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By *otwifecouple2018 OP   Couple
over a year ago

durham

Why is it that most guys who message us automatically assume that it's just e who they are talking too and seem to think it's ok to meet just her!! We are a couple and have no intention of meeting separately yet but if we ever do it'll say so on our profile (that's if they even read that bit)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that most guys who message us automatically assume that it's just e who they are talking too and seem to think it's ok to meet just her!! We are a couple and have no intention of meeting separately yet but if we ever do it'll say so on our profile (that's if they even read that bit)"

We get it all the time, just ignore and move on to the ones that have read your profile and respect what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some people just don't have that respect when am talking to a couple for the first time or any time after that I all ways talk to both how I see it I want to get to know the couple not just one person is really rude so I do feel for couple when this happens don't post a lot on heed so go easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the couples ive had messages from have been just the guy wanting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples ive had messages from have been just the guy wanting me "

I've had more messages from the male half of a couple saying they want to meet me alone than anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all i get if i mention it in forums that only the guy can meet from a couple who has messaged me first... is oh its a single guy pretending, cant be fukin all single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples ive had messages from have been just the guy wanting me

I've had more messages from the male half of a couple saying they want to meet me alone than anyone else."
Same here. I get loads of offers from the guy in the couples. I am not gay or bi lol.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Why is it that most guys who message us automatically assume that it's just e who they are talking too and seem to think it's ok to meet just her!! We are a couple and have no intention of meeting separately yet but if we ever do it'll say so on our profile (that's if they even read that bit)"

Most people just don't read profiles I'm afraid, discussed this today. She was telling me that last week a guy turned up and said he wasn't happy with her smoking. She pointed out that her profile said she smoked. His reply I only glanced at it, he then left before anything happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that most guys who message us automatically assume that it's just e who they are talking too and seem to think it's ok to meet just her!! We are a couple and have no intention of meeting separately yet but if we ever do it'll say so on our profile (that's if they even read that bit)"

Because they see tits in your profile pic and their brains instantly disappear and Mr happy rears his head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples ive had messages from have been just the guy wanting me

I've had more messages from the male half of a couple saying they want to meet me alone than anyone else.Same here. I get loads of offers from the guy in the couples. I am not gay or bi lol."
dont fib

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

How about re-sequencing your pics so that the male is seen a little earlier than the 3rd from bottom?

Not a criticism of you, but may be a way of reminding your fans before they write.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Why is it that most guys who message us automatically assume that it's just e who they are talking too and seem to think it's ok to meet just her!! We are a couple and have no intention of meeting separately yet but if we ever do it'll say so on our profile (that's if they even read that bit)"

Maybe because the ones that do so are desperate and thick as fuck perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about re-sequencing your pics so that the male is seen a little earlier than the 3rd from bottom?

Not a criticism of you, but may be a way of reminding your fans before they write."

quite a lot do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get couples messaging me so only look at couples profiles when there's a thread about fabbing pics & it drives me mad that on a couples profile there are 99% of the time only pics of the female.

So, if you want people to message both of you, put pics of both of you on your profile otherwise it just looks like the female is the one who is looking for sex.

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By *otwifeandhubby69Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

90% can't even read so how would they know?

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