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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! " Women in here get that regular I've lost count of the amount of nasty messages I get because I send a polite no thanks from men and couples Some people are just twats, simple as, men woman and couples on here can be abusive | |||
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"Don't be silly. Didn't you know that guys aren't allowed to reject us?! "I bloody know that now, I have to walk around with a bullet proof vest on now  | |||
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"Easy solution. Upon sending the rejection message, block the recipient. No more aggressive comebacks. Works for us" I just did t think I'd need to block people when saying "no thanks" | |||
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"I've heard it happens and is to be expected...... and happens with men, women, couples, tv/ts....the lot. " People need to chill the fuck out don't they!!  | |||
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"Easy solution. Upon sending the rejection message, block the recipient. No more aggressive comebacks. Works for us" Yup...works for us to x although someone started up a new profile and waited a week to reply lol | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Women in here get that regular I've lost count of the amount of nasty messages I get because I send a polite no thanks from men and couples Some people are just twats, simple as, men woman and couples on here can be abusive " I am finding that out!! | |||
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"Easy solution. Upon sending the rejection message, block the recipient. No more aggressive comebacks. Works for us Yup...works for us to x although someone started up a new profile and waited a week to reply lol " Some people go to some lengths don't they ... | |||
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"I've heard it happens and is to be expected...... and happens with men, women, couples, tv/ts....the lot. People need to chill the fuck out don't they!! "Nah they can carry on as far as I'm concerned. | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! " Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x" Yeah you took that wrong Hun! I call guys hormonal too when they are a bit touchy , no offence meant to anyone's actual hormones!  | |||
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 I did have a little moment of 'woe is me' but I was more bothered by the fact he then totally ignored me even though he'd been fine when we were talking. I'd much rather he just messaged me saying 'not my type' etc. x | |||
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"I've only ever had one rejection on here and that was after he saw me on Skype I did have a little moment of 'woe is me' but I was more bothered by the fact he then totally ignored me even though he'd been fine when we were talking. I'd much rather he just messaged me saying 'not my type' etc. x"So my reply wasn't bad at all then! Honesty is surely the best way x | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x" Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x Yeah you took that wrong Hun! I call guys hormonal too when they are a bit touchy , no offence meant to anyone's actual hormones! "Then fair enough, sorry. I'll bow out now | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x" It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. " Please tel me in what way they were "hormonal"? Maybe they're just idiots? Please don't refer to woman as hormonal, it's incredibly offends and misogynistic. | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
Where as men are just cunts who have no excuse "Perfectly put!!! | |||
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"Someone think they are entitled to sleep with whoever they see fit on here. I have very rarely been rejected on here until recently as I upped my search to.couples and women. A polite thanks but no thanks from them does not make me angry. Just move on to the next
Some women need to get off their very high horses. "Yeah I agree, it did shock me the reactions of them!! | |||
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"OP, from your recent threads, it doesn't come across as though you actually like women. Yesterday you were comparing female genitalia to a kebab, and now you are saying that women are hormonal. If a woman rejected a man, and the man got arsey about it, would you refer to him as hormonal? " I always refer to guys as hormonal | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. Please tel me in what way they were "hormonal"? Maybe they're just idiots? Please don't refer to woman as hormonal, it's incredibly offends and misogynistic. " What does that last word even mean? Love learning new words! | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. Please tel me in what way they were "hormonal"? Maybe they're just idiots? Please don't refer to woman as hormonal, it's incredibly offends and misogynistic. What does that last word even mean? Love learning new words! "Awkward! It means somebody who doesn't like women | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. Please tel me in what way they were "hormonal"? Maybe they're just idiots? Please don't refer to woman as hormonal, it's incredibly offends and misogynistic. What does that last word even mean? Love learning new words!
Awkward! It means somebody who doesn't like women "Why is it "awkward" I'm sure people don't know every word in the dictionary! | |||
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"OP you must be mistaken. The sun shines out of those angelic Fab fannies. Next time just do as they say. "Ha ha ha ha love that response!! Think I'll just meet them next time, even if they are as ugly as Ken Dodd chewing a mint! | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. Please tel me in what way they were "hormonal"? Maybe they're just idiots? Please don't refer to woman as hormonal, it's incredibly offends and misogynistic. What does that last word even mean? Love learning new words!
Awkward! It means somebody who doesn't like women
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. Please tel me in what way they were "hormonal"? Maybe they're just idiots? Please don't refer to woman as hormonal, it's incredibly offends and misogynistic. What does that last word even mean? Love learning new words!
Awkward! It means somebody who doesn't like women
Why is it "awkward" I'm sure people don't know every word in the dictionary!
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"OP you must be mistaken. The sun shines out of those angelic Fab fannies. Next time just do as they say.
Ha ha ha ha love that response!!
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"OP you must be mistaken. The sun shines out of those angelic Fab fannies. Next time just do as they say.
Ha ha ha ha love that response!!
Think I'll just meet them next time, even if they are as ugly as Ken Dodd chewing a mint!
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"What do hormones have to do with anything? Why is it that when a woman doesn't behave exactly how man thinks she should, he assumes it's down to her hormones? Some people just dont't deal with rejection very well. Saying that it's hormonal implies that all women behave similarly as a result of the normal fluctuation of hormones. Bit below the belt, really." some need and some want a belt | |||
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" Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
Where as men are just cunts who have no excuse "As one of said "cunts", can I just point out that I am not "just" a cunt. I am a tangled mixture of needs and desires,that battle with my better self in a continuing war to do the right thing. Of course; beer, sport and shagging always win and the resulting behaviour can be construed as being "cuntish". But that is a superficial view, usually taken by premenstrual women, who often equal us in said behaviour
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"Some people don't take rejection well. It's not limited to one gender. Just look at the age range thread. Some guys are so annoyed they are excluded by some people's age filters that they start threads moaning about it and wanting people to justify it. Also, I agree that blaming the women's hormones is inappropriate. Some women just react badly to rejection. As do some men. Dismissing the women as being hormonal is insulting. Some people have easily dented egos. Unfortunately this place can be hard on easily dented egos." Can I just point out I was referring to the women in question, not every woman! Jeeezzzz sisters let's all go for a walk and chill out in the freshly cut grass whilst singing along to the Bee Gees | |||
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" Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
Where as men are just cunts who have no excuse
As one of said "cunts", can I just point out that I am not "just" a cunt. I am a tangled mixture of needs and desires,that battle with my better self in a continuing war to do the right thing.
Of course; beer, sport and shagging always win and the resulting behaviour can be construed as being "cuntish".
But that is a superficial view, usually taken by premenstrual women, who often equal us in said behaviour
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"What do hormones have to do with anything? Why is it that when a woman doesn't behave exactly how man thinks she should, he assumes it's down to her hormones? Some people just dont't deal with rejection very well. Saying that it's hormonal implies that all women behave similarly as a result of the normal fluctuation of hormones. Bit below the belt, really. some need and some want a belt" | |||
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"I don't think that anyone particularly enjoys being on the receiving end of rejection. Just some people (male & female) deal with it far better than others. No one will be attractive to everyone. In swinging I think that you have to have a pretty thick skin. " Like a rhino??? | |||
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"Who knew that being an asshole isn't gender specific? People just don't like rejection." Some people. I've never felt the need to send an abusive reply to a 'sorry you're not my type' message. I could be using that time to drown my sorrows in alcohol. Or to message someone who might be interested. After all, sending 300 begging messages each day takes time! | |||
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"I had a bloke message me that wasn't my type, so I politely said no thanks and got a reply from him saying I was too fat anyway! So if I'd have said yes would I have been too fat then??" course not! you would have been perfect! lol | |||
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"I had a bloke message me that wasn't my type, so I politely said no thanks and got a reply from him saying I was too fat anyway! So if I'd have said yes would I have been too fat then??" Ha ha it's hilarious isn't it x | |||
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"I had a bloke message me that wasn't my type, so I politely said no thanks and got a reply from him saying I was too fat anyway! So if I'd have said yes would I have been too fat then??" It's a well know fact that the word no can turn you from the most gorgeous woman on fab to fat and ugly in 0.2 seconds | |||
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"Some people don't take rejection well. It's not limited to one gender. Just look at the age range thread. Some guys are so annoyed they are excluded by some people's age filters that they start threads moaning about it and wanting people to justify it. Also, I agree that blaming the women's hormones is inappropriate. Some women just react badly to rejection. As do some men. Dismissing the women as being hormonal is insulting. Some people have easily dented egos. Unfortunately this place can be hard on easily dented egos. Can I just point out I was referring to the women in question, not every woman! Jeeezzzz sisters let's all go for a walk and chill out in the freshly cut grass whilst singing along to the Bee Gees "Those women may have just had fragile egos and not been hormonal at all though. They're probably like that all the time. Plenty of women on here have princess syndrome. Dismissively blaming hormones for their behaviour so easily suggests that that is your stock response when you perceive a woman to be stroppy or uppity. Some of us are perfectly rational and not controlled by our hormones at all. Some are entitled and take rejection badly all the time, just like some men. Maybe you just worded your post in an unfortunate way without thinking. I hope you're not one of those men who rolls their eyes and declares the woman must have her period whenever one does something you don't understand or like. If you make dismissive comments about women being hormonal, you may well be perceived that way and you should expect some women to take it badly. | |||
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"Some people don't take rejection well. It's not limited to one gender. Just look at the age range thread. Some guys are so annoyed they are excluded by some people's age filters that they start threads moaning about it and wanting people to justify it. Also, I agree that blaming the women's hormones is inappropriate. Some women just react badly to rejection. As do some men. Dismissing the women as being hormonal is insulting. Some people have easily dented egos. Unfortunately this place can be hard on easily dented egos. Can I just point out I was referring to the women in question, not every woman! Jeeezzzz sisters let's all go for a walk and chill out in the freshly cut grass whilst singing along to the Bee Gees
Those women may have just had fragile egos and not been hormonal at all though. They're probably like that all the time. Plenty of women on here have princess syndrome.
Dismissively blaming hormones for their behaviour so easily suggests that that is your stock response when you perceive a woman to be stroppy or uppity. Some of us are perfectly rational and not controlled by our hormones at all. Some are entitled and take rejection badly all the time, just like some men.
Maybe you just worded your post in an unfortunate way without thinking. I hope you're not one of those men who rolls their eyes and declares the woman must have her period whenever one does something you don't understand or like. If you make dismissive comments about women being hormonal, you may well be perceived that way and you should expect some women to take it badly."Consider myself well and truly told | |||
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"I had a bloke message me that wasn't my type, so I politely said no thanks and got a reply from him saying I was too fat anyway! So if I'd have said yes would I have been too fat then?? It's a well know fact that the word no can turn you from the most gorgeous woman on fab to fat and ugly in 0.2 seconds " That slow??? | |||
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"I had a bloke message me that wasn't my type, so I politely said no thanks and got a reply from him saying I was too fat anyway! So if I'd have said yes would I have been too fat then?? Ha ha it's hilarious isn't it x" Some find it very hurtful even though it's clearly sour grapes from a dented ego. I've had it too. Politely declining to be told I'm too fat anyway, or abuse asking who the hell I think I am, they were only offering because they felt sorry for me and I should be grateful for any attention I get because I don't warrant any.
I find it pathetic and a little funny. Plenty of lovely women, however, are driven from the site by such behaviour.
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"Some people don't take rejection well. It's not limited to one gender. Just look at the age range thread. Some guys are so annoyed they are excluded by some people's age filters that they start threads moaning about it and wanting people to justify it. Also, I agree that blaming the women's hormones is inappropriate. Some women just react badly to rejection. As do some men. Dismissing the women as being hormonal is insulting. Some people have easily dented egos. Unfortunately this place can be hard on easily dented egos. Can I just point out I was referring to the women in question, not every woman! Jeeezzzz sisters let's all go for a walk and chill out in the freshly cut grass whilst singing along to the Bee Gees
Those women may have just had fragile egos and not been hormonal at all though. They're probably like that all the time. Plenty of women on here have princess syndrome.
Dismissively blaming hormones for their behaviour so easily suggests that that is your stock response when you perceive a woman to be stroppy or uppity. Some of us are perfectly rational and not controlled by our hormones at all. Some are entitled and take rejection badly all the time, just like some men.
Maybe you just worded your post in an unfortunate way without thinking. I hope you're not one of those men who rolls their eyes and declares the woman must have her period whenever one does something you don't understand or like. If you make dismissive comments about women being hormonal, you may well be perceived that way and you should expect some women to take it badly.
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"Some people don't take rejection well. It's not limited to one gender. Just look at the age range thread. Some guys are so annoyed they are excluded by some people's age filters that they start threads moaning about it and wanting people to justify it. Also, I agree that blaming the women's hormones is inappropriate. Some women just react badly to rejection. As do some men. Dismissing the women as being hormonal is insulting. Some people have easily dented egos. Unfortunately this place can be hard on easily dented egos. Can I just point out I was referring to the women in question, not every woman! Jeeezzzz sisters let's all go for a walk and chill out in the freshly cut grass whilst singing along to the Bee Gees
Those women may have just had fragile egos and not been hormonal at all though. They're probably like that all the time. Plenty of women on here have princess syndrome.
Dismissively blaming hormones for their behaviour so easily suggests that that is your stock response when you perceive a woman to be stroppy or uppity. Some of us are perfectly rational and not controlled by our hormones at all. Some are entitled and take rejection badly all the time, just like some men.
Maybe you just worded your post in an unfortunate way without thinking. I hope you're not one of those men who rolls their eyes and declares the woman must have her period whenever one does something you don't understand or like. If you make dismissive comments about women being hormonal, you may well be perceived that way and you should expect some women to take it badly.
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"read this and then got a message exactly like that xD girl who doesn't like giving head, she said don't like giving to big cocks -.-. (not a brag and never heard that before!) "Anyways it'll be your loss" Somehow i don't think not meeting someone who doesnt give head will be much of a loss to me
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What a crap meet that would have been and certainly not your loss "I bet she had teeth like a bag of quavers too!!! | |||
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"Yeah, women on here need to chill out. Us guys can't sleep with ALL the women who contact us. Exactly "must be really difficult for you to sleep with 3 women so far this year, seen as you sent them to recycle bin | |||
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"The default reply to a 'sorry not my type message' should always be 'thanks for the reply...good luck for the future'. and nothing else" I don't reply to a simple no thanks. They aren't interested in hearing from me so no need to fill their mailbox up. | |||
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"The default reply to a 'sorry not my type message' should always be 'thanks for the reply...good luck for the future'. and nothing else" I wish, I'd have been happy with that | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
Where as men are just cunts who have no excuse "I should be totally offended but that made me fecking laugh a lot! | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Can I ask a question, why are women seen as hormonal when this happens? Maybe it's just their personality and how they react in daily life and nothing to do with hormones. I don't know, maybe I took that the wrong way but it always rubs me up wrong. Apologies if I have. T x Because women are generally lovely and are only rude at certain times of the month when they are not responsible for their actions they obviously wouldnt say thses things other wise
Where as men are just cunts who have no excuse
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"Had it a fair few times from guys. I always thank them as it confirms my decision to not want to meet them as the correct one. Bitterness and rudeness are really not attractive, its immature." Well said that girl! Take a seat and share a fruit pastel with me | |||
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"Why is it ok for women to blame being a bit nutty on being hormonal but men can't say the same thing. "I defo get hormonal!! Now pass me a tampax!! | |||
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"Had it a fair few times from guys. I always thank them as it confirms my decision to not want to meet them as the correct one. Bitterness and rudeness are really not attractive, its immature. Well said that girl! Take a seat and share a fruit pastel with me "Can I have your last rolo instead?! | |||
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"Had it a fair few times from guys. I always thank them as it confirms my decision to not want to meet them as the correct one. Bitterness and rudeness are really not attractive, its immature. Well said that girl! Take a seat and share a fruit pastel with me
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"Had a late night, out of the blue invite from a lady who I've known for ages on here, and who I regard (still) as a friend, for me to come over as she was horny and fancied some fun there and then. Unfortunately I'd had a couple of drinks that evening, and wouldn't have been ok to drive...when I told her (nicely and politely) that I couldn't come over as I would have been over the drink-drive limit, she's since removed me from her friends list and won't chat anymore (for the last week or so). If I'd have been ok to drive I'd have been over there like a shot, and told her so. I know it's a case of needing a thick skin to be on and stay on here, but this just typifies some of the crap stuff that happens and it makes me wonder sometimes why I bother." You make a good point, I bet you wouldn't have reacted that way to her if she blew you out because she wanted to watch the Corrie omnibus! | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! " Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here "Fabitus? | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here
Fabitus?"Haha ....it's where women get above themselves on here and are bitches towards generally nice guys who are interested in meeting or are not interested in meeting, as the case may be...because females can be more picky as we are a minority in comparison to men ....there really is no need & is just plain rude x | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here
Fabitus?
Haha ....it's where women get above themselves on here and are bitches towards generally nice guys who are interested in meeting or are not interested in meeting, as the case may be...because females can be more picky as we are a minority in comparison to men ....there really is no need & is just plain rude x "Thank you for explaining that x | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here
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Haha ....it's where women get above themselves on here and are bitches towards generally nice guys who are interested in meeting or are not interested in meeting, as the case may be...because females can be more picky as we are a minority in comparison to men ....there really is no need & is just plain rude x
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here
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"I can't say we've ever taken rejection badly. We are just not everyones type. Also it would be strange to take rejection badly as it's not like we have a lot invested in the other couple. In the end we are meeting for fun, they are not life long friends who are now rejecting us. I also take some issue with the debate over the word hormonal. These people take rejection badly, therefore are over reacting due to emotion. Hormones play a huge factor in emotion. If he calls men and women hormonal, then asking him to stop using the word for women would suggest unequal treatment which would be the opposite of the equality that people strive for. I have no issue with things like the word slut as long as the person using it would use it equally for men and women. If they only use it for one gender then that's different. One thing I liked about visiting Sheffield the first time was that the bus drivers called everyone love. Male or female. " | |||
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"I haven't read the whole thread (too long) but I guess it just shows that it's part of the human condition that some people take rejection badly - and that includes women and couples and not just men (as many would have you believe in here). I guess on here the ladies are used to being able to cherry pick on the whole and being turned down is probably the exception rather than the norm. Whether it's men or women nobody should expect that any prospective partner will automatically say 'yes' when approached - rejection can hurt but it's part of the scene. If only people would accept it, brush themselves down and move on to others that do want to meet we'd all have a much more enjoyable experience on here! "I started to read this reply but it was too long | |||
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"I can't say we've ever taken rejection badly. We are just not everyones type. Also it would be strange to take rejection badly as it's not like we have a lot invested in the other couple. In the end we are meeting for fun, they are not life long friends who are now rejecting us. I also take some issue with the debate over the word hormonal. These people take rejection badly, therefore are over reacting due to emotion. Hormones play a huge factor in emotion. If he calls men and women hormonal, then asking him to stop using the word for women would suggest unequal treatment which would be the opposite of the equality that people strive for. I have no issue with things like the word slut as long as the person using it would use it equally for men and women. If they only use it for one gender then that's different. One thing I liked about visiting Sheffield the first time was that the bus drivers called everyone love. Male or female. " Yippppppeeeeee I can use "hormonal" thank you, I'm guessing the people who didn't like the word were just s tad hormonal....shit I've kicked it off again | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! " Oops, sorry op, I was having a bad day when you messaged me! No need to tell the bloody world about my hormonal issues!!! Hahaha! It's always your loss when you reject people, didn't you know?! Single women, single men and couples...doesn't matter what their relationship status or what their sexuality, people are people...and people can be utter twatty cunts! In all honesty though, it's usually single women that are the worst for not being able to handle rejection-in my experience! I'm always the one that's 'missing out' and it's my loss etc and with single men I'm probably a 'slag' and a 'shit shag' anyway!!! All because I'm not interested for whatever reason I have?! Yeah, that makes sense! No logic to stupidity! The attention gets to people's heads on here! My two pence thrown in...will it result in a ban? Who knows!!! Hahaha! Their loss!!!! Oh god, I actually just joined em by saying that!!! | |||
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"rejection I am with you. I met this lady once I was not into her. so she would call for sex I would tell her im busy. anyway I published a verification on here she saw it went ape shit got a load of abuse on my phone and on here. "Why did you just not tell her the truth? | |||
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"" 9 years on Fab i've never had the need to send the first message " The root of the problem.." This made me chuckle!!! | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Oops, sorry op, I was having a bad day when you messaged me! No need to tell the bloody world about my hormonal issues!!! Hahaha! It's always your loss when you reject people, didn't you know?! Single women, single men and couples...doesn't matter what their relationship status or what their sexuality, people are people...and people can be utter twatty cunts! In all honesty though, it's usually single women that are the worst for not being able to handle rejection-in my experience! I'm always the one that's 'missing out' and it's my loss etc and with single men I'm probably a 'slag' and a 'shit shag' anyway!!! All because I'm not interested for whatever reason I have?! Yeah, that makes sense! No logic to stupidity! The attention gets to people's heads on here! My two pence thrown in...will it result in a ban? Who knows!!! Hahaha! Their loss!!!! Oh god, I actually just joined em by saying that!!! "I'm sure this comment was a good read but I couldn't see past "twatty cunts" ha ha ha ha | |||
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"I'm extremely hormonal but if I was rejected I would know exactly why and not have a strop. Not everyone likes a lardy bum on here,even if she is gorgeous and sucks like a pro on a skint week." Pmsl | |||
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"in 9 years on Fab i've never had the need to send the first message "That could well be because you have a vagina dear! If every single woman came back onto fab as a man I'm sure our experiences would be completely different - however well endowed/intelligent/athletic/attractive we are (or think we are). I think it's pretty common knowledge to anyone after a week or more on fab that women have an entirely different experience on here - whether we're drop dead gorgeous or have the face and figure of a stranded seal! | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! Told you ...Fabitus ...you do appear to have above average abuse on here "Oy! I should have copywrited that term! | |||
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"Don't be silly. Didn't you know that guys aren't allowed to reject us?!
I bloody know that now, I have to walk around with a bullet proof vest on now "Ohhhh a man with standards
Only joking!!! These type of messages are a daily occurrence for women, I wish there was just a "thanks but no thanks button" it's awkward sending rejection messages | |||
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"in 9 years on Fab i've never had the need to send the first message
That could well be because you have a vagina dear!
If every single woman came back onto fab as a man I'm sure our experiences would be completely different - however well endowed/intelligent/athletic/attractive we are (or think we are). I think it's pretty common knowledge to anyone after a week or more on fab that women have an entirely different experience on here - whether we're drop dead gorgeous or have the face and figure of a stranded seal! "I wish they would try it. I think the site would be a (slightly) nicer place if people had to swap roles for a while and see how it is for other people. | |||
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" It rubs me up the wrong way too. Mostly because it portrays women as being 'out of control' because of their bodies. " I'm out of control because of their bodies too | |||
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"in 9 years on Fab i've never had the need to send the first message
That could well be because you have a vagina dear!
If every single woman came back onto fab as a man I'm sure our experiences would be completely different - however well endowed/intelligent/athletic/attractive we are (or think we are). I think it's pretty common knowledge to anyone after a week or more on fab that women have an entirely different experience on here - whether we're drop dead gorgeous or have the face and figure of a stranded seal! "Lol @ stranded seal | |||
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"In the last week I have encountered 3 women on here who have taken rejection pretty bad to say the least! I was extremely polite in my responses to them with a very kind "I'm sorry but you are not my type" But with the 3 "women" in question what I got back was a very aggressive and rude response, basically telling me how it's my loss, how I'm up myself and that they wouldn't want to meet me anyway! Can I just point out that they messaged me first!! It seemed a bit of an over the top reaction, and I can only assume that women on here generally get their own way? They are not use to getting rejection? Before anyone says I did move on very quickly it just seems weird that I got 3 of the same hormonal ladies in a week! Anyone else encountered any of these joyous people? I'm guessing you ladies out there get guys sending similar responses ?! " I have my suspicions over some members adopting the shotgun principle - lots of membershops (pellets) in the same FAB barrel! Of I might be completely wrong, it's just that I have received similar angry messages with exactly the same grammar and spelling errors - and exactly the same meaning! | |||
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"in 9 years on Fab i've never had the need to send the first message
That could well be because you have a vagina dear!
If every single woman came back onto fab as a man I'm sure our experiences would be completely different - however well endowed/intelligent/athletic/attractive we are (or think we are). I think it's pretty common knowledge to anyone after a week or more on fab that women have an entirely different experience on here - whether we're drop dead gorgeous or have the face and figure of a stranded seal!
I wish they would try it. I think the site would be a (slightly) nicer place if people had to swap roles for a while and see how it is for other people."Agreed! It would be a VERY interesting social experiment methinks! I think, however, that I'd just think 'sod this bollocks' and stick to masturbation plus chatting on the forums! xx | |||
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