mr Law is bi, versatile, sucks and is sucked and I love it - but he does not do it only for me, he does it for himself as much as for us, as he was doing it long before I came along ... I would like to know more about the black male culture where sex is concerned. I have heard that some black cultures don't give oral. I asked a black man and he said the man was just trying to get out of doing it and maybe I didn't smell that great. I've spoken to a few black men who don't do it but not given an explanation. In my experience *some* black men see oral as unclean: they don't like receiving either. If they do they won't kiss you after. Some black men won't let you near their food if you're on as you're seen as unclean. "Some* black men are pretty uptight about sex. Black men are the only ones I've heard complaining in clubs about being watched, fucking in an open room!
Does it depend on their experience and particular culture or faith? I am sure the 'black' experience is vast and varied, after all"That's why "some" is in inverted commas. I'm talking about my black experience. | |||
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"Yes, I love it. Before and after I've pleasured his wife. Making him taste his wife's excitement all over the phallus that brought it. Me and my partner fantasised over this just last night "Well let fantasies become reality. | |||
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"No matter how you twist the story. A man sucking another man cock? majority of black folks view it as gay-tendency act. Please this has nothing to do with gay bashing.Most of my work colleagues are gay folks. Yes you may call it prudish attitude on the black community toward open minded sex. I don't think you are speaking for the black community here, despite wanting to give that impression. Interesting perspective and your posts are always thought provoking though ... Don't be daft. I said many black folks. I didn't say all black men. Fair enough if your man swing both ways I don't have any qualms about it. Don't assume most black folks accept it. I live in the black community you don't. Don't lecture me about what goes on in my community Don't I? Do you know my address now? See now that is reverse stereotyping if I ever heard it .... Look. i respect everyone sexuality. Heterosexual or gay.Just because your partner is bi and black is not a yardsticks to say the black community embrace such act. Get real. I don't know when Kingston upon Thames become ethnic minority area. Lol Personally, I think you are a bigot. Just because you have gay colleagues doesn't stop you from being homophobic. How can you use phrases such as "gay antics" and "gay tendencies" and then claim to be respectful of others' sexuality? If you are going to be a bigot then do it proudly rather than hiding behind the "black community" which I think is quite cowardly. My comments might be harsh but I get annoyed with people from BME backgrounds thinking they are entitled to be bigoted. You should know better! Wow. a bigots?. Just because I said the black community don't embrace the act of men sucking their cock. You sound pathetic. If you read my first comment. I don't have problem if a guy allowed another man to suck his Dick. What I am saying is that. Majority Black ethnic male don't embrace such act. Calling me a bigot won't help your point. Get a life Been having a think about this as I have been cooking the plantain. Apparently not crispy enough for my son, must be I can't do it right. To be honest I don't think its the black community per se anti bi and gay, as white working class would have the same view. I would ever go so far as to say that it may be only 'accepted' by the middle class ... thoughts?" As with everything: some yes, some no. Within my family my middle daughter, 28, her boyfriend the same age is homophobic and racist. His dad is a sports coach his mum an investment banker. He got his views from his dad. I see the "disappointment" in his eyes when he sees me with Ben, and his best mate, an obviously gay Pakistani!
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"Sorry but I disagree. I don't class myself as fully bi or gay for the simple fact that I have no romantic desires for other men. I also have no desire to caress and kiss or be caressed and kissed by other men. All I need is their warm mouth keeping my cock warm when I am not deep inside their Mrs "Who are you disagreeing with? | |||
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"Wow great thread. I would like to know if some here believe that there is some etiquette to this subject. A man sucking another mans cock is not a homosexual experience because said cock has been in a woman prior? No it really is a homosexual act. That being said is it wrong? Not if between two consenting adults. That after all is who it concerns, the two men in this situation, the two engaged in the act. By this point the woman is not involved. I'm straight, I don't find it alluring to have a man on my cock. I don't have a firm opinion on people that do this but why muddy the waters. If it is enjoyed between two men the act is homosexual, if you generally enjoys sex acts with men and women you are enjoying a bisexual lifestyle. Personally not for me. " very well put... take a bow... | |||
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"Wow great thread. I would like to know if some here believe that there is some etiquette to this subject. A man sucking another mans cock is not a homosexual experience because said cock has been in a woman prior? No it really is a homosexual act. That being said is it wrong? Not if between two consenting adults. That after all is who it concerns, the two men in this situation, the two engaged in the act. By this point the woman is not involved. I'm straight, I don't find it alluring to have a man on my cock. I don't have a firm opinion on people that do this but why muddy the waters. If it is enjoyed between two men the act is homosexual, if you generally enjoys sex acts with men and women you are enjoying a bisexual lifestyle. Personally not for me. very well put... take a bow..." Great to see a debate that has gone past the name calling .... | |||
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"Its only gay if someone is in love with a member of their own sex. Anything else is just being a highly sexual human being. If someone enjoys watersports it doesnt make them "a piss on someone else-er". If a woman eats another womans pussy at a meet she doesnt instantly become a lesbian. Sexuality is just that, sexual. Save your labels for your trainers." A piss on someone else-er | |||
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"Its only gay if someone is in love with a member of their own sex. Anything else is just being a highly sexual human being. If someone enjoys watersports it doesnt make them "a piss on someone else-er". If a woman eats another womans pussy at a meet she doesnt instantly become a lesbian. Sexuality is just that, sexual. Save your labels for your trainers. A piss on someone else-er "I love being a piss on someone elser, better that being a ... thinks ... pissed on by someone elser in my book, unless its someone special ... sorry, not trying to hijack the thread ... | |||
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