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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having had a partner going to chams we have had plenty of fun swapping with couples, but we only said we would cum or orgasm for each other.

Is this disrespectful to other couple or are they easy with it, somethings we liked to keep for each other.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I would think if you are trying not to cum (at least from the womans point of view) you must be seriously distracted. I know I wouldn't be able to, would just not bother as it would ruin the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds ridiculous. But your game, your rules.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

As long as you and your prospective swinging partners are happy with your boundaries there isn't a problem. Other than girl on girl we keep kissing to ourselves - it has never been a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's to stop your partner (I assume female) having multiple orgasm and still cumming with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having had a partner going to chams we have had plenty of fun swapping with couples, but we only said we would cum or orgasm for each other.

Is this disrespectful to other couple or are they easy with it, somethings we liked to keep for each other.

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I don't see the point in that,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you and your prospective swinging partners are happy with your boundaries there isn't a problem. Other than girl on girl we keep kissing to ourselves - it has never been a problem. "

That makes sense. I wouldn't want to kiss a woman I'd met at a swinging club! Not unless she'd used mouthwash anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds ridiculous. But your game, your rules."

This ...

I trust you tell your playmates first .

What's the point in the others pleasuring you when you're holding back ?

I would say it's totally disrespectful if they aren't aware of your rules . And what do you say if you are about to cum ? Stop or I'll cum and tthat's not for you ?

Bizarre to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds ridiculous. But your game, your rules.

This ...

I trust you tell your playmates first .

What's the point in the others pleasuring you when you're holding back ?

I would say it's totally disrespectful if they aren't aware of your rules . And what do you say if you are about to cum ? Stop or I'll cum and tthat's not for you ?

Bizarre to say the least "

Like trying to stifle a sneeze!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you and your prospective swinging partners are happy with your boundaries there isn't a problem. Other than girl on girl we keep kissing to ourselves - it has never been a problem. "

Other than man on man we keep kissing to ourselves too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really into man on man kissing apart from when they're between my thighs, and i can feel them getting more and more excited... Thrusting becoming more earnest... And i know they are getting ready to cum, the best time for a deep passionate kiss as i feel them pumping inside me mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really into man on man kissing apart from when they're between my thighs, and i can feel them getting more and more excited... Thrusting becoming more earnest... And i know they are getting ready to cum, the best time for a deep passionate kiss as i feel them pumping inside me mmmmm "

Bloody hell that sounds so hot !

I reckon I've gotta try that ... Despite being straight I think with the man on man kissing and what you've just described I could be turned .

I'll just check with Sabrina to see that it's OK for me to give and take a load first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First load inside your mouth is an unforgettable experience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really into man on man kissing apart from when they're between my thighs, and i can feel them getting more and more excited... Thrusting becoming more earnest... And i know they are getting ready to cum, the best time for a deep passionate kiss as i feel them pumping inside me mmmmm

Bloody hell that sounds so hot !

I reckon I've gotta try that ... Despite being straight I think with the man on man kissing and what you've just described I could be turned .

I'll just check with Sabrina to see that it's OK for me to give and take a load first "

That was a quick turn around!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you and your prospective swinging partners are happy with your boundaries there isn't a problem. Other than girl on girl we keep kissing to ourselves - it has never been a problem.

That makes sense. I wouldn't want to kiss a woman I'd met at a swinging club! Not unless she'd used mouthwash anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met a few couples with this rule... and I have ( ms) got a bit annoyed if I am honest as the woman of the couple has been happy to get Mr to cum.. then we have only been told when I am still playing with her partner that sorry. They only cum together. I was actually livid. As they hadnt said anything. So she wanted other men to cum with her... but her man couldnt with others... ( had she said before we would have just not played)

Also, we have had a few instances where they have had this rule and one of them has broken it purely by getting lost in the moment.

OP we think there is nothing wrong with the rule but we wouldnt want to be involved with people with it as if they were actively trying not to orgasm we would feel that they werent really into the moment.

Saying that its rare I orgasm from a meet.. Its normally the situation and can and do orgasm as Mr makes other women orgasm.. but if I was on a meet alone ( wouldnt really happen) there would be about 1% chance of me orgasming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have met a few couples with this rule... and I have ( ms) got a bit annoyed if I am honest as the woman of the couple has been happy to get Mr to cum.. then we have only been told when I am still playing with her partner that sorry. They only cum together. I was actually livid. As they hadnt said anything. So she wanted other men to cum with her... but her man couldnt with others... ( had she said before we would have just not played)

Also, we have had a few instances where they have had this rule and one of them has broken it purely by getting lost in the moment.

OP we think there is nothing wrong with the rule but we wouldnt want to be involved with people with it as if they were actively trying not to orgasm we would feel that they werent really into the moment.

Saying that its rare I orgasm from a meet.. Its normally the situation and can and do orgasm as Mr makes other women orgasm.. but if I was on a meet alone ( wouldnt really happen) there would be about 1% chance of me orgasming."

How rude and I just think it's pointless! I understand kissing, but the whole goal at the end of a sexual experience, is cumming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have met a few couples with this rule... and I have ( ms) got a bit annoyed if I am honest as the woman of the couple has been happy to get Mr to cum.. then we have only been told when I am still playing with her partner that sorry. They only cum together. I was actually livid. As they hadnt said anything. So she wanted other men to cum with her... but her man couldnt with others... ( had she said before we would have just not played)

Also, we have had a few instances where they have had this rule and one of them has broken it purely by getting lost in the moment.

OP we think there is nothing wrong with the rule but we wouldnt want to be involved with people with it as if they were actively trying not to orgasm we would feel that they werent really into the moment.

Saying that its rare I orgasm from a meet.. Its normally the situation and can and do orgasm as Mr makes other women orgasm.. but if I was on a meet alone ( wouldnt really happen) there would be about 1% chance of me orgasming.

How rude and I just think it's pointless! I understand kissing, but the whole goal at the end of a sexual experience, is cumming "

No it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have met a few couples with this rule... and I have ( ms) got a bit annoyed if I am honest as the woman of the couple has been happy to get Mr to cum.. then we have only been told when I am still playing with her partner that sorry. They only cum together. I was actually livid. As they hadnt said anything. So she wanted other men to cum with her... but her man couldnt with others... ( had she said before we would have just not played)

Also, we have had a few instances where they have had this rule and one of them has broken it purely by getting lost in the moment.

OP we think there is nothing wrong with the rule but we wouldnt want to be involved with people with it as if they were actively trying not to orgasm we would feel that they werent really into the moment.

Saying that its rare I orgasm from a meet.. Its normally the situation and can and do orgasm as Mr makes other women orgasm.. but if I was on a meet alone ( wouldnt really happen) there would be about 1% chance of me orgasming.

How rude and I just think it's pointless! I understand kissing, but the whole goal at the end of a sexual experience, is cumming

No it isn't."

Maybe not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No it isn't.

Maybe not for you.

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to be honest this is one of my own personal major double standards. I rarely orgasm on a meet.. It doesnt mean I havent had an amazing time...

however, if the guy in the situation doesnt cum, or worse still Mr doesnt.. I actually can become deflated and moody and feel I have failed. Mr tells me it doesnt matter.. but for me the goal with a guy is to have him cum.. so if a guy tells me he isnt going to, or doesnt do so with meets.. I will lose interest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if a guy was down on me and I was about to cum I just couldn't imagine telling him to stop

I would be gutted if I was on the edge of cumming and told the guy to stop then couldn't reach that point again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No it isn't.

Maybe not for you.

to be honest this is one of my own personal major double standards. I rarely orgasm on a meet.. It doesnt mean I havent had an amazing time...

however, if the guy in the situation doesnt cum, or worse still Mr doesnt.. I actually can become deflated and moody and feel I have failed. Mr tells me it doesnt matter.. but for me the goal with a guy is to have him cum.. so if a guy tells me he isnt going to, or doesnt do so with meets.. I will lose interest x "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps op is a one and done kinda deal and his mrs wants it when he is 'done?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand the no kissing rule but sex is about mutual pleasure (for me anyway)

Making him cum and feeling it shoot is extremely pleasing for me, I love to have sex and cum when possible

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

That a bit like buying chocolate and then leaving it on the mantelpiece and only looking at it . Seems pointless to us, but hey if thats your bag man good luck . With us when we have sex with others its sex , very pleasurable but just sex .when we have sex with each other we make love and our orgasms are SO very different , but hey thats us

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