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" I DON'T HAVE A FACE PIC" privacy crap RANT

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It really gets on my tits when guys message "fancy meeting up, oh by the way don't have a face cause I am married or have a professional job"

Really!?! Go hire a f****ing escort cause they won't care about your munter looks.

I think the problem is a lot of newbies use escorts and they think its the same procedure of call up, give money, and they didn't have to send a face pic, so they think they apply to dating/hook up sites aside from them handing money over

Best of all even if I put "no face pic, no chat", they don't f*****ing understand that! Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, its a swingers site not bloody blind date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they want to see your pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had someone message us a couple of days ago that couldn't send us a pic but assured us he was handsome. Told him beauty is in the eye of the beholder. He replied saying he was free if we wanted to meet, told him where to go and blocked - idiot.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Good rant! For a Thursday!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

On the rant scale, I give it a 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it needs more generalised insults and a touch of 'woe is me', but not a bad rant (and I agree with it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"It really gets on my tits when guys message "fancy meeting up, oh by the way don't have a face cause I am married or have a professional job"

Really!?! Go hire a f****ing escort cause they won't care about your munter looks.

I think the problem is a lot of newbies use escorts and they think its the same procedure of call up, give money, and they didn't have to send a face pic, so they think they apply to dating/hook up sites aside from them handing money over

Best of all even if I put "no face pic, no chat", they don't f*****ing understand that! Rant over"

You need to learn to be more accepting of others points of view.

If they don't want to display a face pic because they value discretion then that is their prerogative and who are you to question their motives?

Accept and move on or accept and play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really gets on my tits when guys message "fancy meeting up, oh by the way don't have a face cause I am married or have a professional job"

Really!?! Go hire a f****ing escort cause they won't care about your munter looks.

I think the problem is a lot of newbies use escorts and they think its the same procedure of call up, give money, and they didn't have to send a face pic, so they think they apply to dating/hook up sites aside from them handing money over

Best of all even if I put "no face pic, no chat", they don't f*****ing understand that! Rant over"

It's my fault, I've just whinged about men not smiling in their pics, so they stop sending them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really gets on my tits when guys message "fancy meeting up, oh by the way don't have a face cause I am married or have a professional job"

Really!?! Go hire a f****ing escort cause they won't care about your munter looks.

I think the problem is a lot of newbies use escorts and they think its the same procedure of call up, give money, and they didn't have to send a face pic, so they think they apply to dating/hook up sites aside from them handing money over

Best of all even if I put "no face pic, no chat", they don't f*****ing understand that! Rant over

You need to learn to be more accepting of others points of view.

If they don't want to display a face pic because they value discretion then that is their prerogative and who are you to question their motives?

Accept and move on or accept and play."

He didn't have face pic on profile, he then proceeded to say he will send me a body pic on kik but no face pic.

I accept many people don't have a face pic on main profile but in private? Come on... even if he offered to show me a face pic on kik fair enough.

The funny thing as said before, these guys always ask me for body, face pics, even if i send them clear one in private. I think it's quite insulting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally being a tv/ts, even just a normal meet, it's dangerous meeting a faceless person, what if they plan to murder you? Even if the police hacked into ur phone or laptop, they wouldn't have an idea of who it is. I need a face pic also for safety reasons other than seeing if they my type or not, i am very discreet as I sure nearly everyone is on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally being a tv/ts, even just a normal meet, it's dangerous meeting a faceless person, what if they plan to murder you? Even if the police hacked into ur phone or laptop, they wouldn't have an idea of who it is. I need a face pic also for safety reasons other than seeing if they my type or not, i am very discreet as I sure nearly everyone is on here."

I just want to see if they are ugly or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And breathhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Totally agree with the message that some guys n gals give out, they think its a meat factory and treat people appallingly at times - that goes both ways

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Personally being a tv/ts, even just a normal meet, it's dangerous meeting a faceless person, what if they plan to murder you? Even if the police hacked into ur phone or laptop, they wouldn't have an idea of who it is. I need a face pic also for safety reasons other than seeing if they my type or not, i am very discreet as I sure nearly everyone is on here."

Excuses, excuses you mean you have realised that your rant was intusive and risked the privacy and human rights of others so you felt you needed to justify it.

I note you mention that nearly everyone here is discrete, how did your meet know that you would be discrete rather than one of the ones you mention are indiscrete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and....... specifically in regards to face pics, surely its common practice for both party's to exchange recent face pics - and still insist on a social meeting , I find that sorts real genuine people out quick enough - those that know my storey of meeting a fake fem who was virtually the opposite of what she sent me , so ever since regardless of pics sent social meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really gets on my tits when guys message "fancy meeting up, oh by the way don't have a face cause I am married or have a professional job"

Really!?! Go hire a f****ing escort cause they won't care about your munter looks.

I think the problem is a lot of newbies use escorts and they think its the same procedure of call up, give money, and they didn't have to send a face pic, so they think they apply to dating/hook up sites aside from them handing money over

Best of all even if I put "no face pic, no chat", they don't f*****ing understand that! Rant over

You need to learn to be more accepting of others points of view.

If they don't want to display a face pic because they value discretion then that is their prerogative and who are you to question their motives?

Accept and move on or accept and play."

She's ranting about something and oddly enough is entitled to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking of hiring. Stunt double for the pics and a p.a too handle all my messages xx but seriously unless you resemble the elephant man or are famous no reason not to provide a smiley mugshot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally being a tv/ts, even just a normal meet, it's dangerous meeting a faceless person, what if they plan to murder you? Even if the police hacked into ur phone or laptop, they wouldn't have an idea of who it is. I need a face pic also for safety reasons other than seeing if they my type or not, i am very discreet as I sure nearly everyone is on here.

Excuses, excuses you mean you have realised that your rant was intusive and risked the privacy and human rights of others so you felt you needed to justify it.

I note you mention that nearly everyone here is discrete, how did your meet know that you would be discrete rather than one of the ones you mention are indiscrete."

What utter crap. An opinion or rant doesn't have to be justified. I certainly wouldn't meet someone who didn't show their face to me (in private). Like someone else said, it's all about seeing whether they are ugly (subjective) or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand not having a face pic public but you can have one in your private album to send to people.

Don't understand how people think they'll get someone to meet them without having a clue what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't send face pics on fab for privacy. Ever. We don't have then on our friends pics and we don't have them private.

We do, however, send them over kik or Skype. If people don't like it, they don't meet us. But we would never meet without seeing the other person's face, however they choose to send us a pic of it.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand not having a face pic public but you can have one in your private album to send to people.

Don't understand how people think they'll get someone to meet them without having a clue what they look like. "

???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes or its, sorry no face i need discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a get a dozen guys a week asking for meets and with sorry got no face pic i need discreet, whats your address i will come now .. not met anyone that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really gets on my tits when guys message "fancy meeting up, oh by the way don't have a face cause I am married or have a professional job"

Really!?! Go hire a f****ing escort cause they won't care about your munter looks.

I think the problem is a lot of newbies use escorts and they think its the same procedure of call up, give money, and they didn't have to send a face pic, so they think they apply to dating/hook up sites aside from them handing money over

Best of all even if I put "no face pic, no chat", they don't f*****ing understand that! Rant over

You need to learn to be more accepting of others points of view.

If they don't want to display a face pic because they value discretion then that is their prerogative and who are you to question their motives?

Accept and move on or accept and play."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really gets on my tits when guys message "fancy meeting up, oh by the way don't have a face cause I am married or have a professional job"

Really!?! Go hire a f****ing escort cause they won't care about your munter looks.

I think the problem is a lot of newbies use escorts and they think its the same procedure of call up, give money, and they didn't have to send a face pic, so they think they apply to dating/hook up sites aside from them handing money over

Best of all even if I put "no face pic, no chat", they don't f*****ing understand that! Rant over"

Will you feel better about life if I send you a face pic?? Be warned though I'm a mix between Bruce Forsyth, Ken Dodd, John Merrick and Susan Boyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone can have the best cock and the best body ever, (belly and love handles, is my personal weakness,) but the face is the make or break.

Nothing is as important as the thing you'll be talking to, smiling at, kissing, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i use to have no face pic = no meet on my profile, it made no difference i still got messages from faceless people thinking i would invite them into my home,, ffs i think of my well being first.. kik watsapp private album, there no fecking excuse none whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats the point of a body to die for and a sweet tasty looking cock and arse if the person has been slapped with a shuvel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone can have the best cock and the best body ever, (belly and love handles, is my personal weakness,) but the face is the make or break.

Nothing is as important as the thing you'll be talking to, smiling at, kissing, etc."

It's very true! I think if someone's best feature is their cock that's a bit alarming!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with op xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats the point of a body to die for and a sweet tasty looking cock and arse if the person has been slapped with a shuvel"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I'd ever meet an invisible one , besides what do I tell the police when he's a mad rapist, didn't k ow hus fave but now ...as for his cock.....well

Apart from that , the professional bullshit is also on dating sites so they have to be doing the naughty away from the Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think I'd ever meet an invisible one , besides what do I tell the police when he's a mad rapist, didn't k ow hus fave but now ...as for his cock.....well

Apart from that , the professional bullshit is also on dating sites so they have to be doing the naughty away from the Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think I'd ever meet an invisible one , besides what do I tell the police when he's a mad rapist, didn't k ow hus fave but now ...as for his cock.....well

Apart from that , the professional bullshit is also on dating sites so they have to be doing the naughty away from the Mrs

"

Don't know his face ....sorry everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the last hour or so I got a standard fancy a fuck message, you know the type- telling me what a full load he had for me. Funny thing was two identical messages one with an attachment sent 5 mins after the first.

I opened to see the face pic he had forgotten to send the first time (having subsequently read my profile, I think) only to find a cock shot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tried a no pic when i first joined here, never again he was a fattie, not athletic as profile said lot older than his profile said, a turned him away at the door, had he been truthfull a would of said yes.. once bitten twice shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now there's another thread , the meet you didn't actually meet ??

In other words....there's not a bottle of vodka big enough !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we used to have face pics on but when the kids got to know about the site they advised us to take them off, they said it was the most insecure site they had ever seen and said anyone that doesn't want to be identified should not put pics on , and I mean in private or friends x as its so easy for anyone with a little web knoledge to get into a profile, so we took there advice and we still get meets and party invites and the worry of people around us knowing has gone, as we also run a business here, kids are 20 and 24 by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me nowadays as I meet at parties, I'm just less enthusiastic and tell that no guarantee we play, as like to be attracted to the person and see if we get on and chemistry there

I wouldn't meet privately in the past with men who just send cock or body pics.It doesn't matter how hot they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice rant!

But could you do it on a cold rainy night in Stoke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we used to have face pics on but when the kids got to know about the site they advised us to take them off, they said it was the most insecure site they had ever seen and said anyone that doesn't want to be identified should not put pics on , and I mean in private or friends x as its so easy for anyone with a little web knoledge to get into a profile, so we took there advice and we still get meets and party invites and the worry of people around us knowing has gone, as we also run a business here, kids are 20 and 24 by the way x"

I must confess I a little surprised your kids know, regardless of age. Nonetheless it is your choice.

As regards people 'getting into your profile', it is highly unlikely. Of course there is a risk of you sending photos to someone and them either recognising you or distributing them but that's the risk we take.

My message to any single guy trying to get a meet without a face photo is to just give up now. You have to respect people want to see what you look like

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By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* Gets the haribos

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By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North


"We don't send face pics on fab for privacy. Ever. We don't have then on our friends pics and we don't have them private.

We do, however, send them over kik or Skype. If people don't like it, they don't meet us. But we would never meet without seeing the other person's face, however they choose to send us a pic of it.

-Courtney"

+1 I would never put a face pic on here not for £50,000. I can't put my pics on here because of my job etc ... these are genuine reasons. The amount of couples and single women who have no face pictures or their eyes blurred out are high. I always show a face pic on Kik where there are no links to here.

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By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North

Some people on this forum think discretion works one way. Couples and single women stating in their profiles 'MUST HAVE face, body and cock picture in first email' yet they only have body shots.

I avoid every profile like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people on this forum think discretion works one way. Couples and single women stating in their profiles 'MUST HAVE face, body and cock picture in first email' yet they only have body shots.

I avoid every profile like that."

yes me 2 as they are judmental instantly with that in a profile and ussually so far up their own arses theres no room for my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"* Gets the haribos "

Any excuse!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"

What utter crap. An opinion or rant doesn't have to be justified. I certainly wouldn't meet someone who didn't show their face to me (in private). Like someone else said, it's all about seeing whether they are ugly (subjective) or not!"

But you insist on being taken for a meal first, can't you see then whether the meet is ugly or not, the phot could be fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can totally understand people not wanting to display a face pic publicly but ones who claim not to have any on the site at all and will text/email me one then no thanks, not giving out my personal contact details unless I've planned a meet. As for the can't send because of job etc then fine but I do wonder how the hell they're supposed to meet people?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The best one is when someone send a cock pic, in all it's glory and says they are "too shy" to show their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best one is when someone send a cock pic, in all it's glory and says they are "too shy" to show their face.

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that made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what your saying its just a single man rant, or do couples, women do the same? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although female I would never put a face pic on here, my job is quite high profile! It's never been a problem for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't meet without a face pic and I wouldn't give my contact details out willy nilly. Therefore if never the twain shall meet...end of conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best one is when someone send a cock pic, in all it's glory and says they are "too shy" to show their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can totally understand people not wanting to display a face pic publicly but ones who claim not to have any on the site at all and will text/email me one then no thanks, not giving out my personal contact details unless I've planned a meet. As for the can't send because of job etc then fine but I do wonder how the hell they're supposed to meet people?!"

I completely understand why you wouldn't want or need to talk to people who don't have face pics on the site. But we only send ours on kik/Skype (no personal details necessary) and we have no problems getting meets. So it isn't that difficult.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we used to have face pics on but when the kids got to know about the site they advised us to take them off, they said it was the most insecure site they had ever seen and said anyone that doesn't want to be identified should not put pics on , and I mean in private or friends x as its so easy for anyone with a little web knoledge to get into a profile, so we took there advice and we still get meets and party invites and the worry of people around us knowing has gone, as we also run a business here, kids are 20 and 24 by the way x"

Thank you, a dose of common sense at last. Like any site like this nowdays and I don't single out fab in particular you need to worry about scam artists. They want your face pic, they want your mobile number. They want you to contact them via cam, skype,kik or whatsapp so they can access your mobile, laptop or pc. Meet in a safe public place during the day, its the only way to be sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can totally understand people not wanting to display a face pic publicly but ones who claim not to have any on the site at all and will text/email me one then no thanks, not giving out my personal contact details unless I've planned a meet. As for the can't send because of job etc then fine but I do wonder how the hell they're supposed to meet people?!

I completely understand why you wouldn't want or need to talk to people who don't have face pics on the site. But we only send ours on kik/Skype (no personal details necessary) and we have no problems getting meets. So it isn't that difficult.

-Courtney"

That's fair enough, I don't have kik of Skype and know nothing about it. My experience of this was where the guy wanted to send them via text/email which I wasn't prepared to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can totally understand people not wanting to display a face pic publicly but ones who claim not to have any on the site at all and will text/email me one then no thanks, not giving out my personal contact details unless I've planned a meet. As for the can't send because of job etc then fine but I do wonder how the hell they're supposed to meet people?!

I completely understand why you wouldn't want or need to talk to people who don't have face pics on the site. But we only send ours on kik/Skype (no personal details necessary) and we have no problems getting meets. So it isn't that difficult.

-Courtney

That's fair enough, I don't have kik of Skype and know nothing about it. My experience of this was where the guy wanted to send them via text/email which I wasn't prepared to do. "

Fair point. I wouldn't give my phone number out either

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By *arks_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

I agree with this. I'm in IT security and the things people can do with photos, screenshots etc isn't worth it given some of the dodgy people on this site. Apologies to the genuine people!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"We don't send face pics on fab for privacy. Ever. We don't have then on our friends pics and we don't have them private.

We do, however, send them over kik or Skype. If people don't like it, they don't meet us. But we would never meet without seeing the other person's face, however they choose to send us a pic of it.

-Courtney

+1 I would never put a face pic on here not for £50,000. I can't put my pics on here because of my job etc ... these are genuine reasons. The amount of couples and single women who have no face pictures or their eyes blurred out are high. I always show a face pic on Kik where there are no links to here."

Guess you dont realise there are now identity fraud hackers for kik, not only can they hack the app, but can even access the device you use it on via it, it's really quite clever how they do it too, so now it's even less secure than other apps including Whatsapp that requires exchanging numbers. I've seen it a few times through my day job. Just thought you like to know since privacy is so vital for you.

From a psychology POV people that work harder to hide are the ones that the sick individuals that want to "out" people work harder to catch out, as they see them as having more to lose by being outed. I'm not saying we should all have our faces on show because of this, after all that's down to personal choice, but it's a perspective most wouldn't consider.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I agree with this. I'm in IT security and the things people can do with photos, screenshots etc isn't worth it given some of the dodgy people on this site. Apologies to the genuine people!"

Yes and screen shots can be taken via exchanging pics on apps too so they aren't much safer than exchanging on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't send face pics on fab for privacy. Ever. We don't have then on our friends pics and we don't have them private.

We do, however, send them over kik or Skype. If people don't like it, they don't meet us. But we would never meet without seeing the other person's face, however they choose to send us a pic of it.

-Courtney

+1 I would never put a face pic on here not for £50,000. I can't put my pics on here because of my job etc ... these are genuine reasons. The amount of couples and single women who have no face pictures or their eyes blurred out are high. I always show a face pic on Kik where there are no links to here.

Guess you dont realise there are now identity fraud hackers for kik, not only can they hack the app, but can even access the device you use it on via it, it's really quite clever how they do it too, so now it's even less secure than other apps including Whatsapp that requires exchanging numbers. I've seen it a few times through my day job. Just thought you like to know since privacy is so vital for you.

From a psychology POV people that work harder to hide are the ones that the sick individuals that want to "out" people work harder to catch out, as they see them as having more to lose by being outed. I'm not saying we should all have our faces on show because of this, after all that's down to personal choice, but it's a perspective most wouldn't consider. "

I don't really care if someone breaks into my kik, to be honest. I just don't want my picture, my face picture, to be on the same computer screen as a giant logo for fabswingers.com. I understand if people don't want to meet because of it. But it is how we go about protecting ourselves. I prefer Skype anyway.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What utter crap. An opinion or rant doesn't have to be justified. I certainly wouldn't meet someone who didn't show their face to me (in private). Like someone else said, it's all about seeing whether they are ugly (subjective) or not!

But you insist on being taken for a meal first, can't you see then whether the meet is ugly or not, the phot could be fake?"

My socials turn into fucks 9/10, why? Cos I've vetted them to ensure a high sexual attraction. I must also add that I have never met anyone with a fake pic... My getting process works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What utter crap. An opinion or rant doesn't have to be justified. I certainly wouldn't meet someone who didn't show their face to me (in private). Like someone else said, it's all about seeing whether they are ugly (subjective) or not!

But you insist on being taken for a meal first, can't you see then whether the meet is ugly or not, the phot could be fake?

My socials turn into fucks 9/10, why? Cos I've vetted them to ensure a high sexual attraction. I must also add that I have never met anyone with a fake pic... My getting process works."

Haha at getting process... But it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't send face pics on fab for privacy. Ever. We don't have then on our friends pics and we don't have them private.

We do, however, send them over kik or Skype. If people don't like it, they don't meet us. But we would never meet without seeing the other person's face, however they choose to send us a pic of it.

-Courtney

+1 I would never put a face pic on here not for £50,000. I can't put my pics on here because of my job etc ... these are genuine reasons. The amount of couples and single women who have no face pictures or their eyes blurred out are high. I always show a face pic on Kik where there are no links to here.

Guess you dont realise there are now identity fraud hackers for kik, not only can they hack the app, but can even access the device you use it on via it, it's really quite clever how they do it too, so now it's even less secure than other apps including Whatsapp that requires exchanging numbers. I've seen it a few times through my day job. Just thought you like to know since privacy is so vital for you.

From a psychology POV people that work harder to hide are the ones that the sick individuals that want to "out" people work harder to catch out, as they see them as having more to lose by being outed. I'm not saying we should all have our faces on show because of this, after all that's down to personal choice, but it's a perspective most wouldn't consider.

I don't really care if someone breaks into my kik, to be honest. I just don't want my picture, my face picture, to be on the same computer screen as a giant logo for fabswingers.com. I understand if people don't want to meet because of it. But it is how we go about protecting ourselves. I prefer Skype anyway.

-Courtney"

Have clothed face pics. Not in a room with the same wallpaper as any naked pics.

Also do what makes you happy. If anyone doesn't like the way I do things it just means we aren't compatible. I don't feel bad about it.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Personally being a tv/ts, even just a normal meet, it's dangerous meeting a faceless person, what if they plan to murder you? Even if the police hacked into ur phone or laptop, they wouldn't have an idea of who it is. I need a face pic also for safety reasons other than seeing if they my type or not, i am very discreet as I sure nearly everyone is on here.

I just want to see if they are ugly or not"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"We don't send face pics on fab for privacy. Ever. We don't have then on our friends pics and we don't have them private.

We do, however, send them over kik or Skype. If people don't like it, they don't meet us. But we would never meet without seeing the other person's face, however they choose to send us a pic of it.

-Courtney

+1 I would never put a face pic on here not for £50,000. I can't put my pics on here because of my job etc ... these are genuine reasons. The amount of couples and single women who have no face pictures or their eyes blurred out are high. I always show a face pic on Kik where there are no links to here.

Guess you dont realise there are now identity fraud hackers for kik, not only can they hack the app, but can even access the device you use it on via it, it's really quite clever how they do it too, so now it's even less secure than other apps including Whatsapp that requires exchanging numbers. I've seen it a few times through my day job. Just thought you like to know since privacy is so vital for you.

From a psychology POV people that work harder to hide are the ones that the sick individuals that want to "out" people work harder to catch out, as they see them as having more to lose by being outed. I'm not saying we should all have our faces on show because of this, after all that's down to personal choice, but it's a perspective most wouldn't consider.

I don't really care if someone breaks into my kik, to be honest. I just don't want my picture, my face picture, to be on the same computer screen as a giant logo for fabswingers.com. I understand if people don't want to meet because of it. But it is how we go about protecting ourselves. I prefer Skype anyway.

-Courtney"

That's fair enough as I said personal choice but please be careful of kik it's really clever and sneaky what they do IMHO kik needs shutting down! And I will no longer use it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's fair enough as I said personal choice but please be careful of kik it's really clever and sneaky what they do IMHO kik needs shutting down! And I will no longer use it myself "

I get you. Maybe we should continue this discussion in private so we don't take over the thread? What's your kik?

(joke)

-Courtney

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The OP needs to have respect for others limits and privacy. If they don't have a face pic and you don't like it, take it no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP needs to have respect for others limits and privacy. If they don't have a face pic and you don't like it, take it no further."

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