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By *andS Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

How many other members are completely fed up with people who message them without the courtesy of even bothering to read your profile? It takes time and effort to write a profile and a couple of minutes to read it! We hate to be rude but we will simply block them in future. It is mostly males of course with "I want to fuck your missus" Ugh. Why are they surprised and annoyed that they don't get any meets!

Anyone else feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes especially couples that so called the male init just wanna meet, where does it say I am gay or bi? They need to go to Specsavers lol.

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By *andS Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Lo yes maybe we should just send that back as a standard reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lo yes maybe we should just send that back as a standard reply"
Yes or don't reply that's what I sometimes do, or ask when is the wife home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I'm not fed up with it

I just acrept it as part of the way it's always been on here

I do what I've always done ....which is mostly ignore them

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No we live in the real world and accept men never read instructions. Profiles are simply another form of instruction made to be ignored by the male population

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we live in the real world and accept men never read instructions. Profiles are simply another form of instruction made to be ignored by the male population "

Lol yup us males never use instructions we always do it our own way might not always be the right way but we still think it's the right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never read any instructions for electrical items, so will not start on here, just delete them if you dont like and move on

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I'm not fed up with it

I just acrept it as part of the way it's always been on here

I do what I've always done ....which is mostly ignore them "

This

We find couples and women just as guilty of not reading profiles as men.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"How many other members are completely fed up with people who message them without the courtesy of even bothering to read your profile? It takes time and effort to write a profile and a couple of minutes to read it! We hate to be rude but we will simply block them in future. It is mostly males of course with "I want to fuck your missus" Ugh. Why are they surprised and annoyed that they don't get any meets!

Anyone else feel the same?"

Luckily for us we don't get that much dross and most people that contact us are definitely worth engaging with.

I think you need to increase your profile write up by 50%, if you are still getting male oriented contact for personal kicks. As there is a cut off point to where they'll scroll through the profile and think that's way too much to absorb, better off wasting someone else's time. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally if I see a profile that says not looking for single males I respect that but also fab a few pics just to say hay nice pics ye have there lol

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By *irtydaddyfor youMan
over a year ago

corby

Just both of us, superb introduction to both of you, any idiot that still tries to contact deserve what they get.

A prime example of what a good profile should look like, very well written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we live in the real world and accept men never read instructions. Profiles are simply another form of instruction made to be ignored by the male population

Lol yup us males never use instructions we always do it our own way might not always be the right way but we still think it's the right way "

People need to get over this stigma that men don't read it's just the way it is and so on the reason they do it is because they think it's socially acceptable to do what they want they need to be taught not to do it we ignore anyone who doesent read our profile and follow what it is, we have basic instructions on profiles for a reason if they are going to ignore them what would the person be like during a meet? Bad behaviour should never be treated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have won't meet people from our home town and no smokers so guses who we get the most messages from ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we live in the real world and accept men never read instructions. Profiles are simply another form of instruction made to be ignored by the male population

Lol yup us males never use instructions we always do it our own way might not always be the right way but we still think it's the right way

People need to get over this stigma that men don't read it's just the way it is and so on the reason they do it is because they think it's socially acceptable to do what they want they need to be taught not to do it we ignore anyone who doesent read our profile and follow what it is, we have basic instructions on profiles for a reason if they are going to ignore them what would the person be like during a meet? Bad behaviour should never be treated "

Is this why you don't answer our messages? I knew I should have read your profile instead of just looking at the pics!

But seriously, I don't understand why people don't read profiles. There are people I wouldn't meet because of their profiles, so how would I know if I didn't read it? And also, profiles can be really interesting and say a lot about someone. I like reading them.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really not surprised guys don't read profiles. ..some of them are shocking! I've found that most that contact me have actually read it, they just think i might make an exception. No biggie. I'll happily ignore anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we live in the real world and accept men never read instructions. Profiles are simply another form of instruction made to be ignored by the male population

Lol yup us males never use instructions we always do it our own way might not always be the right way but we still think it's the right way

People need to get over this stigma that men don't read it's just the way it is and so on the reason they do it is because they think it's socially acceptable to do what they want they need to be taught not to do it we ignore anyone who doesent read our profile and follow what it is, we have basic instructions on profiles for a reason if they are going to ignore them what would the person be like during a meet? Bad behaviour should never be treated

Is this why you don't answer our messages? I knew I should have read your profile instead of just looking at the pics!

But seriously, I don't understand why people don't read profiles. There are people I wouldn't meet because of their profiles, so how would I know if I didn't read it? And also, profiles can be really interesting and say a lot about someone. I like reading them.

-Courtney"

Hey I'm pretty damn sure we answer your messages that's why we are friends on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we live in the real world and accept men never read instructions. Profiles are simply another form of instruction made to be ignored by the male population

Lol yup us males never use instructions we always do it our own way might not always be the right way but we still think it's the right way

People need to get over this stigma that men don't read it's just the way it is and so on the reason they do it is because they think it's socially acceptable to do what they want they need to be taught not to do it we ignore anyone who doesent read our profile and follow what it is, we have basic instructions on profiles for a reason if they are going to ignore them what would the person be like during a meet? Bad behaviour should never be treated

Is this why you don't answer our messages? I knew I should have read your profile instead of just looking at the pics!

But seriously, I don't understand why people don't read profiles. There are people I wouldn't meet because of their profiles, so how would I know if I didn't read it? And also, profiles can be really interesting and say a lot about someone. I like reading them.

-Courtney

Hey I'm pretty damn sure we answer your messages that's why we are friends on fab "

True true. I was joking . Nice pics though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

\I never read profiles...I just lick the pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many other members are completely fed up with people who message them without the courtesy of even bothering to read your profile? It takes time and effort to write a profile and a couple of minutes to read it! We hate to be rude but we will simply block them in future. It is mostly males of course with "I want to fuck your missus" Ugh. Why are they surprised and annoyed that they don't get any meets!

Anyone else feel the same?"

Do you go looking for people you want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we live in the real world and accept men never read instructions. Profiles are simply another form of instruction made to be ignored by the male population

Lol yup us males never use instructions we always do it our own way might not always be the right way but we still think it's the right way

People need to get over this stigma that men don't read it's just the way it is and so on the reason they do it is because they think it's socially acceptable to do what they want they need to be taught not to do it we ignore anyone who doesent read our profile and follow what it is, we have basic instructions on profiles for a reason if they are going to ignore them what would the person be like during a meet? Bad behaviour should never be treated

Is this why you don't answer our messages? I knew I should have read your profile instead of just looking at the pics!

But seriously, I don't understand why people don't read profiles. There are people I wouldn't meet because of their profiles, so how would I know if I didn't read it? And also, profiles can be really interesting and say a lot about someone. I like reading them.

-Courtney

Hey I'm pretty damn sure we answer your messages that's why we are friends on fab

True true. I was joking . Nice pics though "

Thank you and you know we love your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many other members are completely fed up with people who message them without the courtesy of even bothering to read your profile? It takes time and effort to write a profile and a couple of minutes to read it! We hate to be rude but we will simply block them in future. It is mostly males of course with "I want to fuck your missus" Ugh. Why are they surprised and annoyed that they don't get any meets!

Anyone else feel the same?"

100% agree - we write profiles to be read and expect people to have at least the common sense of reading the bloody thing b4 contacting you - why waste their time i say grrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Just both of us, superb introduction to both of you, any idiot that still tries to contact deserve what they get.

A prime example of what a good profile should look like, very well written"

Thanks

Well we've even sectioned ours so people can easily read what's applicable to them without reading the whole profile.

Well that's the logic behind it.

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